 see here I couldn't share this as a post y'all let me know if you can hear me okay y'all have cut out because I was sharing a post so it cut off but um should it be back now yeah some of y'all late some of y'all late on here so you showing the replay when y'all watching the replay so now we have to see all night people saying it froze this choppy all rest of the night when they come on and looking at the replay not realizing that it's live and I got my little air pod in so hopefully y'all can hear me had to keep my my light on I mean my ac on up there and got me some bubble gum in my mouth so with this air pod y'all might hear me smacking in your ear but um and then not somebody tell my there's no volume so how somebody can hear somebody say ain't no volume why I tell you boy why I tell you and uh YouTube because the way YouTube is people can be on here all time a day and so they have people working around the clock at YouTube and so they'll have people in Pakistan people all over you know working YouTube Palo Alto give me a call Palo Alto give me a call because y'all to change the live when you go from your phone y'all to change the live to where you can't do members only so you can't set it as members only then when you own the live on your phone and you click share when you share it to your community page as opposed it shuts your live off if you're not tech savvy you're gonna be like where my live went and then you got to go back to the plus sign click that click go live again and then it'll bring your live back and then you didn't used to be like that and I'm gonna tell y'all listen to me I'm gonna tell y'all y'all lockdown Palo Alto you're getting bored you're getting bored I know them people is paying you to program but you don't have to just keep programming programming programming programming like stop fixing something that's not broke now y'all bring them out there and give me a piece of their company and let me help y'all scale to the next level because y'all keep breaking stuff that's not broken and and then y'all hating because y'all set up the memberships but then you don't want people to do a live for just a members because you want the drama and you want the people that's not members to be all in your chat and for those of y'all who not a blessed tribe member you don't see that little sign by your thing technically y'all not supposed to be talking but I'm letting y'all talk because YouTube letting y'all talk so keep yourself together now because you will get blocked you will get blocked and then the thing about it is the reason why you won't members only is because sometimes when you talk about real topics the people you talk about a go make a fake account and then be in a chat trying to cause issues and then I got to be watching it and be blocking it son and rain need to join the blessed tribe now you're gonna be all in the chat now now when I get my computer locked up in my office that's why I couldn't go live on my computer had I been able to go live on my computer I could have set it on members only and so now don't y'all be on here asia and life in the spirit don't y'all be on here talking too much now because y'all not in the blessed tribe so I'm just letting y'all know now typically it's just to be the blessed tribe on the chat and everybody could watch now but it's typically just for the members to be on the chat but to the members I want to let y'all know I didn't open the chat YouTube did that and one of my clients wrote reached out to me because she got a big YouTube and she said Tony did you notice YouTube changed and I said I sure did that's why when I got ready to go live I didn't do live because they then changed it from where you can't select members only and they then made it a very bare bones basic little setup to where you can't really do what you need to do so Palo Alto come on now I'm paying y'all 45% a month y'all need to get this together because y'all out there taking thousands of dollars a month out of people pocket y'all need to have this hill running the right way okay so understand that CJ Wilson joined the blessed tribe now and and and also CJ we don't do talking on hill with cats you got to have your real picture so listen if y'all don't have a real picture y'all stay out the chat because I do not want to talk the inanimate art objects or none of that y'all got to have a real picture now listen to me now y'all get it together I'm just letting y'all know just laying the ground rules for this first little bit because you know we really ain't gonna get started real real by eight o'clock so y'all join the blessed tribe now yeah Jordan what you waiting on now come on now join the blessed tribe because when I get on my computer it's been to be members only okay members only God bless you now thank y'all thank y'all God bless you now listen I appreciate flowers but I don't like flowers okay what I mean by that is I appreciate the flowers and it mean a lot the other thing was a mother Teresa that said let criticism nor praise change you and so that's why I really don't you know y'all tell God thank you and for what he's doing in our lives and I wanted to come on here because I'm just I am just perturbed man and the reason being is because a young lady sent me a picture of her DM where there was a man who DM her and said asking her he said to her I'm following I see you following Tony Gaskins and so I'm reaching out to you because he was a mentor of mine on the mindset and all of this and I want to know your experience so this man checking on me me a random woman now a random woman this woman don't have no large following I ain't never shouted this woman I ain't no posted this woman ain't no nothing he's just reaching out to her and then the man don't even follow me but he followed my wife now I almost put a hit out on but I said Lord I said Lord so what I told my wife I say go on your follow list and remove him as a follower so he understand yeah I see you boy don't be following my wife if you don't follow me because my wife ain't motivating online so don't be following my wife if you follow me now and I realized that there was a influencer who was following me a woman and so I've fallen back my clients and you know verified accounts and stuff like that and just look one person at a time and I realized this young lady husband she got a husband so I follow her he's an influencer you know and all of that so I live by the same rules I heard a little clicking now y'all forgive me and so when I've seen that right now I'm like this clown is in women DMs asking them about me what was your experience with tonic gas and they want me don't know me they want me don't know me what in the world are you trying to gain if you want to just shoot your shot shoot your shot don't be mentioning me and so then I realized that it's been a lot of relationship coaches and a lot of life coaches saying tonic gas is my mentor and let me tell y'all lady something let me tell y'all lady something every man got to stand on his own two feet don't you ever in your life don't you ever in your life just the every woman who hear this who watch this video don't you ever in your life give another man merit based on him saying another man name don't you ever think that just because I'm married and I'm faithful to my wife that because another man say my name that we cut from the same cloth don't you ever think that now he could be cut from the old cloth I was cut from and he could be cut from the new cloth but I don't know him I don't know him I don't know no man closely I don't know no man closely enough to stamp him I don't know nobody that close I got one homeboy that I know close and that's Russ that I know real close like over since we've been adults before that all my homeboys only knew them up until 12th grade so if a man ever come to you and say I'm his mentor or he know me you reach out to support at tonicgaskin.com and you ask do tonicgaskin know this man and I see every email that come in on support if you put in the caption tonic do you know this man because he say he know me if I know him I'm gonna tell you yeah I know him but I don't know him like that because I don't know no man like that I'm I don't I have never been close to men when I was in college I had me a woman that I was up under all the time my teammates I played college football a lot of my teammates it'll be up to 12 or 13 um we about to some of us about to be up there in West Virginia because we getting inducted to the Hall of Fame or our team getting inducted to the Hall of Fame it'll be 12 or 13 um and I'm and y'all watching this hey here's what it is now here's what it is they will be sitting in the room watching the nasty and I'll be up on the middle woman and I'll pop in there like man what y'all in here doing man what it look like we doing man we watching this here watching this here pee and and I just didn't understand that but I guess because it was early 2000s and they had a 13 inch TV and used to just be sitting in there just watching the nasty on that 13 inch TV and I couldn't wrap my mind around that for the life of me I was out there trying to make me some I wasn't gonna sit there on the floor in him in his bunk bed and sit there on the floor be looking at looking up at the 13 inch this little old TV this big I'm about done you hit me and that's how I was living and I ain't proud of it but listen to me the one reason and this is what I want you to understand the one reason why I do what I do today is because for one I changed my life so when you look at when I started this journey when I started this journey was 2007 is when I wrote my book I didn't really get going like I didn't really get serious until 2010 so I was three years in the incubator I was three years but I wrote my first book giving the game away at 2007 I published the book on February 1st I got married on March 30th so I got married and I still wasn't where I needed to be I still wasn't all the way there meaning I hadn't fully made up my mind that marriage was for me and this what a lot of people want to admit to because and a lot of people who are receiving messages expect to receive messages from Jesus Christ everybody got a story to tell God made one perfect man and that's Jesus Christ and that's what we got to understand that's that's my sister-in-law birthday to March 30th and my wife would have told me it was my sister's birthday I wanted to marry on sister's birthday to take away her sister's birthday I couldn't wait it was the 31st now come on I could be at 29 that was my college football number 29 could be at 29 so listen I got married to my wife because I knew she had all the qualities that a wife could have and we had got pregnant so we had got pregnant and I had told my mama because my father was in the home I had told my mama mama if I get a woman pregnant I don't care if she is a prostitute I'm going to marry her and I'm going to raise my children because if I'm man enough to lie down with a woman unprotected and get her pregnant I got to be man enough to stand up beside that woman and marry her and raise my children because when I have children it's no longer about me and what I want it's no longer about me it's about that child because that's a whole human being who did not ask to be here and I'm gonna tell you the reason why I started doing what I'm doing is because for one I was in the streets selling drugs in 2007 and one of my homegirls brother I'm gonna tell you the real story I'm gonna tell you the real story and then I'm gonna talk to it to y'all fake relationship coaches in 2007 my homegirl that we dated for a day we grew up together playing basketball together she was on my basketball team her brother was dating white women in college I wrote her and I said now this back in the early days now this in the early 2000s no this 2006 I wrote her and I said listen tell your brother to be careful with those white women now to all my whites that's watching this I'm telling you a real story that's all I could keep it blood right now so if you sensitive this I ain't the one for you because for me I got to be authentic I'm not going to be sugarcoating and all of that like the other clowns out here like these clowns out here sugarcoating and trying to talk proper and know they come out the dog on slums and barely them read a book trying to talk all proper and all letting all we got to be authentic we got to be real listen to me now so I told I say listen tell your brother be careful with those white women now because that still ain't all the way accepted it's 2006 at this time but that ain't all the way accepted now and she said well Tony what made you stop doing it and I say well I start to see the fallout I start to see I start to realize that them white women daddy don't like me and don't want me with their daughter so I'm not finna be with this white man daughter if he don't want me to be his son-in-law I also said I'm seeing what the kids is going through these biracial kids in 2006 now I went to school with a biracial boy and he wrote an essay and he said that he was he felt like an Oreo he said he really didn't know who to be he said I'm not white enough for the whites and I'm not black enough for the blacks he said I love my daddy's daddy was white and he said I love my mom his mom was black he said but I don't know what side to choose so when I read his essay this was my homeboy this was my point guard I was in the 10th grade he was in the sixth grade he was on our varsity basketball team and he was the starting point guard and sonny rain calm down now when you're talking bad about people and he said that he felt like an Oreo so for me I put other people before myself and I say if I bring a child in the world if this world is not accepting of my child's race meaning if my child has an identity crisis even worse than what I'm dealing with as a black person I say I don't want to do that I don't want to do that to my child so I had a white girlfriend at the time in the 10th grade I went to and I said hey we have to break up she's like why she's like you know I love you I was like we really don't even know what love is and I say and I say then too I just read this essay from my homeboy and I can't have my child going through that because it sounds like this may end up being you know ready to end it all and I started to notice that a lot of those children was having an identity crisis on a whole other level it was different than the black in America identity crisis it was different than the Haitian in America identity crisis it was different you know because well from in Florida black Americans would pick on Haitian Americans and Haitian had it worse than just black because there was like a double minority because it was like not only are you black you also blacked from an island with an accent and you your parents came over from Haiti so you were you hadn't been in America as long so you hadn't got established and I my best homeboys was Haitian guys and it was the nicest they never had problems they never was you know nasty they weren't like black Americans but yet they got picked on they got talked about they got mistreated but yet it was the strongest people and so when I seen the mixed kids black and white in the south in the early 2000s man listen that was a whole another struggle and so they literally had to like cold switch they had to be at all the way white or they had all the way black it was almost like they couldn't embrace both sides of them and so this is really real now there's some real stuff what we talking about so she said to me and this is how God will push you in the purpose my homegirl said to me she said Tony because I was writing a book called force to be hard at that time and I was writing a book called force to be hard because all of us almost every guy knew went to the streets even those of us from two parent homes the streets was still a rite of passage and so money none this is not a Q&A it's not a Q&A but we do have coaches for that on my mentor.life somebody put my mentor.life in the chat and you go on there and click hire a coach and then click the filter and then click on we got autism caretaker coaches that's outside of my scope though and so what I was saying somebody come on ask a Q&A without reading the room and throw them out now y'all start interrupting the spirit now and so let me backtrack oh my homegirl I was writing a book called force to be hard I reached out to my homeboy who got sentenced to three life sentences I said hey man do you want to tell your story because we grew up together we was in the ninth grade we played on the basketball team together we used to ride riding each other I used to ride in his car and I stayed the night at his house and we was real tight and then yeah you can listen lotus not lotus then I just say y'all start asking questions now y'all throw them off on here now come on now y'all start asking questions it's not a Q&A it's not a Q&A now y'all calm down now let me send you over there through the fake relationship coaches now and so I'm writing a book called force to be hard I wrote my homeboy who got sentenced to three life sentences for for taking the life allegedly taking the life he got mad later told my sister he was mad with me because I assumed he was guilty and it's like bro come on now it's like come on bro come on I know you I already know what y'all was into I already know what y'all had going on so it's like come on now it's like I'm trying to help the youth I'm trying to get you some stripes in heaven you finna sit behind these bars you might as well do some good with your story and then my sister boyfriend was doing 15 years and he was doing 15 years so I talked to her about writing his story but at that time he was still learning how to read and write he had graduated school but he was still learning how to read and write so it was a struggle she could read what he wrote but I couldn't read what he wrote she understood what he was trying to say I couldn't understand what he was trying to say so the book wasn't going nowhere and the book was called force to be hard I had been in the streets and I had done enough to be in prison and the Lord graced me I had went to jail in the ninth grade for hanging with my homeboy I was still in out the mall so I had changed my life and I loved the right and I was a poet at first but my homegirl said well Tony what made you start talking to white women I told her I told her the reasons which I can't remember what I said to her and she said well why don't you tell them tell my tell her brother and I'm like man that's your brother I'm like I don't know him like that like we went to school together early on when he was a jet but I don't know him like that he ended up marrying a white woman and they doing fine they doing good and you know of course by racial kids and they doing good but we're in a different day today than we was you know 20 years ago and it still ain't perfect today he still tell me about the issues that they have and how they get looked at and and all of that but I ain't want nobody to go through nothing and so she said after I told her that she said