 what's going on guys welcome back to another video so if you guys are new to the channel make sure you guys hit that subscribe button up top today is gonna be I don't even know how to explain today's video yes it's not clickbait it's not clickbait I don't even know where to begin so should I start or you want to start telling the story I mean I'll give them the beginning of it and then you can go ahead and just let them know everything that happened basically Janice has been having some type of discomfort down in that area first thanks babe first some time dang your nails are sharp no I know I just got them done yesterday just carved my head yeah Janice has been having like some type of discomfort down there in her like woman areas so we went ahead we went to the GYN the doctor and they did a ultrasound thank God the ultrasound came back as like everything looks the same somewhat like everything is like normal there's nothing to be alarmed alarms there's nothing to be alarmed of yeah I think I'm just gonna let you take it from here I basically backtrack for those who don't know I got surgery done to remove endometrioma and about just stuff like that I have issues with my ovaries because I have endometriosis I got a surgery done two years ago to kind of clean everything up and take out cysts that was the biggest thing that's the whole reason why we went to get an ultrasound because I wanted to make sure I didn't have any cysts because when you have cysts it just messes up my whole body entirely and so when I started to feel pain I was like I definitely want to be on top of it and figure out if you know they're back so that's what the ultrasound was for they said I didn't have any cysts so now fast forward and we have this meeting with after the ultrasound technician left the nurse practitioner at my GYN we were kind of talking and a couple months ago I was on a medication that basically kept my endometriosis like tame in the sense so I didn't have my menstrual for two years but what that came a lot of like terrible side effects and I just wanted to get off of it and then that leads us to this because she was like I mean if you get off of it we have this discussion she was like you know you're risking getting cysts or risking you know things happening and I I was just so point where it was affecting my mental health my hair was falling now I was feeling like so low and that I just in my opinion that's just not a life that I would want to live and since I had gotten the surgery and it was like already like two years since you know I didn't have anything I was just like okay so I'm just gonna take this risk and get off of it if I need to go back on it like I guess I'll just have to do what I have to do but considering Isaiah and I are getting married in October we want to have kids soon and you have to be off of that medication for a long time before you try to have kids so I just wanted to get my menstrual back into a normal cycle and be able to you know conceive without any like doubts or anything like that I needed it out of my system she told me that since I got off to my family before my uterus was mobile so they can kind of just like move around and see everything in there and she said this time around my uterus does not move she said that's an issue and she asked me if in my previous surgery that they like moved anything around in there and I said no they just cleaned everything out um that thing stuck yes so she said that's not a good thing because it just means my endometriosis is getting worse uh so she recommended a surgery just for a few reasons if I just leave my endometriosis how it is now she already said it's getting worse so that just means that it's gonna progressively get worse and worse and worse and worse and that means that I'm gonna be in just way more pain on a day-to-day basis and she asked me like what my pain level is now and I told her it's kind of like a four on a daily and she said that's still a lot but since I'm used to it I just kind of like it's a normal for me but um for this surgery she kind of just said she's going to do a dye test and that's what's really important because she's asking what are your plans for children this is really the biggest issue here is like if I keep pushing off all these things like it will affect my chances of having children and that's the biggest thing we want right now we want to have kids and we're at a point in our life where we're ready for it but I always just wanted to get married first and I think that was my biggest thing and so she said in June she would recommend getting a surgery and what they would do is kind of move things around so that my uterus is mobile again and everything's not stuck together and they will also perform a dye test where they'll send dye through my fallopian tubes and see if there's any blockage because that would determine if I'm able to have children a hundred percent or not and if that goes through then we're gonna have no issues but God forbid it doesn't then I mean we'll take the steps from there I didn't even ask any questions whereas like if it doesn't because I have faith in God that it will be fine and then you know God forbid there are any blockages we'll deal with it when the time comes but that's pretty much where we're at so I think I