 Let me see here. I'll see if I'm on this here. Y'all give me a little second. Give me a little text messages out the way. This is a, I don't know, nothing about Nellie and Ashanti. And I don't know a lot about what we talk, what I put in the title tonight, just a lot of people been writing me about it, writing me about it, which we're going to talk about it. I'm going to help y'all understand something. And so, so y'all are kind of understanding a little bit, because when you, when you every day, you know, when you every day law abiding citizens, sometimes you don't really understand because you can't really fathom it. So y'all have to realize that it is, it's risky when you speaking on shooters. That's what you got to realize and see now, if you've never been a shooter, then you don't know how risky it is. You ain't never thought about shooting somebody. You ain't never did it, came close to it. Then to you, it's just like a, it's another conversation. But see, you have to hold on, let me turn off my little thing, because I thought I was talking it. So, you know, everybody don't understand sometimes how this, how this stuff go. So you have to be very careful when you're discussing people who get active. And so, because that activity, because I could always get going. But what I have to do on this is address things and kind of look at it and try to help you better understand it because it affects us subconsciously. So even when, even when we don't think it affects us, it affects us. And a lot of people don't realize how it affects us because the subconscious mind, you know, it does its own thing. Whatever the subconscious mind hears or sees, it accepts it as a truth. That's why people talk about the law of attraction. And they talk about manifestation as really coming from first getting into the subconscious and then the conscious mind confirming it and accepting it and believing it. But the thing about it is, is what the conscious mind perceives. If you don't confront it and refute it, it accepts it as truth. So when we see couples who were couples goals break up, if you don't analyze it and address it for yourself and help and help your conscious mind realize that you know nothing about them and that their life is not your life and that they don't represent you and that their relationship has nothing to do with your relationship and is nothing like your relationship, then you would you will subconsciously start to believe that if they failed, you will fail. So that's why I have to come on here and talk about the celebrity breakups now because I'm realizing this is the work of the adversary. It's the work of the adversary to break people up because every single time a couple that's in the limelight, a couple that's out there, breaks up. Whether people realize it or not, it affects us as a whole. And whether people realize it or not, we start to lose a little bit more hope. So when you see when you see Remy Ma and Papus, which I'm from the south, so their relationship really didn't ever really hit me like that just because I'm from the south. So you see somebody from up north, it's just like a whole another world. It's kind of like how I really don't feel too much about Jay-Z music or Biggie music or Nas music. Like I know they good, but I'm from the south. So I see Jay-Z, Biggie and Nas. That's how I see Ply's trick daddy and Jeezy. You see what I mean? So just that regional difference, it didn't really hit me. But I seen them together and what it looked like to me is what I call struggle love. When I say struggle love, I mean like when you come up together, like when you done been through the struggle, not struggle like bad relationship or struggle like poor, but struggle like you done been through the struggle and you then came up together. But here's what we have to realize is that for one, when you're looking at these celebrity relationships, you never know what's true and what's not. You never know what's a publicity stunt and what's not. That's one thing that you have to drive home in your head. And I know it seems like it's common sense and I know it seems like, you know, duh, we all do that, but we don't. We don't. We actually see other couples. And when I say other couples, I don't mean just celebrities. I mean, like, if your pastor break up, if your pastor go through a divorce, if you don't sit down and really talk to yourself and help yourself realize and understand that you don't know what was going on behind closed doors in a relationship, then you're going to lose a little bit of hope. And you're going to be like, well, man, if they relationship fail, what hope does my relationship have? How can my relationship last? How can my relationship survive? And you're going to feel like that. And so that's why you have to really be intentional about your eyes and your ears, you know, what you see and what you hear. And so this is what you have to realize because, and I'm going to tell you now, men, this affects men more than it affects women because a lot of women are more strong-minded and do what they want to do. Men, we are actually more impressionable than women. That's how they were able to form an army and have black men in America in the army. Now, yes, it was forced at one point, but even after you didn't have to go to jail for being a draft dodger, black men still signed up to go in the army in America, which really in the grand scheme of things absolutely makes no sense because it's like, why are you going to go fight and put your life on the line in another country with somebody who ain't done nothing to you in that other country when you right here being discriminated against? But that show you the mind of men. We're very impressionable. And so men, when men see a breakup like this remin papus, we hear the rumors. But what you got to realize about the rumors is, is 50% of people are going to believe rumors. So if the rumor is that a woman cheated on a man, cheated on her man, and her man was there for her when she was down and out, that right there, it's a good 70% of men going to lose more faith in women. It's a good 70% of men going to lose more faith in women, just off real. And so you have to realize and understand that's why I have to show up on here to help people understand you never know what's going on behind closed doors. And you can't look at somebody's relationship and believe everything you hear. Because what I find out from being behind the scenes in relationships is that sometimes a relationship was over, that people were separated and nobody knew they were separated. And then they'll see somebody with somebody else and be like, oh, he cheated on her or she cheated on him, but they was already separated. So that's another thing we have to realize is that you can't always just assume. Now we did a class, I did a class the other day on looks compatibility, where I was trying to break down looks compatibility and how it works. Well, Remy Ma and Papus are actually looks compatible. They are very looks compatible. They are on the same level. They is on the same level. Now women have access to more cosmetic enhancements that they are more open to like filler and Botox and Morpheus and BBLs and cool sculpting and M sculpt and all the different and microblading lashes make up lace fronts glue in so ends. Women have more access to cosmetic things which could make a ozympic which could make a woman appear that she on another