 How do you pay attention to the man you're married to? Not sure, not sure what you mean by that. How do you pay attention to the man you're married to? You're having problems paying attention to the man you're married to? Seems like a strange. Well, you can focus on learning how to pay more attention to somebody, right? Like, if you want to pay more attention to a guy, what you need to do is get curious. If you're like, hey, I need, like I have a problem with paying attention to him, which is what it sounds like your problem is. What you need to do is get curious about him, get curious about who he is, get curious about his life, get curious about what he does. Just get curious about him in general and that will help you a lot.