 Getting ready for a date night figured I would turn the camera on the chit chat with y'all real quick Look, I'm trying to get as much content as possible Since I'm not doing a Lot more vlogs, you know, whoo girl my when I tell you my scalp is on fire girl, what's my corrector? We're gonna do a full beat Full we got bacon banana powder. We got everything. We're gonna we're gonna go crazy I will probably try to attempt to do a cut crease cut creases are so difficult You got to really practice it But shout out to angel aka Nezzie naps I don't know if she watches my get ready with me video, but she gave me some advice on How to make my makeup pop and girl You're the reason why my makeup for my mom's birthday party was on point because I took your advice. I took my time I went to different lighting to make sure because right now I'm doing my makeup in front of the window This is natural lighting But yeah, if you ever look at her her videos again, this is Nezzie naps. Her makeup is so pretty Really pretty and I also took your advice and did more foundation than I normally do I normally don't like heavy makeup Even my sister was like we're gonna go girl. We You know my sister's crazy. She extra y'all think I'm extra I know that right there was extra, but y'all think I'm extra my sister's country extra, but oh Hold on my hearing went out one ear. I wear. Let me show you what I wear Right here. Here she go Maybelline. Maybe she's going with it. Maybe that's what I wear She's like, oh, no, we need to go to the mall and get you some fancy. I'm like, I don't need her I don't need her. We good. We good um so yeah Anyway, y'all, this is a quick impromptu chit chat I was gonna do a video and make it be a get ready with me. No talking voiceover, but I'm like, no Let me go. Let me do some correcto over there. Just a little bit. I'm like, no, let me talk about a little bit Um, I'm gonna solicit solicit some advice from y'all. Let me tell you something. I Want to know what type of people I'm always willing to learn from others I Don't think I know everything. I Like to have friends of different ages different backgrounds. I recently befriended someone at a bar and I don't know how old she is but I'm gonna guess she's in her late 50s and um To me that right there, that's that's the best friend age Yeah, I find sometimes women in my age category and That I think about most of my friends are exactly my age or older than me I don't have a lot of younger friends Nick is my youngest friend, but Nick is an old soul He's just in his early 30s I don't have any friends in their 20s not that I would be willing to but again I just find that people in my age category. It tends to be very competitive type of behavior Um, I need people who kids are my age, you know what I mean? Like Yeah, y'all know how I like my man already. I need for you to be a triple a me member. Have your triple a car I know y'all probably think how old is your man? We don't know That's a whole other Conversation a lot of people are born People who are born especially in Ethiopia depending on what year they were born They were born on the countryside and their records are lost due to moving and all this and so he's anywhere between Mid 40s to late 40s, but he doesn't know exactly how old he is and I've heard that from like I said a lot of people from Ethiopia even from South South America. I know someone who's from Columbia and she has no idea how she is. Anyway, I'm way off subject girl We're gonna be talking about a little bit about y'all know how we do we talk about YouTube what I'm watching in personal life I ain't watching a thing on thing on YouTube. Y'all boring. Y'all the youtubers are boring Like seriously, there are so many people I'm not watching now. I get on YouTube Just to load up videos and to look at recommendations or for JB I'm not on YouTube as much anymore people. I mean, you know people are doing the same. Yeah, let me do my makeup They aren't here doing the same stuff is boring boring. Excuse me No one's original, you know what I mean you have your few People and I know y'all know what I'm talking about that you go to and they're consistent and whatever but then it's like Can we try something else new? I mean Get creative. That's why sometimes I take breaks because I'm like, okay I've already done this type of twist out like With us. So I got excuse the noise my husband's taking in the truck. So yeah, I'm like So I make the point to what I'm not even watching some of my regulars You know, I'm looking at the notifications and based on it on the notification Yeah, I'll watch it. But if not ain't watching that. So we just gonna go right into what I'm watching on TV Hold on y'all. Let me do this. I real quick. All right y'all I had to pause for a minute y'all. I had to knock Knock I have to kick JB out of here my child talking about He's been talking about Texas every now and then ever since we've gotten back, right? So he's like Everybody's just a little bit bigger in Texas. I know this. Well, what's your point? Well? What are we talking about? Then he's like, it's like a bunch of balloons walking around. I said, you know, what get out my husband started laughing I like y'all both You can get out He was so confused about the amount of water burgers JB was because we don't have a lot of water burgers here in Phoenix It's