level than a man but you have to strip all that away. When you strip all that away, Remy Ma and Papus, they are a real fit. Now let's say she cheated with buddy. If that was true, we don't know if it's true, but just hypothetically speaking, she not actually looks compatible with this guy, the battle rapper because when you strip her down without all the enhancements and all of that, he already bare bones. Men don't wear makeup. Men don't get filler and jaw symmetry and Morpheus and all of that. So he'll be able, a man can always date two notches up. The reason why men are able to date two notches up is because it's not a whole lot of quality men, eligible men to go around. So a man could be a six and get a woman that's a eight and also because a man provides. So because a man provides, a man could be a six and get a woman that's a eight. So that's what you have to realize that the scales is tipped. I ain't write the rules. I'm just reading the rule book. The scales is tipped on that. So this hill battle rapper, he actually is not looks compatible with Remy Ma. She would be without any, without enhancements, makeup, all that right there, weave and all that right there, she would be a couple of notches under him. But just the thing, what a lot of women don't, what a lot of, yeah, the scales ain't foul, but life ain't foul. Scratch your booty and get glad. But this is what you have to realize now. What a lot of women don't realize is that when you own, when you is on, when a woman is on, you look better to a man. So when a woman is on, I don't know the battle rapper name, when the woman is on, she looked better to a man. The same way when a man is on, he looked better to a woman. So what you have to realize is a man who is considered a seven on a scale of 10 will be with a woman who was considered a five on a scale of 10. If that woman is on, O N, I'm saying O N, not some of y'all own, O W N, O N mean she in her bag, meaning she connected or she got money or she, she already own. A man will be with her to ride her up. He finna ride her escalator. A man will ride her escalator and he will demand will paint a picture to this woman who he sees as looks challenged. A man could see a woman who he feels is looks challenged, but she is owned. He will ride her escalator. Then he will let the natural occur. What I mean by that is every relationship is going to have bumps in the road. So a lot of men and a lot of women, and this one goes both ways, get finessed. A lot of men and women get finessed because when they are owned, they get with somebody who look better than them and have more options. And so what happens is that person ride, they escalator, and when they get to the top, they let a natural relationship problem bring them apart. So this is the deception and this is where the slogan, the phrase, the grass ain't always greener. This is where this come from, because people is leaving somebody who been there for them, who been riding with them, who been down for them when they was broke, when they was ugly, when they was locked up and all of that, and will leave them for somebody who they think look better than the person they with, but don't realize that the person who look better than the person they with is only get them with them for what they have and what they can do for them. Because when somebody look better than somebody else, the person who look better don't want the person who don't look as good. Unless the person who don't look as good got something that the person who look better could benefit from. Don't nobody want somebody who look less than them. But the thing about it is none of us know when we look less than. We even see so this what we have to realize. So the way you know if somebody is riding your escalator is if you couldn't get that person before you was on. See, if before you was on, you was looks compatible with a man who gonna lose his hairline by the age of 30. When you get on, you're not all of a sudden looks compatible with a man who got a full hairline. If before you was on, if the woman you could get do not have edges, when you get on, you're not all of a sudden looks compatible with a woman who got edges. See, just what people forget where they come from. People forget when they was ugly. People forget when they were broke. People forget when they were down and out. And then they get on, they get a little money. And then they all of a sudden think they look better and now they want somebody to look better than the person who was dealt with for them before they had anything. And that's where we go wrong at. That's where we go wrong. So do what you got to realize. Now, in regards to Rian Ma and Papus, they could have been separated for one and it could not be a cheating thing. Two, it might not even be cheating. They just could be breaking up for just whatever done grown apart. Three, they could still be together and this been a run up old bag because this attention and clicks by the turn in the dollars. So we can't just we're not really talking about them because we don't know their business. What we're doing is taking and relating what we see from them based on the headlines and relating it to everyday life to real life because that is an example of what's happening in everyday life. That's the micro or the macro because what's happening with them, that's happening every day where a woman or a man gets on and get some money or get a position. It's kind of like this right here. A woman could get with a man when she in college and she could be with this man and they in college. They get out of college, demand the woman goes and work at a Fortune 500 company and she climbed the ladder from intern to CEO. So now as CEO, she making a half a million dollars a year and she married to her college or high school sweetheart. But because she's so busy and she got to fly around the country, he gives up some of his dreams and he become a stay at home dad. And then she out and about and she meeting all of these big wig men. They tall, they handsome, they muscular and they make 1.5 million. She make a half a million. Now what this woman will do because she on the road so much and she talking to these men and she having dinner with these men and she spending time with these men and she and she around these men. She'll start to think that these men are a better fit for her than her man who been there for her since she was in high school or college. And then she before you know it, she'll start to think that this man that she on the road with that she spending time with who really is the same puzzle piece. See, he the same puzzle piece. If there was a puzzle, they the same puzzle and they stack on top of each other. And what she don't realize is that her man who now is supporting her and filling in the gap, standing in the gap, bridging the gap and he taking care of kids because she's so busy and she traveling around the world. Remember, we talk about everyday life. We ain't talking about remember, mom, Papus, we bring it down to everyday life. Now, she forget that this man who is a stay at home dad is her puzzle piece. He fit around her. He fit around her because he's willing to do what she not willing to do. So while she want to climb the ladder and she want to and she want to travel and she want to do all it is. And she meeting these men who got this money and he traveling they doing all this. See, we get deceive. We get deceive. It's kind