 Hi, it's Bridget, kind of deep in contemplation this morning and I'm kind of in this zone. So I didn't want to wreck it by like going and like getting makeup on and all that. It's an earlier, it's earlier in the morning and it's a kind of a cloudy, rainy, a little bit rainy. It feels, there's human and it feels calming to me. So I'm in this state and I, right away when I went and I heated up my coffee, a mug my husband made for me. Isn't that cute? Isn't that so sweet? I'm definitely an emotional support human. That's how it feels. It's like, this is like the anthem for the empaths, heart-based people who are really sensitive, right? And I'm trying to kind of own that now. I'm just allowing myself to embody that. I am just very sensitive and by that I mean, I'm in tune. How about that? Instead of saying, I'm very sensitive. It sounds like, oh, it's like, I'm not really, oh, I'm more like, oh, I'm in tuned to energy, right? Yeah, you too. Yeah, right? That's why you're watching me. That's why you're watching Bridget. Hey, right? Okay, we get it. We get it. I get you. You get me. You're good. So I'm going to have a contemplation conversation here. I want to talk with Robin Williams. I'm going to ask him some questions. I went into my coffee and I could see him. I'm like, who could I talk to about this? And this is the kind of conversation that I have with myself, by myself, and I don't record for you. And I think some people are kind of like, I wonder, like, how does it work for you, Bridget, on above life channel? Like, do you just drive around or are you always followed by spirits and spirits just pop into the car when you're there or that kind of thing? It's like, no, I usually have very healthy boundaries, just boundaries. That's why when people meet you and if they find out you're psychic, they're like, oh, tell me something. It's like, it doesn't work like that, but not for me. I'm like, nope, boundaries. And then that even like pushes me back more like, oh boy, no, no, no, no. It would be quite a long conversation for us to get to the point where I could even look at your energy. To be honest, I'm not going to like be like a doctor and like start digging in your energy right there. I'm not going to whip out my hair cutting scissors and my razor thing to shave your head on the sides and cut your hair in the middle of the grocery store the first time I've eaten you at a party, but let's be honest, I don't go to parties. In tune. Right. You guys know that. You probably don't either. It takes a lot to get me there. Usually some libations so that I call myself down to get there, but anyway, anyway, I digress. So today I wanted to talk to, I wanted to talk about this feeling of like just, I don't want to say overwhelm because that's so overused. Gosh, don't you hate that you guys? Like all the words that we would normally use in our conversations, it just seems overused so much that I just, I can't even stand the word. Like I'm like overwhelmed, sensitive. They're true. But I'm like, oh, for those of you listening are going to just hate that. Sorry. Sorry about that. I forget that I liked. That was a unpleasant sound. Sorry. Sorry. But funny nonetheless. So I'm going to chat with Robin Williams. I'm going to let you guys watch now. I'm not sure when I'm going to share this video. So I have two YouTube channels. I have above life channel where I do afterlife celebrity stuff and Sunday morning coffee in my podcast. Oops. I did it again. Sorry. Sorry. And I have fairy grasshopper on YouTube. Fairy grasshopper is the channel that I share all sorts of stuff. Intuitive about my psychic life. I talk about energy and angels. And I do, I use tools like cards or crystals and all different kinds of stuff. I talk about all different kinds of intuitive stuff. The elements and animal total. I mean everything. I speak a lot of different languages when it comes to spirituality, psychicness, intuition. I mean, you got it. Energy. Yep. It's like, I'm like the target, like the super target. You know, like I got all of it, the groceries, the awesome beauty, the clothes. Oh, I really should go to target action. Okay. Get back on track. I'm going to talk to Robin. Robin, Robin, Robin. What do I do here? I am, I am going through it. And I'm going to share it. And I can't, I mean, I can believe that I'm sharing it because I'm very authentic like I share, but I might cry you guys. If you don't like that, if you don't like emotions, if emotions are hard for you, chances are you're an empath. And you don't like mine because you don't want it to feel your own. I know because I am that person. I am that person. I don't like other people's emotions. Oh, no, I'm just kidding. I'm not actually, I've been, I've been much better at that in my life in the last 10 years. You have kids and you kind of get used to that. And, oh, I see a rabbit out here. He's distracted. He's like, that's called avoidance, Bridget, Robin Williams. He looks like a, it's so funny. He like has these little glasses on these