 When you've had enough of the narcissist, when you stop engaging with them, when you no longer care about anything they say or do, when you stop taking the bait, when you no longer respond to their Hoover attempts, when you've had enough of the narcissist, you may spend more time with yourself, you may do things that you couldn't do when you were with the narcissist, you may spend more time with family and friends, people who the narcissist didn't like, you may engage in hobbies and interests that the narcissist said you couldn't do, you may go to restaurants that they didn't like, you will do things that the narcissist would always criticize, things that the narcissist would always underestimate the importance of because you will no longer gas like yourself, you will stop putting yourself down, you will leave the narcissist distorted beliefs behind because you know they're not true and you're not going to keep enabling the narcissist, you're not going to make any more excuses for them, which may expose other narcissists in your life, which you were not aware of before, because maybe you were enabling other narcissists, maybe you didn't see the red flags, but now you've had enough of narcissists and you're ready to distance yourself from them, because you don't want to participate in it anymore, you don't want to be their audience, you're happier being alone, it's more peaceful and pleasant, you want nothing more than to get away, because you remember all those times that you were abused, you think about how much better your life would have been if you weren't around the narcissist, but that doesn't mean that you never want to be in a relationship again, it just means that you don't want to put up with toxic people anymore, you want to be around healthy people, you want to have healthy relationships, because you know that good people still exist, people who see you, people who listen to you, people who care about what you have to say, and people who have meaningful things to share with you, when you've had enough of the narcissist, you don't care if they're happy or sad, you don't care if they've won the lottery, you don't care if they're homeless, you don't care if they've moved on, because you know that this new person is going to go for the same thing that you went through, you know the narcissist is never going to change, you are indifferent to them, you don't care about what they're doing, you don't want to hear about it, it doesn't interest you, it doesn't mean anything to you, because you have moved on, thank you for watching, I hope this video resonates with you, please like, comment, share, and subscribe, if you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description, coaching inquiries, you can email me at coaching.nag-survivor.uk, thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.