 When we decide someone's nice or well-meaning, we choose to suffer it out, we suffer it out, stop suffering it out because you've said this person's well-meaning when what the truth is, they are a boundary violating human in your life and you should stop suffering it out, draw a line and cut that energy out of your life because the longer you don't do it, the thicker you will get, the more emotionally toxic you will get by tolerating it.