 how narcissists test you. This video will change your life. We may look at our relationship with a narcissist, wonder how it got to this point. How did it get to this point where the narcissist is abusing us. They're doing all of these horrible things to us. It's like we've become a different person. Because the person that we used to be would never have tolerated anything like that. So we may often look at it and think what happened? How did it get like this? How did I allow it? And there is a way that the narcissist manages to get it to that point. That point where you look at it and wonder how it got so far. How it happened. And what they do is they test you in the beginning, in the love-bombing phase when you least expect it because they're love-bombing you. They're manipulating your emotions. They're pretending to be this perfect person in your life. Your soulmate. And of course it's overwhelming. All of that attention. All of that love. And while this is going on, they are doing little things to test you. They're doing little things just to see your reaction to it. Just to see how you're going to respond to it. If you're going to put up with it. That's why they do it. And it could be something so small. But if you think back, you may remember it. It's very sneaky. It can often go under the radar. You might not pick up on it in the moment. But then later you're thinking, what was that about? Why did they say that? Why did they do that? I thought everything was going fine. I thought there was no problem. But they're doing these little sneaky things for a reason. Sometimes it may seem like there's no rhyme or reason. But there is a reason behind it. It's intentional deliberate behavior. And when they do it, they are testing you. They want to see if you're going to put up with it or not. If you're going to accept it or if you're going to shut it down right there and then. That's what they're looking to see when they do these things. And if you do accept it, if you don't speak on it, I can almost guarantee that it's going to get worse and worse. Because when you do accept this kind of behavior, regardless of what are the seemingly positive things they may be doing for you, that's just going to give them the green light to ramp it up, to make it even worse, which is what they're going to do. You should never let a narcissist get away with anything. And not just a narcissist, anyone. Don't let people disrespect you. You need to stick up for yourself because they will do these little things in the beginning. And you may be a good person. Maybe you want to give them another chance. Maybe you're thinking they didn't mean it. So you accept it. And then time goes on and they do it again and again. And then they up their game. They switch up. They make it worse. And they become very entitled to and very arrogant because they're looking at it like, hold on a minute. You just let me get away with all of this stuff. You let me have all of these privileges, all of this special treatment. And now you want to tell me that it has to stop. That's how they see it. It's very difficult to discipline the narcissist and put them in their place after so much time has gone by and you've let them get away with all of these things. But that's how this video can change your life. By realizing this, it may be too late to fix things with a narcissist. Your only option may be to go no contact at this point. But if you should meet someone new, narcissist or not, you can take this advice and use it to help you in your next relationship, business partnership, or whatever it is. Because this applies to everything in life. People will do whatever you let them get away with. You have to put a stop to it in the beginning. Don't be afraid to tell them no. Because let's be honest, narcissist are very crafty, sneaky people. If they think they can do something and you're not going to speak on it, you're not going to shut them down, they will do it. Believe that it's like this unruly little child always testing their parents, always trying to get a reaction, sympathy. But when you're dealing with people like this, you've got to step in and be the parent. And I'm not saying you've got to take care of them. I'm not saying that. No. You've got to know when to discipline them, punish them, make them learn from their actions. And if they're a narcissist and they're unwilling to learn, you do it to protect yourself. You must enforce boundaries. You can't just let people walk all over you. Because if you let them do that, they will. But yeah, that's all I've got to say on this topic. How narcissist test you. And I do hope that this video has or will change your life. Thank you all for watching. Please give the video a thumbs up. 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