like I see a bunch of water burgers. I said we're in Texas, baby. Let me dim this down some y'all All right, this is where my eyes are looking like I don't know what that's supposed to look like, but it is what it is Let's just go ahead with my foundation. Look. I said I would take my time, but whatever Um, okay y'all. So yeah, we ain't watching nothing on YouTube We're running out of this Come on y'all. I know I got some other You know what I can't find it let me put my primer on hopefully this don't come down um Girl y'all need to get y'all some HBO HBO is like $14. You can just get the app and watch whatever you want When I tell you the outsider is my show Girl it is. I know one of you are mentioned on my last video that you know, I got you hooked on a girl I'm buzzed me got us hooked on it. Let's blame her So y'all um I Was kind of watching it while I was in and out of sleep this morning And I just realized the girl the the black girl. She's almost like a private eye On the show she's the actress Because she she slipped up on her accent and I was like Because she plays an American. I'm like, um, you're english because you slipped up. She says something with an english accent I said let me look up and see who this is. Her name is Christina. She's the um actress that played Harriet and the Harriet Tubman biopic movie or whatever Yeah, she just I didn't recognize her because she has these long braids in this particular series. That's not enough So, yeah, it's good, but it's so funny You know what? But that was so funny. Um, I kind of thought it was her, but I wasn't sure Um, some people can be chameleons, you know have different looks I know I think I'm one of those type of people that I can look different a lot. Um That looks a little dark. What the heck y'all see that? Yeah Yeah, I need to balance that out That that's too dark. I need to balance that out with this three I could tell that with all my glasses. That means it's way too dark I forgot to tell y'all in the last chit chat That I watched the Joker So dark With Joaquin Phoenix It is such a dark movie. Um, not a lot of violence, but the moments of violence were like what the hell just happened. Um, but yeah Very sad And you know a movie is good when you're rooting for the bad guy, you know, I mean the bad guy It seems right and that's kind of sad. Um Um Yeah, very dark very sad. I think it could be triggering for people certain people with um Borderline personality disorder. I'm just gonna say it but hey He absolutely deserved the win Oscar for this movie because It was a good movie now. I have not seen parasite yet Probably will I heard it was really good Yeah, this is a lot better This bottom here still looks a little See how she looks a little bit. It's okay I'ma go in with a little bit What else what else what else y'all? Bench watch lock and key at first. I didn't want to y'all my My spirit of discernment is on point. I think I I My child has been playing but has pretended to be a link from legend of zelda for about month now So we we're gonna have to ignore this. Um, I can tell when something is I'm like, okay It can be good. I know it's gonna be good, but there's something Something's going on. That's a little dark. So lock and key is big based off of a graph graphic novel Excuse me and at first I didn't want to look at it because just the images of it was like, oh, this list looks too I don't like these shows that try to target the pre teens and it's a little too dark I honestly think it's a little too dark for for teens, but I guess these kids are like that nowadays So sure enough. I'm not gonna give away anything but sure enough towards the end There's a revelation of you know, one of the characters. I'm like, okay, see but yeah, check it out It's a new series on netflix And I liked it season one Stranger things season four is come. I don't know. I did all that season four is coming Can't wait um All right, she's good. She is matted the hell girl I look like a dang on mannequin. Yes um I'm gonna do things out of order. I know I'm gonna break all other rules when it comes to doing makeup But I'm not professional. I don't claim to be whatever um Because yeah, I'm gonna do everything out of order. You just don't I'm just letting you know now, okay? um What else am I watching? Good girls is back Slain tv raised our prices you guys I have the both the blue and orange and now I'm paying 29 dollars So with everything including netflix, I'm paying 71 dollars granted. That's still cheaper than the direct tv. I have some bull It's still cheaper than the one I was paying with direct tv But still I'm like why am I paying? I that's literally Almost doubled what I was paying before um and I don't know what the deal is but long story short good girls is back. But good girls was with nbc I don't know what happened But nbc is no longer with slain tv the same thing happened with hbo because I was going to add the hbo package To slain tv hbo is no longer with slain tv So it forces you to get all these extra I'm not doing anymore because I already I'm already and purchasing hbo because slain tv did away with hbo I'm not going to purchase the nbc for our good girls. I would just purchase the good girls. Um The series throughout Yeah, I probably shouldn't be doing it like this I can't even see you but I don't care But girl, yeah, she's