well Tony you should write a book she said you the biggest player I've ever known I was 22 years old when she spoke that into my life and because I was already writing a book called force to be hard but it the stories weren't coming together because everybody in prison that I wanted to tell their story was sitting in prison talking about the innocent and I'm like man I grew up with y'all come on now yeah everybody ain't in the innocent now but they can't write their story because them let us get read and so I didn't think about that part of it and so the book wasn't going nowhere so I switched and I wrote this book and I said get me 10 questions I'm 22 years old now I had to change my life had me a girlfriend which is now my wife I'm trying to live right I'm trying to do the right thing and I come from playing the game at the highest level because you got to realize it wasn't a lot of black men that played college football and had a car and had two cell phones and had a two parent home and didn't curse didn't drink didn't smoke as an adult male so I kind of stood up like a sore thumb because of just I was moving differently and and it was kind of weird because I was in the streets but I also was deep and so it was just kind of a weird thing and I never had a struggle with getting women and dealing with women now it was not a lot of beautiful women so you just kind of you know whatever it is and yes it was the highest level sonny I'm a man I know how men play the game so when I say so look I said sonny you're not in the bless tribe don't be on here asking a question now you're about to get blocked interrupting the chat now that's why I do members only get in the bless tribe now you're going to be asking all these questions sonny while I send you over here to one of these fake relationship coaches now start interrupting the spirit and so here I am I'm playing the game at the hotline when I say high level what you have to realize is for a man to sleep with three women in a 24-hour period without being a celebrity without being a millionaire and these women not being paid these everyday women these women in college these women want to be nurses doctors lawyers that's a high level of playing the game and so that's what you have to understand and I was doing it to where I had then got me a modeling troupe and I had eight women that was in the modeling troupe and we went into the club and they would twerk and we'll get tips and then guys started wanting them to sell their bodies but I protected them from that and some of them a couple of them wanted to go make the money and do private dancing but I had to educate them because they was in school to be nurses and lawyers and I had to educate them and say listen these are these are real killers like these guys that's offering you a thousand dollars to come to their room these these real goons right here you might not make it you might not make it out and so I had to protect them from that and then I got back with my wife who was my girlfriend we had broke up we was together for two or three months we broke up because I was toxic and it wasn't really toxic but it was like she had a loan she had a boyfriend I had a girlfriend we had broke up with our boyfriend girlfriend still had the soul ties so the first sign of us hitting a little bump in the road we was like done with this and went on back to our exes she was back with her ex for a couple months I was back with my ex for about six months and then at that six month mark I bumped back into my wife when I bumped back into my wife we hit it back off we hit it off got back together I broke up with my with my ex with my girlfriend for my wife got with my wife started living right doing the right thing I had the dazzling dimes which was the eight women that was going in the club twerking and my wife she was like when she got pregnant she was like you got to get out the streets you got to stop selling drugs and you got to cut the dazzling dimes off you got to let go of the dazzling dimes and so I stopped hustling and I dissolved the dazzling dimes my homeboy that I grew up with had came to me he was dying from cancer so we had one last run with the dazzling dimes and we we casted it throughout the state of Florida and we had women coming down to the suite had them do a little twerking you know drop their pants choice them in the thong let us see what their body looked like enlist them in the dazzling dimes so when I changed my life I was coming from something a lot of these guys who on here talking about love and relationships ain't never did nothing they don't even know women they don't even really understand women they really have not really played the game and you could tell because a lot of them look like kermit the frog look like kermit the frog slept with his sister and then had them and I'm like come on bro I could look at you and tell that you don't know what you're talking about I could look at you and tell that you listening to me and other guys like me and then trying to regurgitate what we're saying because you think it's money in this you think it's money attached to this and this and when I tell you not it's thousands of these guys and they may only have a hundred followers right now some of them got a thousand some of them got millions and they're doing everything they can to go all the way around to talk about love and relationship but don't got a story ain't telling no story what is the story that led you to want to give away the game what's the story and so today we got a lot of fakes out here who ain't paying no dues ain't don't have a story to tell don't have a reason don't have a why don't have purpose they just trying to do it to be famous they trying to do it to be known they trying to do it for a come up but then they don't want to do it in real life as soon as I wrote my first book I got married and I've been with the same woman I've been with the same woman I'm on my first marriage and we just celebrated 16 years of marriage so I'm doing everything I can to live what I teach doing everything I can to live what I teach and the reason about this right here is I'm doing everything to live honestly and righteously and let me tell you and so it upsets me when I see men and women coming to the love and relationship space or to into any space really if we got broke financial advisors we got out of shape personal trainers but it upset me when men and women coming to this love and relationship space and not working on themselves to implement what they're talking about we got people who they talking but ain't living it if you know what you're talking about you talking about show me what you talking about if you understand love then create love if you understand a relationship then create a relationship don't sit here and keep talking about dear future wifey dear future wifey when it's a million wifeies don't sit here and keep talking about love and relationship and you keep what passion over all these women acting like you God's gift to earth like you the second coming of Christ looking like somebody to tool jump and spit you out so if you want to talk about something be about it the same way that we require that somebody telling us about some stocks actually hold some stocks and actually know how to trade stocks the same way we want our credit repair expert to have a 800 credit score the same way we want our personal trainer to have a flat stomach it's the same way we need to have our love and relationship coaches have a relationship and be successful otherwise you are life coach you are life coach and you can teach on life but stop talking about love until you can implement it because love ain't love ain't running from nobody love ain't running from nobody you have to become love you got to become love and then you'll attract love but in order to become love you got to love yourself on the highest level you can't love yourself in one area and then expect to get it all you got to love yourself in every area so you can't just brush your teeth and then have a nappy head you can't have nice health but then don't brush your teeth you can't work on your mind but don't work on your body you can't work on your body but don't work on your mind so stop talking about love and relationships if you're not going to go out and create love and accept the person that's trying to love you that want to be with you but see the thing about it is people don't want that people don't want that and no i wasn't on nobody's show dear future wifey and the show that i went on he that's a finding he's doing finance and then do finance and Anthony know and Anthony I know and Anthony know he he know and know me he know i won't tolerate a man preaching on love relationships if he ain't finna live it and he doesn't and he doesn't do that that's why he interviewed people that's different but i ain't been on nobody's podcast called Dear Future Wifey and i don't even know if there's a podcast called that but i keep seeing a bunch of single men keep placating to these women by putting hashtag Dear Future Wifey and they're not trying to get in no relationship because it's a million women walking around single it's millions of women and i'm gonna tell you like this right here playboy you ain't that special you ain't that special to to act like ain't no woman out here for you that's not the case especially if you want to talk about love and relationship all the time now if you want to talk about something else okay go ahead but when you want to talk about love and relationship then if that's what you want to talk about then that's what you need to be by otherwise shut up because like the bible say pray in secret so if you want you somebody pray in secret and god will reward you publicly then when you get rewarded publicly you can't hide your blessings because you did the work in the dark stop monetizing love if you ain't gonna do the work in the dark after you did the work in the dark you got to still keep doing it you got to still keep doing it and if you ain't gonna do it then shut up because you're messing it up for those of us who are doing it who live in it and trying to teach from what we live in and if you're gonna teach something that you're not living then at least have a sense to sit down with people who live in who live in it and then do that across the board don't pick and choose because he I'm gonna tell you one thing glimmer I told y'all don't post nobody name in my chat if I don't say nobody name don't y'all say nobody name that's how you get blocked because we don't stamp people because a lot of people don't know people I talked I got a client in France she didn't know who LeBron Jane was she didn't know who Kevin Hart was so when you say somebody name you introducing them to somebody don't say nobody name on my chat that's how you get blocked so now listen to him a lot of these podcast they don't call me because they know I see through the bull because they know that I walk alone they know that I'm not out here trying to take no bunch of pictures with with every man I ain't trying to hop from dangle lane to dangle lane like these men out here doing these men out here hopping dangle lanes listen I'm focused on God I'm focused on my wife I'm focused on my family these men out here y'all boys too focus on hopping dangle lanes and trying to click up and link up and take pictures and take pictures we got a lot of the men out here like me a lot of them like me and I'm gonna tell you this right here if a man stays single for too long he telling me he like a man if a man stays single for too long he telling me he like a man because listen if I can't smell the olive oil that was on apostle Paul on you if I can't look at your video and get the holy ghost then you need not be single past 40 because it is too many women it is too many women out here and it's too many God fearing women and it's too many women for a man who say he want to be married to be single past 40 it's time to get it together it's time to get it together because if you when you when you cross 40 you got to get a special clearance you got to check you got to get a special clearance what's going on now have you been married okay what happened in that marriage all right how long you been divorced okay uh huh so this one right here ain't good enough why now how she not cute enough and you your hairline acting up how she's not cute enough and you five eight five six how she's not cute enough and you got in grown and you got in grown house how she's not cute enough and she got more money than you got come on now it's a lot of excuses being made by y'all single men it is two men and women out here for y'all boys to be single cross 49 because i'm starting i'm starting to sense a spirit on you it's a lot of y'all now it's a few it's always exception to the rules it's always a few exceptions to the rules now but listen 90 percent we finna 99 percent you single after 40 as a man that's different because men do the choosing the bible say a man who finds a wife the bible don't say a man who create a podcast to attract his wife the bible say a man who find a wife so it is two men and women and if you're looking at humans the way god look at a human then it's not gonna be hard to find no white because you're not waiting on perfection because ain't nobody perfect ain't nobody perfect so if you taking and you saying hey well i want this kind of woman i want that kind of woman but guess what that one won't this kind of man this kind of man you're not that kind of man so if you say hey i want this kind of woman that woman say hey i want a man that's six foot tall so if 90 percent of women want a man that's six foot tall if you under six foot tall as a man you can't have all these extra all the extra preferences if a woman say hey i want a man who is is worth seven fingers if you ain't worth seven fingers then you can't have all the extra preferences so in order to prefer you got to be preferable and this is what i'm trying to help y'all fellas understand because i've seen a man who uh is single talking about love and relationship and he got a uh perm and it's uh beard and i'm like i'm like okay so you single and you talking about love and relationship and you acting like ain't no woman on your level and you got your beard perm with dye in it i see all that dye in your beard and your beard is perm your beard looked like you got Al Sharpton from when he was in the 90s on your face and how about it's not a woman that's you know on the spiritual level that i'm on and then in the next sentence say he's in fornication so i'm like how is a woman not on the spiritual level you own and you fornicate i'm like come on now and then then listen to me this the stupidity listen we deserve we deserve as people we deserve to be taken advantage of because if we dumb enough it's millions of people who are dumb enough to follow a single relationship coach if if you are dumb enough to follow a single relationship coach then you need to be dumb enough to let a scammer do your taxes you need to be dumb enough to let a scammer be your credit repair specialist you need to be dumb enough if you dumb enough to follow a single relationship coach who is not living like apostle paul see if he or she living like a apostle paul or apostle paulina okay and god to authorize them to write 13 books of the bible like he did paul that's different other than that i can't hear you you got to show me what you're talking about you have to show me what you're talking about because i cannot hear you if you can't show me what you're talking about listen it's time out for the game we as a people being duped by single relationship coaches and y'all buying the books y'all buying the courses so y'all so what y'all doing now is you creating more minions you creating more minions because when the minions when the demons see that a fraud can sell hundreds to thousands of books sell out venues get on the biggest podcast in the world get on all the big podcast then what you think these frauds gonna do they're gonna create more frauds so now we can't even have a healthy ecosystem of people helping people and it's one thing if you're learning as you're going and then you're implementing what you're learning that's different these people ain't even implementing what they're talking about because i talk to three four women a day in a coaching session that is wife ready and yet these single relationship coaches acting like they can't find a wife come on now come on now and we doing it to ourselves so listen if you're dumb enough to follow a single relationship coach and i ain't talking about no life coach now because i just i just did a tv show and the co-host is single and we on a couple's retreat but she a life coach she's talking to them about their life about their personality about their attitude and then it correlates to love and relationship that's different these single relationship coaches is calling themselves relationship experts and they torn around the world as relationship experts and any sniffing engagement and that's ridiculous that's ridiculous because we dumb we are dumb if we're not let me tell you something if you dumb enough to follow a single relationship coach then you need to go on put it on that channel that they had a life the 600 pound life and you need to hire one of them cast members to be your personal trainer and your dietitian and your nutritionist if you dumb enough to follow a single relationship coach because it's getting ridiculous and and those of us who out here living what we teach them to the best of our ability and we're still struggling we're still going through me and my wife we're still gonna have a disagreement we're still gonna have a fall out but guess what we're gonna get a lesson from it we're gonna get a lesson from it and every lesson i get that's what i'm gonna talk about so listen god forbid if i went through a divorce then guess what i'm gonna teach you how not to go through a divorce i'm gonna teach you how not to go through a divorce i ain't gonna teach you how to make a relationship work if i ain't make it work if i don't if i don't know what it takes to make it work because you don't know what you're talking about till you could do it you don't know what you talk about till you could do it because it looks different than it sounds it looks different than it sounds when you try to enact what you're talking about pray the lord share share trying to send me a blessing when you try to enact what you're talking about that's when you're going to figure out what you're talking about that's when you're going to learn that what you thought you knew you ain't know listen to me now listen to me and just like the pastors who getting divorced this that's why i appreciate the ones who don't get up there and preaching on love relationships if you're going to preach on love relationships then preach about why you went through a divorce and what caused that divorce that but don't tell me how to make it work now if you ain't make it work because you don't know what you're talking about until you could do what you're talking about now here go Palo Alto I