 Hello them thugs and welcome back to my YouTube channel. I recently finished this book and I had to share it with you. I had to share it with you like oh my god it was just so phenomenal. If you're new here I'm Sarah and I've created this channel to help you build a more positive and fulfilling life through self mastery and spirituality and today we're going to go through a few wonderful beautiful points of Rebecca Campbell's book light is the new black. So she kind of starts out by talking about the the rapid mass conscious awakening that's going on now in the planet where in the past we've been highly driven by ego control and fear of separateness otherwise known as the masculine energy and now the divine feminine energy is quickly on the rise changing from aggression to compassion from force to flow from ego to intuition and heart space and from could and should to deep deep desires now here's the thing before we get further into the video this does not mean that the feminine is is overpowering or overthrowing the masculine energy but rather to create a balance between the two because here's the thing and I've talked about this in other videos every human being has both masculine and feminine energies within us and the bottom line is is the seesaw has been very imbalanced for far too long and so now what's happening is naturally balancing itself out to a homeostasis state it's the time to align our lives and to answer to our souls the thing that I really liked is that Rebecca stresses that our souls call to us every single day and much like I often talk about pivoting things in your life or pivoting your direction in life when needed and the fact that we don't just have one purpose one passion that those things change there's not just one answer there's multiple answers throughout our life and every step with all the progression that we make we take a step in this direction we take a leap in that direction we take an inch in this direction and each little thing that goes into the direction that lights us up that makes us happy that brings us joy that is our calling our calling doesn't have to be just one singular thing it can be 100 things it can be on a little scale it can be on a huge scale it's really just taking those little steps towards the things that make us happy and hey hey isn't that what this channel is all about i think it is but here's the part in this book that really i don't want to say jumped out of me it screamed at me it's it was like i had to stop the audio recording because i was just like hold up i need to just bask in this and think about this for a little bit it's the fact that a lot of times we are already living in our worst case scenario so what i mean by that so a lot of times like think about something that you really want in life or you know maybe some a passion that you're not following or a relationship that you're too scared to jump into or whatever it is right and i give you this question well what's the worst possible thing that can happen if you go after that passion or after that relationship or whatever okay what's the worst thing that can happen you'll probably say something like well i'll do it and i'll fail and then i'll end up right back where i am do you see my point if your worst case scenario is ending up right back where you are then you're currently in your worst case scenario so why would you stay in your worst case scenario instead of taking a leap of faith into something that could be phenomenal and beautiful if the worst case is that you just end up back where you are well you're already there so who cares do it do it comment below i'm going to take that risk i'm going to take my risk now because what's the worst case scenario nothing changes so you might as well dry you know and the last thing i really want to talk about which i actually talked about in a video i posted a few weeks ago i will post that up here it's not waiting until you have all of your ducts lined up in a row not waiting until you can see the exact position of the end result to take the first step because if you do that you're never gonna start you're never gonna do it but it's just not necessary to have every little tiny thing lined up because guess what it's pretty much impossible to do that anyway because you don't know what curveballs are going to be thrown at you in the future so it's actually impossible to see the exact end result now you can have a solid idea of a business you want to create of a relationship you want to have of a house you want to buy whatever but you know what what if what if you buy this beautiful house your dream house and then after you buy it your your will goes out like there are just things that you can't predict to line your all of your ducts up exactly as you want it to be so all you need to worry about is taking the first step and then taking the next step and then taking the next step and over time it's going to pull you into your desire but you can't ever get there if you don't just move if you don't take action because the bottom line is what it comes down to is you're too afraid you're too afraid to follow your passion you're too afraid to start that relationship when really those things can be the most fulfilling and beautiful and magical thing you experience in life so why are you holding yourself back just because you don't have a through z figure now so just do it just take the first step just do what lights you up do what makes you happy and then keep doing those little things and the last thing I want to touch on in light is the new black which I loved is be weird be true to yourself be authentically you I mean isn't that what I always say in my videos be limitlessly yourself like that's what I mean don't limit who you are in any facet just be weird Rebecca says weird is the new normal and like isn't it don't we crave to see those weird funny goofy off the wall sides of each other I mean normal is so boring let me ask you this what character do you like more squidward respond well I hope you guys enjoyed this video I highly highly recommend this book I mean I read a lot like I read I typically have about three books at one time in rotation right now yes I have three in rotation and I don't often do book reviews so when I do it's because this book was so life changing and it gives you so many of those aha and inspirational moments so if you haven't read it I highly highly recommend to check it out I love you guys so much and as Rebecca ends with every chapter work your life