 like real talk kids are annoying right like sometimes like especially if you got two kids like they can be annoying especially if they can talk right um if you don't know i do healthcare related content um that is educational inspirational and informational i tend to like talk about mostly pa related stuff but i do have other healthcare professionals on here so please take a look around if you like what you see go ahead and subscribe today i'm going to be talking about like life as a mom and a pa student um soon to be pa you know a lot of people like i you know you know fully and you're fully aware that yes i'm a mom and i always talk about yes you can do this absolutely you can do this and you absolutely can you can do whatever it is that you want to do as long as you make the time and you compartmentalize and you really like formulate this plan um with your family for what things are going to look like for the next two or so years um of whatever higher education you're doing but with that being said i just want to like be real with you guys right so let's be real it is not easy okay like the number one thing that i feel like most parents need to know is that you need to have support like yeah you may be like a single parent and you doing this thing on your own and props to you definitely um especially those single parents that are out there in pa school holding it down but let me tell you like you still need to have that village right like you still need to have those people around you in that support system that's going to help you because like let's be real like my kids don't always get a shower every night you know like i might have to push that thing to the morning um or maybe like because you know we try to we're trying to do this thing where it's like at night you get a shower and then in the morning like you're just ready to roll for school and that may not necessarily always be the case right because you're studying or you're super tired and it's way past their bedtime and you have them sitting in front of the television so that you can study but mind you you make yourself feel good because it's a learning show shout out to magic school best everyone teach my kids about the human body but honestly you're doing all of these things to try to still like be a parent but be a student at the same time so like you need that support and you need that village to help you run your household and so for those of you who are in a relationship you have a spouse then like it's really important for you all to have that thing tight and have this you know kind of scheduling what you want to see life happen like the roles that you all are going to take on in these next couple months as you get into whatever schooling it is that you're trying to get into number two okay like i said earlier like your kids can be annoying and like for real like i mean i know y'all i know y'all have seen that family guy where stewie's like mom mama mama mama mom mom mom mommy mommy mama mama mama what and legit y'all like i didn't know that was a thing until i had my second daughter and like that like she that she is him like that's her okay like she will continuously call you and call you and call you and call you and call you and call you and even if you say yes like for whatever reason like she doesn't hear you and she's like consistently like sticks with this she's calling you and calling and it's like dang like what like can i like i just need a break and it's okay all right it's okay to feel like that it is absolutely okay to think that your kids are annoying that does not make you a bad parent okay and so do not feel bad about that like i have a lot of friends that will admit to that okay like they will drive you nuts but as long as you can rain it back in you know don't yell at your kids for no reason like rain it back down so that you can sit up here and have like you have a conversation you let them know hey yeah what's going on all right what do you need all right and then you let them know politely like and sternly you know mommy is studying or daddy's studying if you need anything if it's really important important you know just come to me if not like here this is what you can do and that helps out a lot so definitely do that as far as like everything else that you have to do as a parent and as a wife in pa school like look like sometimes like the house is not gonna be clean okay and that's okay like it's not going to be clean every single day and that's all right don't feel guilty for certain things kind of dropping by the wayside because you can pick that stuff back up on the weekend or however it is that you want to do it but do not feel down and bad about yourself because you're not up to par or you don't like your house isn't sparkling like so and so on the internet because that ain't real okay i'm gonna just put it out there i just want you guys to understand and i want to give you guys some motivation that yes you can do this being a pa student and a mom and a wife is not easy it is doable and it's okay for certain things to lapse but don't worry about it it's just for a short period of time it's not always an easy path but it will be worth it and you will be fine okay so just some motivation for you guys who think that you know you may be having a little bit of mom guilt or dad guilt for this you know trying to go through this whole process you're doing this for your family you will be great i hope this helps you guys because i needed to hear that a couple times when i was in school okay let me know what y'all let and drop by the wayside while you're trying to make it through pa school leave that in the comment section below as well and if you haven't already done so like this video follow me on instagram meta down in the pa and subscribe thank you guys so much for watching i will talk to you guys next time