 in here at the top of this big Buddha you can probably guess that I am pretty high up that's how such amazing views from here especially this view of the lake and the mountains in the background just out here I live in my best life making the most of every day traveling seeing everything and visiting temples praying to the Buddha he will guide me and protect me throughout my life so my love and respect goes to the Buddha thank you I'm very grateful for everything we've done for me and it's just incredible to look out at this amazing view I don't know if I identify as a Buddhist but I follow the teachings I like what they talk about I do support peace but one thing we know is that narcissists do not support your peace and that is especially true when you try to move on because what they're gonna do is try to disrupt you they're going to try and stop you from moving on and finding your peace and happiness because they don't want you to do that they don't want you to have that because they're never at peace they're never happy and that's why they did all of those things that they did to you and this message today is just to make you aware of it but they're not just gonna let you move on so easily they are going to try and disrupt your peace and this message is meant to inspire and motivate you especially as I am at the top of this big Buddha today so we want to keep things positive and yeah it's just about finding something that you're passionate about something that you stand for something that you believe in because that's what's going to drive you that's what's going to propel you to your next destination instead of you remaining stuck where you feel like you can't move on when you feel like you can't find your peace because they're stalking and had a brass in you they're constantly coming after you they're trying to disrupt you and that makes it difficult for you to move on it does I understand that but this video is about shifting your focus putting your attention on something else you need to have things in your life that are more important to you than the narcissist because they're really not as great as they make themselves out to be remember it is an illusion of significance and value I mean you got a look at it like this what are they doing for you what value are they providing to you are they helping you in any way are they improving your life you need to ask yourself these questions and realize that they're not doing anything for you they're not uplifting you they're not inspiring you they're not motivating you they're not doing anything they're just tearing you down they're causing you to lose confidence in yourself they've always got some little dig they want to give to you to target yourself esteem to make you feel small I mean if you look back have they ever actually done anything to improve your life but look at everything you've done for them and if you tell them about that they will say you've done nothing so what good are they what is the point in you keeping them around if they're not going to do anything for you it's always you who is doing everything the entire time that you will with them you did everything for them and they were just enjoying the ride that's why they were with you remember that and it's no different when you try to move on they will try to disrupt you they will try to hold you back you need to climb higher so that they can't reach you just like I've done today I drove to the top of this mountain and then I climbed the steps to the top of this big Buddha climb higher so that the narcissist cannot reach you just like the Buddha says attachment is the root of all suffering and that is one quote that I stand by because it's so true anytime that you attach to something it will cause you suffering at some point in your life so now is the time to detach from what is not serving you from what is hurting you it's time to detach from that there's nothing greater than living a life that is free from attachments free free from things that bring you down and I am living proof of that I'm out here I'm living my best life loving every minute of it and I wouldn't change this for the world the only thing that I worry about and I know I shouldn't think about it too much but I just don't want this to end I want my life to be like this every day I love traveling exploring new things seeing the world different cultures different people and it's something that we all should do but you're not going to be able to do that with the narcissist because they will always be there to prevent you from succeeding to prevent you from becoming the best version of yourself and living your best life so they can't go with you you have to leave them behind you just have to imagine them as like a dead weight that's attached to your ankle and imagine you've got to climb up all of these steps to get to the top how are you going to do that when they're hanging on to you you can't that's why you have to let them go and maybe in some cases maybe they'll meet you at the top maybe not if they do then there's a chance there's an opportunity things could move forward in most cases they're not going to do that they're not going to make it on their own and if they go with you they're only going to hold you back and then you'll be stuck so detach free yourself from attachments focus your attention on something else other than the narcissist love positivity things that you are passionate about things that you stand for things that you believe in when you do that you will see the bright side of things instead of focusing on things that are not serving you so this is my message for you today it's meant to inspire you it's meant to motivate you and I hope that it does if it has please give it a thumbs up down below share your thoughts in the comment section I do read your comments every day and if you haven't hit that subscribe button please hit it now down below then you will receive the 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