 And I know this is not a religious answer, and I'm not even giving a religious answer, I'm giving what I think is a moral and realistic answer. Men want variety. And if adultery is a substitute for, if pornography is a substitute for one's wife, it's awful. If it's a substitute for adultery, it's not awful. What low expectations we have for men? We're treating men as if they're incapable of exercising self-control and faithfulness. But the truth is when we, as men, submit ourselves to God when we humble ourselves before Him, when we stop making excuses for our sin and actually turn to Him in faith and repentance, He gives us self-control. He gives us steadfastness and faithfulness to not cower to the lowest of expectations, but rather rise up to the calling He has put on our lives.