 This may be one of the most important narcissist videos on YouTube. This video may be of great significance and value to you. It may help to awaken you to the truth of what you are dealing with. The narcissist wants to control you. They want to keep you in a box. They want to tell you what to do and how to do it. They want to tell you how to spend your money. What to eat and how to dress. They want to tell you how to live your life. Whenever you try to make your own choices. They will try to guilt-trip you. They will try to make you feel like you're selfish for making your own choices. They want you to look at yourself and feel like you are doing something wrong. They want to label you and everything that you do good or bad. Right or wrong. They want to keep you in a box. There is nothing wrong with making your own decisions. There is nothing wrong with practicing self-care. They just want to make you think that there's something wrong with that. Because it means you have less time or energy for them. They want all of your time and energy. And that is why they guilt-trip you. That is why they try to make you feel like you're selfish for making your own decisions or practicing self-care. If you do not follow their agenda. They will label you. They will assign you to a category in an inaccurate and restrictive way. They will define you to yourself, your family members and friends. But you have to accept that this really has nothing to do with you. Narcissists have a sense of entitlement and a lack of gratitude. Nothing you do will ever be enough for them. They will never be satisfied. It does not mean that there is something wrong with you. It does not mean that you are not enough. You are enough. Being around narcissists makes you feel like you're less than who you really are. Because they train you to see yourself in this way. They have to do that. Because otherwise, you'd start to realise that they're not about anything. You'd start to realise that they're not bringing anything to the table. And that is why they have to keep you in a state where you are constantly doubting yourself. Constantly questioning your own worth. Because then it keeps the focus off of them. This may be one of the most important narcissists videos on YouTube. Because there is nothing more important to protect yourself against narcissists than knowing your own worth. There is nothing more important than the level at which you deserve to be valued and treated. The narcissist may never value or treat you in the way that you deserve. Because one must first possess something of value before they can see the value in others. And that is why they cannot value you. That is why they cannot treat you with the love and respect that you deserve. They cannot do for you what you can do for them. But rather than you giving them what they're failing to give to you, you should give it to yourself. Make your own decisions. Practice self-care. Treat yourself with the love and respect that you deserve. Because you know your own worth. You are enough. Your value is not dependent on the perception of someone who can't even see it. It is dependent on how you see yourself. Self-worth depends on you. And when you know how valuable you are as a person, you know what you deserve. You know how you deserve to be treated. And that is why self-worth is one of the greatest ways to repel the narcissist. It gives you the freedom to make your own decisions and practice self-care. It gives you the power and right to act, think or speak however you want. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching and inquiries you can email me at askforthercoaching.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.