 We got another super chat questionnaire another black experience five-dollar super chat. Thank you, sir He said I'm preparing to go monk. I think he means like monk mode for three months And I want to get over my addiction to female validation any tips What what I was talking about what what what what I just been talking about this holds what we what mean tonic was talking About at the beginning of show what's your purpose in life? That's what's going for all you guys wondering how I stopped chasing tail And before I became a trainer, right? What I would do is this is no joke, right? I would Match on match.com. I would sit down there been a tender fan and every day. I was sent out like a hundred copy-and-paste Messages a day and some respond just that another and that's what I did when I became a trainer at the gym And I was trying to build that business up All of a sudden that went away All of a sudden I pretty much in you know indirectly became monk mode Just by getting on my grind because at that point I was only focused see up to that point till I became a trainer Tony Up to that point. I had ample time on my hand when I became a trainer and I did the math at the gym I said, you know what? This is time. This is the time Shout out Red Peer chauvinist. This is the time. I can change my life. I need to eat sleep and crap in this gym This is all I'm gonna do because I'm at a point now in this gym. I did the math. I said I can make a hundred and twenty five thousand dollars a year Hundred twenty which at that time was all the would have been by far the most money I ever made in my life and I said this is it I said no when I was already dating a woman at times So I ain't have to go out and chase one women But even if I hadn't had her I could have went mutt mode to build my business and I just Live sleep. In matter of fact that woman we stopped talking because I wasn't able to give her the time Anymore that I was giving her I told her I can only see her on Sundays Opposed to when she used to come over a couple of times during the week I couldn't do that no more I told I can only see on Sundays over time that came the issue and I said you go ahead I'm focusing on this Yeah, that's what killed my addiction to female validation. What was her response when you when you told her that I'm curious Oh, no, it was a slope. It was a it was a slow pullback Tony. So I didn't tell her Directly that my actions said that I'm not that cold-hearted to say listen you go. I wouldn't do that but my actions my actions Nothing when a woman brings something to you and you don't change your actions Say that and my actions if I wanted it to work out with us after you bring it to me a couple of times Guess what I would do Tony? I would make the time So my actions is saying if you got an issue with it You go ahead and go on because I didn't I didn't make the time So like what I tell you guys if a woman wants to see you regardless if she worked two jobs in school To be a doctor if she wants to She could make the time it might be a little tight, right? But if she wants to she'll make the time I'm I didn't make the time right and so that my actions said that but yeah, and so but that killed my Getting on my purpose and grind That killed my because like I tell you guys That that that time has to be filled with something the reason why you attracted addicted to females like this because you got Emful free time in your schedule. So you got to feel that time some way it is that what you're gonna do I mean, it's only so much TV you can watch So eventually you're gonna bitch off into something that's not worth doing and now yours is females I guarantee you if you were studying to be a surgeon in school to be a doctor or something like that I guarantee you would have time to think about women That's the point. I'm saying if you really own your brand if you really own your purpose You'll you'll see it naturally goes away. I don't have time for that crap I don't have time to be on match all day sending out a hundred messages to a different type of women I don't have time even right now on what right my next book I'm doing this interview with you as I get through doing this interview with you I'm gonna go on my patron and I got an answer The questions that they write and stuff on because I you know I go through all the questions And I answer the question for my patient because they they support me on paper So I answer the questions which also create other video ideas by the way That's what I'm talking about and so I don't have time to want oh, you know Let's say I wasn't doing this interview with you Tony and let's say I didn't have that patient Well, you know what let's go on match and let's send out a hundred messages because I don't have nothing else better to do Oh, yeah, it's like a dumpster of your time. You just thrown it away Or let's go to the mall and let's see if we can make some and that's the point guys either You're gonna do some productive or you're gonna do something that's gonna waste your time The only way you're gonna get over that female attention thing you got going on is to do something productive Which is get on your purpose. So you need to find out what do I need to do? What am I passionate about and something that I don't mind working 80 hours a week I don't mind doing this. Look how many collabs I done did over the last week. Yeah, you're a fireman. You're killing it Well, the thing with me was I Was in a little shell and so I didn't I just didn't deal with people and I just said, you know what? I mean, you was talking about that. I don't even want to bring that up, but you know what I'm talking about Yeah, I stayed off to myself and so a lot of guys had done asked me Long time like anybody who watched that roommates podcast the guy said I asked this guy over a year ago And I finally got him on the show. I think I had just ignored all Request, I was like, I don't want to deal with nobody. I'm just gonna stay off to myself I don't want to bother with nobody and I just said, you know what? I'm not gonna let the negative people keep me from expanding my business and stuff like that And so that's why all these things have just piled up and I just started back doing that's a good example You being open-minded and kind of active-minded. You're like, all right Let me change this up and pursue pursue something new which is collabs your fans I think are loving Amanda senior all over the place now. Yeah They exactly like give me to see the interactive side of AMS cuz they still used to me just being by myself So I yeah, you're absolutely right. Speaking of that. What inspired you to start the four horsemen again?