of like this right here. The same thing happened with men. Men will get with a woman. Men will get with a woman and then they'll build with that woman. They'll build with the woman. And then the woman become everything he need. So while he traveling, she'll stay home. While he too busy for the kids, she'll give all her time for the kids. But in his travels, he'll meet another woman who he called a boss woman. And then he'll start to admire and be attracted to this so-called boss woman. And then he'll take and leave the woman who is like water. Who conforms and moves and shapes and bends to everything he need. He'll lead a woman who is like water. And then he'll go to the woman that is a boss woman. Not realizing that they both rocks. They don't go together. If you're a rock, you need water. You don't need another rock. So then he'll get with her and then he'll realize that this rock of a woman, this boss woman, she ain't willing to give up and do what he unwilling to do. She want to keep her money, her notoriety, her job, her busy schedule. And he was attracted to that and he was looking down on his wife because she was willing to be home with the kids. She was willing to forego her dreams for a season to be what he needed. And then he'll go to being attracted to a woman who a boss. And then he get that boss and the next thing you know, he started to realize he a candle in her sunshine. And see, this was happening. This was happening for y'all coming in the chat. Y'all just be quiet and you come in the chat, be quiet and read the room. Okay. Thank you. Thank you very much. Just listen, we're not talking about rim and ma and papoose. We're relating this to everyday life. Okay. All right. Thank y'all. All right. Now y'all just be quiet now. Listen. And so this is what we have going on to where we think the grass is greener on the other side. And we will take somebody for granted who the smelt our dirty draws. We'll take somebody for granted who them been smelling our dirty draws. And then we'll be round people who ain't never smelt our dirty draws. And we'll think the people who ain't never smelt our dirty draws like us and got our best interests at heart. And we'll start to become attracted to the people who don't know the inner workings, the creases and crevices of us will become attracted to them. And we'll start to look down on who we got. And we start to want what we don't have. Not realizing that what we got is all that we need. It's everything that we need. So this is the thing. This is the mistake that a lot of couples make. This is the mistake that a lot of couples make. And now I'm going to use rim and ma and them for an example. Okay. Let's look at it like this right here. We're going to use this as an example. Okay. Let's say rim and ma, she out here doing a rap battle lead. If she out here doing a rap battle lead. And let's say she round this guy who the star of the rap battle lead. He moving and shaking. He going to city to city. He winning everything. He showing out. He doing his thing. He bossing up. He bossing up. So guess what? That start to look a tractor. That start to look a tractor to a woman. But then here go Papus. He go over here. He go corporate. He got a nine to five. He head of diversity or head of whatever at tune core. So he got a nine to five. He may not have to travel as much anymore. He got a six figure bag coming in from tune core from a corporate job. So now the man that's moving around and he all over the city and he's taking claim and he he peeing on everything. He claiming territory. He start to look a tractor. He start to look a tractor to a woman. So now a woman start to say, man, I want me a boss. I want me somebody moving around. I want me somebody that could hop on hop on jets or hop on planes, first class and go city to city and shut it down and conquer land. He conquering territory. Ooh, that's a tractor. Ooh, that's a tractor. And then the woman to start to look down on the man who the went corporate who to settle down and who could be there for the kids start to look down on the man who the went corporate. But see this what this what the woman don't realize. If the man who is about town, the man who moving all around the man who could go from city to city on the planes. He's looking good to every woman. And guess what? Whole lot of them women look better than the woman that's looking down on her man that's been there for her from ground zero. So now this man who moving around and he conquering land and he doing all these deals and he and he balling out of control. He got every Instagram model in his DM. He got actresses in his DM. He got all this in his DM. KC, we not talking about Raymond Ma. So hush. Thank you. Now, let's try. I supposed to have more sense than this. We talking about Raymond Ma. We talking about we using them as example. We talking about whether she cheated or not. Okay, we using examples. I tried to tell you now. I don't speak on shooters. That's why y'all see on Bill here talking on on little dirt in all of them. Nah, 21 Savage. We just use that as an example. All right. That's just for you to algorithm. So y'all hush. Nah, we not in the folks business. We don't know what the folks got going on. We using this as a example for everyday life. Nah, where the moderators at moderators sleep in the night. So listen to me. So now this woman she with this man and the man moving around and man moving around. He conquering land and then the man who stand home is just like one time when a young lady she came out and said, these women be coming out saying, I don't want no man with a nine to five. I don't want no man with a nine to five. I want an entrepreneur. I want an entrepreneur. Guess what? Your entrepreneur is entrepreneur her. You know what entrepreneur mean? He ultra renewing her. See, a entrepreneur is a go getter. A entrepreneur is less likely to be faithful than a man with a nine to five. See, a man with a nine to five, he enjoys monotony. If a man enjoy monotony, he also can become accustomed to monogamy. He enjoys routine. He is a creature of habit. So women don't even know what they be talking about when they be saying, I want an entrepreneur. Yeah, he getting to new her. He getting new hers because he is entrepreneur. This what you have to understand. A man who is a entrepreneur is a go getter. He is a hustler. He is a mover. He is a shaker. He get bored with monotony. It is harder for us to be faithful. We have to be renewed by Christ in order for us to be faithful. A man who is a entrepreneur is a cheater unless he is renewed by Christ. Don't come talking to me about your atheist entrepreneur. Yes, you get cheated on. You get cheated on. Point blank period. Take it to the bank. Roll it up and smoke it. Do what you got to do with it. You get cheated on. So this what you got to realize is you got to understand that you got to realize that everything that look good to you ain't good for you. That's what you got to understand. Everything that look good to you ain't good for you. And see this well men and women go wrong and it go both ways. I want you to think about this. A man want a woman with a big booty and a smile. Oftentimes a woman with a big booty and a smile got the dirtiest past because that booty been attracting fleas her whole life. That booty had her under attack her whole life. So a lot of times a woman with a booty then gave out a lot of booty. But a man so attracted to