little very like thin, wiry glasses that are like silver. And he's like, no, tell me in this avoidance, how long has this been going on? Almost like a doctor psychiatrist. Yes, my whole life. Thank you, Robin. Yes. Well, you're very good at it. Thank you. Wait, is that a compliment? We are going to have some giggles because it's easier to laugh than it is to cry. So what's going on in my life right now is, oh boy, here it comes, the rain, tears. The most important part of my life for the last many years is coming to a change point. Two years ago, my oldest child went to college, left the house. That was tough. My only girl, too. Got one girl and like three boys. Okay, so the girl, that was tough. It's still hard after all this viral stuff, the virus stuff, and then she ended up having to take a semester off school. And I'm like, dude, school's not for everybody. Maybe you should do something else. Like, go get a job at Disney so I get discounts. I'm not kidding. I'm seriously like, come on, come on, you know, somebody got to do that. So my heart has been with her throughout this last time and her struggles during the pandemic. And so, I mean, oh my gosh, you guys, we had to move her home in the middle of the year. It was like tragic because when they announced the closings last year, she was actually home on spring break and then they couldn't go back and then they could go back and then they thought they were going to stay and then they couldn't and nobody was there and it was all this weird stuff and everybody, it was like, she said it was like a prison and so I had to go get her. I mean, it was just this whole, and then there was like two months of like, deer in the headlights and how do you do online school and professors didn't know how to do it and neither did, I mean, it's just awful experience for her major life experience. And then my son, next in line right now, graduating. I don't know who to look at, the camera, because I'm talking to you guys, but I'm talking to Robin because I want to talk and have, I need this therapy session with Robin Williams. It's my therapy session. You guys can watch. You voyeurs, voyeurs, is that right? Okay. This is how it works, you guys. This is really how it works in private. Okay. So my son is graduating. We just went and looked at the banners. They put the banners for all the seniors, it's like 300 of them, okay, lots of seniors on the fence in one of the fields right on like the main highway, you know, so everybody could see it and at the middle school kind of like right on the main road. And we went and looked at the banners and found his banner and took a picture of him by his banner. Well, they've been doing the banners the last two years because last year during that pandemic in full swing, deep swing, like nobody was in school at all. Right now they're in hybrids. They go two days a week, the high school kids. And then nobody could, so they had to kind of, everybody had to kind of come up with creative ideas on how to let the seniors have their senior year, you know, like that's a major milestone part of your life. Like you're going to remember that. Joe, you guys remember? Good or bad. Okay. Like when I went my high school graduation, I had a big class. It was like 800 plus kids that graduated 800 in my graduating class. I went to a bigger school, right? And the kids on both sides of me at graduation that sat next to me. I didn't, I never met him. I had no idea who they were. One of them was in like the post-secondary college classes already. And the other one I just, I didn't ever met, you know, where they were. So different experiences for everybody, right? And I was ready to get out of high school. I just wanted to get on with my life and get on to the world and figure out stuff. That's what I wanted. I just wanted to get out of high school and be out into the world. Everybody's different though. And my son is very sentimental. And so he's feeling this like, oh my gosh, now I'm not going to have my soccer team anymore. I'm not going to have the track team anymore. I'm not going to have my good friends that I, we exercise in them. We go work out in the mornings, like early crazy kids stuff. What the heck? And my, my, my buddy is at that work at the store that I work at. And we all kind of, you know, unload the trucks and stock the shelves together kind of thing. And like his whole life is just like a huge part of his life that he's finally gotten comfortable in this pattern routine and has support structures and things. It's totally going to be in the rear view mirror. And that is really scary for him. It's not so scary for me. I'm like, dude, you are made for this. You are ready for this. This is going to happen. You can do this. And he's going away to a big 10 school. Got scholarships. Thank God he got scholarships. I have four kids like, I don't make a lot of money doing this. Let me just be clear. I love my work. I love my private sessions, but it's not. I think people have misperceptions about YouTubers. I'm