 My friend, how are you? Habari ya weekend. Makuwa je ebu talk to me at Y254 on Facebook, at Y254 channel on Twitter. I may have at least a little bit of the beninging, but nivile noma kidogo. But it's okay, we're here now and we're going to have a party. We're going to have a good time. Luch nongelia, persistence. Does persistence really pay my dear kings and queens? Does persistence pay? If even manome naji shewa na shin na tuwa pwa pwa, would you date me? Good morning, good morning. Hi Mambo. Isom alafu na blue tikiwa, siyati kuna response. Yeah, does persistence pay? We've already started the conversation on at Y254 on Facebook, at Y254 channel on Twitter. Remember to communicate with me. Nona paneli angu already has answers. Natu kona afulu. So afulu aneza anyway. Let's say hi to everybody else. Good morning. Good morning. Naka pwa pwa, nasi mkubali vizuri. Yeah, that's what I like. What's your name? Yeah, my name is Salatun Yemain. What do you do? I'm a student at Afriganaziria University. What do you study? I study luck. They tell you you have to look nice like this. It goes without saying. Wow, kajibusana, social media where do we find you? Everywhere, everywhere it's the 20 mask sensory. I would love to give all my handles. It's not free. Ah, ah, we're so sorry, we're not worthy. Mommy want to finish with you. Afulu sasa? Pwa sasa? Mambo. Eh, niko pwa? Aha. Kuna mtua pa mese mamuna, kashitiki doko. Nikod, nikod. Sia watu ui kutu pwa? Eh, nikadia. Eh, afulu ii boko Instagram, Facebook afulu ii boko, Twitter afulu ii boko. Waja tu bongenasi, tu pikitu story lewa yaan. Uhum. Atkuna na suali ken ken. Zina kuja. Naa. Kwa ni mili, amkapa moja, amo? Imi kusatu ya katikati. Hi. Hello. How are you? I'm good. Onakuita na ni? I'm A-sub. Serious. Yeah. We've missed you. Imi puti ya kidogo. Yeah. Shuko na fae. Shibu eza, paa paa leitu. Eh, to pesa tu? Yeah. Wow. See pesa? Shuguli na faku ii ku was pesa. Yeah. Sure. What are your social media handles? Oh. I'm Kansu A-sub. Serious. Uhum. All. Twitter. Choka. Instagram. Then FB. Yeah. Uhum. And then we finished with the only lady in the group. Hi. Hi. Onakuita na ni, mami? My name is Misha Ifi. Uhum. Yeah. Misha, you look a bit shy, but there's something in your eyes that's making me think you're not shy at all. I'm not shy. I'm just nervous. That's all. Oh, is this your first time on TV? Yeah. Welcome. Thank you. Thank you so much. We will try as much as we can to make you feel at home. Thank you. Yeah. Can I start with you maybe? Okay. Social media handles first. Oh, my social media handle owns all media platforms since Michelle Ifil. Just find me there. Uhum. Michelle Ifi, that's all. Do you think persistence pays? Like for this one, okay, not one. Kuna kwa maisha ya dem. Uhum. Nga nga, nimpa kukati wei. Like kuna wanomekada, kuna you're interested in, you have your crushes, na kuna yatun apkati a gatu, wa shinda tu apkati a gatu. Like you give them signs and tell them to stop but they don't want. Wanonak, shinda, shinda apo ndi o watashileo tuzo. Do you, how do you feel about people who persist? You know, I have no issue with people who persist. It depends on how you persist. You know, there's this thing of somebody texting you all the time. Ashika nishi, nambilutik, nini, nini, ya na nani kakuna madara. But it depends on whether you text. Siya tiki, what are you doing right now? Afuna siya jab. And mjimulize? At what you're doing, nambilutu like, ayune siya wa 10 niya photo. Ah ah. Things like this. So they persist to start or something. My friend. Siya wa photo mte niya. You know, some people even go over extreme as to start stalking me. Get. Stalking is inakotu apu kuploti manze. Aki na paalu na chendu yakotu aago. But siya na persist. No, that's stalking. No, kusia fwadu wa amtaki. Ok, muna takani nini mwambiwe. No, mna fuku shika nisha. If I don't want to be with you, just back off. Nambiwe, you don't? Ya, I don't. Kuhunia shika nisha. Ya. Lekum kunia shika nisha, bada na kufuata tu bado. Oh, so kuhambi wa tundio inafanyam tulie. Some people. Stalking for miya ako. He. Ii yotrusha. Like you. What next? Rahu kiyamzo kusemao, lakini wa nakupenda. Oh, Fee. Aki gasi zilala. Oh, kidokdokdo. Kuntumia picha yua ex, deo storage. So satin. Tuma choka pilegek, kusama choka pisa sanfumu. Why? Siku rezi, kusapuna jami na naomba, auta kuskia kiliu yangu. Nyanze kufolo kama Jesus. Yotam zina. Do you think persistence pays? Well, persistence. You see, I want to make a case for both sides, right? Um. We, we, we are recently when you, when you, when you log on to Facebook, have various social media platforms and you turn on the TV newspapers. We have rising cases of female homicides, right? Of, of a jelted lover somewhere who got mud and then killed the spouse. And we want to see an end to this thing. So she said that there are men who do not know when, when you know when a no is a no. I also think females are sublime at some point. If you have been following this story, you want to put him away but keep him close. You understand what I mean? Like anatakazile benefits that come with being, having this man around, but so she's going to lead him on. But she has her man or she doesn't want it to get into something serious. My fear, my fear of that is that as a man when you invest in a woman, you take her out, you buy her stuff, you, you know, spend on her. You're going to expect a certain level of loyalty, a certain level of loyalty and commitment in return when that does not come forth. That's all. That's all we have. You remember this case and I hate to say this on TV. You remember this case of Wangesh, you've said it. If a person has the motive to drive all the way from you know, from one city to another to kill another human being, how betrayed do you think that person feels? So even as we have a conversation on persistence, we should have another conversation on the trail on, you know, I'm persisting, you're leading me on. I don't know if I'll be able to tell you if you'll be able to tell me because if you don't tell us directly, it's now, we'll keep following in the hope of getting something in return. If we don't, we have this homicide. So if you want to scare your complaints, your grievance, I don't want you to feel it. So you're going to be in danger if you're going to have a lunch. And you're going to have to eat. So you're going to have to eat. Since it's free food, let's just go eat, have a good time. And after that, I'm going to the house and I'm going to buy. Yeah. So I'm going to text. Oh, I had so much fun. Oh, nini nami akwambia hiki bro to just a one of thing like relax. Can I respond to that? It's on the way where umenya mazosa. Okay. I can respond to that. Thank you. They say that the greatest of communications, you know, the most intense and the most intimate of communications happens without speaking. So body language, right? You can tell I'm sure if I walked into this room and people don't want me in this room, I will pick it up automatically, you know, whether people are behaving towards you, their attitude. So for a person to, you know, decide that they're being let down, I mean, come on. They have to be, it's not just lunch, it's the way you behave during that lunch. So it's the way, it's in the little things, they let the little things behave. Of course, umenya baek ya kula, nipaga ni kwe mpole. Nipaga ni kwe mzuri. Say at the, at the, so make a deposit in our future. No, no, no. How are you feeling about this? Talk to me, sir. Okay. Um, also it's in get some comments but there's no one who can conquer it. I believe in persistence. Yeah. Yeah, it's cool. Even in the bible we find like there was this, there was this lady who went to, there's a story like in the bible, it's in New Testament, I believe in the book of Luke. There was a lady who persistently went to a certain king, like to ask him for a certain favor. But because of his persistence, many times like he gets the favor. Now, when it comes to a real life situation in getting women, like when you persist, someone will say like, oh, this guy is serious though. Like even if you come to the police, at least attack him, like on a natural, he will say, in his ears, like you see. So unlike to like anakupia once, tropas, bion bion, then you find like men do not trust them. You will just run away out of the kituimakuda chip. Even you don't like, you don't want to get cheap things. Yeah, even if it takes years. Yeah, I don't think so. So, okay, okay. So for them, if she immediately anakubale, she does. Yeah, sure. Wow. Naki kawia, piyade she does. Oh, to me, it's not like, it can takes even a year and above. Yeah. Like it takes. It's something like if you want to like date a woman or courtship which leads to marriage, then it can be even years, like there's no problem. But now, if the