 Okay, hi everyone. Welcome back to my channel. Welcome to another video. Today, look who I'm with! It's me! In case you couldn't see the uncanny resemblance. This is my mum. Aww, your older sister. Definitely my mum. And today, we are going to be asking her some maybe slightly awkward, uncomfortable questions. Oh my word. Are you excited? Nervous rather than excited. Yes, I think so. It's basically questions that you guys have sent that you might be too afraid to ask your mum. This was a massive trend going on on YouTube a long time ago, but I'm just doing it now. But before we get into that, this video is actually sponsored by a company that I've worked with many times before. I absolutely love them. They're called Ana Luisa and they are currently doing their Mother's Day sale. It's well past Mother's Day. In America. Okay. I think they're Mother's Day now. So they actually have 15% off site-wide. Obviously the link will be in the description. So thank you guys for sponsoring this little part of the video. So I actually have three pieces of jewelry to give you that I chose from their website. That's perfect. Thank you very much. So this is a very belated Mother's Day present. Is it actually for me? Yeah, it's actually for you. Aww, thank you. That's really nice. I just hope you like them. I chose these myself. At least they're small, which does mean that I'm more likely to like them. So they come in these cute little velvet pouches. As you guys, I've talked about them multiple times before. I love them. The quality is brilliant. Do you know, I think I might already have a piece from Ana Luisa. Really? Don't you ever buy me my necklace from there? I don't know. I'll have a look. Maybe they did, but they're 100% carbon neutral. Are they? They are. Indeed. The jewelry starts from $39 and then obviously goes up to a lot more if you want the very fine jewelry. The one you've got for me. Yeah, yours are the most expensive on the site, Mum. Thank you. Right, okay, let me see. I don't know which ones are which, but we're just going to...actually, you can open them. Okay. All right, so I'm going to be honest about my feeling. Okay. I'll have them if you don't like them. Ooh, they're very nice. Okay, so guys, just so you can see, I don't know whether you can see. They are really pretty, but also they are things I would wear. Yeah, but obviously I wanted to choose ones that you would wear. But is that going to be damning of other people wanting to wear them who are younger than me? No, because the point is they're doing mothers themselves, so people go and buy them for their months like you. Oh, wow, then in which case I think they're lovely. I'm just going to put them on so you can see. Okay. They are really pretty. They've got like a sort of diamondy look down the front of it and then a pretty pearl and pearls are all in, I am told. Well, you heard it here first, ladies. I'm pretty sure these are called the Rachel earrings if anyone is interested. And with the 15% discount, these are £62. Really good. I like that very much. Thank you. You're welcome. And then I got you two necklaces. This is the one that is really cute, but you might want to give it to me if you love me. Oh, it's a heart. It's a DiMonte heart. Because I love you. Aww. And this one. Oh, you see? Yes. Oh, yes. A little bit more kind of grown up. Grown up, yeah. So this one's the V1 is called Vida and that is 70 with the discount. And then the open heart, that one's called, oh dear. I don't know how to pronounce that. Core. Let me have a look. Cuore. Cuore. Cuore. And that's 65. Aww. Hello, sweetheart. Oh, she likes to look at that because it's dangly. Yeah, she wants to play with it. Do you like Grandma's necklace? My love's what I call her. Grandma. I do not call myself a grandma just yet. You are a grandma. I'm Porsche's... Grandma. I'm Porsche's second mummy. But thank you very much. They're very pretty. You can share the necklaces. That's really cool. Thank you so much. I'm very happy. Can we finish that? No, that's not the end. That is not the end. Sorry, I have to work for my necklace and my earrings. Exactly. Now you have to put in the work. So now we're actually going to get into the questions. This might be a slightly less enjoyable section of the video. I'm hoping Porsche rescues me. Jumping into the frame and distracting it already. Okay, let's start with... Was I an accident? No! 100% not. Were any of your kids an accident? No. Don't lie. I'm not lying. You were all hard fought. You wanted four children? Initially we thought we'd have three. So your fourth child? And then when we had two we thought that felt like quite a lot. So you only