 Hey everybody, welcome back. It's day four of the 21 convention London Europe. My gosh the men's conference of the century You guys who are attending now have made it Through the whole week final speech Rob judge coming up all the way from New York his topic is Motivated to date hotter girls and that's the name of the speech too and he's a he's a pretty motivated guy So I give him a round of applause all the way from New York. Please welcome Rob judge Awesome Thank you guys. Thank you. I am so excited to be here. I know you guys are probably Tired you guys have heard some great speakers and you know the speech I wanted to give I originally had planned this whole PowerPoint And I try to memorize it and I gave like a rehearsal speech for this speech Like a month ago and it totally bombed and I realized the reason it bombed was because this speech really has to come from the heart You know what I'm gonna talk about is basically how I got motivated to just continue through with cold approach to continue through to the point Where I achieved the success I wanted out of this and that's I want to translate to all of you I want to give you like a kick in the ass today And I want to give a speech that honestly if you don't go out and you don't make this into a lifestyle You don't achieve your goals that my annoying long-island accent is gonna annoy the fuck out of you Because seriously I mean like I want to give the kind of speech that you have well I've absolutely no other choice but to get off your ass and approach hot women to go out and get that girlfriend You want to live the lifestyle that you want to live so I put together a couple, you know bullet points on my on my PowerPoint here just so I don't go off on tangents, which if some of you know my speeches I tend to do sometimes so um alright so introduction how to get motivated, right because the real benefit all this 2021 convention is the is to get some momentum look like you guys probably heard some great speakers talk about the tactics The outer game stuff the techniques not only that but there's some great material out there So you probably all know exactly how to pick up women the thing that's funny about about like these conferences is You guys know exactly how to do it you have the full blueprint It's not like after this conference is over mean all the speakers meet up and we're like alright alright guys Let's pull up the real bag of tricks how to really pick up women like we're not telling them No, it's like you like that blueprint is already laid out for you now The only thing you have to do is translate it into action because it's like a fucking contradiction to think that if you Know all the stuff about about being successful with women and go out and practice that you won't get better How could you not get better? It's impossible. It's absolutely impossible like you know so many guys have done it So why can't you you're not a special snowflake? So that's why all you need right now is for me to kick you in the ass so that you just get out and do it so alright So one of the biggest things that I want to speak to accomplish is I want you to overcome your fear I want you to overcome your anxiety I want you to overcome your laziness because you know that that's what will get you success The biggest barrier most guys have to translating this into a lifestyle is fear anxiety laziness three biggest inhibitors That's the three biggest things I see from every guy that comes to my program that like that when he wants a kick in the ass That's what I have to get into overcome So that that's really what the speech is gonna be about today and you know to get you over years you know to get you over your fear and So you can like you know like start living that lifestyle that you want You have to start living your life by your own standards and I'm gonna explain exactly what that means in a moment But first I want to I want to tell you a story about one this one This really clicked for me and the guys who took my live program you guys gonna be so sick of hearing it I told the story like four times in this program, but it was a very definitive moment when I um When I really started living my life by my own standards and it was a moment when I was on on the sixth train in New York City and For those of you who've ever been to New York the sixth train gets like really packed really crowded like literally like they Cram people in like it's like, you know human livestock and I was sitting there I was early in the morning my hair. I was disheveled. I was tired and I looked up and I saw a girl who was absolutely stunning. I mean absolutely stunning maybe standing 20 feet from me and I saw her and I was immediately taken taken back by how beautiful this girl was and Immediately as a thought of approaching her came into my head So did all the what ifs right like what if she like what if she has a boyfriend? What if I get rejected? What if I know someone on this train that would see me and think I'm a loser for trying to try to approach this girl all these what ifs started swirling around swirling around and It paralyzed me and I said, you know, I can't approach her but then I started thinking you know what I was like No, fuck it. I have to approach this girl. This girl is just just too beautiful I'm like I can't let what these people think really matter So I started like dodging through people, you know, like get you know Trying to like weasel my way like closer to her and eventually I got right up face-to-face with her And I was right up face-to-face with a look at this girl And she's even more beautiful when I got close to her and I said to her I try to get her get her headphones out I said, oh my god, I was like you were so cute I had to meet you and when I said that you know, I thought I thought I was just telling the truth But this was like amateur comedy hour on the subway It was like when my when the words left my mouth It was like a bomb detonated everyone on the subway sort of cracking up like not even like not even like a chuckle Like people heckling me like I really was like a big fat woman. She was sitting like she's sprawled close like three seats And she's like mm-hmm. She's like good luck with that lot honey. And you know, and this is this was a shit I'm dealing with right and I'm I'm sitting I'm getting heckled by like, you know Like this was like this made everyone's day the hilarity of me thinking a girl was so cute that I wanted to meet her But it really didn't matter to me, you know cuz again, like she was this girl was kind of into which was listening to what I had to say So I can't you know, we talked for a little bit ended up getting her number I got that girl out and I ended up dating that girl And what really clicked in that moment was had I given like one percent of a fuck But any of these people had thought about me if that had affected me at one way I would have never dated this incredible girl who I dated from like a couple months after that And she was a great girl from we had a great relationship And that all those experiences all that amazing like just just amazing like incredible relationship I had with this girl would have been impossible had I not gotten over my fear anxiety and laziness to do something because you know What that's like the the great story of Rob approach to the girl in the subway And there was a hundred stories before that of or a thousand stories or a million stories of when Rob Did nothing when Rob sat there and just let the woodish Shoulda coulda's just swirl on his head and he sat there You know and I'm sure like you all have stories like that too And I want you all to have a story where you see that just girl It's absolutely stunning the girl that just takes your breath away the girl that you all got into this to me That the hotter girls, right? There's this type of girls that like you see in the marketing copy Those are the girls that you guys all deserve because the fact is you guys are sitting here You've come to a conference to better understand women to better understand yourself and to better understand how to relate to women So what guy deserves that hot girl more than you what some schmuck at the nightclub some fucking sleazy promoter No, you guys deserve those girls. So those are the girls that you should get