 We are not in control of the lessons other people are here to learn is the thought I want to pass on to you guys. You're in control of the lessons you're here to learn but you're not in control and not in control of the lessons other humans around us and especially those close to us are here to learn. I think you find this out the hard way often by leaping in with both feet trying to speed up someone's learning because you're frustrated by how slowly something seems to dawn on them especially if it's something you caught and understood quicker.