 Did you know that originally with sex education pretty much they just told you to don't do it right? But they've actually realized like people are gonna do it anyways so let's just teach them how to be safe about it. That's kind of what I realize about Tana Mojo. If I just tell you guys not to watch her you're still gonna watch her so I might as well teach you how to watch her the right way. What is up everybody this is Chris from the Rewired Soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about mental health and what I like to do is pull different topics from the youtube community try to teach you how to improve your mental and emotional well-being so if you're into that make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell so before I jump into this topic of how to watch Tana Mojo the right way listen up all right we have been killing it over on Instagram the one thing I want the one thing I want like if I have ever helped you in any way shape or form follow me on Instagram okay I just want to hit 10,000 followers like even if you don't subscribe to my channel just go follow me on Instagram like do that I just want the little swipe up feature it's not too much to ask follow me on Instagram at the Rewired Soul I'm gonna be doing more on there and live streams and everything like that but anyways go follow me on Instagram all right so yeah let's talk about Tana Mojo so I give Tana a lot of crap on my channel I try to teach you all what you can learn from her and like what not to do and all of that but here's the thing and I don't know my mom just being in town and talking a lot about tough love like I hope you all realize like I I do love everybody I don't think anybody's hopeless I don't think anybody's a lost cause you know I'm able to see the good in all people and sometimes that's a that's a fault of mine but like I want to throw a disclaimer I still don't think people should look up to Tana Mojo as a role model but but what I want to say what I want to make really clear and this is going to be for future videos too is that nobody not even you nobody is all good or all bad some of you have been following my channel we talk about black and white thinking black and white thinking is people are all good or all bad no most humans most humans unless you're a psychopath like most humans have good qualities and bad qualities and something I want to teach all of you like we're not going to rid the world of anybody who's screwing up or messing up or whatever that's not going to happen but in every one of our interactions every single day I want you to kind of look at each person you know whether it's in person at work in your family or even on youtube try to see which good qualities you can identify take the good leave the rest okay that's what we're also trying to do with ourselves with our mental health let's look at the good qualities that we want to hold on to then let's look at the bad qualities and let's work on those or get rid of them all right so with Tana Mojo very polarizing but I wanted to do this video real quick sorry for my long intro some of you like him some of you don't but Tana Mojo I've been really analyzing why do people watch Tana like why on earth do people watch Tana and I made a video not that long ago like I figured out why people watch Tana and that video was mainly based around how we watch youtubers or people on reality tv who justify our poor behavior but there's another group of people who watch Tana who is really fascinating to me and that's the first thing I want to talk about is Tana can teach you how to have fun all right Tana Tana's a girl she's who parties she loves the party always has fun always has insane story times and stuff like that and like a lot of what I want you to realize is the balance so I saw a lot of people comment that they watch Tana because they're very introverted they don't go out much and they kind of watch Tana to live vicariously through her crazy lifestyle right but like what I want you to take from that is just to learn to have fun and do things and go out like if you're watching or like I hope what you realize like this is something I just I will I will never get it through to enough of you right some of you might get it but I am no different than you Tana Mojo is no different than you Tana and I are the exact same people like we are all the same some of us just happen to hop on youtube and get some followers that is it so what I want you to take from this is that a Tana can go out and have fun you can have fun like something I try to teach people is I'm a sober man I don't drink I don't use drugs all right I have so much fun it would make your brain explode all right like I have a blast all the time my son and I just went out to breakfast had a great time my beautiful girlfriend who I miss so much right now because she's in Sacramento for the week anyway it's her and I have fun we have great conversations so those of you who are watching Tana to kind of live vicariously and see how she goes out and has fun like you can do that too but with everything I'm gonna talk about like take precautions all right like you can go out and have fun just don't be getting into fights and things like that so the next good quality about Tana is that she's a successful young woman like there was no denying that she is a successful young woman she's young she's making her own money she's independent right she has merch she goes on tour and all those things like that to me is something inspiring like no matter who the youtuber is like I like again I'm not a fan of Tana I'm not a fan of Jake Paul I'm not a fan of Logan Paul there's a lot of youtubers who I'm not a fan of but what I want you to take from that is like anybody can do this anybody can pick up a camera like you guys I started out my youtube channel on my phone that's it you know what I mean and like now you know with my books and like my patreon and the merch and all that like I am fully supporting myself I support my son you know what I mean I have my own place through what I'm doing on my own right so I hope that you guys can look at that and say okay if this young woman can do it what can I do to get to that level of success now with the next couple times we're gonna talk about like you need to find out what works for you you need to find out how you stay mentally healthy you need to find out how you're gonna be successful without causing problems and drama and getting into all this stuff right but I hope watching these youtubers gives you hope like we again we are just normal people right we are no different than you or anybody else same thing with celebrities like I don't get star struck like people are just people like I always try to teach you guys that money and all these other things are not just gonna eradicate your depression and I'm gonna do a video or send out an email soon about the difference between happiness and not being stressed because those are two different things I see a lot of people who say no if I had money I'd be happy no no no no no if you had money you'd be less stressed about certain things but it doesn't guarantee