that booty he got to have it and don't realize that the woman with the flat booty begin overlooked. She begin overlooked. So she had as much motion in the ocean as a woman with them floats. The one with the floats go have more motion in the ocean on average. There are exceptions to the rule don't get offended if you got a booty and you got a low body count. You the exception to the rule. We don't talk about this session. We talk about the rule. That's why the rapper said the prettiest people got the ugliest past or the prettiest people got a ugly story. That's true on average. So you have to realize the same thing women chasing men with motion. But guess what a man who got motion every woman want him in the ocean. So just what you have to realize you're inviting problems into your life while you're looking down on the nine to five man. If you're an entrepreneur woman you need a nine to five man because why your butt ripping and running and why are you stressing you need somebody with stability. When your money up and down in the market of entrepreneurship you need a man with stability. A entrepreneur woman can't afford a entrepreneur man because when the market hit and y'all both of y'all products ain't selling. Now y'all boot it up and when you boot it up you're about to be belly up. So what you got to understand is entrepreneur woman need a nine to five man. A entrepreneur man need a nine to five woman because we need a puzzle. See the mistake that people is making is people is looking for their clones. People looking for somebody who do the same thing they do. That is the mistake. If you are a actor you don't need a actress. Why if you in the film industry you don't need a woman in the film industry. That's how you see Denzel Washington and his wife the last. Now yes it's an exception to the rule but guess what that should be organic not what you go seeking out. It should be okay I'm an actor I met an actress we hit it off. We can we can be an exception to the rule but we have people today who are literally seeking out people who do the same thing that they do. A pastor should not want a woman who is a pastor because when he have to be in LA and she have to be in Denver or Dallas who's going to be there with a kid. You see what I'm saying you don't stack puzzle pieces on top of each other. You fit them around one another. And this the mistake that we making in our relationships is we seeking people who do the same thing that we do. Doctors date doctors because they know how to build a career and not a relationship. If you are a doctor and you got to work 60 hours a week it is ignorant to want a doctor who also going to have to work 60 hours a week. If you work 60 hours a week you need somebody who could work from home. You need somebody who don't have to work. You need somebody who don't mind not working. See people going into a relationship trying to do business. A relationship is love. A marriage is not a business deal. Love has nothing to do with business and business has nothing to do with love. That's why the saying goes business is business friends is friends don't put the two in the same sentence. See we mistaken and we don't know love because we don't know God. See God don't go looking for a power move. God take the powerless and make him or her powerful. That's how David defeated Goliath. God takes the powerless and makes them powerful. But see as human we want to be powerful and we want to go searching for people we think are powerful. The best thing I could have done is married a woman who is okay being at home with our children and not feeling that that means she is less than. See a woman who has to who is ashamed to be a stay at home mother because she allows society and she allows people with a big mouth who was raised in a toxic relationship tell her that she needs her own money and that she can't trust and depend on her husband who she was created for a woman who is not spiritually mature will let that message affect her self-esteem and she will forget that being home with your children if you able to is far greater than pushing pencils for a Fortune 500 or Fortune 100 company who will replace you in less than 24 hours when if your children lose you because you too busy your children cannot replace you. See people who allow Satan system to make them feel less than about doing God's work. See God say train up a child in the way that he should go so that when he is old he will not depart from it. See when you too busy pushing pencils for a job you can't train up your child 100% in the way that they should go so if you got a job and your job is stressing you then you can attest to what I'm saying because the tablet and the phone and the video game is raising your child unless you're going to string yourself out and give as much to your child as you giving to your job so this is why a relationship is supposed to bring balance a relationship is not supposed to be too busy professionals and or too busy entrepreneurs and the child being left to child being left to themselves to be raised by YouTube a relationship is supposed to be one person who is super busy busting they behind and the other person who could be flexible even if they work in a job and making money they go get a job that's going to have some flexibility so that when the child need them they could stand in the gap while the spouse have to be at work and have to make moves and that's the mistake that we're making in relationships we're going into relationships trying to do business and instead of going into relationships trying to do love see God is love and God is not conventional God is unconventional that's what the Bible says that's what God say my ways are not your ways God said my ways are higher than your ways my thoughts are higher than your thoughts see we're going into relationships and we're trying to make it all make sense so we're going to say oh I'm an entrepreneur I need an entrepreneur oh I'm a successful I'm a successful person in the corporate world I need somebody successful like me in the corporate world so somebody go get successful and then want to leave a person who is stable because they don't see stability as success so you remember we ain't talking about rimman papoose we just use it as an example if what the headline said was true you got a you got a woman or a man who is moving and shaking they get around somebody who's moving and shaking they get attracted to this other person who's moving and shaking and they start to look down on the person who is stable and who they've been there and now they want something new they want a thrill they want some fun so we just using that as an example we don't know if it's true or not it could be it could be publicity we don't know if it's true or not but we use an example because this was happening every day I'm watching men and women do this do the same thing on an everyday level I'm seeing I don't watch pastors build from ground zero these are men of the cloth these are men who who supposedly know the Lord I'm watching men get a wife at ground zero build with their wife from ground zero and then start to look down on their wife because she's not an evangelist or a prophetess or a millionaire or a boss woman in entrepreneurship or corporate start to look down on her because she done stood 10 told down with this man and she done help him build she done been his backbone she done been his stability but then when