don't want to play and have me on this here number I rebuke you say in the name of Jesus number 10 Palo Alto gonna hit the pause but trying to be funny now listen to me we got to create a groundswell of responsibility I remember when the boys started a financial podcast I could tell by the question that they were asking they had bad credit I could tell by the question they were asking they didn't have a clue what they were talking about and that's why they were interviewing those people and I could tell that they were being enlightened on every interview and now they got the biggest black podcast in the world earn your leisure but they grew with a podcast they grew with it they got the knowledge they changed their business structure they implemented things they didn't come in as experts or claiming to be experts they came in and they was interviewing and they were learning you could tell they were learning and then they started getting together getting ducks in a row and but and guess what I like that when you grow but if you've been around here a decade talking about love and relationships and still single some wrong with you it's some wrong with you because it because love ain't broke love ain't broke because god ain't broke relationships ain't broke if you got all the knowledge in the world about love relationship but you can't create love some wrong with you and we have to stop being puppets and we got to stop being dummies to go and reinforce this and and the sad thing and this why I have to do what I do listen I'm going to tell you like this right here I'm sick and tired I'm sick and tired of talking about love and relationships but I got to because if I shut up it's going to be all frauds if I shut up it's going to be all frauds it ain't enough of us it ain't enough of us rat nine and I'm praying for this brother rat nine on a real scale on a real level it's me and RC and I'm praying for him and I know he's praying for me because we're the last of the Mohicans or the ones that's been doing it for a while and we don't talk to each other you know why we don't talk to each other because we know how me and our we know that the now man know another man behind the scenes and we know that a man we know that a man could be talking one thing and living another so although we have a distant respect we still watch it we still watch it but we're still trying to see if we real and I'm gonna tell y'all women something I'm gonna tell y'all women something and y'all turn y'all sound up on this right here ladies y'all turn y'all sound up ladies listen to me I'm gonna tell y'all something y'all don't know nothing y'all do not know nothing about love and relationships y'all do not know nothing by a man because what y'all women have showed me on a grand and because see let me tell you what YouTube do YouTube show me what my subscribers watch y'all ain't no YouTube tell on your digital YouTube show us what our subscribers watch and the channels that y'all be watching it let me know that my subscribers discretion is in the trash this the trash can right here this the trash can right here this a cup holder this the trash can y'all discretion is like this right here y'all discretion is under the trash this the trash can now women y'all discretion under the trash can I say oh my goodness because it's women who is making single relationship coaches millionaires it's women who making out of shape trainers millionaires it's women who making bald head women hair growth or sellers now listen I don't think about some hair growth or from a woman who ain't seen her edges in the last 15 years y'all women will buy anything as men we do not do that now men made the brother who died famous not because of he was given relationship advice they made him famous because he was bashing women that's why that's what and and um cash mercy hush nobody said being a man being married make you an expert and I didn't did I say that no I said you should not be a relationship expert if you not married so you just prove my point right there if you marry and you can't be an expert then what make you think single is going to make you an expert and we ain't talking about single and dating because a man ain't done nothing for you till he walked you down the aisle dating don't pay no bills dating don't leave no will dating don't give you no alimony dating don't they don't do nothing for you you a man ain't gave you nothing till he gave you a rain and even when he gave you the rain he still ain't gave you at all until he gave you consistency he still ain't gave it to you so that's what you got to understand and stay out the comments not knowing what you're talking about point blank pure art and listen to what I'm saying and don't put words in my mouth listen to what I'm saying what you got to realize I've been married 16 years and I talk about love and relationship and I want you to go online right now go online and look go online and look in all look in my bio on tonigashis.com look in my bio on instagram on youtube on facebook and on twitter and I want you to find one place I want you to find one place that I call myself an expert I have never called myself a relationship expert and I'm seeing people who ain't paid no dues who ain't never been in the field on a real level got relationship expert everywhere they post a face at you can't find one place that I don't call myself a relationship expert I never have and I never will that's what some people call me that's what some people when they interview me call me and I have to correct them and say I'm not an expert I'm a servant I'm doing this because I have to do it I'm doing this because if I shut up we're gonna have nothing but the wilderness I've been doing relationship videos on youtube the last three days and it pains me I'm sick and tired of talking about it but if I don't keep talking about it it's gonna be full of fakes so I got to talk about it and listen we out here and one thing I gotta learn about women is that most women now some of y'all on this channel who done got it together but most women what I don't learn is if it scratch your ill and you got itch you don't care what scratching your ill if you gotta itch you don't care if the fuse if the lit fuse of some tnt is scratching your ill if you gotta itch it's a lot of women that do not care if if the tip of a machete is scratching their ill if they gotta itch and that's what y'all doing with these single relationship coaches you letting them come and give you fifth grade game teach you fifth grade game and y'all all ears so guess what guess what I just went to the bank right I went to the I went to my bank and I applied for a car loan they approved me for a hundred and seventy three thousand dollar I'm gonna give you this analogy and for those of y'all it's some ignorant people who think when I mention this kind of stuff I'm bragging or something shut up and get your life together now and I gotta talk to you real now I don't talk like the other people talk who trying to be all all that right down papa and all that so they try to get all the advertisements listen I don't work for the Lord I went to the bank and I applied for a car loan because I just being knows I didn't want to see something because I was about to get my wife a rain rover for our anniversary and they approved for a hundred seventy three thousand dollar guess what when I got that hundred seventy three thousand dollars all of a sudden I didn't know what car to get when I ain't had no approval I knew exactly what car to get I knew exactly what I wanted but as soon as I got that hundred seventy three thousand dollar approval I all of a sudden had two minute options that is what y'all have done by watching the videos and buying the books and going to the uh going to the seminars of single relationship coaches before these men got a microphone in their face they knew exactly what kind of woman they wanted but as soon as y'all made them famous as a single man which we'll call that famous and single finger soon as y'all made them finger they forgot what they wanted now they got two minute options and now they don't know how to choose now they can't choose because there's too many options because as soon as you choose one as soon as you choose one the next one got another feature the next one got another option so you can't choose you can't choose because the next one there you go boom right now right now and that's what y'all have created but guess what guess what's happening and it's my fault too because my voice hold weight a lot of these men marrying the next thing they meet because they tired of showing up in my speeches so they just want to get married so that then they authorized to keep getting to the bag talking about love and relationships but but they end up going through a divorce because they got married for the wrong reasons and they got married on the wrong pretenses on the wrong foundation and I'm gonna tell you something there's a lot of men who know who I am and they ain't calling me because they know I'll see through the bull they know that they know that because a lot of people that out here playing games and they trying to monetize love they're trying to monetize love and they don't like somebody's gonna be outspoken and somebody's gonna be real they want somebody that's gonna lie somebody that's gonna fake that what they want and so listen to me it's time to call these people to task and it's time to hold these people accountable some people say don't why you don't speak name because it ain't just one name it ain't it ain't one name it's thousands of these people it thousands of now so if I say a name if I say anybody name then whoever name I don't say they're gonna be like oh he ain't talking about me and I am talking about them if you single and you talk about love relationships and you give love relationship advice and you get money and you single use a fraud you need to be talking about single life if you find peace in single life then talk about the peace in single life talk about self-love do not mention marriage because you do not know what it takes to make a marriage work if you have not made a marriage work you do not know what it takes because at the level that I'm at at the experience that I'm at me and my wife still go through we still go through you hit me the devil still is out here busy every single day the devil still tempt me every single day and I've been fleeing the devil for a decade and a half for over a decade I've been fleeing from the devil but yet he still don't stop trying to tempt me he still keep trying to show me oh Tony hey look at this woman here not a look at that woman there's not a look at that woman there's not a look at old booty not like look at that right there's not a hey you're on the road man man you're on the road man you can shoot your little shot man you can bomb the age go to the script club with a disguise on and pay your old scrapper man and go on get your luck get it in the devil still try me with all of that right now and I got to resist the devil resist the devil resist the devil that's why when I see a man when I see a man go to talk about love relationship and the same thing what happened with the brother the brother who um was in Hollywood he in Hollywood he a producer but he decided he want to be a he want to talk about love relationship so he started talking about love relationship he get married him and wife they write a book about love relationship and that thing you know go through a divorce the reason why is because this this this ain't sweet this ain't sweet it ain't easy it ain't easy you got to put in real work and it takes both parties putting in real work and when the man dropped the ball or the woman dropped the ball and people ain't doing what they're supposed to do it's not gonna work so listen I had this what I had to come to I had to come to the place where I say Lord I'm gonna do my work I'm gonna do my work and I say if my wife don't do her work I'm gonna call out about it because she called me out about me not doing my work now so when I'm doing my work and she ain't doing her work I'm gonna call out about it now and I'm gonna let her know what I need and I'm gonna be doing my work now Lord I'm gonna be slow to anger I'm gonna have a good temperament I'm gonna have a good communication I'm gonna be 100 faithful I'm gonna do all of that right now and Lord I'm put my best foot forward and if my wife ain't right if my wife take a stupid pill I'm leaving them y'all gotta go gotta go your Bible say I said Lord you said infidelity divorce I'm gonna love myself and I'm gonna be gone and guess what my wife the same way if I ain't gonna do right and I'm gonna step out and poop toe and cheat on my wife sleep with another woman guess what she'll be gone in the heartbeat she'll be gone in the heartbeat and so because of that mutual respect that's what we that's what we own that's how we work and I say if it's if it's meant to be it's up to me if it's meant to be it's up to me so I'm gonna do me I'm gonna do my work and when I do my work when I do my work then I'm gonna see what happens on ABC you're not in the bless tribe you're not in the bless tribe and a subscribe is free subscribe don't mean support and so if somebody on here out of line they're gonna get timed out and that's what the moderators do so now don't you get time dot coming in asking questions out of order okay but everybody know you can't get your family to buy your product so don't so don't come on here calling a stranger that I ain't never met in those supporters now these blessed tribe members they go to the next level and I have to call that support because that right there could be putting food on their table they say Antonio here you go uh I'm gonna bless you with this right here so don't come calling no subscription that's free support now because a lot of people subscribe just to hate a lot of people subscribe just to make saying talking about them you hear what I'm telling so you got to come on here right now so understand that now and y'all start jumping out of the order now because the moderator gets right here chatting for all the riffraff the word of the Lord going forward uh kinder God bless you now and somebody else has seen a blessing up there God bless you I miss the blessing because I'm up here in the floor oh God bless you now so we got to take these people to task and if you're gonna go on somebody page who if they are a single relationship coach then you need to be in that in that comment when you're gonna get married because I'm tired of you giving me marriage advice and this is the thing these single men who talking on love relationship and these single women who talking on love relationship men and women will take their advice into their marriage they'll take their advice into their marriage and you these people video and that don't that don't even work it don't translate into a marriage because when you get married you're you're gonna realize something I'm gonna tell you a lesson that I learned in marriage because he I was married but I was climbing I was climbing I was climbing and then I started making seven figures my company started doing seven figures so when I hit seven figures I was like hold on I'm okay I'm a provider and this is what I want y'all ladies to understand and this is why I want you to get this lesson but this is a lesson that marriage teach that single life not gonna teach if you want a provider and you say well he provide I'm a cook and clean but guess what when that man start making a million dollars or that man making a hundred thousand dollars his flesh before he has been sat down by the Lord is gonna look and say well is she doing a million dollars worth of dishes there's no such thing is she cooking a million dollar worth of dinners there's no such thing is she having a million dollar worth of sex there's no such thing so you can't equate money to these acts of service and to submission because it doesn't equate because money can't really buy those things yeah it could buy a shelf it could buy a maid it could buy a nanny it could buy those things but it can't buy somebody that got your back it can't buy somebody that till death do you part it can't buy somebody that is one flesh with you it can't buy that but when a man go to make him money he want to feel like he buying something that's what I I went like whoa hold on I'm touching this money now and I'm taking this money and it's clown over here talking about he's sleeping with his wife three times a week now what's going on now hey the red pill the mental spirit talking about they haven't they sleeping together four times a day scotty pivot ex-wife say she out here was given she says he was breaking scotty off four times a day I'm like whoa hold on now I'm a good man now I'm a better man than scotty now hold on I can I can I get once a day but then it hit me it hit me I say you know what if I come together with my wife one day the next day I'm still so I'm still so because I'm just me and my wife now she was out here hopping around from pole to pole to pole to pole like these women that these men be sleeping with these type of men I hear that be sleeping with these women that's sleeping with a different man every other night yeah yeah you're gonna be able to keep sleeping with her all the time all the time all the time because you out there got your you got your rope paddle in the ocean you got your rope paddle in the ocean but when you put your rope paddle in the sleeve that zip it up it's been to be sold if you keep pulling the in and out and so I had to realize hold on now turn them so then I made my wife feel bad she went to cooking three days in a row as a third damn like man I want I want to eat I so then I'm tired of whole cooked food man give me a taco bell I'm tired all this season so then I realized okay Tony so you don't want to have that every day you don't want no whole cooked meal every day so what is this argument that these men making that oh I make this amount of money I'm supposed to be getting this amount of that don't equate that almost ruined me and my wife I had to learn that she's not a robot and then what the Lord hit me and this is what come in being a Christian this this this what the Muslims God bless y'all the Buddhists we all know what Muslims say to Quran because boy one thing who two people get mad when I talk about them Chinese and Muslim oh my goodness now y'all okay here by everybody else I talk about black people I talk about lace fronts I talk about everything but when the tiny and the Muslim hit a name oh my goodness getting a feeling listen you're on the wrong page but listen to me when you a Christian you told you are told love your wife as Christ loved the church so I said right now so when I thought about that I said you know what Christ covered a multitude of sin for people who will never meet him a lot of people ain't gonna meet Christ and he still died for they sin but they're not gonna accept him they're not gonna believe in him so they're not gonna meet him and he died for they sin too and so if he telling me to love my wife the way Christ loved the church then how can I not suffer the wrong as a man when I feel like my wife ain't serving me enough she ain't cooking enough she ain't sleeping with me enough she ain't touching me enough she ain't affirming me enough how can I not suffer the wrong how can I not say let me shoulder the burden let me shoulder the load let me keep operating in love let me let me show more love instead of pulling my love right instead of pulling my love right let me let me pour out more love let me pour out more grace let me let me pour out more understanding and that's the shift I had to make but you don't learn that see as a man that single you don't learn that a woman really don't want to have sex most of the time because in the grand scheme of things it's boring because it's only so much you could do it's only so much you could do and so you got to understand it you got to understand something now I don't know who somebody keep mentioning somebody don't don't come on here mention the names I don't know who you talk about Trump I told her sister I don't know who that is don't be putting that on here now and so if somebody on here now y'all need to say something because y'all y'all don't be stabbing people now because I don't know who that is so if the person on here and y'all shout somebody out if you on here on my page get a shout out then I need to know you if you on my page getting getting a shout out now I need to know you you need to be in my DMs or some a tone I'm doing what you doing what's going on if I ain't heard from you now then don't be on here getting shout outs now so listen to me it's something that a single man not gonna realize that you're gonna learn in marriage in marriage you gonna learn and when you talk to marriage people that's why people say that that's why people say that people say okay when you get married the sex slow down you know why it slowed down because it ain't just about y'all when you have children now it's about the children now it's about the children now it's now it's about okay it's a my thing I don't know who's who the shoemate way ill but hey god bless you god bless you I so appreciate it I think the people shine yeah I thought he was from the red pill pressure god bless you too and welcome to the new members when it's about your kids so guess what my wife we will 12 outfits a day we will 12 outfits a day so she got to do laundry non-stop I hired a laundry person she said I don't like the way she fold I don't like the way to close smell so she want to do them herself so she's doing laundry non-stop hire the house cleaner she said I don't like the way they clean they don't clean the corners enough for me they ain't clean it right I want to do it myself my wife is an independent woman she's very independent so I can't hire no help she won't let me hire no nanny she won't let me hire no cleaner she just let me get a cook but that that young lady she's working with me in my company and she cooking my wife let me do that but my wife don't eat the food she won't eat the food she ate some of the day so uh jeovana my wife ate some of your food today but she won't eat the food she just buried in her way she she buried that type of person you making and so my wife go to bed about 1 a.m then she wake up at 4 30 she's sleeping three and a half hours four hours because of the workload that she put on herself but she do that because she don't in her mind she don't want to feel like a taker so if i'm making seven figures and i'm spending millions of dollars if i'm making a million and spending a million and she is benefiting from my mindset and my work ethic and my business and my grind she don't want to just kick back so she put in a whole lot of work so in marriage I didn't have to explain to her baby listen I rather dirty house and a orgasm than no orgasm in a clean house I rather eat Mike Donald and be intimate with my wife than to not be intimate with my wife and to have a seven course home cook meal I had to explain that and then I got to take care of me too because when I'm dealing with y'all and I'm dealing with taking care of people when I'm doing all that that's draining so it's a lot of time what I had to learn what I had to learn is a lot of time I don't feel like a lot of time I don't feel like being intimate it's a lot of time I'm tired because I'm drained shooting videos and I'm coaching so right now I'm coaching probably three four hours a day I never do that but it's the beginning of the year so I let people sign up and I did a discount on my coaching session which I'm not supposed to do and I have to pay the price for that so I'm gonna move a little closer to where my son get out or practice at I'm gonna have to go in a minute because my son about to be out of practice so here I am at midnight I'm drained I'm drained at the end of the night y'all got me give me a shot of cone yike at the end of the night I got to get me a shot of cone yike with some ginger I'm like oh my goodness after listening to everybody problems and giving everybody a multi-million dollar business plan all day I got to have me a shot of cone yike or a glass of red wine that Jesus turned into wine and so here I am I'm tired I'm drained so where a lot of men talking about set set set set set listen I ain't got the energy and then my wife ain't got the energy and I'm gonna tell you something that I learned in marriage let me tell you something that I learned in marriage that y'all don't want to hear that a single relationship coach can't tell you I'm gonna tell you what a single relationship coach can't tell you do you know what feel better than sex do you know what feel better than sex being able to give your family in and everything that they need and a lot of what they want that feel better than sex I'm gonna tell you what feel better than sex when you see your kids able to have everything they need let me tell you what feel better than sex good conversation to be able to lay down and just talk and laugh and joke and just spend time and just that feel better than that because if if your sense going longer than not unless you on unless you on that yike then you might get to 30 minutes but other than that your body gets sore because your body made to each other so if you take your hand if you take your hand and you take and you put a glove on your hand and you take that glove off put it love all take a glove on put a glove on take that glove on put the glove on take that I'll put the glove on. I don't care how much Vaseline you got on your hand. Your knuckle going to get wrong and a glove going to get worldwide. So when you get into a marriage, you realize that that set is overrated. You learn in marriage that sex is a plus, not a priority, but single horny people will tell you it's a priority. But when you get into a marriage, you realize that it's so much more that God has created and given us access to that feel better than sex. Yes, that feel good. Yes, amazing. Yeah, you could do everything in the world, but it's only so many tricks in the book. It's only so many tricks in the book. And some of them tricks get to getting out of hand. Whoa, hold on. No. Whoa, hold on. Hold on. What was that? Dude, dude, let's rewind that. Now, let's come on. Listen. My name ain't Kristin Gray. Dude, dude. And then you start to realize, no, no, no, this ain't what they say it is. And you know who won't sex the most single people because you got a fantasy in your head. But when you really get it and you can have it every day, it's just like anything that you can have every day. Anything you can have every day, you no longer want it that much. Now you want other things. And that's what single relationship coaches won't can't tell you. They're going to tell you now, but you're going to be able to say, well, how do you know that? You're not married. So you heard that from Tony Gaston. They're going to tell you now. So listen to me. Here go my son. I got to get off here because I'm talking about wrongful stuff. And, yeah, he know a little bit about it, but, you know, but this right here brain, me, Joy, being able to have my dream vehicle when I became a speaker and being able to drive my son like he a celebrity, but then also having to punch him in the chest to keep him humble just to let him know, just because you riding in his vehicle don't mean you're the maiden. So he thought this guy. So but that made me feel good knowing that my son could get in this right here and knowing that I ain't how that that feel better than that, that what we were just talking about. And this and that's what a married man who raised his kids in the household. A married relationship coach can tell you. Can't tell you that. So let me teach y'all something that I want you to walk away with. Sex is a plus, not a priority. It's a plus, not a priority. A single relationship coach can't tell you that. And if they felt like that in a dating relationship, there was a dead end dating relationship. Because now when you dating old, you're knocking the wheels off. You like little bunny rabbits. But when you get married, man, you got different priorities. You got different focus, life change. But something about that making it a little noisy. So let me get on off of him. You know, talk about grown folks stuff. He got to do it with Lerert. He said, I can take the camera off. I just love my son. He just, y'all, just handsome. Just handsome, smart chemistry, kicking his butt right now. And he got a 90, he got a 91. He got a 91 today. And I'm just so proud of him because it's really been having him in a chokehold. And he got his first B plus. That was in chemistry, right, sorry? He in the 10th grade and he just had his first B plus. And he take two AP classes. Got about a 4.6 GPA. And play at the highest level of youth soccer that you allowed to play at. Other than, after this right here, the next level for him at his age would have to be pro. It's not a higher level of youth soccer. He play at the highest level. Every city in every county don't have this level of soccer though. So a lot of y'all, you wouldn't know what I'm talking about because it's not everywhere. It's only in certain cities, certain areas. And he start. So he's starting on the team. Nah, they lose by every game, but they still good. It just, they gotta work some tanks out. And, but he start on the team. And y'all gotta realize my son, they already know I'm real cause I've talked to him way realer than what I'm talking to y'all. But listen to him, he start on the team and he got straight A's. Well, other than that B minus, well, he done got two B plus, but now he bringing it up. So we've been back to the A's. But listen to him. That right there, that feel better than that what we was talking about. That feel better. A single relationship coach can't tell you that. Can't help you understand the joys of raising children in the house with your wife. That's stuff that you gon' learn. It's stuff that you gon' learn. So when somebody giving advice in five years of marriage, I'll say wait to 10 years. When they give it at 10 years, I say wait to 15. The advice I'm giving at 16, you know what I say to myself? All right, Tony, wait to 20, wait to 25. Cause I know every year I'm gonna learn something different. And that's why I say, we need marriage and we need love. And we need people to come together. And we need love and marriage because we need unity. And we need stable households. We need these things. And so in order to have these things, single relationship coach has got to shut up and go implement what they talking about they know. I can't hear what you saying, show me what you talking about. And then when you show me what you talking about, now you become an example for other people to show you what they talking about. And then when we do that, now we could have healthy and whole families. And now we can, when we have healthy and whole families, guess what? We finna, it's gonna be hard for my son to get in the teenage pregnancy statistic. It's gonna be hard for him to get in the teenage gang statistic. It's gonna be hard for him to do any of that because I'm breathing down his neck. I'm right there on every day. I'm in his face every day. And that's what we need. But single relationship coaches out here giving that half truth, out here giving that raggedy advice and it's just keeping people single just like they single. So now we got a bunch of single people giving love and marriage advice and staying single and not having kids. So you're not pushing the story forward. And then it's us, it's black people that's doing it. I have not seen an Asian single relationship coach. I don't know if the white boy, Matthew Hussie, I don't know if he's single, but out of her, his name ain't never listened to his stuff cause most of them don't play the game. Like we could play the game, like we played the game. So I really ain't trying to, and it's different. It's just different, whole different demographic. And a lady did coaching with me the other day and said something. And the reason why I say a white name cause as black men, we already toe down. We already toe out the frame. So a white man, he could afford to come down a couple of wrongs, a couple of notches because the world eat out his hand. And to the white man who listened to God bless you, but that's just the way I see the world. And that's honestly the way it is. And when you look at your situation and your advantages and your opportunities in life, you got advantages that you don't even realize you got. I can help you realize them if you don't understand it. And if you don't know your advantage, I'll show them to you cause if I can make a million dollars, you can make 10 million, I'll show you that. Because it's ways that I'm being looked at that you're not gonna be looked at. So for those of y'all that's offended by that right now, just understand I gotta keep it all the way real with you. But see it's a lot of single relationship cause they trying to get on a white podcast. So they can't tell you the truth about the race relations and about the difference. They can't tell you the truth because they don't wanna step on them toes with the truth. But my truth is my truth. And that's what got to be understood. So I got to tell it like an IS is. And so what's happening is these single relationship cause they keeping, they staying single. So they making other people think that, oh, just stay single, stay single. And just talk about love relationships and make money from it, but stay single, stay single. And so then when you stay single, if you have kids, you having kids out of wedlock. So now you not raising your children in the home. So although you could raise your children and although they could become the president, although they could become LeBron James, although they could do big things, they still gonna have a boy, they still gonna be missing something. They still gonna be missing something by not being in the home with you as a man. And the single moms can attest to that. They can tell you, hey, my son is missing something. My daughter is missing something. And I'm doing everything I can. And I coach women who in tears because they saying I'm doing everything I can, but their daddy is sorry. The dad is sorry. And I hear that and my heart goes out. And that's why I'm telling everybody, if you gonna speak on love or relationships, then you need to speak on it in a way that is promoting it. Not tearing it down. It need to be promoting it. And if you gonna speak on it, then the best way you can promote it is to live it, to have it, to breathe it, to truly believe in it. Because if you don't have it, you don't really believe in it. If you could talk about it for a decade and can't get it, then you doing more harm than you is doing good. And that's the problem. That's the problem. So what I'm asking y'all is to go sit down with the stock person and learn how to do stocks and stop talking about love or relationships. Go sit down with the wholesaler. The real estate wholesaler. Go sit down with the tax preparer, with the certified financial planner, and get your license in that. Go sit down with the car flipper and flip cars, flip houses. And you single stop preaching on love and relationships on marriage. Preach on single life. Preach on self love. Preach on being having self love as a single if you wanna talk about it. And stop giving the half truth about love and relationships because then you got people dating wrong. And they dating wrong and then they get into wrong relationships because you gave them a half truth that ain't never been tested, tried and true because you're not married but calling yourself a relationship expert. You're not a relationship expert. You a single life expert. And that's what got to be understood. And we got to do better. So hey, God bless y'all. I ain't looking at y'all for those people who be getting scared. I don't know if you're ready to get out of that mess. Come up out of Blood of Jesus doing what I'm called to do, what I'm purpose to do and this is what you can do when you call to do it. Be on live, holding the tripod, driving without looking at the camera when you call to do it. God bless you. That ain't arrogant, that's confidence. With the knowledge of the Lord comes strong confidence. That's what you also need to understand. It's offend your insecurities. Point blank, pure art. So hey, this is Tony Gaskins and I'm gonna tell you, when I get on here now, listen it go up to another level. People who know me in person, don't know this side of me because when I'm speaking under the conviction of the Lord it's gonna come off differently. And y'all got to remember, my Lord has saved Jesus. Christ flipped tables over. And what they calling them now, they calling them a dangerous Jesus. Flipped tables over. So when I'm right now, I'm coming to flip tables I'm sick and tired. I'm sick and tired of the proselytizing and the perpetrating and the capitalization of single relationship coding. It different if you getting paid to teach something that you actually do. But if you can pay to teach something that you cannot do that you have not done, then use a scammer and you're a fraud and you need to be put in jail. Need to shut up. Because the people deserve better. I don't teach on finances because I don't manage money. I don't got a financial channel because I'm not focused on that. I'm not focused on that. It's not my focus. It's not the biggest thing in life to me. Love moved the world forward. Love mean more to me than money. So I'm focused on love over money and I let the money experts talk about money and I let them talk about money and I choose what to listen to or what not to listen to. I don't give dieting advice and all of that type of advice because I'm not a dietitian. I'm not a personal trainer. You'll see me working out but I'm not gonna make no fitness channel when I know I don't like fitness. I'm not finna talk on nutrition when I know I just had me some fried chicken. But what I'm gonna talk on is love and relationships because that's what I'm perfecting every day. And so that's what I'm asking y'all, I'm pleading with you. You're hurting the