 Hey Psych2Goers, and welcome back to another video. Before we start, we would like to give a great big thanks for all of the love and support that you've given us. Psych2Go's mission is to make psychology and mental health more accessible to everyone, and you help us do that. Now, back to the video. Do you have someone special in your life that you would do anything for? You take care of them and show them how much they mean to you. But what if the person you put first always puts you last? How do you know when someone you love doesn't care about you as much as you care about them? Here are eight tell-tale signs that you're not their priority. One, they always show up late. Do they show up hours late to meet up with you? Punctuality conveys good manners, courtesy, and discipline. When your friend, family member, or partner constantly shows up late, it shows that you may not be a priority for them. Arriving late to every get-together shows that they don't respect your time, and they don't really care about making you wait for them. Two, they cancel on you at the last minute. Does your friend frequently cancel on you at the last minute? Does your partner always standing you up only to later text you their excuses for why they couldn't make it? They're so willing to ditch you the moment something better comes along. They're ignorant about how excited you were to see them or the preparation you've done for your get-together. Three, they exclude you from things. Does this person rarely invite you to group activities or to hang out? Even with your mutual friends? Do they plan parties or weekend getaways and leave you out of the picture? When you always think to include them, they never extend the offer of invitation back to you. Being excluded hurts, especially when it's done by someone you love and trust. Unfortunately, it's a clear sign that your feelings aren't mutual and that they don't prioritize you as much as you prioritize them. Four, they don't remember special occasions. What makes every celebration feel special isn't the expensive gifts or the fancy food or the party. It's being surrounded by the people you love and appreciate. So if you notice a certain someone who's always absent during special occasions, then that's a definite red flag. Whether it's a birthday, an anniversary, graduation, or a promotion, this person never puts in any effort for you. They don't buy you a present, they don't celebrate with you, and they don't even bother to greet you or congratulate you. Sometimes it may even slip their mind entirely. Five, they don't make things up to you. When you do something to hurt or disappoint a loved one, a lot of us feel like it's the least we can do to try and make it up to them. Whether it's through a thoughtful message or a simple favor, we do our best to show them that we're sorry. As your friend or significant other, think that a simple or insincere apology is all it takes to fix things between the two of you. The fact that it's so easy for them to shrug you off when you're upset with them shows that you're not as big a priority in their life. Six, they never take initiative. Communication is key to making any relationship work, be it platonic or romantic. So if this person never takes the initiative to reach out and talk to you, even just every once in a while, then it means they're not willing to put in the effort to maintain the relationship. They don't text first, they don't return your calls, and they never make plans with you. These are all signs of apathy and disinterest. Seven, they don't make time for you. Do they always decline your invitations to hang out, chat, and catch up because they're too busy spending time with other people? If so, it means that they don't value you as much as their other relationships. The effort that someone else puts in making time for you is a reflection of their interest in you. Even the busiest person can find time for the ones who matter most to them. Eight, they make you feel alone even when you're together. Are they always on their phone when you spend time with them, or seem distant and indifferent whenever you talk to them? Do you ever get the sense that they'd rather be somewhere else when they're with you? If they make you feel lonely even when you're with them, it's a sign that something is seriously wrong in your relationship with this person, and that you may not be as high on their list of priorities as they are for you. Do you relate to any of these signs we've mentioned here? Is there anyone who came to mind while going over these points? If there is someone in your life who isn't treating you as their priority, what do you plan to do next? Let us know in the comments below. Remember, you deserve to feel valued and appreciated. Know what you're worth, and don't settle for less than what you deserve. As Maya Angelou once said, never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option. If you found this video helpful, be sure to like and share it with someone who might benefit from it. Don't forget to subscribe to Psych2Go and hit the notification bell icon for more content. And as always, thanks for watching.