he get on she starts to be less attractive because she not moving and shaking she not about town she not about country she not on on planes she not on airplanes and hotels so now he start to look down on her and what he want now he want another pastor who is in airplanes and hotels now he want a pastor who could fill up arenas because his wife was not filling up arenas so now he want a pastor who could fill up arenas now he want a pastor who could be a new york times bestseller because his wife who help him build from ground zero oh she no longer fit enough she no longer fine enough she no longer enough now she was enough to help him go from zero to a hundred she was enough to help him go from nothing from nobody to somebody but now when he somebody oh he oh now he not a spiritually aligned with her no more not a not purpose mates when she help him find her purpose she help him find his purpose she help him build his name she help him go from nobody to somebody and not all of a sudden she not his purpose mate now another woman who already got her purpose who done been built by another man not all of a sudden she is his purpose mate I don't watch this happen in real life I don't watch a man get with a woman and build with the woman from zero to 100 get to 100 and now because his woman is a stay-at-home mom she the first lady of the church but she ain't making no money unless the church put her on salary because she focused on her family and her kids and supporting her husband now all of a sudden she no longer good enough now he won a reality tv producer now he won a self-made millionaire who really this woman these women were built by other men these women were built by they father or built by the ex-husband but these men will look at these women and think oh these women built they self know another man built them another man put them on and now these men will look down on they woman who done been there since ground zero and then go get with a woman who is built who is owned and lead a woman lead a woman for dead these men are the cloth these pastors who doing this so you already know this happening in everyday life you already know this happening in everyday life we've seen swiss beats do it to mashonda when he went and got with alicia key when true be told alicia keys is way more masculine than mashonda that don't even make sense a masculine man don't want no woman who is masculine if he got a woman who is feminine but all of a sudden because a woman got eight grammy's and multi millions and things could get a little shaky in his business now all of a sudden she looked good but the woman don't even realize that this man wouldn't otherwise think she looked good if she have all these accolades and all this money people be missing the point and people be getting finessed because they're listening to the sweet nothings that a liar is telling them so the devil is a liar so the devil put greed on this man or woman heart and then the liar who is being used by the devil will go to somebody who is own and will say to them me and my spouse have grown apart and we are separated at heart and i knew it from the start but you and i look good like art so now i feel it's time that my spouse and i part and that you and i build a arc with a fresh start because what i'm feeling between my spouse and i is hate but what i'm feeling between you and i is a soul mate see this the lie that the devil tell so the devil is a lie he used this liar who won't fame who won't money who won't a platform who want to be known and this person will go to somebody who is own and tell them that they feel that they soul mates and that they supposed to be together and the person who is own is so lonely and so desperate because all that although they money can afford five thousand count thread count sheets they money can't buy no love so they listen to this liar who tells them that they meant to be together and they get finessed because they own them listen to me see i know this i know this so when e-women come in my DM with a big booty and a smile how you doing how you doing man oh yes tony i want to know do you do one-on-one session yes i do how much are they four hundred and fifty dollars oh okay all right if the woman came for the wrong reasons i ain't gonna hear nothing else from her if she won't help she gonna pay me as a professional this is a business transaction this is not relational i'm married i can't do no favors for you because you're fine run me my money i'm married it don't matter what you look like i'm married it's gonna cost you to be in my presence because i'm married it don't matter because your booty sitting up and your breasts sitting up and you got the veneers in your mouth and you got that lace front laid down and you got them eyebrow microbladed and you got that georgio armani luminous silk foundation on and you got them mink lashes on you got them six inch heels on you got that contour dress on it don't matter run me my money i'm married but see look it's a lot of men out here who is suckers and they're getting finessed by a woman who only want them because they own and they will leave their wife who was with them when they was nothing for a woman who only want them because they have become something and it's go the other way too it is women who is cheating on a husband who is a stay-at-home dad being everything to them children because she is out with a man who is a quote unquote boss and what she don't realize is that that boss man do not want her for nothing other than a joint bank account and for the thrill to say he took another man's woman and women is getting tricked out they draws because they got a ugly duckling syndrome and because they got money and fame they think now they look good and they think this boss man really want them when all he want is opm other people money this boss man only want this woman for her money for her connections and for her access but she too blind to see it so she will look down on the man that's been smelling her discharge thongs and forget that he doesn't see discharge green yellow white enum crusty thongs and she will go get with a man who has never seen crusty thongs not realizing that he only won't her for her money her connections her name and for her fame this is happening every single day to men and women around the country who is being finessed and tricked out their money it's the same way black china did rock Kardashian it's the same way swiss beats did elisa keys this is what's happening this what's happening is people is getting money but they lonely and then they get finessed by somebody who want to live off their name who want to make a name off their name who knew this person before she made him her man but none of us we ain't talking about rim and mom and pat poof we relating this to everyday life stop becoming the superintendent or the ceo or the manager or the owner and then getting finessed by somebody who want to be next to you at the gallows and at the invite only parties in the city because you know the mayor and you know the governor and you know the pro athletes in the city so now because you lonely you let somebody who would not have otherwise wanted you if you did not make six figures now you let them finesse you and get in your circle and now you think you somebody now you think you really him or you really her no you is them the they them and you getting used because you got to remember when you was