 It hurts the narcissist more than these three words. These three words hurt them more than anyone else. It irritates them. It confuses them. They don't like it when you say these three words to them. And the three words are I don't care. When you say that to the narcissist, I don't care. They don't like it. It may even cause a narcissistic injury, which you should expect to be followed by narcissistic rage because it will make them very angry. Narcissists want you to care. They want you to see them. Narcissists want to be seen and they want to be heard as well. They want your attention, your validation. They want you to notice them. They want to be something significant and relevant to you. They want to matter to you so that they can feel like they exist because they can't generate that feeling from within. They have to get it from you or someone else and that is why they always need to have supply because they can't generate it from within. If they could, then they wouldn't need you. They wouldn't need you to care so much, but that's what they do. What they do is design to get your attention and lock you in to make you notice them. To make you care because if you don't care, then that means no supply for them because that's what this is all about. It's all about supply. Remember they need supply. They can't just be on their own to themselves without anyone. They need to have that supply on tap 24 hours a day and that may come in the form of primary supply, secondary supply, tertiary supply. It's all supply. That could be an intimate partner, a family member or friend, a boss or co-worker. It could even be, I'll actually forget that, but it could be anyone. It could be anyone at all and sometimes you may not even know who it is, but they always have some supply. They always have someone who cares. They have to and it could be positive attention or negative attention. Some of them that might prefer positive attention, but if they can't get that, they will set off a negative. They will try to provoke you. They'll do anything to get a reaction out of you because that reaction gives some supply and when you do that, you are given your power away because remember they can't generate it from within. They have no power of their own. They have to get it from you and that's why they feed off your reactions. So when you say these three words, I don't care. You can't just say the words. You have to mean it and feel it because they're going to know. The narcissists are predators. They prey on you. So they're always looking at your facial expressions and body language. They're listening to the tone of your voice because they want to know if they get into you. They want to know if they're bothering you and then that is what gives them supply. It's not always about what you say or even what you do. It's more about what you don't say or what you don't do. That sends a message to them as well but when it all comes down to it, that's all they really want to know. They want to know if you care about what they're saying or doing to you because that then tells them that they matter. They make some feel like they exist just by getting that response out of you. So yeah, this video is meant to empower you by giving you these three words and as I said, when you say these three words you have to really mean it because when you feel it, trust and believe that they will feel it too. They will feel it vicariously through you and then it will begin to affect them and it will get to a point where you are affecting them more than they're affecting you just by you not caring because that is their motive. That is their objective to make you care about something they're saying or doing. That's really all there is to it and you can stop that right now by paying attention to your reactions and reminding yourself what are they trying to get me to do. All they're really trying to get you to do is to react. That's all they want is an emotional response because that tells them that you care. That's where they picked you because many of you are empaths and many of you automatically give your emotional response and when you do that it tells them that you care. Some of you may think maybe it's mean if I don't care but that's the thing, if someone has shown that they don't care about you, you shouldn't care about them. You should care about people just as much as they care about you. The person who cares the least in a relationship has the most power. I'll say that again. The person who cares the least in a relationship has the most power. Keep that in mind when you are dealing with a narcissist. Just like to thank you all for watching. This video was helpful. Please give it a thumbs up down below. Share the video, subscribe and if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me you can do that from my website. 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