 You can do it! It's not easy! But it is empowering! You deserve to feel empowered. You deserve the life that you want to live. So stop giving your power away and continue to be in victim mode because you're not going to get anywhere being there. Empower yourself and take blame for all the good. Okay, not just the bad, but all the good in your life and the bad and look like, I don't mean this in a, wow, such a piece of shit kind of way. You know, it's actually, it's quite the opposite. It allows you to gain control over your life. It puts you back in the driver seat instead of sitting in the passenger seat to be the driver of your own life.