 Little tea they could do. Let's talk about trauma. Anything has the power to cause trauma. That is the phrase that I thought of when I was playing out this video. Don't really know where it came from. It was just in my head disclaimer. Trauma does not have a rule. There isn't a rule but for trauma. Please be kind to one another and don't invalidate all the people's experiences. Just if you're here to hate, harass or bully me, bye. Now let's get into the video. Don't let me drown. Does this count as forcing a dog to be in a video? Oh my god. Go to YouTube. Hello to you guys, welcome back to my channel. If you're new here, hi, hello, my name is Olivia and it's the next day now and I have a dog. So yeah, as the introduction suggests today we are talking about trauma. If this is your first time here, why not hit the subscribe button and join the little family we're growing. When I hit 5K and doing a giveaway, like I said today, we're talking about trauma. Little tea, big tea. Little tea is little trauma. Big tea is big trauma. So, oh yes. Like I said, today we are talking about trauma and yes, that is a deep and dark subject but this is the internet. So as I explained yesterday when I filmed this initially, little tea, big tea. Little trauma, big trauma. What are they? What's the difference and why is it relevant? So those of you who don't know me and haven't already sent me, hit the subscribe button down below and you get to know me. But I have a diagnosis of complex PTSD which is complex post-traumatic stress disorder. And no, it's not easy. No, it's not fun. Yes, it's not. But today I'm here to educate and inform. Not going to go into my story if you are interested in my story then I will leave a link to a playlist in the description down below. So trauma. Little tea, big tea. Little trauma are things that aren't as dramatic as big trauma. So big trauma for instance might be a car accident, sexual assault, some kind of tragic traumatic event. And for me, I've had a significant amount of big teas. That would be great to say that really. I witnessed it super-cived when I was 16 and I've been struggling since. What is a little trauma? A little trauma is something that may be traumatising to a child or a young person but isn't as traumatising to an adult. Though that being said, as I said in the introduction clear, things that are traumatic to an adult, very person to person, there's no set rule or book that they have to follow. What someone might find traumatic, it might be different to someone else. You have no right to discredit or say that someone's trauma isn't valid, you just don't. Never, ever, ever discredit or say that what's the one I went through isn't as serious because to them it is. And like I said, everyone experiences trauma differently. So little traumas, very person to person. Trauma is different for everybody. There is no rule book as to what can be traumatic and what is traumatic. There is no rule book, there is no guidelines and there's not a set criteria you have to follow to be traumatised by an incident. An incident can be anything from walling over as a child in like breaking bones and so forth. That can be traumatising to a child which is a little trauma. A big trauma, you know, car accident, big things, death things, um, um, sexual assault, all sorts of things can be considered big traumas. As I've said throughout this video, things very person to person. I don't know what my friend is doing, but it is doing something. Some examples of things that may be a little trauma could be a dog bite. I talk about my story quite a lot and people don't seem to get the fact that the people go through it and I think an example of trauma, that a lot of kids go through would be bullying and harassment and not very nice humans. That's such a big thing that goes on that people don't really realise the full extent they can affect someone. They don't get to say, hmm, nope, my brain's gone. My brain's pissed out. That's fun. Bye, brain. I've got no idea what I was talking about. Wow. Thanks, brain. Appreciate it. Oh, sorry, I don't. I think what people forget is that trauma is such a big thing nowadays. Like, it happens so often that people don't really realise the full impact they can have on someone. So a big example would be this whole Me Too movement and I deliberately didn't get involved with that. I just kept it very big because I kind of knew that if I associated myself with this movement that people would belittle everything that I'd been through and they wouldn't pick it seriously because it's not the same as some of the most dramatic cases and you can never compare people's trauma. Like, trauma is different for everybody. People show it in different ways. People cope with it in different ways, which is why some people are fighting after these things. Other people end up with severe mental illness such as PTSD, complex PTSD, personalisation, derealisation, dissociative identity disorder. I'm so disconnected from it all that my brain's just like, peace out. I'm just sat here like, I was making a video about when I was doing that and the dogs ignoring me still. I am a fucking idiot. I was talking for a solid five minutes and I didn't realise because I was looking up their lens. I was looking at their lens. I wasn't even looking at the screen this time and I didn't notice that I hadn't clicked record. For me, a big trauma is suicide and death and very intense stuff that I don't really want to go into this video because I don't want this video to be triggering at all, which is why I'm not giving specific examples. How do you differentiate a little trauma from a big trauma? What is the difference between a little trauma and a big trauma? How do you split the two? Say as a kid one thing traumatised you, but as an adult you don't understand why it's traumatised. That would be considered a little trauma. A YouTuber named Katie Morton made a video talking about Lil T Big T with Dodie Clark who is someone who struggles with depersonalisation derealisation. With that being said, that is all I've got for this video and if you are new here make sure you hit the subscribe button because I make new videos every single day. Bye guys. Can I get you the notebook? Is that rude? It's just like wacky over there. Can I do that? My camera's about to die. Oh my god, I need to shut the fuck up and edit. I'm listening to myself. I want to talk about being narcissistic. Goddamn. I love being sarcastic and taking the piss out myself. I'm taking the piss out of people to take the piss out of me. I don't know, I think I should grow older. I don't care anymore. I can just walk around with pom-poms on my head and not really give a fuck. I can talk to a camera and not care. I can get hated on on Twitter and yes it bothers me. I'm a human being who doesn't like being hated. I think most of the human race is like that so I don't think I'm alone there. If my swearing offend you I'd leave. Quit where you're at. I just rambled on for fucking nine minutes. End the recording.