wanted two? No. It was quite a lot. And then we persevered. And we persevered. But we ended up with four beautiful kids. So we were very lucky. And actually I really loved being pregnant. And maybe that's weird. I don't know. So I decided to go for it again. I know it's brilliant. I loved it. Being pregnant was fantastic. So none of us... So Francesca was planned. You wanted to have oil. We were still trying. How was that? How does that work? Yeah. I don't know what you're trying. So one of your daughters asked which daughter is your favourite? Elevate that. Did she? Yeah. You know the answer to that question. I don't know. Yeah, but obviously all parents are going to say I don't have a favourite. But surely your favourite... Do you go through phases of liking one kid more than the other? No, genuinely, genuinely not. Someone asked a very silly question. A very silly question? Considering I'm your child. Your biological child. He said is your mum still a virgin? Huh? Do we look a little bit alike? A little titchy bit? Okay, so what age did she lose your virginity? That question. You want to put it on the internet? No. 52, why do you care? I don't really care, but I don't think I can remember either. I can't work out what age I was at that point. But you know who it was with? Yes, I do, but I'm not going to say that. Do I know them? No. No, he wasn't somebody from school. How's that? Okay, when did you meet him? On holiday. Oh, it was a little holiday romance. But well, he was English, so we... Oh, you saw him when you got back? Yeah, exactly, see. Okay, someone said can a mother actually tell if a person is a good friend? Do you get a gut feeling? Yeah, you do. So have you ever had a bad feeling about any of your kids' friends? Yeah, okay. You definitely get a feeling about your children's friends. And you know, the dread I have is one day one of you comes home and says, I'm getting married to this person. And you don't like them? And I don't like them. I really, honestly, that is a... I'm worried about that already. Oh my goodness. Because I think as a parent, you know, how do you tell your child that when they're sort of besotted in the moment? We went on holiday once. We went to Dante and there were a couple there who were my age and... That was really weird. It was his family holiday and he brought his girlfriend and his parents were so open about how much they hated his girlfriend. I know, that was really awkward. And I know I've never felt like that about any boyfriend's girlfriends or friends. Right, this question's not entirely correct, but I'm going to ask anyway. How do you feel about your daughter getting plastic surgery? I've never actually had plastic surgery, by the way. I don't like the idea of her getting plastic surgery. How does she know that? I'm very... I'm not completely anti-improvements. The only thing I've had done is my lips. Yeah, she had her lips filled and I didn't like that, didn't I? You didn't even notice. No, I don't like the idea that you have to change yourself. Right. But you didn't look at me and go, Oh my God. They looked a bit bigger. It just looks a bit fake to me. I'm just not a fake... Well, people don't say what they think, but I don't like to think I'm a fake person. I don't like fake things. So I kind of think, why would you want to change any of what you've got? Because I think you were amazing. So I have no idea why you'd want to change any of that. So how do you feel about me getting a boob job? I don't like the idea of you getting a boob job, because I think you've got a perfectly beautiful body. Are you going to try and stop me? I can't stop you, because you're old enough to do what you want. Thank you. I can merely advise you of the risks attached. Yes. Okay, do you ever judge your daughter's outfits, i.e. too short, too tight, etc.? Uh, yeah. I do judge you. Have you ever seen me go out in something and you'd be like, oh my God, I can't believe she went, really? Only when I worry that it might create an impression with people is that going to create an impression that you look like you're asking for too much attention from boys. What do you think I am? Judge me how you like. That's what I think. As a mother, I want to protect you. I want you to go out with a big, you know, a sheet over you and then I'll be fine. But not often, not often, most of the time you look great and you look fab right now. I'm wearing tracksuits right now. I love wearing tracksuits. Yeah. Do you gossip with your friends? About? About your children. Obviously the friends that would know me. So, like, if I've... Joe and Allian, okay. Yeah. Do you gossip with them about your kids? We don't