your happiness all right but look at somebody like tana who's a young woman who is very successful and even though I don't agree with young women watching tana mojo like I if I had a daughter tana mojo would not be somebody who she watches but again young women are gonna watch tana and I hope they can just see despite all the bad qualities that it is possible for a young woman to become successful and independent all right so this next one I just made a video I just made a video don't be friends with tana mojo but again I don't think anybody's all good or all bad so her friend Zach bad Zach I just realized he's a rapper too he got beat up by this dude Bryce right tana was there for him tana was there for Zach that's a great quality like as friends we need to be there for our friends now I think tana went about it in the wrong way I think tana was very petty I think she was very childish in her video I think there was a million other things she could have done that would have been much better to help her friend Zach in that situation but like I said not everything is just black and white the fact that I think that she was there for Zach was something good right like we need to learn how to be there for our friends um one of the issues that I see with a lot of friendships or relationships is a lot of it's just take take take take take right but we also have to kind of dissect the friendship a little bit so if any of you watched tana's story time with Zach like what I would say is I would I would have a conversation like how do we how do we avoid these situations in the future right like you guys just to make it clear I don't have any friends who are getting into fights on a regular basis anymore right because either a we both matured and grew up together or b they're not in my life anymore one thing that I would say though that you can also learn from tana in this kind of topic is that tana um tana does she is mindful of Zach's good qualities right like she pointed out the good qualities in Zach so tana does see that right so what I would say to take away from that and what you can learn from tana um is to find people who have similar qualities okay now I could dissect Zach and these qualities like in a whole another video but I think it's important to realize that there's a lot of people who are very helpful kind and generous but it's still extremely problematic or have a life that's unmanageable all right the last thing I want to talk about um and it actually came up on twitter uh many ago from you know what let me give her a shout out real quick she's one of my favorite people on twitter by the way follow me on twitter too this is from Ann so I said like uh my original title for this was why tana mojo is a good role model uh and Ann replied and said I think she can be an example of just uh doing what you want despite what other people think for better for worse also she is a good example of having an anonymous relationship instead of cheating right so yeah let's talk about sexuality real quick like I think I think it is a good example like you guys I had some people comment on my church of payments and Jason Nash video like oh no no no right like you guys like I cannot express to you I cannot express to you like how much better your mental health would be if you quit caring so damn much about what people think about you so kind of like Ann mentioned to that like tana is great at not caring so much about what people think of her right like you guys like it is it is screwed up and it's gonna sound like I'm some like white knight or nice guy or whatever when I say this like it is very screwed up how if a guy hooks up with a lot of women you know he's like a player or a pimp right but if a girl does that it's a completely different view like that's nuts so like I'm glad that tana like is very open and vocal about that I hope women understand like not even women but guys understand too like you know like we're all just people just do your thing if you're not hurting anybody if you're not running around spreading stds or like whatever it is I can harm other people do you think boo do your thing all right and I also like what Ann said too like you guys I know monogamous relationships are like the normal like I'm in one that's what I like that's what I prefer that's what works for me myself and Tristan we are just committed to each other 1000% but there's nothing wrong with open relationships I've done some videos about that in the past like if you're polyamorous or if you have an open relationship do your thing like I said as long as you're not hurting anybody who cares you know what I mean we we hold back ourselves so much from doing what makes us happy or what we believe in like you guys morals morals are all about perception right like my morals are different than your morals right like a great book I read on this is called the moral landscape but anyways like as long as you're not hurting anybody like do your thing now it does get a little like great area when it's like oh is my is my sexuality hurting my parents right but then a lot of times when it comes to parents family friends whoever it is like I want all of you to know right now that's more of a problem with them than it is with you okay let me repeat that real quick a lot of people who judge you on your lifestyle if you're not hurting anybody that is a problem with them that is not a problem with you all right so like I said like I'm I'm glad that tan is very open and honest about about these things but you know on the negative side of it I don't think it's good for you know her young viewers to you know witness that all the time I hope her younger viewers are having conversations with their parents they're being smart and all those other things but for all of you in your 20s and things like that who are watching this I hope it kind of inspires you to be a little bit more brave a little bit more fearless and care a little bit less about what people think of you all right so again again like the point and the goal of this video like I'm not telling you to go subscribe to tana if you want to you can but if you're gonna watch tana watch her the right way for example I have people in my life who I don't look up to as role models but I look at them and say what can I learn from them what parts of them can help me or help my mental health all right so I hope that helps all of you out um let me know down in the comments below like what good quality focus on the good quality what good quality can you take away from tana mojo all right let's get a little a little glasses half full up in this piece and again again if you're not following me on instagram yet please go follow me on instagram I just want to hit 10k please I'm sorry I won't beg all right but if you like this video please give it a thumbs up if you're new make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell because I make a ton of videos and a huge huge huge thank you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon you got some new names up there if you would like to be one of 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