 Hey psych-goers, welcome back to a brand new video. Do people describe you as kind and compassionate? Near the top of every list describing what everyone wants as a part of their personality is to be someone who has a good heart. That's because the most amiable people have a kind and compassionate heart that radiates joy to those around them. Nobody can resist someone who is consistently gentle, benevolent, and accepting. But sometimes it could be possible that you're not aware you're a kind-hearted person. After all, it's a difficult thing to assess. So if you're unsure, here are 10 signs you are genuinely kind-hearted. 1. You value life more than material things Are you more excited at the prospect of having new experiences rather than gaining new things? Oftentimes people tend to hoard expensive things because they believe that the more expensive the item, the more happiness it'll bring them. But this means that they base their worth on external items. Kind-hearted people, on the other hand, know that your happiness comes from within and from the simple pleasures that make life rich, like friends, family, and a sense of purpose in life. For you, the importance of others is not measured by how much cash they have in their wallets, but by how much experience they have in their hearts. 2. You don't pick sides Do you find yourself getting sucked into other people's drama? Kind-hearted individuals always want to help everyone out. Because of this, you believe that there are always two sides to a story and will refuse to pick a side without knowing fully what happened. Toxic people will often try to use your kindness against you, so it's important that you are careful to avoid participating in hateful conversations. 3. You're kind to everyone Can you see people for who they truly are and treat them with equal kindness? A major sign that you're kind-hearted is if you can show your respect and kindness to everyone and anyone. This may mean respecting the desires and views of other people, taking a sincere interest in their lives or supporting them when they're feeling down. This isn't a way for you to show off what'll look better. It's a habit of wanting to treat others the way you would want to be treated yourself, with kindness and respect. 4. You go the extra mile Are you always helping others out? Whether it's staying to clean up after an event, spending time to make sure things are properly done or helping someone in need, you will go the extra mile for other people. For many individuals in our fast-paced world, time is the most valuable commodity, so it speaks volumes when you're willing to spend a weekend helping a friend or doing yard work for an elderly neighbor. 5. You always want to understand others Do you try to learn about the world as much as possible, whether it's listening to the stories of your elders, traveling, or exploring different cultures? You're always trying to learn something new to better yourself. Kind and wise people are never too smart to learn. This love of learning may be what's pushing you to read, study, or find experiences that enable you to develop and extend your understanding of the life around you. 6. You don't pass judgment Are you able to see things from different points of view? Another sign that you're kind-hearted is if you have an open mind. You will keep all your thoughts and opinions aside and listen to people attentively with no judgments. This doesn't require you to believe or condone what they do, it simply implies that you avoid passing judgment long enough to appreciate who they are. Keeping an open mind also allows you to learn about new and different ideas and to see the world removed from preconceived ideas and judgments. 7. You treat others with respect Do you treat everyone around you with equal respect and decency? Whether they're a stranger, someone you know, young, or old, you treat everyone with respect. A kind person will be courteous and thoughtful to their family, friends, and even strangers. After all, it takes true kindness and generosity to encourage others, even in the worst of situations, to retain a sense of dignity. 8. You value yourself Have you set boundaries for your relationships? While you do care and value other people, you know not to do it at the cost of yourself. One of the clear signs that you are a kind individual is that you don't allow others to walk all over you. A good heart comes from a strong heart, so while you're willing to struggle financially with someone for the greater good, you're also going to insist on being part of the boon they help create. 9. You compliment others when deserved Complimenting is not only a good way to brighten someone's mood, but also a sign that you can be excited about other people's triumphs. Kind-hearted individuals see the good in other people, and will often offer the spark that may just help someone achieve their true potential. This means you're willing to show sincere appreciation for hard work and extra effort. You give compliments when it's deserved, and offer constructive criticism when it's warranted. 10. You are trustworthy Do you do or say things that are sincere? Another sign that you are genuinely kind-hearted is when you're reliable and trustworthy, even if it may be difficult to say or do. Other people can depend on you for your honesty and level-headedness in every situation. You are firmly grounded in reality, and are truly present at every moment because you aren't trying to work out a personal agenda or thinking about personal gain or profit. Do you know someone who is genuinely kind-hearted? Let us know in the comments below. If you found this video helpful, be sure to like, subscribe, and share this video with those who might benefit from it. 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