back with that fine ass Now he young and fine The guy that plays rio. He's married to a sister too I was stalking them on instagram I know shame girl. I was stalking them for a while. She's cute to his his wife um I missed totally missed missed it girl. Let's do my lips now y'all. Um We're gonna do red We're gonna do a bunch of stuff. I typically mix about three or four lipsticks together. Don't don't get mad. Let me look at my notes Let me see what else i'm watching y'all Better call saw Which is a spin-off from breaking bad. I started watching breaking bad and I stopped it got a little dark I'm like, what's going on? Walter you a chemistry teacher. You need extra money now this but Better call saw Jimmy is just one of those characters who's an absolute idiot that you love You can't help but to feel sorry for him But yeah, um Season five is coming. I'm just rewatching season four That's pretty but we're gonna we're gonna do something else to her Y'all I was really excited to watch just today I have a child. Y'all know this I was super excited to watch zombies too Isn't that bad I even recorded it It wasn't good as good as the first one zombies too is one of those disney movies girl It wasn't as good as the first one Okay, y'all I'm layering my lipstick. So what I like to do is I don't know what I like to do But we we playing around. This is thalia. I think yes Look at that It's gonna be a bomb. Look So yeah, that's all what I'm watching on tv So, okay, so this is the unsolicited advice that I'm gonna be asking for my 40 and over Viewers and subscribers I would like to know, you know before I start sharing my opinions on turning 40 this year because I am turning 40 this year um And I honestly do believe that 40 is the new 20 and 40 has been the new 20 for a long time. I mean some of the hottest and most successful people are older You know, I don't even think these kids, especially millennial the nick of a nod just beyond beyond say Um, they're not young, you know, they're a little bit older. So I'm excited to turn 40. So let me get back to this and we'll go back to why I'm excited I'm just looking for, you know This is soliciting advice now for those of you who are 40 and over What are some things that you would advise those in their 30s to start doing or just tips or it can be in any area It could be sex level. We can keep it kind of um ready to eat for everyone. Um, financial Relationships what self care, whatever it may be. Leave it down below. I I love to hear from everyone. Um, and like I mentioned earlier, I keep friends of all different ages Most of the time is to learn from them They don't know that I'm watching. I'm a I'm a people watcher study. I study people and so I'm not studying my friends I learn from them. I I teach them as they give or take relationship. Um, as I stated, I think any healthy healthy relationship Should be about balance. Okay girl. I'm getting I'm going all over the place. I know so I'm so excited about turning 40 y'all not I shouldn't say super excited I guess I am I I don't know what's the word I should use. I guess I should say I'm ready I'm looking forward to it. I don't even tell people at 30. I'm 39 I let them know I'm turning 40 this year. Oh, this is my last year in my 30s And a lot of the times, you know, the other person's like, wow, you don't even look at good. I know that No No, but Y'all've seen pictures of my family members. I the women in my family age very well But I know that I look better now. It's what it's physically 10 15 years Then I did the previous 10 or 15 years and I'm looking forward to that regal beauty that you get in your 50s When I tell you the women in my family, I saw that the um vlogs The birth date the women in my family age gracefully. They are very beautiful when they get it's like they you know Get better with wine. It's like their wine, you know, they get better with age better looking. Um My mom my mother was stunning when she was in her 20s and 30s, but she was Beautiful in her for she still is in her 40s and 50s I think that certain women reached their peak beauty So yeah, god besides that Look, I'm not vain. This is not about all about looks. Um Overall, yeah, I'm I'm excited about it. I'm excited about entering my 40s. That's how I should add it. That's how I should say um Absolutely, there are some things I wish I would have accomplished But I would say this maybe not you guys I really do think that we have to be okay with how things are going whether it be good or bad We have at a certain point You have to come to terms to with the way things have gone in your life Um, the woman that I befriended not too long ago. I said that I befriended at the bar She's in her mid 50s and I ask her. I'm like, do you ever regret regret having children because she's never been married She's never had children. She's like, well, I knew I never wanted to have kids But I thought that I would eventually marry someone who had kids, you know Because she said I she loves children. She knew that having children for herself wasn't in her cards But to at least be a mother to children that are you know, so I said, you know what? I've come to terms that you know marriage isn't in the cards for everyone and You know also not being a mother isn't in the cards for everyone. I said, but you still have time. Look We should not allow