not a YouTuber. I am a person with a entrepreneurial business. And I utilize YouTube to share and build relationships and connect with people that can get to know me and might want to work with me. And I might want to work with too. And I enjoy this platform. I enjoy it very, very much. And but it's not my money money. Like people really think it is you guys. It's not at least not. I don't have a million subscribers. If I had 100,000 subscribers, yes, wouldn't that be awesome? Then maybe I could actually make money just doing videos. That'd be cool. But that's not my goal. Like that's not my intention. That's not really on my radar. Just let's just be clear. I'm still proud of him for he worked so hard in school. And he wants to be an architect. That's what he thinks he wants to be. He's got this great math brain and the science brain, but he's super good with like woodworking and stuff. Like he had this wood, the shop class with woods and he made these beautiful. I was just like, oh my God, he's so gifted like furniture. And I'm like, how did you even make this? He's like, oh, you know, I'm like, like design. I mean, complicated designs and the shop teacher was like, hey, if you want to come in earlier, you want to change this to make it, you know, more what you want to do, like more complicated, basically you can like it. I mean, he just, he loved it. He was great. He's great at it, you know. So I try to tell him like he's going away to college and I want him to pursue his dreams and whatever that is. And I, but I also am telling him at the same time, hey, if it doesn't work out at college because it's not for everybody. I just don't want him to feel like he's stuck because he got a scholarship for the architecture, you know, like you're not stuck. You can always change a just course, take a break, come on, whatever you want to do. Like I'm not homesick for him, but he's going to be homesick. Like my oldest, she's like, whatever, man, she couldn't wait to get out, you know, like, hey, I understood that. I'm like, yes, go, have a great time. Do the, do the stuff that's still be responsible. We're working on the responsibility part with her because that's a struggle, a worry for me. She tries to be responsible, but you know, it's tough when you've grown up in this like weird time and not knowing which end is up and you can't get a job or people, you get a job and then you get laid off, but you don't get unemployment and then you can't pay your bills and pay your rent and your mom is on your lease. Holy, I want to swear, but I'm not going to. It's been stressful. I love my kids. This part of my life is hard and it's amazing because they get to now do it. Like they get to now really have more of their own independent choices without me. Like without feeling like they have any pressure for me because the pressure they feel for me. Like my son said yesterday, he's like, mom, I can tell you're stressed out. I did a video on fairy grasshopper about crying because I cried like two weeks ago and I keep crying because everything's at the surface and it's about release right now. I'm letting myself feel the feeling so that I don't keep them inside and eat them and get sick or lose a lot of weight because that's what I did. But my daughter went to college. I lost a lot of weight. You probably noticed on the above-life channel, but I didn't talk about it because when you are also trying to make a living, if you're a life coach and you present like you're breaking down or falling apart, sometimes people are like, oh, I can't work. Dude, she has too much going on to work with me. I'm like, no, I exactly need to work with you because it reminds me of all these great tools and it helps center and ground me and I can step right into my work and just do my work. Amazing. Amazing, I can do it. So the change. This is a different time. I'll have two kids that are out of the house and at least temporarily, who knows when they come back in the summer, right? Or for the holidays. And I'm super okay with them not being here or living with me, but I want them to then manage their stuff, manage their own finances, manage their own choices, manage, you know, I want them to call me when they need to talk through things, not call me to tell them what to do, you know, that kind of thing. It's like, if you have kids, you probably know this and if you have older kids, it's like they only call you when there's a crisis. It's like, although I'm working on that, I've been working on that a lot with my daughter over the last year and a half. It's like, we do check in with each other and we talk almost every day just on text just to see how she's doing and she texts me and we do funny stuff like gifs back and forth, like funny images and pictures and we just are silly, you know? Just so that we, so she knows she's not alone because it's very isolating, especially in the college town when everybody goes home and it's still the pandemic stuff, it's still weird and it's just, it's weird, you know? Her