covered everything because we like to keep you updated on my life so so you can tell them like the timeline and like all that stuff I mean obviously you guys heard that she wants to get married first before having kids so that's obviously gonna be coming in October however she might get the surgery have you decided yes what you're wrong with it yeah all right so she's gonna go ahead and go through with the surgery don't know if it's gonna be in June or not because obviously that's up to the doctor's discretion they have to book it but she's gonna get the surgery sometime within the next I guess two months or something like that after that everything is gonna be great she you should be comfortable because after last time they like cleaned you out you felt great you said you were like at your best yeah so it's probably gonna be a repeat you're gonna feel great afterwards then we're gonna have the wedding you're gonna feel great at the wedding and then we start making a baby after the wedding the only thing I would say is that it's just like it's not it's not like as easy as you're like explaining though like are you gonna feel great or things gonna be great like the recovery is three months I understand though again I have faith in God always did always will and after every time you've had a surgery no matter what type of surgery it was everything always ended up great yeah never had any issues the recovery is recovery obviously it's gonna suck depending on what it is but everything always went smooth everything was always with no issues and I feel like it's just gonna be a repeat you're gonna be great you're gonna recover fine we have the wedding we go on the honeymoon do a little you know eat her eat her and then we have a baby coming in 2025 it's gonna be a boy everyone thinks it's gonna be a boy everyone thinks it's gonna be a boy yeah like everybody I can't you imagine it's a girl I'm happy anyway but I really do feel like it's gonna be a boy first I look you like if we do get pregnant before we get married that I feel like that would be like even better just because another thing she told me is that to keep my endometriosis at bay being pregnant basically twice down the endometriosis so I won't have any flare-ups and then if I breastfeed afterwards praying to God that I am able to breastfeed since my breast reduction but it would also help because it shoots something through your body and you won't have your period and all that stuff so my plan is to have all my babies back to back to back and then be able to get like a hysterectomy and just never have to deal with endometriosis again we're gonna have like from just being us to like it's only us two right now I see we have blooper but you know he's a dog but he's still our son but we're gonna go from like just us two to having like a family of like in total of like five yeah cuz we were like quick yeah so I feel like it's gonna be a major switch up for you guys as well you're gonna be like whoa like I remember just them two and then it's just gonna be like a kid and another kid and then another kid but I mean this is all like our mental plans you don't know what God's plan is so I'm kind of just like I know what I want but at the end of the day God is doing what God wants to do with our lives so I'm just leaving it up to God there are also crazy though not to cut you off is that it's not always up to you though I know like it can be the guy that cannot be came can be the reason why she's not getting like you know I mean like that's also possibility I feel like a lot of people don't ever think about like what if it's the guy that's the issue yeah so obviously we're gonna try when time is right we're gonna try and God forbid any difficulties do arise that's when now we're gonna start running tests she has to go run tests I gotta run my own test and then we'll figure out a solution either way something good is gonna happen yeah we're already start like going to this is the only reason why I'm like okay let's go through with the surgeries because like they're gonna do that diet test like that is a huge determining factor of like what's going on and and especially because like yeah there's nothing to see like everyone's just like we can't really see what's going on like everything's just so cluttered so the only way is to go in there and look yeah fix it and you know yeah hopefully after that like I feel a lot better thank God I don't see no system yeah that's that's best yeah that was a big thing just the bad news is that her endometriosis is getting powerful it's getting stronger yeah but we're gonna get that surgery and we're gonna knock that down so we just wanted to let you guys know obviously we like to give you guys updates on our lives and stuff like that this is the latest update with her with us I should say yeah man so we're gonna get the surgery we're gonna clean you up have our marriage and we're gonna go ahead and start trying for a baby afterwards well I'd be inside guys we hope you guys enjoyed today's video if you guys have any experience or knowledge on what's going on right now drop it down below in comments any prayers you guys have as well any positivity is accepted of course is that it there yeah that's it all right with all that being said we'll see you guys in the next video