I think a lot of us feel like, oh my god If I haven't done it by 40 if I haven't done it by 50 it's never gonna happen I know so many people like I said, I have friends of different ages. One of my good friends Um, I shouldn't say good friend. I should she's more of a friend slash associate. She Reach in my opinion, uh the equivalent of success in her 70s And I I admire her so much for that to where she didn't allow her age to stop her From achieving her dreams and what and to pursue that, you know, a lot of people view Okay, I'm too old to do that or you know, don't allow that so I guess you know Entering my 40s and all that Um, yes, I wish I was making more money Yes, I wish I was 20 pounds smaller health 30 pounds smaller and I would be transparent with you I wish my relationship was stronger with Some of my family members with with my husband not to say it's weaker bad, but I just wish it was stronger Um, and that's because I'm a type of person. I have high expectations And I shouldn't do that. Um But as I stated, I have come to terms or I'm trying to slowly come to terms with being okay with where I'm at Because what I found and it is something I didn't learn girl It took a while that when you try to go against what's already set for you That's when you start to suffer a little bit more When you basically do things out of god's will I'm a believer So that's why I believe in when you go against his will there is a right There is a perfect time and place for everything. There's a season for everything Whether that be relationships, whether that be whether that be career love that's relationships all of that financial You may not be ready for that, you know increase right now. You have me have to put he's preparing you for that Okay, I may not be ready for an extra $10,000. I know me. I'm gonna go spend it So I have to develop a certain type of habits In order to be blessed for that in the future So all the things that I went through through my 20s and 30s That's mo was molding me for the person in my 40s and 50s And that's really how you have to look at life. Some of these millennials. Oh my gosh They complain about suffering There is now one person I know who has not suffered and yes Some of us may suffer and I don't even want to say suffer because that's just Some of us may go through harsh or may go through things a little bit worse off than others, but 10 15 years from now that person's one of the strongest people Y'all I I'm gonna I'm gonna get a little bit personal because I know these people don't watch my video I worked with some women who I admired and this was when I worked for hospice and They were extremely strong and dependent and feminine. Excuse me. Um, very, um Pro-feminist women come to find out those two women were previously in Domestic abuse of Marriage is actually but I was shocked to know that that she went through all because The person I was speaking to did not seem like she would ever let someone touch her But that's what I'm talking about. You have no idea what people have gone through And you have not to say that you have to go through with someone, you know abusing you but People go through things and it it changes them, you know, and it means some people it changes them for the worst But overall it changes you from the better So absolutely I've gone through some stuff in my life But I don't allow that to determine my future instead. I use that as a stepping stone I learn from it at least I try y'all I really do I try to learn from my mistakes Sometimes I keep doing the same stupid stuff over and over and over, but I'm human, you know And what I've really been trying to do lately like I said is be okay with where I'm at right now Don't compare myself. I used to do that. It's real easy to do on social media social media is fake I can choose to show you what I put on my I can choose my instagram I could choose somebody else's instagram for my life and you would never know it I don't do that, but you see what I'm saying? It's fake It's not real that stuff that you see that's why people get so That's why people get shocked and surprised When someone all of a sudden and this is a trigger Someone all of a sudden commits suicide because they're like, well, they seemed happy and she just posted and y'all they You have no idea what people are going through Yeah, girl, I'm gonna add some little Look see I added that I mean I already look blessed but right now, you know, this is gonna add to it This is all look I I'm like a walk in Corinthians We have to do my hair, okay I'm gonna add my matte finding finishing spray, but my nyx I shouldn't have done that This is my date night outfit. It is a cute form-fitting dress Um got it for look. I'm a Ross. I'm a Ross shopper. Got it for do you see that? Yes Nine bucks from Ross really really cute, but she's form-fitting. So, uh We got this made-in-form girdle spanks. I'm not playing All right, y'all. This is my hair my makeup Show y'all the dress and the jacket and where I'm with this is the shoes. I'm wearing hold on Oh, did be cute. Yes. All right, y'all. This is the dress Yo girl got that girl to long got that girl to long Yeah, it's come through low long booty All right, y'all jacket All right like this. Oh, yeah How does mommy look baby? Good. Good. You like this dress? Yeah. Yeah All right, y'all. Take care. Bye