ugly meaning before you had money and could afford that 700 that $700 so in or that $1200 so in or that $3,000 so in before you had money before you could get them get that $1300 install who wanted you then men without a hairline men with crooked teeth men with a little bit of a record don't get promoted and then all of a sudden think that this six foot four man with a six pack of abs and all 32 t all of a sudden want you no man do not forget that your ex look like Shawshank Redemption do not forget that your ex look like who shot John and forgot to kill him do not forget that your ex look like the bike of a 57 Buick do not forget oh how we forget when we get a promotion that you forget your ex was five foot six but now because you got a promotion men on the job that's over six foot tall all of a sudden want to be with you that is a lie you did not grow and change and look no different the same person that you was looks compatible with before you got that money before you got that promotion that's the same person you look and compatible with now do not be deceived before I became who I am today the women who wanted me did not look like the new did not look like Jennifer Lopez did not look like Halle Berry did not look like the new uh Laurie Harvey which guys think she pretty she she she's a pretty lady but she's not she don't look like what people be making out she look like they didn't look like that so if I was a single man making a million dollars plus a year I'm gonna remember that the women who wanted me was on government cheese the women who wanted me car window did not let down women who wanted me car used to sound like a 400 pound man snoring anytime they cut their acquisition on I am not going to forget who wanted me before I became him these men get money and forget they was ugly the women get money and forget they will look challenge if your nose is turned up and I could see up your nose and I could see all your nose has there is a certain type of person that is okay looking up your nose do not get money and a job and all of a sudden think that your other half supposed to look like a bill of health that your other half supposed to look like they just stepped out of magazine you got to realize or understand that your other half still look how look how they used to look if when you was in high school if all you could get is is a short person then when you get money and fame you need to stay with the short person you need to stay with the short person this is what I try to tell y'all stop getting finessed and I did a one minute video today and people and it was somebody that I had to block because they were talking about oh this video must mean somebody he know to try to push up on his wife let me tell y'all something like this I'm never going to come to social media with me and my wife business I am a public servant when I make a video it about you it's for you not me y'all got to understand I am one of the top life coaches in the world this is not a personal vlog I don't come on here with me and my wife business I am not a vlogger I am a teacher I did a video earlier today telling me do not mess with another man woman or you are eventually going to lose your life and people oh he must be talking about his wife no the day my wife birthday reason why I'm on his live because both of us had soccer practice she had soccer practice with our youngest and I got soccer practice with our oldest that's how I'm on his live he's like oh he must be talking about him and his wife listen if my wife if a man was messing with my wife for one he going to meet the Lord but I'm not a rapper I'm not going to come on social media and talk about it if I got to send somebody to meet the Lord I'm like dummy use your brain I'm not no rapper if I'm going to send somebody to meet the Lord you ain't gonna never come on social media but what I'm sending this message out is because the devil is a liar the devil comes who still kill and destroy so the goal of the devil is to make you think that it is okay to deal with somebody else partner and the reason why the devil make you think it's okay to deal with somebody else partner is so he could kill all three of you because the wages of sin is death so when you in adultery you're going to die either from a deep disease or either from a knife or a bullet so what I'm telling you is so people like oh somebody like well what about the woman who's doing it two wrongs don't make a right so if somebody in a relationship and they want to cheat with you you are dumber than them if you cheat with them when you know they in a relationship and they already making a dumb decision by wanting to cheat with you if you cheat with somebody that you know is in a relationship you are twice as dumb as them and y'all finna make the movie dumb and dumber too and you're going to end up dead because you should never play with hearts you don't ever play with hearts and so if you in a relationship and you want to cheat you need to leave if you don't want the person that you cheating with to lose their life or if you don't want the person that you no longer love to lose their life you need to be responsible and not cheat you need to leave now remember we ain't talking about rimming mom and papuza we don't know they've been and we relating it's the real life this is what you got to realize it is dumb to mess with somebody else partner because you lonely if you are the other woman or you are the other man you are the trash can they taking the trash out of their relationship and they dumping it on you if you are the other lover you are the trash can and the person that you are dealing with who is cheating on their partner is the trash you are the trash can and they are the trash you need to understand this there should be no cheating on the face of the earth because you should be taking enough time to get to know someone to find out if they have someone and if you find out that they have someone and they trying to have you as a as a romantic interest that need to be your last conversation if they trying to be with you romantically because both of y'all will burn in hell do not feel like you is innocent because you are being told that their relationship is dead if the relationship is dead then they shouldn't have no connection and no ties to that person unless they got children but if they still married on paper or they still living with that person then you as a trash can if you dealing with them and they is trash for dealing with you so both of you is dirty and stank and you stupid and you dumb and you are setting your life up to die early and I want you to hear the brevity of this so that you do not take this lightly because the reason the show snapped and unsolved mysteries and cold case files exist is because of cheaters when you watch them shows nine out of ten times the death is from a relationship love triangle every nine then it have or a toxic relationship every nine then it have to do with the lotto or something crazy nine out of ten um people dying over relationships you have to stop playing because the bible say that the wages of sin is death and the bible say that if you mess with another man wife that man will not have mercy on you when he get his hands on you because his woman may be foolish his woman may be burning with desire his woman may be being abused his woman may be acting out of pain so therefore that means she is not in her right