 Hi everyone, welcome to another live video. I hope you all enjoyed the premiere today. The narcissist would rather see you fail than succeed. And that's what we're going to discuss in this live video. So I'd like to hear from you Please share your experiences these narcissists they target you because you've got everything they want and then they use you up until you've got nothing left and Then they discard you and they just don't want to see you doing better without them They want to see you fail because if you succeed After they've left you Then it makes them feel like they made the wrong decision. So if this is something That you have experienced with the narcissist where they would rather see you fail than succeed please share it here and I Will read it out and We could discuss it. I've definitely found out in my situation All narcissists ever wanted for me Is failure and they would even sabotage my potential success The last thing they wanted Was to see me succeed. I didn't want to see me happy Didn't want to see me comfortable They just wanted the worst for me They have this inferiority complex Well, they've always got to be on top of you They've always got to do better It's like an endless competition in the end. You just want to give up and be like Okay, fine You are better than me You win anything I will just keep them quiet So you stop being yourself You stop existing In your true light You stop doing all of the things that you love to do Because you fear that you might hurt them. You can't even be yourself around the narcissist Because it just causes one injury after another. Let's see what people are saying here Dornier says They downplay Everything so well They hate your success Levo says They hate your success because they hate your independence Definitely, I agree with that Your success makes it very difficult for them to control you The treasure says so true They make it look like you are the failure But in reality, they are the ones that are failing Definitely, they don't really care what the truth is They don't really care about the actual situation It's all about the orchestration Just making you think That you're the failure here And they're the ones that are better than you If they can trick you into believing it It makes it more believable for them High fly G It's like they want you to fail so they can feel better about themselves Definitely, that's right When they put you beneath them It makes them feel like they're above you Abbie Kay says They fail majorly So they want you to fail even more Definitely These types of people They don't want to start from the bottom They don't want to see it as though they've got things to work on They want to feel like they have it all already They know it all already So then they don't do the work It's all about Manipulation And creating illusions It's never real Lenny says they want you dead They would take great pleasure And take in our lives Definitely, especially The more malignant ones The ones who are higher on the spectrum I'm sure they would love to see us dead I'm sure they would love to outlive us Because as long as we're alive We just keep causing them so much pain So many injuries They can't stand it Yeah, the narcissist Would love to see you fail If they haven't dragged you down already But you shouldn't let them Change how you see yourself That's the most important thing you That's what's going to get you through this Because as long as you know who you are As long as you Recognize your own value You can always come back out of the pit That they left you in They know just how valuable you are They know that But they want to trick you Into thinking you're nothing You're worthless Because that's exactly how they feel Anytime that they're around you They know how great you are But if they can make you feel like You're less of a person Like you're not good enough for anyone Or anything The more able to control you That takes us onto you They want to make you look at yourself And question Your qualities and abilities But you need to look at yourself And recognize your worth Recognize why they're even around you Oh, fail I just fell down there But I'm okay That's what the narcissist wants for you They want you to fall down there Into their pit of doom And misery That's what they want But you need to stand up here And be strong Don't let them pull you down Yeah, you need to look at yourself And recognize your value And why they came around you in the first place They're not going to come around someone Who they have no use for They're not going to remain around someone Who they have no use for You know if a narcissist Finds someone who's completely useless to them Someone who's a liability They're going to be out the door in no time They're not going to stick around for that And that should tell you just how much you're worth Because narcissists They want to be around the best of the best The most attractive Successful Powerful People who they deem to be something great And their predators They know straight away what you're about They know your value And they're not going to stick around If they do not believe That you are valuable That you are useful You think a narcissist is going to remain around someone That's a liability Someone that they're just giving everything to And getting nothing back in return No, of course not That would never happen They're not going to invest in anything Unless they're getting a return And not just that They have to get back a lot more Than they're putting in They have to be profiting from the situation So yeah Recognize your worth And don't just always look at yourself And what you're not supposed to be Providing to them Look at them And how they're not even bringing anything to the table Like these narcissists All they really got for you Is an illusion anyway It's not even real And that is why As soon as they know That you're not susceptible to them in ablation You'll probably never see them again No matter how Much they think you're worth No matter how valuable they think you are You have no value to a narcissist Once they know that you've figured them out Because they know you're not going to take them seriously after that Once you know what these people are about It's a joke And the only thing you can do then Is just move on And just hope that they don't try to drag you down with them Because that's all they're going to do I've never heard anyone say that a narcissist Made their life better These people are full of so much anger And hatred That's what they've got to give to you And in return They want your love Your happiness Your joy But they do not deserve that They are not worthy of it The narcissist wants to make you fail They want to make you think You're not as great as you are But when they're trying to destroy your confidence And target your self-esteem You've really just got to Stop and think Why would you be deserving of any of that Anyway No matter How little They want to make you think you are They're not deserving of it anyway Because what have they done To deserve anything from you What have they done Other than Bring chaos And drama into your life The only thing these people do Is ruin lives They want to make Your life like theirs And they want to make you think of yourself In the way that they really think of themselves And that's when you just got to take a step back And recognize Whose shit that is Because that does not belong to you You don't need someone else To tell you What you're capable of Or how great you are That's what parents do with their children To get them to recognize Their value In the world But when you're an adult You don't need someone else to do that For you And that's something That we all need to realize Because we've been preconditioned From childhood by our parents Growing up To be dependent On what other people think of us And then that's when these predators come along And they want to control what you think of yourself But not in a good way They want to make you think less of yourself To keep you around While they're doing nothing for you And in fact they're just taking Your worth away from you As long as you remain around them Your value depreciates Because they wear you down But we look at ourselves and we think There must be something wrong with me I'm not good enough When really You're just around a low value person And they're taking your value away from you But as soon as you get your ass out of there That is when you can build up Your value again on your own You don't need them All they're ever going to do is bring you down Make you feel like you ain't shit While knowing all along You're way better than they'll ever be Anyway that's the message for tonight I just wanted to expand on The premiere I did earlier Thank you all for joining me on this life And you all have a good night