people by teaching on something that you don't have real life success in. And I ain't talking about experience because it's a difference between experience and success because your experience could have been a loss and you could have learned a lesson but you learn a lesson from a failure. You learn a lesson from a loss. So therefore you could teach how to lose. You could teach what you did to lose but you cannot teach how to win because although you may think that winning means doing the opposite of what you did to lose that's not necessarily true. So you got to go implement it and then if you see that doing the opposite of what you did to lose produces a win now you know that that particular nugget holds some weight and then you teach that. And that's what got to be understood. So A, this Tony Gaskin, God bless you. We done been on here, what we done been on here. Hour 42 minute, our plan is going hour and a half. And you miss any part of this and you listen and lie right now and listen back to it because there's something in there for you. And if I stepped on your toes I want you to understand the truth only step on your toes when you're walking out of line. The truth only step on your toes when you walk out of line that's my original quote, quote me on it. The truth only steps on your toes when you walking out of line. So understand that I'm sorry but I'm not sorry because apostle Paul say that sorrow leads to repentance. So I can't be apologetic for the truth that we need as a people to move forward. It's a truth that we need as a people to move forward and to heal and to be whole. So you miss any part of this go back and listen back to it and get this in your spirit. But God bless you and we'll talk soon. And to the blessed tribe, thank y'all so much for subscribing to the blessed tribe, to the Patreon. If you're not on my Patreon, it's patreon.com forward slash Tony Gaskins. And it's a support group. It's just supporting me to help me do what I do. And YouTube forever changing. It's not really, you can't bank on it. So the support, it goes a long ways. I really appreciate it. And blessed tribe, Patreon, to the growth club, our growth, our group coaching. That right there is the sacrifice. It's people are canceling, you know, every day because of the financial sacrifice. It's $47 a month, but $47 is not affordable to everybody. So to those of y'all making that sacrifice to be in the growth club, I really appreciate it. And if you wanna join it, you'll see it. The growth club, it's on TonyGaskinsacademy.com. TonyGaskinsacademy.com. And I got 50 other courses on there too, if that's not for you, just one-off courses. But for all the support and even to the subscribers who not in the blessed tribe who, you know, you used YouTube for what it is, it's free knowledge, free information. And that's why I show so much love to the blessed tribe and that's another level. That's what I call support. Because real support, honestly, it's gonna cost you. It's like, think about it, if your friends start a business and they selling t-shirts and you don't buy a t-shirt, you're not supporting them. Saying congratulations, that ain't support. So that's why I show so much love to the blessed tribe and the Patreon and the students of TonyGaskinsacademy because that's a sacrifice, that costs something. That's a sacrifice and that's blessing me and to do this work and to do the work in an honest and authentic manner because I'm coming to you right here and I'm driving. And I'm coming to you, whereas my constituents, if that's the word, my constituents, my colleagues, they sitting at a desk. They sitting at a desk with two, three, four, five cameras with a whole team shooting and editing. And now I'm about to have me something like that. I'm about to do a little bit of that, but I ain't gonna never put this camera down myself. But a lot of people are producing their own shows, producing their shows with a whole team and I ain't knocking them, but I'm out here on another kind of grind. And so that's why I show love to those that support me because I'm out here really putting in work. This really, this taxing and toiling me because I got to do this. I got to focus on the hill road and try to deliver a coherent message at the same time because my son is doing his homework right now. So I can't talk to him because he got his headphones on studying for his work because he got AP classes and got to maintain straight A's in order to fulfill his potential because he is capable of that. So when I get home, I then got to be with my wife. And so I got to cut this camera off. So I got to run and gun and I got to do what I got to do when I can do it, how I can do it. And that's why it looked like this unpolished. Now I'm finna give you some polished stuff and I want you to, when I give you the polished stuff I want you to appreciate that the same way you appreciate the unpolished because I'm a man of many jackets, many facets to me. So it's just like in my fashion. I got fruit of the loom and hands and target t-shirts that I wear, but I also got Prada. So one day I might pull up on you in Prada and the next day I'm in some basketball shorts in the t-shirt. One day I might have on a pair of shoes that cost a thousand dollars and the next day I got on a pair of shoes that cost a hundred dollars. So the same thing I say, you're gonna see some production that cost a thousand dollars and you're gonna see production that cost a hundred dollars. And so I want you to appreciate and get it all and what I'm finna do is you're gonna see what I'm gonna do. I can't tell you what I'm gonna do because what you're gonna see though is innovation. What you're gonna see innovation, what you're gonna see is something when a man is locked in and focused and he is married and he 100% faithful to his wife and he taps into the favor that God has for him because a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and receives favor from the Lord. So it's a lot of people that wanna get with this favor, that wanna get up under this favor because they have not tapped into that favor. There's no single man in the world that is or no married man who is cheating that can tap into this level of favor. They could have favor now but the favor ain't gonna be the same. So when the Bible say a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and receives favor from the Lord, that type of favor is not the same favor that Jacob never gave their sons. That ain't the same kind of favor. And so I want men to understand that because I was in the world, I was single and a Christian. I was single and a sinner but still a Christian. We all sing. I was married but not focused on loving my wife the way Christ loved the church. For the first two years of my marriage, I ain't fully understand that. Still learning and growing but when I tapped all the way in, I went to another level of favor that I can't explain to you but I know this favor can't be duplicated. I can't, this favor can't be duplicated. I'm gonna give you an example. I went on them young ladies podcast, no for sure podcast and they posted a mashed up reel. They pulled different little parts of the interview and posted it as a reel and that reel got twice as many views as they ever had. After that reel, they follow us went through the roof. My father was winner. That's the favor of God. That's the favor of God. Not no other of they guessed was a married and 100% faithful man of God who's talking on what I'm talking on and look what my reel did compared to every other reel that they posted. That's the favor of God. And I hope they realized that. I hope they see that and realize that that ain't just them. That's them couple with the favor of God with the favor that come with my life. And the same thing when I went on the other podcast, if they trying to do something good, now if they ain't trying to do nothing good, ain't nothing gonna come of it. Like deaf comedy, I went on there, the comedy hype or whatever. The channel is not changing nobody. Life is just entertainment and just whatever. The interview ain't do nothing. It was the wrong angle took the wrong angle. But when somebody bring in, they do an interview with me and they trying to move people live forward. They trying to touch lives. The Lord touch it. They touch it, he touch it and it receives favor. And that's what I try to get married. Cause you gotta realize, men, we go where a favor is. And what a lot of single men don't understand is that the favor that you receive in marriage, it cannot be. And I'm gonna tell you, I said this on the breakfast club. And before I said that, I never once heard Charlemagne say that. When Charlemagne went on the pivot, he said exactly what I said on the breakfast club. He said that he wanna hear men talking about how they life changed after they got married. Charlemagne, I said that right in your face on the breakfast club. So he went on the pivot and he said that and he said, look at my life since I done got married since I've been focused on my wife. Like focused and faithful. Not just married, but married. See, you gotta have focus and you gotta have faithfulness. I made this up. One of my little mentees, he done took it and changed the elf. Faithfulness, focus, and then you receive favor. I call it the three elves. You got to have faithfulness and focus, then you receive the favor. And so what I want single men to understand is there is no feeling in your life like being married and 100% faithful. Being married and not emotional cheating and not physical cheating. There is no feeling and no level of favor that compares to that. And I'm here to tell you and this is what I want y'all to realize and understand. And so get this here in your spirit and don't just go get married just for favor. Get married because you want to move the story forward. Get married because that is your duty as a man. God ain't give you no dangling that releases a chemical that fertilizes an egg and replenishes the earth for you to be single. The only way God called a man to be single is if you are 100% devoted to the work of God. And y'all single men are not 100% devoted to the work of God. Y'all devoted to get into your bag. Let's be all the way honest. Like somebody say let's keep it a buck. Only know what that mean and where that come from. But somebody say let's keep it a buck. So if y'all want to keep it a buck the only thing single man is getting to is their bag. We do not see a now single man who resemble apostle Paul. So if you don't resemble apostle Paul, if your work ethic, if your grind, if you ain't going from city to city, country to country, sharing the word of God then you need to get married because that's the only way that you are permitted by the Bible to be single is to be doing the work of the Lord. And if you sleeping with antibody, if you sleeping with antibody, guess what? If you sleeping with antibody and you are single, you is in sin. You in sin, you not doing the work of the Lord and if you saying the name of God, you playing with God and you're gonna be smitten. You're going to be smitten. If you is in sin willingly because you don't trip and fall into no woman between the woman legs, you have to make up your mind to lay down between them legs. Ain't no man ever tripped and fell inside a woman. So if you saying the name of the Lord and you are in sin willingly, you gonna go through. You gonna pay a grave price because you playing with the Lord. And I'm trying to urge all to stop playing with the Lord. And I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna tell you and I honestly, man, it really hurt me. Like I did not rejoice. There was a lot of people that rejoiced when their brother died, their brother who had the podcast in the dark and he used to be up there with the thing spinning on his desk and he's drinking red bull. But one day I did a video and I said, listen, God is for marriage and God is against fornication. So if you are making a living by condoning fornication and speaking against Christians and clowning Christians for being abstinent until marriage and making fun of it and telling women to fornicate with a man because the man has taken them out on a date or because they already have kids that they don't deserve to wait until marriage because they have kids. I say, when you do that, you are expressly speaking against the word of God. You are telling people to be a sinner. And what people didn't realize, a lot of people didn't understand that because a lot of people don't have a moral compass. A lot of people don't know Christ. And so they were like, oh, he's trying to help the black family and help this right here. You're not helping the black family. If you're not married, if you're not married and you're talking about love and relationships every single day, and you're not pushing for marriage, you're not helping the black family. You're not helping the black family if you're condoning fornication because fornication is going to lead to children out of wedlock. And children out of wedlock is going to lead to fatherless or motherless children. And that is not helping black people. What's helping black people is getting married and being faithful and starting a family of your own, whether you raise in cats and dogs or adopted children or children that you have with your wife, surrogate, whatever, adopted, natural birth, whatever it is, but you moving the story forward, that's helping black families. And then the lesson that you learn on how to make it work, you teach that to the world. That's helping black families also going to help the white and the Asian and the Hispanic and the every other creed, nationality, race, color. It's going to help everybody. That's how you help the family, but you don't help the family. And so I did a video and I said, listen to me. If you are working against God, if your message is contrary to the word of God, you are going to suffer the wrath of God. And I don't care how much money you have, I don't care how big you think your thing is, I don't care how much talk game you think you got, you are going to suffer the wrath of God. And you do not want to see the wrath of God. And so like the one man, he lost his life. Now the other man, he got put in prison for sex trafficking. And now they just let them out, I think they said, you're going to suffer the wrath of God when your message is promoting fornication, promoting de-marriage, not getting marriage. You are going to suffer because God is for unity. God is for marriage. And if you're not going to get married, or if marriage is not coming your way, then you need to be after it. You need not be sharing your body and sleeping around and doing all of that. So listen, we got to get this thing together because it's a price to be paid. It is a price to be paid. And I sent that warning, I sent that warning shot. And I let people know, I say, listen, God don't play. God don't play, I don't experience God in the realest way. I done sat and suck with the Lord. I done cried out to the Lord. I done put all my faith in everything in the Lord. And God has shown me over and over and over and over that God is real. God has shown me that he real. And so that's why I don't play with God. Like this is what you got to realize. And this, this will upset me by the dummies. This will upset me by the dummies because a lot of dummies who say, oh, I bet Tony cheating on his wife. Oh, I bet Tony doing this. I bet Tony doing that. And it's like, boy, you dumb, you dumb. You think I'm finna play with God when I didn't experience God? Now listen, I done made every mistake in the book. I done made every bad choice. A bad choice is a mistake. A mistake is a bad choice. A lot of people try to differentiate this and that. I done made every bad choice you can make. But the thing about it is repentance. See, a lot of people make bad choice and they don't repent. They keep doing it and doing it and doing it and doing it. And when you doing it and you spitting in the face of God, you're trying to make a mockery of God and God will not be mocked. So listen to me. I don't play, I don't play because don't you realize that right now I can go out and cheat? Because it is so easy to cheat. And I saw this when I was in the world. I literally could pick a woman up in the club. I literally could pick a woman up in the club, any woman, now by take her to the backseat of the car, Wham-Bam, thank you ma'am, go back into the club. That's how easy it is. I literally was out downtown, met a woman, spit game, took a bite to the crib. Wham-Bam, thank you ma'am. That's how easy it is. I could go out and get a woman who don't know me, who don't know me, who don't know my name, who don't know what I do and boom, Wham-Bam, thank you ma'am. There are millions, I wouldn't say millions. There are thousands of women that will be okay being my side chick. That will be okay if I put them up in a condo, get them a car, pay their bills, fly in once a month, tell my wife I'm on business, sleep with them, I could even get them pregnant. They'll even have a child and they'll even raise that child secretly. And it's women on Instagram doing that. It's women out there that got a child, that got all of this stuff and never show you a man. You know why they don't show you a man? Cause they man got another woman and they are comfortable being the side woman laid in the shade with G wagons and all of this right here. I can go and do it. I can go, I got what it take right now. I could show you, I'm in a Mercedes-Benz. I could show you another Mercedes-Benz right there. I bought an S-L-A right there. I bought a Hilda. I'm a Mercedes-Benz right there, a Bentley. I could show you that I got what it take to have me two, three, four other women. Do you hear me? But I will not play with God. And that's what make me, I literally be ready to put a, not no real hit, but a slap hit. You know, like I'd be wanting to hire somebody that they'll slap her. That they just, that all they do is slap. So when these guys get in the comments I'm like, I bet he cheating on his wife. I'd be wanting to get their address and just send my slapper to Jack. Ha! What? Tony Gasser do it. Ha! Yeah. And just slap them down. Because that upset me. Because I could be doing that and I'm not doing it. Cause I'm not finna play with God. If I get to the point where I'm not being respected in my marriage, I'm not getting what I need in my marriage. And I talk to my wife and we sit down and we talk about it. I'd rather walk away than to play with God again. I done played with God before. And I done dealt with the repercussions of it. I'm not here to play with God. I'm not finna play with God. If you a professional slapper, I'll give you a thousand dollars. All right, hey. Hey, the rappers out there sending real life hits. Y'all better be glad all they're trying to do is just get to slapping them. That's all. I'll give you a strike. Hey, sitting right there in the comments speaking ill of my name. Find out, Google them. Find out where you live at and backhand them and record and send it to them. And I'm gonna cash out your grant right there. And boy, listen, don't ever speak on my name. I love the Lord, but Lord, listen. I love the Lord now. No, I'm just, I'm just playing. I'm just playing a little bit, kind of, almost, maybe. But listen, Lord, forgive me, Lord, forgive me. Listen to me. I could be doing this because I know how it's done. I done been out there. I done played the game. I done played the game. And it's easy. Do you know the relationship I was in before my wife? When I was with that woman, I tattooed her name on my stomach. I got it covered up with a pamphlet. She had my name on her hill. I slept with 26 other women while I was with her and I was with her for two years. And I still know the number because I used to attach that to manhood. And do you know she did not know or find out about now one of the women? I had to tell her. That's how easy it is. A woman could be being cheated on and never knowing because it's not hard for a man to get sex. That's the easiest thing for a man to get. It's harder for a man to get money than it is to get sex. It's harder for a man to get anything than it is to get sex. Because women, so many women, are that easy. We talking about any kind of woman now. We talking about doctors. We talking about lawyers. We talking about preachers. We talking about school teachers. We talking about women who is in the church stomping and speaking in tongues. We'll leave out the church and go get on their back in fornication. That same very day on a Sunday. Listen, thousands of women is doing that. It's women right here on this chat that is claiming the name of the Lord and living in fornication. It is not hard for a man to get sex. So when a man commits to being faithful to his wife you bet we deserve our flowers. You bet we deserve our flowers. You bet we need our, you bet we need our affirmation because it's so easy to be on the other side but we choosing to do right. Yeah, we need to be pat on the back because it ain't enough of us doing it the right way. It need to be more of us. And that's what got to be understood. And that is why. Listen to what I'm about to tell you. That is why a single man will never have the favor of God that come to a married and faithful man. Never because it would not be found because God know how he made us. God know he put a kick in us that make us think about sex every 15 seconds. God know how he made us. So he know if a man gonna sacrifice and be disciplined enough to get married and to be faithful when we think about sex every day, all day, even if we ain't got what it take to get that thing to stand up. We thinking about it. So that's why God pull out the favor. That's why God pull out the favor because of the sacrifice that we making to be a man of God. It ain't gonna compare to a single man who in fornication or man who in watching pornography and masturbate, it ain't gonna compare. His favor ain't gonna compare. So when he look, when he come and look, oh Tony, you got an office up here with six rooms in it and you got an office at your house and you got a whole gym and you got 10 cars and you got eight businesses. Man, how you did all the favor of God? How you managing all these businesses? The favor of God. Listen to me. And when I stepped outside of the favor, when I got beside myself, it was because when I got beside myself, the devil attacked my wife. When I got beside myself, the devil attacked my wife. He sent a old flame who used to like her to start reaching out to her and texting her. The devil attacked my wife. And I had to talk to the Lord, we had to sit down. We had to say, hey, hold on. Now we'll just, what he text about, what he talk about. I had to pull up on buddy. But what the Lord said is he say, you ain't hearing from me. And so when you ain't hearing from me, when you ain't hearing from me, what's gonna happen is the devil gonna see kinks in your armor. And when the devil see kinks in your armor, he gonna try. Now he didn't succeed. He didn't succeed. Now, but he gonna try. I had to pull up on buddy. I said, hey, now I know you wanna be my wife friend, but you don't be no married woman friend, not without the husband approving and knowing who you is. I said, boy, I already put a hit on your life, but I called it off when I found out you had a child. When I found out you had a child, I called the dogs off of you. But I said, let me tell you something, man. I don't care, I don't care what that woman doing. I don't care that woman, because see that woman could just be saying, this my friend, she don't know no better. Because the women is naive. And y'all forgive me ladies, but when y'all look at y'all track record of all these, everything going on, y'all know what I'm talking about. I gotta keep it real with you now. The man in the dark ain't the only one keep real with you. I'll keep real with you too now. Women are naive. So that woman might not know what your motive is, but listen here, boy, I know what your motive is, cause I know ain't no man trying to be just no woman friend. So I'ma tell you, I'ma tell you like this right here. She might be in a vulnerable space because of where my head at. But if you know and you come across my line, you come cross my line, boy, I'ma put the six feet under. And the Bible tell you that. The Bible tell you that. And if I got to go to hell for it, boy, I'll sit in hell and do that. But one thing you won't do, don't come knocking on my doorstep, boy. I'ma tell you that right there because that disrespect is a man. That's man to man. I heard the rapper a little baby. He said, if your girl dealing with me, take that up with your girl. No, I'ma take that up with you because you a man. And you can't come from those streets and see me and get killed over $5. And then think a man gonna keep your life over a whole woman. Come on now. That's the wrong, that's the last thing to do. That's the last thing to do. That's why I told my wife to unfollow that man who wrote this lady. This lady, follow me. I don't never heard of this lady. Do not know this lady. This man gonna write her and ask her what has been her experience with me. Follow me. And tell my eye was a mentor of his. I don't know this man from a can of paint. And then he don't even follow me, but follow my wife. What did you follow my wife for? My wife don't post quotes. And my wife don't post booty pictures. What did you follow my wife for, man? If you ain't following me. Why I slapped a case out your mouth, boy. And see that's what a Lord got to work on me at. The Lord know I don't overcame cheating and all of that. What the Lord got to work on me is being ready to slap the case out of somebody in my life. That's what the Lord working on me. And that's why I try to tell y'all ain't nobody perfect. But see for me, I'm not gonna be no single relationship coach. I'm not gonna sit up here and give all this relationship advice and can't implement it and not tell you my weaknesses. I'm gonna let you know my weaknesses ill. My weaknesses, I'd be quick to be, to put a hit on somebody's life. That's my weakness right there. And Papa our chicken, Papa our similar chick. That's my, but I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm a hit meal piece of fried chicken and I'm a sitting contemplate taking your life if you try me like a base on. That's the two struggles that I got. And so the every man that see this, if you don't follow me, don't follow my wine. Cause boy, you're sitting over there in lust and you're sinning. And just how Jesus flip that table. I'm gonna flip that table, but I'm gonna make sure the corner hits you right in your two front teeth and knock them out. And we don't know who these hit with the table when he flip on the table. Lord, listen to me, but I'm tired of playing with you. I'm tired of playing with y'all single relationship coaches. And y'all about to have me call the names now. Y'all about to have me doing a campaign. Y'all better find something else to talk about and take a different angle, take a self love angle. And if you got a platform, stop giving a platform to single relationship coaches. That's dumb. If you're gonna give your platform to a single relationship coach, then give your platform to somebody that's 600 pounds and let them tell us how to get abs. Give your platform to somebody with a 500 credit score and let them tell us how to get a 800 credit score. If you're gonna give your platform, if you're gonna interview a single relationship coach, then you need to interview somebody with one leg and let them tell us how to run a marathon with no legs, with no legs, somebody with no legs and let them tell us how to run and place ourself on the marathon. And they were born with no legs. If you're gonna interview a single relationship coach, y'all have got to stop clout chasing because the devil, the devil will give a following to a dummy. And you know why the devil give followings to dummies because he's gonna put them on the top of the mountain and he gonna have everybody follow them to the top of the mountain and then when they get up there, the devil gonna give his minion a bright ideal and he gonna say, let's jump. And everybody gonna jump and they gonna jump to the devil. And that's why the devil open up and give a platform to his minions so that they could lead people astray. And what the devil know is the devil know that his minions are going to do his work without a conscience. And the devil know that the people like myself is gonna be quiet and we're gonna war in our spirit and we're gonna feel like quitting because we're gonna be saying to ourself, we're gonna be saying to ourself, why am I talking if nobody listening? Why am I talking? If I can't get on the podcast, if I can't get on the platform because of how I talk and because of what I stand on and what I believe on, why am I talking? But listen, I'm finna sit down, I'm finna sit down, I'm finna read the Bible and I'm finna get something with some theologians and I'm finna find out what Jesus call names. And I'm finna find out, I'm finna see what Jesus went at people thought with the truth. And if I see what Jesus went at folks with the truth, I'm finna start going at folks with the truth. And boy, it's finna be smoking the city. You hear me? It's finna be smoking the city. I'm telling you now, because people out here dying, we out here losing families, kids ain't got their daddy because single relationship coach wanna sit up and talk about, they were celibate for five years and then they ain't celibate no more but they wanna talk about love relationship while they in fornication. So then they're gonna have all these other people in fornication and then we got kids raising they self because their mommy and daddy was in fornication but then didn't wanna work it out. Families is losing because y'all idiots wanna sit up and just wanna make money and you wanna run your mouth when you could learn go sit down with the Wall Street Trapper and learn how to trap on Wall Street. And shut up by relationships. If you ain't gonna live it, go sit down with the earn your leisure and learn how to build business credit. Learn how to get you one of these hill sprinters so you can write it off on session 179 cause it's over 6,000 a pound. Go sit down and do you something and shut up by relationships. If you not finna go out and pick out one of these 300 million single women who ready and ripe and simple for the picking and y'all walking around here it's hard to find a good women. You know, I'm just such a special man that I'm just on such a level that it's just hard for a woman to match my level. Boy shut up ain't nobody on above nobody level. I can show you one million women tonight that's on a higher level than y'all boys. I here with this single relationship coaching and I'm gonna tell you, we plan ourself. We plan ourself. Y'all hit the shout button on this hill lie and when it lie over with, sit it's the everybody in your contact list. I'm about to put you under the chain little laws. Remember that chain letter y'all used to shout because it had a curse at the end of it and didn't want any shadows here, good talking because we need to hit it. So let me tell you how we plan ourself. You got the boy who's sitting over here doing the podcast. Every topic is love and relationship but he's single as a dollar bill. Then you got the boy sitting over here wanting to holler about it. They having a conversation tonight and every conversation about love and relationship and they single as dollar bills. Then you got the man over here sitting on his couch talking about a wifey and single as a dollar bill. Then you got the man over here going on every podcast, talking about love and relationship and single as a dollar bill. And we the only Lord Jesus, I'm getting Lord. Look, I need me on a table to flip like your son did. We is the only dumb race parading around talking about love and relationship and we single. Single and suffering when the white man out here starting families and raising his kids. We do not see 50 million white men sitting on a podcast talking about love and relationship and single as a dollar bill. When you see a white man on a podcast he got a ring on his finger and he raising his kids. He on a podcast talking about health, fitness, money and he getting total money. He making millions of dollars and he raising his family and we got black man wanna sit up every single darn podcast talking about love and relationships and getting going home and sticking a dildo in their booty hole and refuse to go get a wife but all they wanna talk about is love and relationship and I'm gonna be honest with you. That's why I respect the men who just give a motivational advice. That's why I respect the black man who just motivated athletes and who talking about stocks and who talking about real estate because that's about getting wealth and that's about being motivated instead of sitting down giving stupid hot takes on love and relationship and you don't know what you're talking about cause you don't got no wife that you making it work with and what you is telling me is that you gay. You telling me you gay when you sitting down and all you talking about love and relationship and every single time it's an angle that skewed for the man to have the advantage and for the woman to be a slave you telling me that you was gay and that you was mad with women and that you vindictive with women because you got to a dildo at the house and all you focus on is getting that rear end walk out the frame and you're afraid to come out to your friends you're afraid to come out to your family so you're sitting and talking about heterosexual relationship trying to throw people off when it is a million now when it is a million qualified single women. Listen, I did a reality show that's coming up soon and y'all ain't gonna see this version of me because I couldn't be this version of me because it was somebody else show it was the other whole show and because it's all kind of spirits going around and when I'm around certain spirits I can't be all the way me but when they give me my show when they give me my show I'm finna show out and I probably ain't gonna be able to have no show because the media don't want us to be happily married and faithful and this is why we have black women now having a whole movement of going to white and Asian men because the black men with a platform want to sit on the platforms and give bad relationship advice and ain't never sitting down and talking to faithful married husband they talking to husbands who watching porn they talking to husbands who cheating on their wife or beating on their wife that's who they talking to and they say oh well all my friends and my mentors are married yeah they ain't faithful and livin' right they ain't faithful and livin' right so you get skewed advice you get skewed advice and then we have these married we have these white men these Hispanic men these Asian men it's hard to find a single white man over 30 it's hard to find a single Asian over 30 it's hard to find a single Hispanic over 30 you know what they understand? They understand advancement they understand moving their culture forward whereas black men black men is just focused on money and I get it and I respect the guys who focus on money but even those guys need to get married we need to focus on the family that's why they got that business that radio station and that network that's called focus on the family we need to focus on the family if you focus on the family the money gonna come to every man out there somebody scroll your screen down and hit the screen record I'm gonna give you a few seconds to do it scroll your screen down and hit the screen record everybody on the line right now scroll your screen down and hit the screen record I'm gonna give you 10 seconds to every black man out here you need to focus on family find a wife get married be faithful raise your children be active in their lives and the money will come stop focusing on money stop chasing a bag and chase your purpose you are not put here to make money you was put here to replenish the earth you was put here to move the story forward you was put here to bring children into the world and to raise them the right way and to make the world a better place than it was than when you showed up here that's what you was put here for stop worrying about money and worry about your family you could be making money and still get your family get a woman that appreciates your ambition and your work ethic even if you ain't making the dollar amount that you are going to make one day and it's women out here that will appreciate you at that level if a woman required that you be at this certain astronomical level that's not no real woman and that's not the woman for you when I got with my wife I ain't have nothing in my name but my driver license and we built this together we built this together so if I take a stupid pill and I cheat on my wife I'm not gonna tell and she divorced me ain't gonna tell the judge to let me keep half I'm gonna tell the judge she could have it all she could have it all cause I ain't no man cause I ain't no man all deserve none of it and it ain't nothing but money it ain't nothing but money ain't nothing but a house and cars I could get all that back I could get all that back I want to pay the price for doing wrong and until we have men with the mentality of responsibility and accountability we gonna suck as a people and I'm gonna tell y'all boys with y'all podcast who just talking about money and all that you need to get married you need to show your wife you need to show your wife and you need to promote family the way these white men promote family when you look around and you wonder why well why white men own all of this why they own all of that listen, all of that if you got money you could buy it but you came by because you came focused because you can't get to the bag because you're jacking off and watching porn and sleeping around but when you lock in with your wife and you focus then you gonna be able to accumulate wealth and that's what we got to understand and see this the thing the black podcast and the black podcast and the black radio is controlled by black media and the black media is controlled by white media and the white media don't want the black media to promote healthy black families that's why we don't got the Cosby show and that's why because Bill Cosby was promoting an image that black people needed the devil jumped on his bike and put his foot up his behind and that's why Bill Cosby going through what he going through because of spiritual warfare and if you do not know God and I see God ain't gonna let you go through that so that let me know now that let me know, because listen I'm gonna tell you like this right here if every last one of them women were lying on Bill then I had the same thing against me every man I had the same because what in the world what incentive do a woman have a lot of people don't wanna hear this now what incentive do these women have the lie on Bill Cosby and not lie on Tyler Perry and not lie on Steve Harvey and not lie on TD Day come on now but spiritual warfare when you doing something that's gonna advance the people you going to be attacked and if you don't know God you gonna suffer you gonna suffer if you know God and you ain't close with God if you ain't something with the Lord you gonna suffer I'm gonna tell you I went through a season I stopped reading my Bible I thought I hadn't read it all I thought I had it I started to suffer I started to go through I almost lost it all I almost lost it all you hear me but the Lord say, hey boy I had to let you fall I had to let you fall had to let you fall, boy so that you could get up but you could get up with some wisdom this is what I need you to realize and understand, boy that you can't play with me God trying to let you know you can't play with me you can't play with me listen to me God trying to tell you keep my name out your mouth God sent me to tell you keep his name out your mouth if you ain't gonna live by the word of God if you ain't gonna live by the teachings of God God say don't even say his name God say don't thank him for your raggedy award God say don't thank him for your subscriber count God say don't thank him for your car don't thank him for your house don't thank him for nothing if you gonna be in the public and you not going to be living for him behind closed doors God say don't say his name God say call his name when you ready for him to show up God say call his name when you ready to make a change in your life then say the name of God until then don't let the name come out your mouth because it's power in the name and you can't play with God listen to me I can't even I got to watch what I do in my bathroom and I got my own bathroom that's a separate from my room that's attached to my home office I got a bathroom I got a bathroom outside that's with my pool I got a bathroom in my media room I got bathrooms that I could go into and get nasty I can't even get nasty because God watching me and I'ma tell y'all the truth I'ma tell you the true retina if I got to get nasty I'm phone about to die y'all I'm giving phone trying to die I tell y'all to retina if I got to get nasty I got to pull up picture of my wife and say Lord I hope this ain't no sin cause I'm on this road and I'm feeling a wave I got to get more picture of my wife listen to me you hear me I'm not finna play with the Lord and if I play with the Lord listen I got to follow my face and repeat right then Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord guard my eyes, Lord Woo, Woo, Lord look here now, Lord you know it, I know you bless that one with a set of Amazons Oh, Lord give me the strength Oh my goodness Oh that woman got two kilo loaves sitting back down Lord give me the strength you hear me I have to pray I don't play and I remember homeboy he don't walk with the Lord the way I walk with the Lord I told him I said listen bro I can't be looking around at women man cause everything pass he say and one lady she try to say oh you should be hanging around the woman do you understand that is every single man in the world but my daddy my daddy is the only man that I've ever been around who has not pointed out a woman to me he is the only man that man got a level of self control that I ain't never seen at least for me like even for me I done been guilty of making mention to a beautiful woman in front of my son I done been guilty and I try to do it in an innocent way like oh okay she prayed I try to keep it it's the Lord convict my spirit the Lord convict my spirit see listen one thing about me I'm gonna tell you my weaknesses I ain't gonna come in her trying to look like no perfect saint I'm gonna tell you my weaknesses and I'm gonna tell you the one weakness I got is me a set of hams and my wife know that she know that since I met her she know that since I met her and there's so many women that's delusional that think that oh if a man really love you he won't see it he doesn't notice any other women women you don't care women you would drop on your head as a baby you obviously know nothing about men you obviously know nothing about men if I was one of the disciples I would have been looking at Jesus trying to see if he looking at some booty I'd have been uh Nazarene what you looking at now what oh oh I thought oh excuse me excuse me I thought you hey I thought you were looking at something I oh okay all right listen because that's men you hear me so God say he made one perfect man that's why God say he ain't make two God say that's why he ain't make two he made one perfect man he made two because God know you hear me so listen to me I'm gonna share my flaws with you because I don't ever want to sit down and try to come in like a knight in shining armor a man asked me who was a Christian man and I teach his team I talked to his team and I'm hard on them boys he said Tony what you struggle with I say coach I struggle with looking at me a nice set of hams I try to keep them hams from around me he said oh you struggle with the same thing I struggle with I say I know it I know it I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you what I'm gonna invent I'm gonna invent a husband collar I'm gonna invent a husband collar that you can't turn your head this way or that way and I'm gonna invent them I'm gonna brain bat them blue blockers that you can't see peripheral if it ain't right in front of you you can't see it that's what I'm gonna do because this is what you gotta understand every man struggle but a man gotta want to be better he gotta want to do better and I'm gonna tell you I ain't really I really don't meet men I done heard about monks and I done heard about all this but listen me being me me being a man I don't believe no mark I don't believe no mark that mark me you know that mark me in the ac that mark me in all kind of out-conditioned all kind of that mark that mark we have an old hoodie is and ain't swine and when that thing got that mark being over that lotion I don't believe no mark but I done heard about that but I'm gonna tell you something I have not seen a disciplined man that does not fear God the only type of man that I've ever met that is disciplined he fears God a man can't when I say discipline I'm talking ain't talking about going to the gym every day I'm talking about discipline as it relates to women he fears God and I'm gonna tell you listen to me listen to me if the relationship coach who cheated on his wife did not get messy and he slept with them women and not led them women on and not lied to them women then women wouldn't came out on him it is ways too cheap and not get caught unless you say the name of the Lord if you say the name of the Lord you're gonna get exposed and I think that's honestly why he got exposed because he was not meant to that man I used to listen to that man before I listened to a few of his videos that man ain't never say the name of the Lord all of a sudden he started saying God you know why he started saying God he started saying God because y'all started coming in my comments saying Tony I only follow you because you fear God that is why the single relationship coach with the perm beer says God that is why the relation the the relation the married relationship coach who cheated on his wife says God that's why they say God they say God because they realize that it's a lot of black people that if you say God that's like the secret password and they don't have no discretion beyond that word they don't have no discretion if you say God oh you say God oh let me give you these panties what you want oh let me caught in leg oh let me caught in leg up for you you say what did you say oh my goodness you say God oh you better God that's how women are and see me I don't play with God so guess what none of these men said God none of them other than the bishops and the pastors that's the only one that said God and two of the real famous pastors went through a divorce and now it's three four five six seven other famous pastors that went through a divorce so they went through divorces and was saying the name of God every day so you know the other man was not saying the name of God but as soon as they saw that there was a sector of black women that will not listen to you unless you say the name of God they started saying God every day they followers went up they dollars went up everything because they know it's a lot of religious nuts who they hear in a word they hear the name God but they have no discretion lot of them don't even have a relationship with God but that but that name whole power so guess what because the name holds power the devil uses it the devil uses it to deceive the people who he knows doesn't really have a real relationship with God do you know it's a lady who listened to my videos and she bought the session with me and she asked me today are you a Christian that that she didn't even know as much as I say God she asked me are you a Christian and are you born again you believe Jesus died on the cross and rose again for us and I say wow that is sad it's sad that she can't recognize a man of God when she's seen one because there's so many fakes saying the name of God and let me tell you something let me tell you something and this to the podcasters this to the youtubers this to every influencer God is not changing for you you don't put God in your box you don't tell the people oh God God is working on me and I could take my time and you know I'm still gonna do this and I'm still gonna do that because you know my relationship with God is different okay if your relationship is God with different then you be that relationship in private but God say do not be a hindrance to your brother so if you say the name of God everything else got to line up with the name of God you can't say the name of God and then have stuff out of line you can't say the name of God and then curse you cannot mix the sacred with the profane because when you say the name of God and then you curse you just curse God you just blaspheme God you have to keep what's holy holy you have to keep what's sacred sacred stop playing with God because listen to me you're gonna mess around and catch counsel you're gonna mess around and have an untimely demise you're gonna mess around and go through hell on earth I'm telling you just for somebody who doesn't sat with the Lord who doesn't experience God in a real way God is not to be played with that's why you don't ever hear me curse ever hear me curse I'm not fixing to mix the sacred with the profane I ain't finna do it because I know God real and I'm here to tell you yeah God is patient yeah God will take time with you but now no mountain top if you gonna say God from the mountain top you better make sure your life line up with it if you wanna struggle then struggle in the dark struggle in private don't struggle in the public where you are hindered to your brother where other people say oh well they say that well he say he a Christian and he curse like a sailor and he say a Christian and he drinking on the camera and he say he a Christian and he listening to this kind of music on the camera and he say he a Christian and he do this or she did and she said she do that listen don't do that don't do that because it's babies in the Lord that you confuse and that you tripping up and if the rap should come tomorrow and they done got off the right path they done got off the straight narrow cause they seen your mixed message now they blood on your hand don't play with God don't play with God and that one thing I tell everybody listen I done told comedians I done told radio host I done told rappers I went at meet meal when he made that song amen he responded by it to me too he said if you ain't if you ain't God don't tell me yes and then look what he went through after that criminal trials this and that went through all kind of turmoil after he made that song amen cause listen to me you cannot blaspheme the name of God and come out unscathed because when you do that you go into spiritual warfare and when you go into spiritual warfare without the armor of God you gonna get wounded and sometimes the wounds gonna cost you in the physical I'm telling you this is a war cry this is a spiritual war cry to everybody out there stop playing with God stop talking about God holy union of marriage if you living in fornication stop teaching on it stop making money from it stop standing in the pool pit preaching if you know you are suffering with idolatry you know you worshiping money you know you into porn you know you cheating on your wife you know you embezzling from the church stop playing with God it's gonna cost you everything listen I gotta start speaking up because there's too many mouses in the church and the mouse in the church don't talk I gotta start speaking up and I'm gonna tell you that's why these boys don't call me because if you ain't living right and you ain't doing right and you ain't trying to be right you don't wanna have no parts of me cause you feel like you getting judged I ain't judging you I'm warning you because the judge gonna sentence you I can't sentence you so I ain't judging you I'm warning you before you see judgment day because when you see judgment day it's gonna be too late it's gonna be too late so you better hear me right now while I'm trying to get you right while I'm getting me right see I can just be getting me right and not helping you get right but I'm calling you out so you can get your life right and listen when I start to see these people get their life right and they start to train listen I know that I'm one of the few that's out here sounding in here trumpet making in here noise I know it so that's how I see God doing something God doing something God working God working it ain't going in vain this ain't for everybody because there's some demons out there who they demons and they gonna keep scheming but guess what they don't answer to God ain't got word about them I'm talking to the people that's on the fence I'm talking to the people that they warned in their spirit they wanna be right they wanna be wrong they wanna be right it's struggling the hard I'm talking to them hey they're throwing the gas on my phone about to die God bless you I ain't mean to go this long I ain't mean to go this long but listen I watch boxing podcasts and I be seeing these men talk about boxing which have nothing to do with your health or your life or your wealth and they talk about boxing on live for three four hours so I'm like if these men could grind on that level talking about something that means absolutely nothing in the grand scheme of our lives then why can't I talk for two three hours for something that is going to move the story forward I'm letting men outwork me who doing something that may not be helping us on the bottom line and I ain't knocking them God bless you everybody do your thing get your money but what I'm saying is I respect they work ethic and they grind and there's some men that do stuff on online that have nothing to do with anything and they go live every day for hours and I'm like Lord can you give me that kind of work ethic but see that's what the devil though too he know that his means that he can put out here to do this fake relationship coaching who are not married he know that they're going to spend the money on ads he know that they're going to get on every podcast he know that they're going to do podcast tours to keep their face out there because they want to be known because what they're doing ain't helping us because it's sending us a mixed message because how you telling me about loving relationships and you ain't got loving relationship so you're sending me a mixed message so all you're doing is confusing me because if you know it all why it ain't working for you so why is you telling me what I need to do to love if you can't do what you need to do to love so all you're doing is sending mixed messages and that's what the devil does the devil brings confusion where God is trying to bring clarity where God brings clarity the devil finna come bring somebody to scramble the signal so the God gonna bring me and then the devil gonna raise somebody up and get them more followers than me and get them the lack of integrity so that they gonna buy followers and they gonna pay for interviews and they gonna pay for promotion and they gonna pay for this stuff because they don't have integrity and all they want is fame and money and they doing it and what it is is the work of the devil to mess up the wavelength the scratch the symbol that's all it is it's just the devil working to say okay God sending clarity let me send confusion okay this a married man over here who married been married 16 years teaching on love and relation but oh here go a single man over here teaching on love and relation and he said this oh well he say kind of tickle my fancy because I like that a little better I like the way that sound a little better you know why you like it because it's not of God and because what's of God gonna convict your spirit and then these people gonna they gonna say God to get you to drop your God but then when you really look at them and say okay are you asking it oh I was asking them for three years oh yeah but you're not asking it right now and you talking about love and relation and you saying the name of God and you're not asking it right now and you're not committing to be after it until you marry but you doing this right now oh well Tony you were asking it yeah I also was not a relationship coach going around the world giving podcast advice I was sending in turmoil and in fake peace we got grown musky men who is in sin and saying the name of God in public while they're sending in public and in private and guess what I'm gonna tell you another reason why I won't cheat on my wife because that one woman that I would decide to cheat with would be able to say God ain't real because if she say if this man do all this talking about God and then he's sleeping with me how real is this God and I'm listening to me I'm not finna have to answer the God for that Lord my saying behind me Lord you to forgive me for my sin Lord I ain't trying to repeat it Lord I ain't trying to do that again I ain't trying to be a misrepresentation at all at all and that's what I'm trying to tell y'all boys so listen to me