friends aren't there because a lot of people left and they never came back to the school. They never came back, they went to online school and some of them are like transferring schools and it's like, why spend so much money for expensive college when it doesn't even make sense to do that because you're getting just an online education with professors that are not used to teaching online so they're quite frankly not good at it. They really aren't. I was like, excuse me, this is a college class? I was like, what the heck? This person is awful, awful. I mean, I don't want to blame that person because that's not their skill set, that's not the job they took, you know? But geez, wow, lots. I'm like, right away I'm like, Robin, I can't share this video. This is a big deal. Maybe I'll share it with my private group that I work with. He says, how do you feel? I feel good now, a little bit better than I did. I feel good after I cry, you guys. I feel like this release, it feels like I can breathe again. It's like crying releases the emotion. He said, yes, it does. He says, because emotion must flow. So Robin, why are you the one that I feel connected to with emotions? Why are you the expert? He says, well, because I felt them the most. Maybe it's because I felt them the most. He says, I felt them the most. You could see the range of my emotions. I really worked with them. I harnessed them. I used them. He's like, I resourced them and put them into my work. But I don't feel manic. That's not how my stress looks. You kind of looked manic a bit at times. He said, that's how your brain operates. He says, your brain has to process the emotion. See, that's the thing he says. People do not understand this. He says, I wish there was a way to just give you this yellow pill and you take it and you understand the connection between the brain and the heart because there is a connection. And the heart really isn't about a choice of follow your mind or follow your heart. It's an understanding. He's like, it's this bond between them that they don't even understand. He said, it's like a relationship where there's this attraction between the mind and the heart. He's showing me this attraction, but it doesn't understand. It's like an oil and water almost. It doesn't mix very well. It doesn't mix at all, actually. He says, but that's just on the surface. He says, that's just what's on the surface, but that's not really true. And then he's showing me like this big breath and this like, breathe in the heart, breathe in the belly, the low, low belly. Just breathe in the energy from the belly and the solar plexus and your spirit chakra, your spirit energy. Your soul lights up the heart and helps to light the way for the relationship or the connections from the heart to the mind. He's like, this is the magic. He said, this is the magic. He's like Merlin. He literally looks like he's a magician. Like he has a big, oh, you know what he looks like? Oh, you know, okay. There's these machines that you can see like at, you know, I don't know, arcades and stuff or like on a boardwalk or whatever that have this like Alcazar guy that is like this fortune teller guy that like sits like this genie almost that has this big turban head and hat and then this like big crystal and this mustache. And he looks like the guy on Aladdin, the evil guy on Aladdin the movie. Disney references shocker from Bridget. Oh, but Aladdin. Oh my gosh. He literally shows me like the bad guy in Aladdin. Yes. What is his name? I can't think of his name. Put his name in the comments below if you know it. I want to say Alcazar, but I don't think that's right. But he, um, that's what he's showing me. Like fortune teller telling the future. Oh, powerful mighty genie. Oh my gosh. We're all a genie in a bottle baby. We are all that. What if we are? Three wishes would be for the mind, the heart and the soul to be connected and to be supportive of one another while we are humans in a body. Then we've got the whole shebang, the mind, the heart, the soul and the body. And that's the simple. That's the simple model that I work with when I work with clients and sessions when I'm doing, um, workshops or classes or online groups and stuff. It's always mind, heart, body, soul and that the body is this container, this beautiful sacred space. It's not like put a cap on it container, but it's like a bottle. It's like the genie bottle. And the goal isn't to get out necessarily. The goal is to get in because when you get in, then the bottle disappears. There's no bottle. It just expands and unfolds in the universe. It just expands and unfolds in the universe. Just boom. Open. We're just open. That's the freedom we seek. He says that's the freedom you seek is this openness, but it comes through being within. But it's not just one part. He says it's not one facet of you. That's the thing. It's not just your brain intelligence. It's not just your heart and the feeling. It's not just your spirit and the spiritual realms of things and the knowings and the