 This Bible teaching has gotten way out of hand in our society. It's become too normalized and from the words of Jesus in Matthew 5, 27, you have heard the commandment that says you must not commit adultery. But I say anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. So what Jesus is saying here is that even having that lustful desire for another person besides your spouse, we have become a society that has normalized this lustfulness after anyone and everyone. And that is not the way that God intended us to be. Jesus emphasized that if the act is wrong, then so is the intention. And to be faithful to your spouse with your body and not your mind is breaking those vows. I share this first because I think it's so important for us as a society to do our best to get back to those standards.