 When the narcissist realizes you have power Narcissists are self-absorbed and they lack empathy They only care about themselves They will only keep you around If you are providing something to them if You are doing what they want if you are handing your power over to them and If they can control you but sometimes Narcissists run into powerful people people who are strong People who are confident in their own abilities and character People who know exactly what they want Which makes the narcissist feel threatened It makes them feel vulnerable and at risk But they will still try to pursue you. They will give you excessive and insincere praise They will try to charm you, but when they realize that it's not enough They play the victim in an attempt to gain your sympathy Because they don't really care about what you think of them. They just need something that they can use To gain access into your life They just need your attention They need to get you emotionally involved So that they can become something important to you and they do that by making you feel sorry for them By pretending to be ill or deliberately injuring themselves And then they will tell you that there's no one else who can help them. If you are a powerful person The narcissist will know that they have met their match and they will not try to outdo you Because they're not completely delusional They know when they are being opposed by someone who is better than them Someone who could defeat them So when the narcissist runs into the someone Who is powerful and strong? They will act weak. They will act vulnerable. They will show a modest and low estimate of their importance They will show a consciousness of their defects or shortcomings as though they're not thinking of themselves as better than other people Because they're trying to gain your trust The narcissist wants to break you down slowly They want to gain access to every area of your life Until you stop being cautious about potential trouble or danger You may have pulled them out of the ditch But they will turn around and push you into that same ditch that they were in And they won't feel any remorse for what they've done So be very cautious when you are dealing with a narcissist They will either pretend that they love you Or they will pretend to be a victim They will do anything to cheat you And when a powerful person falls for their scheme It makes them feel very confident and valuable When the narcissist realizes you have power They won't try to get to you directly Instead They will use other people who are close to you Other people who they believe to lack strength People who believe in their lives People who believe in their lives They will use those people to learn more about you And they will turn them against you Because they want people to hate you When the narcissist first meets you They only want admiration and praise from you But once they've gotten to know you They want admiration and praise from anyone but you Because they see you as a threat You know who they really are And they fear that you will expose their false image So now they don't want anything from you They would rather get it from people who are unsuspecting People who don't know what the narcissist is really about Which is why when you finally see through their facade And you know who they are They will only be thinking about ways to betray you To break their promises to you To be disloyal to you To reveal damaging information about you They will also be thinking about ways to abandon you To seize to support you To leave and never return to you And they will want to turn everyone else against you as well So they will spread gossip about you They will make false accusations They will try to damage your reputation They will obsess about ways to bring you down To make your life miserable Because they're afraid of what you might do to them They're afraid that you might expose them All the narcissist really cares about Is getting what they don't already have Which is why they will try to dominate you They will try to have a command and position over you And they will do anything to get it They will cheat, they will lie, they will steal And they will manipulate you Because they can't stand it that you are more successful than they are They're very envious They decide to have what you have And they know they can't get it in an honourable way They like your strength They like your values and morals And that is why they try to take it away from you That is why they try to destroy you When the narcissist realises you have power They will try to love bomb you If that doesn't work They will play the victim In an attempt to gain your sympathy And if that doesn't work They will resort to dishonest tactics Thank you for watching I hope this will resonate with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My behavioural link is in the video description Coaching the enquiries You can email me at coachingatnax5.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon