If you’ve gotten to this video, it probably means that you’re not in a good place emotionally. If you’ve recently gone through a breakup, it sucks, I know. But I always like to think positively because it’s likely it was bound to happen at some point anyway, and it’s better to learn from these mistakes and move on rather than for them to continue to compound. With that being said, you can get your ex boyfriend back, and you shouldn’t feel bad in wanting to do so.
My name is Mindy, and I am relationship blogger and coach who takes great pride in helping women learn more about their relationships and what they can do to improve their relationships.
Most women I talk to are going through devastating breakup and they want nothing more than to get their ex back. I’ve gone through the same thing so I understand the feeling and I also understand exactly what it takes to get your ex boyfriend back.
Most girls I talk to are shocked to learn that their current actions are the reasons behind their breakup and the reasons their not finding any success in winning back their ex’s. It is natural to want to ease your emotional pain as fast as possible and want to call or text your ex right away, over and over, as much as possible until he gives in and all is solved. Unfortunately, this is the last thing you should do if you want to get your ex boyfriend back.
Your First Objective: Take a Step Back
I know this is the last thing you want to hear, but this is exactly what all of the best paid relationship coaches and courses will tell you. If you want to win back your boyfriend, you MUST not communicate or contact him at all!
No less than a few weeks, but 30 days to a few months will be more helpful and give you the best chance to succeed. Why do this?
Because men like to be in control and feel in power over things. When you step back and focus on yourself and ignore him, he will feel insecure and his mind will start to race on and on about you and why you’re not reaching out to him.
At this point the ball is in your court, so to speak. And that is a great start for you to start turning things around in your favor and take the upperhand in the relationship.
I’ve learned all of this from going through a harsh breakup myself, as I pointed out in my video. And going through Brad Browning’s course really helped me realize everything I was doing wrong so I could eventually reverse those mistakes and not only win my exx boyfriend back, but now I’m able to help thousands of other women, like yourself, do exactly the same.