 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته الصلاة والسلام علي سيدنا ونبينا وحبيبنا وشافيعنا وقائدنا وسيدنا سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يا ربنا لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم افتح علينا فتوحة العارفين اللهم مع اللبنا ما ينفعنا ونفعنا بما علمتنا يا أرحان الرحيمين يا رب العالمين السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته سوف نتحدث about the third wife of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم سيدا عائشة بانتو أبي بكريني الصديق رضي الله عنها وارضاها وارضي الله عن والدها وارضا سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم نعرف that after the death of سيدنا سيدة خديجة رضي الله عنها سيدة خولا رضي الله عنها came and asked سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم why you don't get married and then she said you can get married to a virgin and to a married woman whose husband died to a widow so he said who are these and she says the virgin is عائشة بانتو أبي بكر the daughter of your truthful friend and the widow is سودة بانتو زمع so when سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said to her go and talk to the to the parents go and mention mention that to them so this this lady went and she talked to she went to سيدة أم رومان was the mother of خديجة أفعائي شرطي الله عنها and she she said said to her رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم has sent to you and you have got a lot of blessings and she said what is it and she says سيدنا محمد is asking for the marriage of عائشة and سيدة أم رومان رضي الله عنها said to her but she was surprised actually and she said to her okay my husband is coming you can talk to him so سيد خملة talked to سيدنا أبو بكر and سيدنا أبو بكر she looked at her and he said how can this happen I am his brother so go to him and ask him that so she went back to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she she said to him this is what's what's happening this is what أبو بكر is saying how can you marry he is your brother and is his daughter so she will be your niece how can you get married to her and he said to her he is my brother and in Islam and his daughter I can be I can marry her so she went back to him and she told him but أبو بكر رضي الله عنه had given a promise to when he asked that his son marries so أبو بكر never broke a promise so what happened أبو بكر رضي الله عنه went to المطعم عدي and المطعم's wife was present so he said to her he said to المطعم what do you think of my daughter and he looked المطعم looked at his mother at his wife and he said to her what do you say so she said she said to أبو بكر maybe if we get our son to marry your daughter then she will make him change his religion and he will be in a new religion so his father the father of the boy المطعم looked at أبو بكر رضي الله عنه and he said you hear what she says so أبو بكر went out he left them and he was released of his promise so أبو بكر رضي الله عنه was told by her mom that someone is coming so I said to محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم came to their house and she was still 7 years old when that when she was mentioned by جبريل عليه السلام to see محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to get married to her so when he went to them she was playing on a swing and her mom called her and then she she came to her mom and her mom water and she wiped her face and then she come to her and she got her to enter into the house and in the house there were men and women and was there so she her mom sent her daughter محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she said those are your family رسول الله this is your family so may Allah سبحانه وتعالى bless you bless her and that was it then سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم waited until عشرة الله وانه was nine years old and then he consumed the marriage عشرة الله وانه said on that day the day of her marriage there were no camels slaughtered nothing except for the pot of food that Sa'ad now bada used to send to sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so so so this was the marriage of sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to عشرة الله وانه and someone might say why would sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم get married to عشرة الله وانه he was about 53 years old she was nine years old so when he died he was 18 years old so but to get married 53 years old to a nine years old so many questions were asked about about this this marriage so why would sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم get married to such a young girl as i just mentioned that prophet محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم married before عشرة الله وانه he married خديجة الله وانه she was 15 years older than him and she died at the age of 65 so 25 years that sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم lived with خديجة رضي الله وانه and he did not take any other wife with her then sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم married صودة رضي الله وانه a woman of his age and when so that marriage same age that's understandable what happened when he got married to عشرة الله وانه at that time at their time it was so normal that a girl would get married at the age of عشرة الله وانه so between 9 and 13 between 9 and 12 that's the norm for them and we know that when sayidina عمر رضي الله وانه when his daughter when her husband died sayidina عمر went to Abu Bakr رضي الله وانه and asked him to marry his daughter Abu Bakr was older than عمر رضي الله وانه so this was the norm that someone older would marry a younger girl and there was no problem with that so when sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم got married with this big difference of age that was okay that was normal normal at that time so who was عشرة الله وانه عشرة الله وانه at her at the when she was still so young she was a very smart girl and when she got older then she was the most knowledgeable of all women and sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم knew how knowledgeable she was she was the most knowledgeable of all women she was confident she was assertive she was knowledgeable she was eloquent and some narrations