 As this pie is your marriage, do you prefer to have passwords on your phone? Ki na ona niput kwa lukitaks, miya lukitaks like this, and then I say, a kijuskia na fikil, ni kama yosi impotante na fanya mamba yake, a pati kana ishe. Welcome back, this is ASP Mbaz, Kenya's number one online station, Maegu Nemi Seva Kido, I'm being joined by award winner, Super Mom, Super actress, multi-talented, Miss YY official Maya Okot. Mamu Vipi? Puwasana Mamu. Looking amazing. Wai ya chakuni chacha. You're glowing. Thank you. Kido. Guys, she's looking amazing, right? How's sister, by the way? Mwa sisako puwasana, a little bit of cold here and there, lakini tuna nendele tuku dilna yo. Genzi Mamu. Nakwambia. Weko dehi me leta shida, lakini tuna nendele tuku. Shida ilikwa wapi. Ay, millenia also li se mati yo. I'm just covering up, genzis don't even work that hard, ni ni ni ni staki kwa nendele yo narrative. No, no, no, it's not, it's good to make it clear for them to understand. Okay, I was just giving credit where it's due. Siya kusiku anase mati any other generation is lazy or something, wuki feel your generation is doing well, congratulate them. If you feel, me nili feel genzi, most of them, that's why I said not all of them. Kwa yo video ni li se mati not all of them. Ikakua mitua na watch two seconds of the video na kamaa, comment, I'll watch you, but ni kenya, tshajib time to mezoeha, ini town. How are you healing about that? Ah, at the healing. Me ni kusawa kido, at the healing. Do you regret? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, not at all. You sure? Na, kabusa. Kwa ni me kusia kukon congratulateum tu shua li? Ni kusia kukon congratulateum na? I don't know. Na, ni kusawa. Moya, how's life as a mum? Pua sana amazing, it gets better with time every day. Ya, keep on falling in love with your baby more and more and more and more kabusa. What about the man? Sorry? What about the family? Family. Tama pesi kukom tuto pe gaike tu? Aiko kukom tuto pe na, kakwam zem zepi asa uli kipale with the relation family that I'm living with. E mungo anatu marisha. At that moment you sit down and reflect the journey? Ya, defintely, every time, especially when there are highs. Ya, you just look back and just see that some of these days were, I wish one day days. Kama mene lewa, I wish one day days. Nul kuna kachi, nikitambo na kumbuka. Manze, this life I'm living, this thing I'm doing right now, nikitu enye 2, 3, 4 years back, it was just a wish and a prayer. Maya, you are being featured and asked to do so many things that are happening to your life. You know your career, acting career, take off kitambosana, kukupaleju, everything amazing for you. How are you balancing all this? Oh, I'm balancing, with the time I'm used to. Ya, I've been here for a while now. So I'm used to handling and managing my things. Ya, so mi saizi I'm on track. I'm on track. Kila kitu na ipe ataimi, ake a good proper planning. Kila kitu na this time for everything. Kuna wuna, wuna for u understand that ndi o kitu moja ii norish, lazima zingilezi takufa. So ikifikasa ya mazahud, kariya na nini, inna friendship na kufa. Ikifikasa ya kariya, mazahud na nini wuna ii, wuna iti atu chini kidogo. You just have to accept that you can't give 100% in all sections. Ina nda grafi na nda ikipanda kishuka. Do you reflect the times of behavior you need to maybe change? You've cut down maybe friends, close friends, because now you're focusing your work, the family? Not even cutting down when you were two, they fall off. Because definitely now your interests are different, your conversations are different, wana ka na wewa wuna nda kusema ho. Hello, yes. But there are friends who are still intact, definitely. Because definitely wana elewa. So it depends on the kind of friends that you make. From my side, mini kusau. You've lost how many friends? Kido sija lus friends. Maybe let me say connections, but I still have my friends. Maybe just I don't talk to them often, because work is crazy dealing with family, it takes time. It takes so much of your time to be present with them. So maybe the intensity in punguka, but not at sesele kukusana na wa atua, usani e zifanya kukusana na. If there are genuine friends, sida nika me nafa. Was it your decision or was the family decision, maybe? Niki tuili kuwa natural, like I've told you. You just with time, yu ukeanzaku fanya vituzako, muntua na realize, yeh