 Do you think in 10 years we will regret the way we plan the wedding? Really Jared? This video is sponsored by Squarespace. Whether you need a domain, website or online store, make it fast and make it look stunning with Squarespace. Okay, here's the deal. We're getting married on December 23rd in Temecula, California. At this house that we're renting for four days, so our families can spend Christmas here too. Now we don't have any bridesmaids or groomsmen because we can't pick favorites amongst this incredible group of people. I already have my dress. And I'm still trying to finalize my suit, so what do you guys think? Cream or white? Red or purchase? And what are some interesting ways to incorporate my native roots into my outfit? Our officiator is my uncle. But Shan also has another idea that I'm not too sold on. I think that we should have a small handful of people come up and do a one-minute anecdote on love and marriage to help get us off on the right foot. As a matter of fact, we'd love to read something from one of you. So keep watching to the end of the video to see how your words can be selected to be read before we say I do. We're writing our own vows, but we're down to take in some inspiration. So if you have some good ones, please comment them in the comment section below. Decorations we want to keep minimal, but Jared's family is a hundred on that. The main thing that we're still going back and forth on is the arbor. Should we use the free one or spend a little bit mo for this one? The music will be covered by moi. I definitely will have the whole party grooving and shaking and jumping and moving, you know what I'm talking about. I'm also going to do a wedding song, but there's a problem because I haven't even got started. So I need your help. Should I do a stripped down acoustic vibe song or should I do a full-on shake and tell fella joint? We have not decided on the first dance yet, and this is because we're still arguing about it. I think that we should have our friends and families sing acapella to us as we dance our way into holy matrimony. And I think we should just play this song as it is. So we want to vote. So what do you guys think? Should we have our guests sing acapella or have the song playing in the background? My idea is that we start off with Oasis Wonderwall and then we into Mary J Blige and met the man you're all I need. The food is being done by the culture chef, AKA Chef Steven. And shameless Maya is going to be taking the photos. And we still haven't found a videographer. If you or anyone you know is a dope videographer, we want to bring you on the team so you can capture our moment. The reception is just going to be one giant game night organized by my family, but we still haven't decided. Should we play traditional games or do a murder mystery slash scavenger hunt? That's a little bit more organized. Hey, what's up? There's a certain greeting that we have here on this channel. There's a greeting. That's not it. So you're going to ask, we're going to ask each other questions and we're going to hold up these cars that say yes or no. And then after we're going to see and discuss and explain why we said yes or no. Do you really think they mean? No, or yes. How about let's just say like, we're going to play a quick game. They'll get the gist. Do you think in 10 years we will regret the way we plan the wedding? Really? Jared? Only because, only because, only because that we did not do a big wedding. We're doing a very small wedding. I think because it's just a reflection of the now. It's a reflection of where we're at financially. It is our love in 2018. In 2028, I'm not going to look back and be like, because I probably will be in different circumstances. And then we just renew the vows. Right. So keep it moving. Are you excited for the wedding? I'm actually excited. I mean, I'm excited because it's a celebration of our love. So we get to actually tangibly see, you know, all the people show up that actually love us and love our love. Oh yeah, that's a good answer. But then no offense to anybody. I wasn't in line if it's a small wedding. Do you think the wedding is going to cause a rift or drama amongst our family or friends? So the reason I said yes is because Shannon has members of her family who don't believe, necessarily believe in God. Am I allowed to say this? You can say that. It's a truth. My dad is a proud atheist. My dad is a proud atheist. Okay. And my dad is a proud, very proud, very strong Christian. I actually said yes to this because I'm going to be dead honest with you guys, dead ass honest. We have a very small invitation list and I'm taking it personal, people don't come. Four cousins who really mean a lot to me are not coming. And only one of them has actually reached out to me to like explain. Everybody who I invited, I expect at least a phone call from you. I will say that. You don't have to show up. I get that it's far. I get everything else. I get that there might be discomfort, but at the very least, like... Show up. Yeah. It's going to be a problem if you don't. I can say that, right? You can say whatever you want. It's your wedding. You can say whatever you want. To me, honestly, like it's more important that my family feels pampered and your family feels pampered and treated and that they get like a really great photo. We're going to shoot our actual wedding photos on a different day. So I'm not worried about how we look as much as I want them to feel good about how they look. Because of the fact that our YouTube family has watched our relationship blossom to this point, we were trying to brainstorm ways we can get you guys involved. So we had this idea. We wanted to do a wedding gifts unboxing video and we wanted to open that up to the subscribers. So we opened up a PO box for you to send your own gift. Gifts can be funny, they can be thoughtful, or it can just be a card with a thoughtful note that we can read on camera to show our appreciation to you. Anything that we can't use, we're going to be donating to the Salvation Army. So nothing will go to waste. If you go to the info box below, we're going to do our Squarespace website that's specifically all about the wedding. You can find the PO box there. And also we're like looking for wonderful suggestions from you guys. I love asking people who have already gotten married. What is one thing that you learned from your wedding that you wish you knew before? So now is the time. Fill us up with all that knowledge. Or if you haven't gotten married, there's one thing that you think would be really important for us to know. Write it in the comment section below or even better go on our Squarespace site and put it on our guest wall. I finally have a new website that I'm so proud of. 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