 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder of commitmentconnection.com and today we're going to talk about how to meet men. So if you are having problems meeting men and you want to meet more men or you want to meet Mr. Right or a quality guy or you know the man in your dreams or whatever you want to call them, then you need to be able to go out there and meet men. And so I'm going to tell you how to do it. The first way is the first thing you need to do is go to places where the types of men that you'd like to meet go, right? And so, you know, I get it all the time where women are like, yeah, I want to find this guy who's wholesome and this and that and all these different things. And then they're like, yeah, I go to bars to meet guys. And it's like, yeah, that might be a problem. You might have some problems there. You know, there's lots of places that you can go from yoga studios to hiking to like personal growth seminars to business seminars to I mean, there's just so many different places that you could go to meet men. What you need to do is figure out what the type of man that you would like values, right? And then find out, you know, like what's important to him and where would that guy spend his time? Where would he hang out? Where would he go? And then you will find men like that if you go to places that those guys would go and make it a habit to go to those places. Next is to make yourself open and easy to meet. A lot of women go out and then they're like huddled in this group of other women or, you know, mixed group or, you know, whatever. And then, you know, it's really hard for a guy to go and approach an entire group of people and make it work. You know, there's people in the group that, you know, maybe she's attracted to them or maybe, you know, she doesn't want you to talk to them or, you know, all that kind of stuff. And so the key is to make yourself open and available. If you go out to a bar, if you do go out to a bar and that's what you, that's the kind of guy place that you want to meet guys, then, you know, try to make yourself available alone every once in a while and see if guys approach you because the guy's much more likely to approach you if you are by yourself than he is if you're in a big group. The third thing to do is to invite men to come over and talk to you. So, you know, let's say you're in a coffee shop and you see a guy and you want him to come and talk to you. Best way to do it is to invite him over. Most men, in fact, the overwhelming majority of men will not approach a woman unless he gets some kind of invitation. And the guys that do approach, no matter what, are just the most aggressive guys. They're not the best guys. They're not the highest quality guys. They're not the most masculine guys. They're just the most aggressive guys. Right. And so if a lot of times those are, those end up being sleazeballs and players, right? And so if you want a quality guy, most of them are in the group of doesn't approach unless, you know, has some kind of invitation because approaching can actually be really, really challenging and filled with anxiety and rejection and all kinds of other things. So you just, you know, keep that in mind and have some compassion for guys and invite them over and you're much more likely to meet quality men if you invite men over with your eyes, give them a look and a smile. You can even approach them, which I talk about in other videos and podcasts and on my website and stuff. So the fourth thing that you need to do is encourage men to pursue you. So if a guy comes over and starts talking to you, you need to show them some interest. You make it easy for them, make it as easy as possible for them, right? So you don't want to come on too strong, but you also don't want to ignore them. And so there's a spot in the middle where you're encouraging him to continue pursuing you. So that's it for this video. If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed, lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website and take my quiz. I'm Matthew Coast and I'll speak with you again soon.