man her right mind but if you as a man and you dealing with another man woman you know that woman not in her right mind you know that woman is in a traumatic state you know that woman is in a loss and broken state and guess what you playing with your life and you're gonna get that woman kill or you're gonna get yourself killed why they said the rapper mode three was killed why they said the rapper trouble was killed why they said pop smoke was killed why they said Sean Taylor was killed how they said King Bond was killed a lot of these killings is dealing with not just opposition not just rival games a lot of it is being set up by a woman that the man is sleeping with and when you're sleeping with a woman outside of marriage is sin the wages of sin is death you're gonna die spiritually or you're gonna die physically you're gonna die financially or you're gonna die physically you're gonna die emotionally or you're gonna die physically but the wages of sin is death so that's what I need to understand listen y'all better stop cheating if you got to cheat you need to leave because see the first time you cheat God gonna grant you grace hopefully but when you take grace for granted that grace gonna run out and you're gonna lose it all if you got to cheat you need to leave and again we ain't talking about rimming ma and papoos we talking about everyday life we just using them as an example they just put a title for the algorithm that's it baby gotta do it gotta do it this is what I need to tell you don't mess with another woman man don't mess with another man woman you're going to lose your life in one way or another figuratively or literally you're gonna lose it we need to have integrity if you are cheating right now I want you to know that you have chosen to become the scum of the earth and you are going to burn in hell if you do not repent today and change from your wicked ways if you are dealing with somebody who is in a relationship you are the scum of the earth and you are going to burn in hell and you're gonna lose it all if you don't turn from your wicked ways cheating is not cute it is dumb it is stupid it is blasphemous and it is going to cost you your life I am sending you a warning you're gonna lose your children you're gonna lose your job you're gonna lose your friends you're gonna lose your family you're gonna lose it all ass male Tucker ass male Tucker google male Tucker the man married he want to talk to this woman on the phone he want to get frisky he want to whip out and he admit it to whip it out he whipped it out on the phone he went to jiking it on the phone he talking about it's consensual she said no it ain't he a black man she a white woman Larry Nasser Nasty Nasser then already ruined Michigan State for molesting over 300 little girls he doing 100 plus years in prison the problem got they probably got them in solitary confinement because they he get hand put on him he gonna get killed the day they let him in gin pop he gonna lose his life unless he enough topping everybody off sloppy topic for every man in there that's the only way Larry Nassar gonna make it in that prison if he enough topping every man off who want to get topped off tossing salad everything on the way he gonna make it but Larry Nassar ran Michigan State in the ground so here come male Tucker the black man after Nassar got away with it for over 20 years for over 20 years the black man signed a 95 million dollar contract and the white woman say he jacked this thing on the phone with me lost it all lost it all 95 million flushed down the toilet the wages of sin is death he done had a career suicide if you take as a school and you pick up this man who'd have been punished for sexual harassment you are standing direct in direct opposition against the Me Too movement and we live in a society that we live in council culture and we live in a society that is a woman say you did it you did it unfortunately but guess what I have found out that women ain't out here just lying like that there are some women that lie now but not out of 10 times the truth getting told you know why I know that because ain't that one I'm lying on me ain't that one I'm lying on me and if they lie on me they don't have to go tooth and nail they don't have to have screenshots video everything and I'm turning in everything I'm turning in laptops I'm turning in cell phones I'm releasing my password for all social media so everything could be forensically audited to see that she lying but see guess what Mill Tucker deleted all his text messages the lady he was messing with deleted all her text messages she talked about she won a fresh start no you didn't because women don't delete a text message unless they got something high women don't delete a text message unless it was from some physical harm woman ain't been delete no text message when a man got 95 million on the line and they was thousand miles away from each other and he allegedly pulled his thing out on the phone you need to leave no text message off of that come on now come on now I was born yesterday but I stayed up all night come on now you need to leave no text message on no fresh start now you don't need no fresh start from a man allegedly touching himself thousand miles away when you know went through a hundred times worse than that come on now we got to be honest about this thing but see listen when they got in that mud they got in that mud and he started canceling her money he started canceling her money see this what you got to realize the wages of sin is death so you went when he went to play around and he went to bring it on in because he wanted to see that booty he wanted to see that booty because I'm gonna tell you men I know men men do not bit more care about what that woman talking about then demand on the moon especially football players if she was talking to lacrosse or she was talking to golf teams and tennis teams maybe and basketball teams I could kind of believe that the coaches actually have a concern football is the most vile sport on the face of the earth we get so many concussions playing football we don't care about nothing when you play football you don't want to hear what this woman coming here to talk about these coaches is bringing this woman in for publicity or to see her beauty in person but nobody gonna tell that truth now you're gonna have access to the rule but it's gonna be one or two so guess what male Tucker was proof that that's why coaches bring her in to see how close they could get to her and he got too close he got too close he took he put his hand on the burner and got burned missing state fighter now he might sue and get him some money out of it but he brought it in for the wrong reasons because if he didn't bring in for the wrong reason he would have never been on the phone with her after midnight and he would have never pulled that thing out and went to whacking it and the thing about it is had he said that is a lie she making this up because he canceled because I canceled two of her engagements three of her next three engagements and so that's 30,000 dollars she lost she's now lying on me had he said that it would have been he said she said he went out there and said yeah I was on that phone whacking that thing but it was consensual so not all she got to say is no at one consensual you did that without my permission and now although they grown you got a cold ethics you got a cold conduct with that