 over to the Holy Spirit and say, I don't know where this is going to go, but I know I want this to be for the greater good. I want this to be for me waking up. And I have used this relationship. I have investments. I really have had this. I wanted this person to come out this way to make something more of themselves. I wanted to fix them. I thought I could change them. I'm going to give all that to you, Holy Spirit. I want you to help me unlearn the strings that I've attached to this relationship. The way I've wanted to use them to meet my needs and to build me up. Because I felt unworthy, I've used them as a crutch. And it really can seem like a very fast ride and it can seem like a real accelerated undoing of the false belief when you hang into a relationship and you give it over to the Holy Spirit. Because a lot of that repressed false ideas and beliefs that the mind hasn't wanted to look at start to come up. Yeah, that's what I mean. I guess part of it is like the surface of it. You know, that's the thing that was interesting when I was reading it out. You put up against the thing that irritates you the most. You know, when you both are put up against each other, irritating each other just as much. And, you know, just all this stuff behind that. I mean, that's basically what our special relationships are close to, you know, with spouses or family or whatever parents is. I mean, that's really all that they really are. Yeah. It accelerates that whole bringing to the light of the beliefs that we don't even know we have. And certainly, you know, don't want to look at. Right. Yeah. But you think that their special makes you possibly take more of a look at it? I think so. Because if it wasn't, it could be someone that you just throw them off. Throw them off. Yeah. They'd be in real charge. Yeah. Yeah. Because it's something where you have a tremendous amount of care and so on. And then you're willing to sort of hang in there more and take a look more at it. Yeah. And it's like you're reading Return to Love. You know, Mary Ann has a great way of putting it. She says, we're all coming here to learn how to love. And that's an interesting thing to think about it. Because once again, the mind and the seed mind thinks it knows what tables and chairs are and also it thinks it knows what love is. You know, it's read books and it's seen movies and it's had experiences and it's a very humbling fact when you come to see that there aren't different kinds of love. I mean, that's in the special relationship section, too, that there seems to be in this world a brother and sister love and a love for the parents and a romantic love and a dot, a dot, a dot. It seems to be a pretty good scale of love. Puppy love, the love for your pet and on and on and on. And basically the teaching of the Course is love is one. And love can only look on itself. And that you don't know in a deceitful state of mind, you don't know what love is. So to use Mary Ann's phrase, learning how to love or to use Jesus' phrase, learning how to become aware of the obstacles to love's presence that I constructed in my mind, that's the process of doing it. To the ego, it's like, why do I, the ego would say, why do I have these people in my life? Why do I keep attracting these people in my life that just such pain to me? And to the Holy Spirit, it's like, hey, golden opportunity here to really look at something that you can't stand to look at with your mind, so you're projecting it out and you're seeing it in the other person.