yeh yendi in line na mimi na mimi na realize, yeh yeh yendi in line. So ni gradual, not a decision in yu meka e vichi na nasema, uu sani achaku mongi e lesha. Yeh it's just gradual. Things just fall into place. And closing jobs. You're taking them all? Ah yeh yeh yeh yeh. We thank God. Tuna shkuru mongu na taliutu kuwa panipna. What is it you're doing different? Consistency, not even different. I'm just doing like every other person, but consistency and having a niche and being unique in your own way. Yeh just consistency, consistency and hard work. What makes you unique? Ah haa. I'd say my energy and my delivery. I think I have a good delivery. I'm talking about their own strengths and weaknesses here and there, but I hear too. That's all I can say. I think my energy. My energy is one of a kind. Alright man, thank you so much for speaking to us. I just need to ask you something different from what we discussed. Just a random discussion, just to understand you more. Do you prefer to have passwords on your phone? Yeh. Why? Because of what one jeh, not even what one dani. Because I have confidential staff, I have contracts, I have my YouTube channel over there, I have so many things. Like my phone is my office, so in case, my phone is my office, so in case anyone else comes across my phone, ita kwa, ita kwa, like if someone touches my phone, ane za ni, to put as a kazi, ane za, o se masiri, wkun jenoja, kuna kusainen dia, ni ni ni ni, there's a lot. Can you share a password? Yeh, why not? How many people have your passwords? Kik na ona ni put kwa, kwa, I think my husband knows my passwords. Yeh, but we are not the type to go through each other's phones. Why? See, just to see not as him ana, unaka u kijuwa ni kona bibi nyumbani, so if you know it's good enough for you to not to do anything out there, where's the chungam tu kido? You can't, you cannot. You didn't get together with someone for you to chunga them, let your person be free, imagine. Do you know rules are there to be broken? If there are no rules, then nothing will be broken. But if you put rules, in a attempt to kubrek rules, so see me tu ana join him, tumzima kuna familiar, mihacham tu to nyumbani, a kijuski ana fkili, ni kama yosi importanten, ana find ana, afani mambe ake, apatikane ishe. Well and good, yana jo ana luzinin, isi nuatua zima kido, that's all that I can say. One of the last time you had your husband's form? Kaikido e. She said you don't ask him his form? Sorry, mihu angalia si mihake, niki angalia akinitu miha mims, aka amakini onyesha, ni ni tuki edit. Yeah. Does this spice your marriage? Maybe in kind of way? In terms of? Make you guys maybe feel comfortable or close together? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like for the period of time we've been together, like I've told you, we know what we are doing. I took a point, what is going on, ni ni nini ema e do I go for someone else, bleh bleh bleh, we know what's going on. So at least putting a stamp on whatever's going on. Vtuzin a kwa easy, kuhu rollnazo, yeah. How do you handle situations? Like? In terms of maybe a discussion need to talk to someone. Do you prefer called or text? Uh hua. mih a ma called person. Akitex, miha look at text like this and then I say. I tell myself what I'm going to reply. Kikiwa na reikiwa, taka wei yaetha. Ia mmikiwa na Instagram. Ngagatigi wetaswa maikuli, kama maikuli onions. Ia mikiwa mikiwa nii, kwa maikiwa nii, mikiwa nii kuna maikiwa na kwa maikuli. Taka maikuli nii, Keni, yaetha hati. Taka maikuli nii, kwa maikuli na jarabia, kwa maikiwa nii kikiwa nii, kwa maikiwa nii, kwa maikiwa inisubi, kwa maikiwa nii, kwa maikiwa nii? So you forgive and forget? I forgive and forget. Because I am someone who seeks an apology I heal a raka piya. Una puta kwa na insa says mtu ameni kwa seha They don't even have to ask for forgiveness. Misimu usinanga ile niya tsa sa nimi amuwale oki dowe wes kongileshi. Nuna nipata next month na nimi stick to that. Neza kwa saku kongileshiya bati deep inside me, I just know. If you come and say hi, I'll be like hi. I won't be like ni ni. No, I'm not the type. Thank you so much. Your director is telling me you guys are supposed to go somewhere. So I was just to ask you how do you handle your anger? My anger just driving off. Now that's crazy to let her know I carry. Thank you so much Maya. Have a nice time. You too. Thank you kiddo.