say that she was the most knowledgeable of all the wives of sayidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she was so eloquent when she speaks so عربن الزوبي رضي الله وانه he said I heard the speeches of Abu Bakr Omar of man and Ali and none of them was as eloquent as Aisha رضي الله وانه and by the way Aisha was the aunt of sayidina عوروة so she was the most the most knowledgeable in فقه in حديث in inheritance and she excelled everyone else in poetry and medicine so أبو موسى الأشعري says رضي الله وانه when we could not figure something out when there is a problem when there is an issue that would bewilder us that no one can understand that no one can solve so when there is an issue we would go to Aisha رضي الله وانه and of course that was after the death of sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so we would go to Aisha رضي الله وانه and she would clarify everything for us and it is known that she told a lot of the companions of sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم whoever was seeking knowledge would stop by Aisha رضي الله وانه to get the exact knowledge and she narrated 2210 حديث about sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so her narrations gives us access to the life of sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she would explain the life of sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she told us how he slept how he prayed how he fasted how he prayed at night she told us everything about sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم used to love Fatima used to have deep love for Aisha رضي الله وانه they both had deep connection and he used to have fun with her and we know that she was so young she is sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم would allow her to watch the Abyssinians playing the spears and she would be behind them and she would be watching them and she would enjoy her time also sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم in one of the occasions she was with sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he he used to race with her so he said to her let's race and she she was very thin she was young so when they raced they سبحان الله she was faster than him so she won the race and they were laughing then later she sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said to her let's race and he beat her he won and she said I gained some weight and I am not as fast as I used to be so he said one by one so you beat me one and then now I am beating you sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم as I mentioned he used to have deep love to at his death sickness at the very last days he asked the permissions of all his wives so that he would be at his house and it is known that sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she was taking care of him during these days the last few days and exactly before his death she saw him looking at her she was having a piece of سواق and he looked at the سواق and she immediately understood that he wanted the سواق and she said he wanted and he said yes I wanted so she softened it with her saliva and she gave it to sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and that was the last thing that was in his mouth before his death so she said after sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم passed away she said that was the last thing my saliva got united with his saliva سبحان الله and sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم passed away in his lap she was with him all the time later on she had a dream and she saw three moves fell in her lap then she went to her dad and she said she said the dream to her dad and sayidina أبو بكر she interpreted it that you will get good news so sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم was buried in her house which is her room actually and then when her father died he was buried next to sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and later on when sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم before he died he asked permission that he is buried next to them of course she had in mind that that spot would be her grave but when sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم asked her to be buried there she couldn't say no and she knew that this was the interpretation the three moons fell falling in her lap so the three important figures were buried in her house in her room سبحان الله we all know about the incident of the slander which was made by the head of the hypocrites عبد الله ابن أبيني and he intended with this incident to hurt sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so in one of the expeditions in one of the battles she was the wife company sayidina وحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and it was late when she wanted to use the to relieve herself so she left the army and that was after they won the battle and everything so she left the army and went a little far just to relieve herself at that time the army got ready and they left so when they lifted the when they lifted the special cabin where عايش رضي الله عنها used to sit on the camel it was they did not notice that she was not there she was very light so they left and they went and they did not notice that she was not there so when she came back she realized that they left they already left before before leaving so when she relieved herself and came back she noticed that she lost her necklace so she went back and searched for the necklace during this time the army left so when she came back she did not find the army and she stayed in a place where she would know for sure that as soon as they realized that she was not there with them they would go back so when so she stayed in the same place that they left صفوان was the one person the one companion who used to stay behind the army just to search the place before he goes on before he leaves so that if there is anything they forgot so he would take it and he will bring it to the to the army so he was searching and he saw without talking to her he got the camel he made the camel kneel she went over the camel he led the camel and it was not a far distance when they arrived so