school fired guess what guess what still still legally married he did need my looks compatibility teaching because if he heard if he knew that he would nowhere near looks compatible with that woman and that he better be happy that it was a woman willing to marry him with that set of ills with that set of ills if you get you a woman and you got you a set of ills you better you better lock it down shut it down and be a hundred percent faithful when you out here looking like who shot John and forgot to kill him and you messed around to get you a woman that's willing to marry you you better not never had an audacity to want to cheat I don't care how much money you make you better stay faithful to that woman when you got a face that only a mother could love I can't believe and that's what's just disgusting me when we get out here and we got a face that only mama could love and we got the nerd of cheap there's a dumbest thing I've never seen and then we got people that's willing to cheat so it's like this right here ma'am if you know this man married and he goes again frisky on that phone what is you on the phone for if you know this man finna get frisky and you know he married not you just as guilty as he is if you stay on the phone come on now come on now we got to do better we got to do better but hey god bless you all I got to go practice get over at nine my son probably be here any minute now a lot these though I'm probably in here with all kind of breath in here you know you go to talking go to talking too much mouth go again hot go to tasting that tongue in the roof of your mouth son get in here all kind of breath in here I feel these mints all kind of bro listen to me if you're cheating you need to repent or if you're cheating with somebody you allowing somebody to cheat with you you need to repent you need to repent or you bust hell wide open because the lord come back tonight or you lose your life tonight you're going to hell in a handbasket with gasoline draws on you need to repent you need to be ashamed of yourself and this one way right here this one right right here that y'all know ain't cheating so for y'all dumb idiot men oh he probably cheating on it why oh he doing this to get some pee boy you stupid you think I'm finna get on live and tell a woman if she cheating with another woman man that she is the scum of the earth you think I could get on here and say that if I'm cheating you know how that jump off gonna feel you know how that other woman gonna feel like a piece of trash she finna be on the blog tomorrow dummy this how you got to know when somebody not playing the game we give away the whole game and know that don't make me a simp it make me a man because I'm man enough to stand on what I stand on I'm man enough to have standards I'm man enough to be a man of my word I'm man enough to honor my covenant with my wife my covenant with my children if I cheat on they mama I'm cheating on them if you're cheating you ain't no man if you're cheating you ain't no woman you ain't even human you as a demon and you have been turned over to a reprobate mind and you need to fall on your face and you need to cry out to God and you need to repent if you're cheating with pornography if you're cheating with a rose what that pastor brought in the pool pit dummy how you gonna bring a sexual toy in the pool pit trying to be cool you just trigger the woman who just tried to get off the rose last night now you don't come in there using the rose as an example and then y'all want to talk about touch my anointed and do my prophet no harm y'all is not anointed is more anointed in this van right now than you than experienced in your whole life y'all is not anointed and y'all is not no prophet if you can't have enough wisdom knowledge and understanding discernment and discretion to know that you don't bring a vice into the church to paint a picture you is running out of sermons and if you butt that down bad out of sermons get on chat GPT and say give me 52 biblical sermons for the year and let chat GPT be your anointed if you don't ran out of anointed to the point you got to bring a vice into the church got the reprobate mind pastors bringing roses somebody ain't even watched the video I didn't even watch the video because I don't care what he was saying I don't care what he was doing you do not bring no sex toy into the church if you need to resign from preaching and you need to get on on youtube with me if you ain't got enough sense to know that God's temple should not be defiled you can't do everything in the church that you could do on youtube you don't take no sex toy into no church you don't take Beyonce music into the church you do not take no secular music into the church God is sacred you do not mix the sacred with the profane that's why you have not heard me say a single curse word I do not use profanity because I want God to live within me so the most you're gonna hear from me is a righteous indignation the verbal representation of Jesus flipping over the tables in the temple that's the most you're gonna hear from me you never gonna hear no curse word because I do not mix the sacred with the profane God cannot reside in my heart if I got sin and filthy lucre in my heart lasciviousness in my heart y'all need to fall on your face and repent because if you don't fall on your face satan is going to take you to the mountaintop he's gonna show you the world and he gonna stab you in your back and then kick you in your behind and millions is going to walk you fall to your spiritual financial emotional and possibly physical death you do not play with God stop playing with God because you're gonna get as communicated from the body and when Satan get his hands on you see you got to realize I need you to understand something about God when saying get his hands on you if God or let a faithful man go through what Job went through what you think God gonna let a man that's being turned over to a reprobate mind go through you better fall on your face tonight and repent you better get out that pornography and stop being a punk you better stop jacking off you better stop cheating on your wife and if you're a woman doing it you need to stop it too and if you're doing it don't let the name of God come out your mouth unless it's in repentance do not step foot in that pool pit again with your nasty hand jacking off and watching that porn you need to change your life and you need to fall on your face and repent because I'm sending you a warning right now I'm sending you a warning right now from the kingdom of heaven you got to be exposed you are about to be exposed if your wife got a headache then read your bible and pray if your wife got a stomach ache read your bible and pray if your wife menstrual on read your bible and pray I don't want to hear now an excuse come out that sin come out that sin for that sin come out you and you be on your death bed spiritually financially emotionally and God forbid physically hey the tone of gas I got to go my son in him got to go he needed to hear that too get that sin on his life yeah get that sin off you like what you listening to rat now this guy's capping this guy's capping what you listening to sin see they'll get that sin out of life this is we got to get these kids together too get them all all the way into the kingdom hey god bless y'all we'll talk soon get that sin out your life boy all right get that sin it's already in get that