 There's this compulsion in our culture, especially when it comes to matters of faith, to be certain of everything you believe and to prove that your theology or your doctrine is right. As a gay Christian, it's exhausting always having to justify my validity as a follower of Jesus. But the Jesus I see in Scripture doesn't concern himself with proving anything, but rather being somebody who demonstrates what it is to be whole, to be constantly in divine union with God. So to be perfectly honest, I'm less interested in being right, and I'm more interested in being whole.