now who noticed that the head of the hypocrites ابن أبي سلول الله ابن أبي سلول so he accused that she had an affair with that person that person the news reached صيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and it reached her parents she was sick at that time and she asked the permission of صيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to go to her parents to be nursed over there and he accepted he was not talking to her صيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم stopped talking to her she didn't know what was going on she felt there was something strange but she was sick so she couldn't understand it when صيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم used to come over just to check on her used not to talk to her and after days of that past she heard of what everyone knows because the news spread and she started crying and crying and crying her mom was so sad to see her daughter crying so much so finally صيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم came one day and he couldn't take it anymore so he said to her if you did something bad just repent الله will forgive you and she looked at him and cried more and she said I am not going to repent to a sin that I never did and if I say yes I did then you will believe me if I say no I did not you will not believe me I will do as what يعقوب عليه السلام as what he did when he lost his when he lost his two sons he said حسبي الله ونعم الوكير I depend on Allah سبحانه وتعالى only on Allah so that he will answer and he will prove my innocence so she said as سيدنا يعقوب صبر جميل والله المستحان وعلا ما تصحفون I am going to be patient and I am seeking the help of Allah سبحانه وتعالى to clarify the matter and she was crying and crying and she was asking الله سبحانه وتعالى to to show that she was innocent and suddenly the سيدنا جبير عليه السلام came down to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and it was just a few minutes that الله سبحانه وتعالى gave the glad tidings through جبير عليه السلام that his wife was innocent and immediately سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم after resting it was immediately he said to عائشة رضي الله عنها أبشر يا عائشة فقد أنزل الله برأتك يا عائشة you have the good news that Allah سبحانه وتعالى revealed the ayahs that would indicate that you are innocent and the the ayahs are الله سبحانه وتعالى that he revealed they were in سورة النور when الله سبحانه وتعالى said إسم الله الرحمن الرحيم إن الذين جاءوا بالإفكيع أصبتهم منكم لا تحسبوه شران لكم بل هو خير لكم لكل مريئ منهم مكتسب من الإثب والذي تولا كبراه منهم له عذاب عظيم so Allah الله سبحانه وتعالى said indeed indeed those who came with falsehood are a group among you do not think it's bad for you rather it's good for you for every person amongst them is what he has earned from the sin and he who took up on himself the greater portion for him is a great punishment then Allah سبحانه وتعالى said there should be four witnesses to such accusment لو لجاءوا عليه بأربعة شهداء فإذا لم يأتوا بالشهداء فأولئك عند الله هم الكاذبون and when they could not when they do not produce the witnesses the four witnesses then it is they in the sight of Allah are the liars so Allah سبحانه وتعالى gave gave the glad tidings gave the Bushra to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and to عائشة رضي الله عنها and to her parents and to those who love them that she is innocent so عائشة رضي الله عنها was a very special woman and as I mentioned سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم used to love her a lot once سيدنا عمر ابن العاص he used to think that سيدنا محمد loves him the most so he went to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he asked him يا رسول الله من أحب الناس إليك oh prophet of Allah who is the most beloved to you and he immediately said عائشة so she was the most loved by سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم among the people who were alive so he said what about from the men he was hoping that he would say his name so he said أبوها her father he said who else he said عمر and then who else and he did not hear his name and so he decided to stop but everyone who knows سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم used to think that سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم used to love him the most and that was of the good character of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم صلى الله عليه وسلم was a special woman and she excelled in so many ways so the first thing is when we saw how سيدنا جيبريل صلى الله عليه وسلم عليه السلام he told سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to marry Haisha and later on she was given the title السديقة و بنت السديقة the truthful one the daughter of the truthful one and she was very assertive woman very intelligent she was a scholar in different fields and there is one incident that we need to talk about and that was the the war that happened after the death of محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم of course between و عائش رضي الله عنها on one hand and on the other hand of course their army and on the other hand سيدنا علي والمقداد والقاعة and their army on the second hand on the other hand so what happened what is موقعت الجمل what happened during that battle we know that سيدنا علي رضي الله عنها became the caliph in دلحجة in the year 35 هجري اسمان رضي الله عنها so it was not 100% clear for سيدنا علي who killed سيدنا عثمان so he postponed the matter of getting revenge for سيدنا عثمان والزوبير و عائشة they met in مدكة and they talked about this issue about the the murder of سيدنا عثمان and what happened and they mentioned that علي رضي الله عنها did not do anything yet for that so they decided to take an army and to go from مكة to حراق so that they would ask for the killers of عثمان رضي الله عنها so they came to they arrived in البسرة and عثمان بن حليف was the governor of البسرة some people say that سيد عائشة طلحة والزوبير and the army they went against علي رضي الله عنها and they fought سيدنا علي and that was completely wrong because when if they wanted to go against علي رضي الله عنها they would go to مدينة where سيدنا علي was but they went from مكة they went to عراق to بسرة and