the Lord put an auction on my spirit today I never go at people neck like this the way I put it in a community page that I'm talking about fake relationship coaching I put it on the title I never do that I never do that and the reason why I don't do it because I don't want no smoke because I know that if somebody brings smoke I'm gonna blow the seat up and that's why I don't do it because I don't cut because don't nobody want to feel my wrath my wrath gonna come before the wrath of God because what a lot of these men don't know is that the women that they don't slept with is the women that hired me for coaching and I just coached a lady yesterday that had a date with a prominent married relationship coach and what I try to tell these men listen one thing about it boy I'm living right that's why the man was out there asking questions in the deal I'm trying to find out by me because they trying to see they they try to see what who told to sleep when who told to sleep when I ain't sleep with nobody but my wife I ain't sleep with nobody but my wife so guess what I just coached somebody and young lady I ain't saying your name I ain't saying your name and I ain't saying his name and guess what when she hired me and they know I'm real now they know I got to tell the truth for the Lord's sake but listen when she hired me you know what and after she told me that you know what said in my in my head I'll say well I wonder if these women come hire me to see if I'm gonna do the same thing they see if I'm gonna be the same way and then they quickly find out they find out no Tony don't get down like that and they may say oh well no Tony I never thought that about you I never thought you would do that no I never thought you would do that I remember I was getting rid of the tour with a big time speaker and I was coaching this lady and I mentioned that I was getting rid of it thinking about doing a tour with this big time speaker she said Tony no she say I know him personally and she say you and him are not the same she said Tony that's gonna ruin you I say wow so you know what the Lord does he let these people he let these women come hire me because it also keep me straight it remind me that ain't no secrets play what ain't no secret play what ain't no secret because guess what if a woman know you married and she'll sleep with you she broken too so she need a coach so she need help if a woman are going to date with you and she know you married she broken too so she need a coach so do what you got to understand so that's why I try to tell you boy now listen I don't coach and dealt with the jump balls and the side women and the escort of countless more airport about to die countless professional athletes countless celebrities and I can't say their name and I can't out them I know more than the bloggers know the bloggers who making millions of dollars telling people business I know more than they know because of the position that I'm in because when somebody hear my voice they know I'm a helper they know I am a helper they know that I'm here to help you climb out that hole and yes I'm gonna make you feel bad about what you did because that sorrow gonna lead to repentance but listen the Lord let me be privy to that because it also keep me real it also keep me straight it also keep me authentic it also keep me pure he's looking out for me I know more than a blogger I know more than the bloggers know if I start me a blog you hear me whoo by how me is over top of me you hear me listen if I was like these raffles and e-game numbers and all this that do the extortion man I have millions over starting hey got this picture got this send me this wire and I'm gonna tell you the devil tried me it's been a few days the way I sat and said baby do you think I ought to tell this this man this celebrity me now that this woman getting ready to say something and get about 50,000 off of them to split with them my wife said no no you can't do that I said Lord forgive me I said Lord forgive me I'm about to go back to the streets I said oh Lord what if they were tempted because there's some guys that I didn't call them and talk to them and say listen playboy you might want to slow down you might want to slow down because your name raining and they're going to mess up everything you got going and they said turn it hey man how much I got to give you how much I got to give you the hush that I said no playboy no playboy I'm gonna get down like that but I got you though I got you I'm gonna talk to her and we're gonna squash it but hey I'm giving you this foul warning now you keep doing what you're doing you're gonna pay a price I have to let them know I have to let them know but guess what that keep me and and think about it I know I could cheat and get away with it from y'all but I can't get away with it from God I care less about what you I could not care less meaning I care as the least possible that I could care about what you think about me I could not care less there's no less I could care I care the least I absolutely can care about what you think about me but what I think about God I don't know if y'all can hit me because my Alpard don't win out my Alpard said man you do it too much hollering and yelling at me can y'all hit me I'm about to close out but I just don't know if y'all can hit me King of Drainers they said good hey the Lord was flowing but my Alpard went out so that's a sign whoa it's 1035 I got to go I didn't got home sitting out here running my mile I got to go so hey God bless y'all my mother-in-law in here she look like she's packing on her car she might be waiting on me she's so superstitious to just kind of you know she probably waiting on me to come in the house so to make sure I'm with my wife before she leaves so y'all let me go ahead and get up and go cause I need islanders since they had just little ways by themselves I love them but y'all from new islands y'all be too different from me I'm gonna tell you how my mother-in-law is cause she's not gonna watch this but somebody who know my mother-in-law might tell her yeah your son-in-law will talk about it she's so scary about the doles being locked I will walk out my house to go to the mailbox by the time I get back to my door she gonna lock me out the house then lock me out in my house I'm like if I'm not scared hide you in my house and scared and it's the middle of the day and I'm checking the mail so let me get off there here alive and get on here with my wife so my mother-in-law can leave if she trying to leave cause she's not gonna leave until I get in the house so hey God bless y'all and we'll talk soon and again everybody I shout it out to the moderators thank you so much for your help bless you Patreon Tony Gassel Academy students got probably over 30,000 students on the academy I thank you to the growth club we had some people that got a dropout because the finances $47 and that's the thing there we finished our doing some financial coaching and some and some entrepreneurship coaching because everybody should have $47 everybody should have $47 but a lot of time we don't have $47 and I'm gonna tell you like this you're not gonna have $40 you're not gonna have $470 if you can't sacrifice and invest $47 and I'm not saying that you gotta invest it in me but if I know what I'm giving you and I'm giving you a six-figure seven-figure blueprints and you don't have $47 but this is the thing the Christian the people with integrity who charge in $47 we can't even get people to pay $47 to be a part of a group coaching program but the scammers who charging $20,000 for a mastermind they could get $20,000 a thousand times over but we can't even get $47 and that's why people feel like Christians should be broke and struggling because we try to do it honest and try to be fair and people can't even afford $47 so I'm praying for y'all I'm praying for y'all you know, sure Jean you need to be shamed because like Paul said if you ain't shamed you ain't gonna get better you need to grow you need to use your mind because God didn't get you no mind to be broke God gave you a mind to get wealth so no matter what it is if you own the internet if you own the internet common then you need to be able to make $47 and they ain't talking about for the growth group I'm talking about in general so you need to feel that so you could say okay boom here we go and you must be new here so understand that right there because all I do is give way to gain all I do is give way to gain so please don't come on here and you're not a member to bless tribe running your mouth okay because you will get blocked so understand that right there don't come on here running your mouth doing the work of the devil because anything I say is coming from a place for us to grow point blank period and that's what you got to understand so and that's that's the problem with us that's the problem with us is that we got so many excuses and we got so many woe is me that we got other people or other races beating up on us and talking bad about us because they tired of hearing our woe is me story when money out here when people without degrees when people without training when people without mentors getting to it you could get to it you got to take the limits off your brain you got to stop blocking your blessings and you got to do the work you got to do the work you got to think about what you want to do and then you got to do it I just talked to a young lady today who she hired me for a coaching session and then she started helping me and she said I said hey do you want to make some extra money I got this hill idea right here it's going to make you some extra money you're going to be able to use your gift and I'm going to bring people to you that's going to pay you for your gift and she said and she could have been saying this facetiously but a lot of people say this seriously she said well is there a business plan in place I said no ain't no business plan I made millions of dollars that ain't never had a business plan you got to have an action plan and an action plan is to do we sit up here so many people sit up there and you write yourself to death you write yourself to death you got this beautiful maculet plan and by the time you're done writing the plan you ain't got no more energy to implement the plan that you just spent much writing out all you got to do is do as soon as I have an idea I get right to it that same night I go to Fiverr I get the logo I get the design I go to Alibaba I order the sample all in the same night and I wait on it I get it and then I might not want to do the business I just got a sample of a t-shirt I'll pay $8 front to come from China and boy I love that quality so I went to Fiverr I spent I don't know $30 or $50 to get a little embroidered patch made design I sent that back to them I said can y'all put this patch on this t-shirt and then I'm gonna order a bulk thing of this t-shirt and I'm finna sell these t-shirts I'm finna sell these hoodies I'm finna sell these sweat pads these matching sets and I ain't need no clothing designer but I'm finna do it because it got a message on it and I want to put that message out in the streets and I want people to see this message and I want them to believe this message I want them to be convicted by the message and then I want them to implement on this message and I'm not a clothing designer I hit up my little mentee who we started a business together because he hired me for coaching we did three coaching sessions we started a business together I gave him 25% equity he went and he hit the ground running he was so ambitious he was getting on my nerves I say bro I ain't got this much energy for this now so what we gonna do we gonna flip this I'm gonna give you all the equity and you could have this company I'm glad that we dreamt it up together we went to a cabin in Georgia we had a shelf up there I had my other mentee there we dreamt up the business I turned it over to him he said can I give you 10% so I could use your name on the pitch that when I'm raising money I say sure I hit him up I said hey do you know a black designer because I need some design for a line that I want to do and this is a separate line from the line I just told you about so I'm working on two clothing line my wife sent my idea that she had and she do this all the time but she not like me I'm her other half I'm her different half not her better half I'm her different half she not my better half she my different half your differences equal your strengths so she sent me her idea that same night that same night I took and I got design made I went and found the manufacturer I got some sample I got some markups made and I'm ordering it she don't even know I'm ordering it when it come I'm gonna say here go the idea you brought to me because I know how she is she a perfectionist she'll just brew on it brew on it brew on it no that's not right that's not right that's not right that's not right when I get it in I'm gonna get it in I'm gonna make a site I'm gonna make a well site and now I got a wealth design I'm gonna make a well site I'll make my own site it's all just plug and play I'm gonna make the well site and I'm going to go I'ma launch it to y'all I'ma say hey here go my wife idea Buy this right here. For those of y'all who are supporters because you understand seed time and harvest, y'all gonna buy it and that seed you're sowing into your business ideal, that money gonna go to account and then I'm gonna show the account to my wife and I'm gonna say let's go up to the bank and let's add your name to this account, hit go your business. I want to start, I want to start to show you just how easy it is and that y'all have to sit and just stew and stew and stew and understand that nothing start perfect. Everything starts somewhere. Yeah, people gonna complain about the quality. They gonna have something to say. You take that feedback and you get better quality. You take that money, you reinvest it and then boom you build business. I got over 60 streams of income now. I stopped counting at about 53-54 because every asset, every course is a stream of income. Every book is a stream of income. I keep creating streams of income because and I ain't worried about taking all of them to the finish line. Yeah, all of them ain't got to do a whole lot. All of them ain't got to do it. It's like this. It's just like when you buy our stocks, you're not gonna put all your money into one stock because if that stock crash, you done. If that company go out of business, if that CEO get on Joe Rogan podcast and smoke a blunt, you're gonna start finna crash and you know when it's gonna come back up and so you got to spread it out into a few different to different ones so that they growing at different rates. So if one losing the other one gaining, one might be doing the bad other one doing good. The same way you do with your gifts. The same way you do with your business. That's how you get to it. So when y'all sitting, y'all see me, don't just think of just a relationship code. That's why the fake relationship codes. That way you don't see them in one of these. It ain't cuz they smart with their money cuz you can't take it with you. Look what they told you. What they told you ain't know you all hooked up to no hurts. But the reason why you don't see them in one of these is for two reasons. Either one, they want a poor mouth to make you feel sorry for them so you keep buying their books. Or two, they ain't got now because they want to sit up and talk about fake relationships instead of also doing business. I do business. The least of my money come from talking about relationships. I do business. You hear me? That what I'm trying to tell you. So listen and when I lay it all out, when I lay it all out, I'm finna get me a videographer and I'm finna get me a brand strategist and I'm finna lay out all my businesses on Instagram and I'm gonna show you the ecosystem of business that I run that I don't even talk about. And when I do that, the earned your leisure guys gonna see that I got more businesses than them. And they ain't brought me on the leisure podcast. They're gonna see I got more businesses and more streams of income than anybody they don't brought on their podcast. But I don't show that because of what I got to do for the people in the work of our unity and our marriages and our love lives, our self love, our healthy love and all of that. That's what we got to get to. So listen, office space almost done. We piecing together. We just put a little finish touches on there. I'm gonna get my wife out there to help me bring it all together. It's gonna be decked out. It's gonna be a love and I'm thinking about getting the office next to it. I'm thinking about getting the office next to it. But it's not offered to space next to it and turn that into something. But you know what? The reason why I haven't pulled the trigger because he meet ain't scared. But I'm married. And that's the other side of marriage that you can't do everything you want to do if your spouse don't have the palette for it. So I don't want my wife to be in in not in agreeance because I don't want to mess up my favor from the Lord. Now I can talk to it and give him my plan and her loving me and her trusting me. She's gonna tell me the downside and what to look out for. And ultimately, she'll give me her blessing, but I don't want to get a forced blessing. And the problem with weak men is they dominate and they dictate and they don't listen to their woman. And that's why they suffer and they family end up on welfare and buy the lose it all because they thought they knew it all and they thought they was above a woman and they thought they woman was dumb and didn't know nothing and they thought God only gave a man a brain and so they thought they have to make every business isn't every business call without consulting their wife and that's why they go through. God gave a woman a different type of mind so she could see what you can't see and she see things differently. And even when you talk to some other men who are outside of you, they'll tell you I gave my idea to my partner. He said, I'm gonna tell you one thing. Do one thing at a time. But he's also a pessimist and he does not start businesses or run them. So I have to take that with a grain of salt. But as soon as the Lord say, okay, you got you got the runway. Now go and activate that other idea you had and watch it. Boom. Watch it. Boom. I don't know failure. I don't know failure because I know faith. And when you know faith, you don't know failure because there is no such thing as failure when you know faith. Everything is a win. If I make a dollar, I won point blank period point blank period and there's people out here who don't got it. Who don't got it. I'm gonna tell you, oh, people doing too much at Tuesday. Just do one thing. Just do one thing. No, you do one thing because that's all your mind can handle. But don't tell the people who could do more than one thing just to do one thing because we made more complex than that. So hey, this Tony Gaskin, God bless you. Let me get on here. I don't let the night get away. God bless you. We'll talk soon.