planning for the future because you just know everything. And it's not your body and your physical endurance or your youthfulness. He's like, it's not just one thing. It's all of it. That's where you get freedom. When it's all connected, that is freedom. He's like, that's when it's expanded. When there's no walls, no barriers, no borders, no need for the protection and the separation to be able to manage and control each of the parts. It's not about controlling the parts. It's about the flow. He said, like in your heart. He says, like in your heart. He literally reaches out like ET big finger. He literally shows me. I love his movie references. He's like ET's big finger and touches my heart. You know ET? You guys know the movie ET, right? ET and his big finger ET phone home and all that. His big finger and he, right here. Like in your heart. He says, right here. It lights up on the end. Oh, that's so sweet. Thank you. I feel better in this therapy session with Robin Williams. Maybe we should have more of them, you guys. I could just see it now. A series on above life channel. Therapy with a celebrity in the afterlife via Bridget. Oh my gosh. I don't know. This might have to go on fairy grasshopper because it's very personal. And the people on fairy grasshopper YouTube channel actually like me as a person. Like they care about my stuff. Like my vibes. Not just they're not just here for celebrity only stuff. So maybe I'll have to share it there. I don't know. We'll see. We'll see. That's not a dig on above life channel people. Above life channel. I love you guys. You guys are awesome too. But there's just a different level of me relationship with the people on fairy grasshopper. Because I can interact with them and talk with them and comment with them. And maybe it's because it's a little smaller group. I don't know. Maybe not. It's probably just because I can do whatever I want there. And it's not niched as much as above life channel is. So I had a little more creative freedom there. Right. So trying to be organized. All right. Thank you. Don't mind. He's like, yeah, don't mention it. Don't mention it. It's like Mrs. Doubtfire. Oh, it's funny. Like with all the like puts the pie on her on his face. And so it looks like cold cream is like, yes. Sunny. I love Robin Williams. Don't you? Yeah. All right. Hey, thanks so much for watching. I hope this helps you. And guess what? You get to know me a little bit. Yes, you do. Don't you don't have to feel bad. If you're an empath, you might feel sorry for me or feel bad or worry about me. Don't this isn't this is human. This is how we be people. We feel our emotions. We don't we don't shy away from them. We don't resist. We don't focus our emotion outward on other people's situations so that we don't feel our own situation. If you're feeling bad for people across the globe and other places, it means you're not dealing with something within yourself. First, okay, you got to deal with something within yourself. Don't use other people's emotions like what I just shared with you as an excuse for you not to feel your own. Like it's supposed to empower you to feel your own. Like I feel better right now. Like that's what therapy does. That's what counseling does. That's what social workers can do for you. If you haven't had the right experience, then keep shopping around. Okay, it's like a relationship, man. Find someone that fits. You know, same with coaches. I have a feelings coach and I have a counselor that I work with. So, and I need that and I deserve that and I want to care about for myself. And so I'm going to use those things that are resources. That's part of my support network. In addition to friends that I reach out to and say, hey, I need some prayers. I need a little extra mom love right now. I'm feeling it. Can you send me some love? And then they will, you know. But I ask, that's where the power is. You ask for what you need. You actually make the effort to get the support that you need. If you are not willing to do that, then I don't know who can help you then. You got to get to a place where you're asked for support. Instead of redirecting and deflecting and focusing on other people's issues because you're not dealing with your own. If you're digging in other people's issues or you're trying to get other people to need you, that's a deflection inside you. You have stuff that you're resistant and you're not feeling or dealing with. You have old patterns. If you got to step in and control other people's lives, that's a problem. That's a huge problem. It's saying, hey, you're avoiding yourself. You're not being in your body. You're not dealing with your home stuff. Quite frankly, that's just true, you guys. I hope this video has given you some thought, provoking content, especially with Robin Williams. He's amazing. Go ahead and have your own therapy session with Robin Williams. He's quite qualified because he's been through it all. This is Bridget. Thanks so much for watching. I appreciate you. Thanks for being here.