gossip. So do I talk about you, yes? Well, yeah, you talk about us a lot. We always hear our names. Okay, yes, we talk about you. But we don't have anything else to talk about right now. That's not true. So do you know... You say gossip what you mean. Gossip as in, like, however Dad found out that I kissed that boy in France. Yeah, sometimes we do that sometimes. How did you know that? I don't know how we know it. We just knew it. How do you just know? Do you discuss our lives? No, not really, but if one of us had a bit of gossip we might share it. So that is called gossiping. Okay. But we do it in a discreet way. And we would say, we wouldn't say to lots of people, but typically we might tell one person. When was Gemma allowed to have a boyfriend? And did you approve? So I don't think there's a problem with you having had a boyfriend. At any age? At any age. Well, I think I might have blinked if it was younger than 15. But if Francesca had a boyfriend now, it would be cute. It would be cute, yeah, you're right. She's 12, by the way. You never said like you're not allowed a boyfriend until you're 16 years old. No, no, no, you're right. So we never really had an age. No, we never really had an age. And I'm quite chilled about that. I mean, I think I'm quite chilled about that. I just want to meet them first if you're younger. I think that's the thing. Like if you were 15 and wanted to go out with somebody, I'd be quite keen to know who they were before you went out with them. If you're 18 and you want to go out with somebody, clearly it's up to you. And along those lines, what age, we talked about this the other day, but what age would you let your children's boyfriend or girlfriend sleep in their bed in your house? Remember the same roof as you? This is a scary question. And I don't think, I know for a fact, as a child, I would never, I'd never slept in the same bedroom as any of my boyfriends until I got engaged. What? Never. In my parents' house. Even though you'd bring boyfriends back? Yeah, but you wouldn't stay in the same room, not in my parents' house. So my experience, therefore, was basically that you'd never did it. So hence, it's a tricky one to judge for your own children. So you start with the assumption that it's the same as it was for you, and then you quickly realise that's a rubbish assumption because it's not going to work. And then you kind of go, oh, crikey. I think, you know, from my perspective, as old as possible, as old as possible. So your parents never really had to cross that bridge? No. That's the thing, they didn't, right? Okay, well, you did. I know. I've crossed the bridge. When I first bought a boyfriend home, I was already 18. So it wasn't like I didn't bring a boyfriend home when I was like 16. I know, yeah. Which would have been, you would have said no. I'm very grateful. Yeah, I would have said no. I'd have been much firmer. Whereas because you were 18, that was easier, because then at that point, you're an adult, so you get treated like an adult. So if Ella brought a boyfriend home now, would she be able to sleep in the same bedroom? I would be trying not to allow that. Why? She's 18. Oh, she's 18 now, of course. Go on, I forgot. I have two adult children. No, okay, so when I was little, when we were younger, because it hasn't happened since I can remember, have any of us ever walked in on you and Dad? Having sex. You had three kids after me, so don't pretend you haven't. Yeah, good point. No, no, never. Never. Not to my recollection. Because you'd be a shock how many of my friends have done that. Really? Yeah. Well, I don't know you perhaps what to ask your siblings that question. I'm not aware of that. You've never seen a little Facebook rather corner. I do dread that, because we leave our door open. I've never heard anything, either. Yeah, you see? So now I have to ask a really old question. Oh, man. Have you ever heard me? Oh, I don't know. I think I probably did, yeah. I probably did. Get us off him now. Think about it. It's worse for me than it is for you. Oh, my God. It's like, that's my baby. Okay, I think we will end it on that lovely note. So thanks so much for filming with me, Mum. You're welcome, hon. I hope you guys enjoyed this. If you did, give it a thumbs up. Subscribe if you haven't already. And of course, don't forget go now, Louise. Yes, thank you again for sponsoring the video. The link will be in the description. The 15% off site-wide is on right now as you're watching this video. It's very beautiful. And I'm actually a bit fussy with jewelry, which I will tell you. She is. Thanks, Mummy. You're welcome. Good. See you later. See you guys next week. Bye.