they did not think that علي رضي الله عنها would oppose that or would prevent them from doing that so when those people who killed عثمان رضي الله عنها knew about them they collected the army and they they fought them and it was the name of that battle was موقعة الجملة الصغرة the battle of the camel the small battle of the camel طلحة والزوبير وعائشة رضي الله عنهم and the army got victory over them and the the governor immediately sent someone to سيدنا علي to tell him of the issue of what's going on so علي رضي الله عنها went from مدينة with an army they went to كوفا and listen to this he went to كوفا he did not go to بسرة he did not go to بسرة where سيد عائشة and the army is so when they got there سيدنا علي رضي الله عنه he sent المقداد والقاقاع رضي الله عنهم he sent them to طلحة andزوبير and he asked them what they want so why are they with an army over there so they said we want the people who we want to get revenge for عثمان رضي الله عنه who passed away so they said they said to them leave this matter علي is going to take care of that the caliphate is going to take care of that so they both agreed the both parties agreed to go back and to leave the issue to سيدنا علي to take care of it the سبقين who were under the leadership of عبد الله بسبق and those are the people who killed عثمان رضي الله عنه so they knew that when طلحة زوبير and عائشة as the first group would agree with المقداد والقاقاع and سيدنا علي on the second group then that will be something bad against them they will be known for sure and they will be punished later on so what they did they decided to have a fitna and a group of them went out at night and they killed some people of the army of عائشة رضي الله عنه سيدنا طلحة سيدنا زوبير and the army they said this is treason we just had an agreement what happened why would they kill us at night so there was a fight they attacked and موقعت الجمد الكبر took place the big camera battle took place between علي رضي الله عنه and his army and عائشة رضي الله عنه and her army زوبير رضي الله عنه and طلحة رضي الله عنه they did not want the fight so they asked that the people stop don't fight and they both retreated they did not fight the زوبير was hit with an arrow and he died طلحة was hit with an arrow and he died and at that time of course they were shouting at people go back we are not here to fight علي رضي الله عنه we are not here to fight علي go back so they got killed while they were urging people to go there to go back then the camel of عائشة رضي الله عنه was hit with an arrow and the camel kneeled down at this moment the brother of عائشة رضي الله عنه was with the army of علي رضي الله عنه and he went and he raised to the camel of عائشة رضي الله عنه so he he just looked at her and he was happy that she was safe at that moment when the camel kneeled down of عائشة رضي الله عنه the mother of the believers the wife of sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم immediately the battle stopped علي رضي الله عنه was so sad for what happened especially when he heard طلحة والزوبير and a lot of companions were killed so the one who killed sayyidina علي sayyidina أزوبير he came to sayyidina علي and he said to him I killed أزوبير and this is his his sword so he looked at him sayyidina علي and he said don't be so happy I heard sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم saying بشر قاتل ابني صفية بالنار give glad tidings for that who kills ابن صفية the son of صفية that he will be in hellfire and of course it was a battle out of control sayyidina علي did not want the battle to happen طلحة والزوبير did not wanted that battle to happen and as a result sayyidina علي prevented that there should there are any captives same as in any battle or any booties in that battle because it was a battle between two groups of Muslims sayyidina علي making sure that sayyidina علي was safe he sent her back to medina to her home with a group of a group of companions taking care of her and until she got into her home and then sayyidina علي whenever i remember that day i would weep i would cry none of the two parties wanted to fight each other and Allah SWT knows how truthful both parties are but those who were against the Muslims those who were against the unities of the Muslims they knew that this should happen so there will be a big problem between the people the companions of sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so these are some points about sayyidina Aisha رضي الله عنها and سبحان الله if we are to say everything about sayyidina Aisha these and weeks and we will not be finished but in these classes it's about 45 minutes class so we will we are just choosing the main points and we are just talking about them and there was a question or a request from one of the sisters online that we wish that to hear more stories about سودة رضي الله عنها the wife of sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم in last class and as I just mentioned we are just saying very very very little about the the wives of sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم just giving the main points about them so عائشة رضي الله عنها was أمة by herself she was a society by herself she was a great person to learn from by herself and learning about her رضي الله عنها about عائشة رضي الله عنها indicates tells us that a woman can have a big role in society she can be a scholar, she can be a speaker she can be a doctor, she can be a teacher and those were the characteristics of عائشة رضي الله عنها she was the most knowledgeable person at her time men used to come to her to ask her the most difficult questions and she would give them the answer and she would explain everything for them so this is what we are going to cover about عائشة رضي الله عنها and Insha'Allah we will be meeting next week with another wife of sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم learning about her learning about her connection and her connection to Allah سبحانه وتعالى and to sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and until them until that time I'll leave you now with a special greeting and special salam to we all send this salam to sayyidina محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله ورحمة الله وبركاته