 It is fantastic to have goals. I encourage you to have goals because they provide direction. But once you've come up with a goal, you don't have to obsess over the goal. What you need to do is shift your focus onto the process. The best analogy that I can think of is if you were ever tasked with building a brick wall, don't worry so much about the wall. Put all of your focus into laying each and every brick with care and precision. Because if you can lay each and every brick with care and precision, guess what? The wall will take care of itself.