 Five different love styles that often are determined by your childhood. One, the avoider. They don't allow themselves to feel emotions in order to protect themselves and often feel uncomfortable when other people around them get emotional. Two, the vacillator. Or in other words, to be indecisive. You may tend to idealize new relationships. Three, the controller. You probably feel the need to have control in a relationship to avoid the vulnerable negative feelings you experienced as a child. Four, the pleaser. Someone with the pleaser love type has the main focus of making sure others around them are happy. Five, the victim. Did you ever use your imagination to escape the negativity surrounding you being fully present is too painful for them? Did you relate to any of these styles?