guy is like on anakatu, like kupita, like just to spoil na kupita. That's why they won't have the patience. Yeah, they won't have the patience. Chukao tani nyama kuna mayata tani. Yeah. So, to me, then the men should sell up at least. Come on, you keep on serious. You should tell. Come on nile kupita. Thank you. Thank you. I don't know what you're going to say. You don't know what I'm going to say. I'm going to tell you a story about the reason I'm a DC and a M.C.C. If you didn't say it to her, she took a photo. It's her easy. Because the second I am doing it, I'm going to come and stay. She wouldn't have come and say I'm not going to go to the place where I'm going to pack it. It's your problem. I'm not going to go to the place where I'm going to pack it. I'm going to go to the place where I'm going to pack it. So what it is. sigma para kuhizi chrome kwa na kia kaihi, kwa na isi kujini ok, kwa kia kia kaihi, kya iss za kinkata na kich news, ma na kande kia kisha isi ma na kishima kwa klั้u muna kakutakehwa kwa na kaputakehe kisha isi kUhini Why do you do that? Ok, atu pati matusi batu na tako uchi hangamu ke You go and you matusi Hi, no, that's It doesn't work Nini kama wele Uneza pita pa, let's say, ita ufume pita Na utatua na ume jeshiivi And it's Sema positi, sema positi wele Odo me kama kama kuku oku Taki wele ya, kama kama wele Ala ku ujipe shubu liu 7 No, I'm focused, let me just go Ala maybe ume duga tu earphones na One scared to atu kaivi Ita aga kwenakakakrib Una joku ume hiibi, ume duma angu siya 50 bopchi Na li kwa na kwa ume ya mada I'm chikwa pesa kwa muna Bida na kwa, hepe na ala kwa ume I'm 20 kwa Uza ni bi puta uta ringa Uza ni bi kwa ume ya sura mba ya chikwa pesa Nya uta, pesa kwa nye maanguka Iwa na Wow Ya, see, that's very stereotypical That's one issue I have with women Women with yellow stereotyped men But we share a way from stereotyping themselves For example, a very common phrase It's very okay to say that all men are trash Because there is a select group of men Who behave in a certain team of men Kina kevo So you see, that's a very common phrase Men are trash But we have fine men We have fine men We have responsible people We have fine young men And I saw this meme last week A lot of men And a lot of people that view my status That a lot of men want to believe in women's dreams But women are not about dreams Women are not about ambition About Brazilian hair And what do they call those names Yeah, those fake nails And chicken ears And chicken ears And photoshoots Kusama boya photoshoot Na kawtungu apa No, that's something I've been waiting to say Women are very stereotypical So all men are trash But how about the women How about the women who behave in a stereotypical way as well You know, we also have women who make cat calls We have women who will walk into class As in, he'll walk into class And in giggle, there's his not cat calls Because you've passed Why don't you talk about that Why do we have to sell men are trash And women But because of the topic of the day persistence Persistence is good if you want to Persistence is good if I like a girl If I like a girl and I believe my game is good Which is good I will obviously make a move But then How the woman responds Because she's the one being pursued Is what will determine whether Like that persistence will turn ugly Or not Understand You can turn down a man in a very civilized way You know, in a way that You don't have to be Abusive Go to na And I know this is very moving influenced But go to the guy At the end of the day Thank him, just be civilized about it Thank you for bringing me here today And fortunately I have a guy I will go You've timed me down But you did it in such a nice way Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Why would a man opt to keep trying When there's no response What would make you keep persisting Na her lady shangwe Like she's not showing any signs of saying yes Any time soon That's it That's it That's it That's it I will block I will post a video And I will say Hey I will try to make it I will watch it Say something Okay My brother here Just say the truth Ladies For example You keep texting me Like this You want to follow me Like come with me to a swimo You see So what I can say Is that ladies should have Should take a side Kamaa Kamaa you not interested in me Like just cut your interest You see on your interest period It will help a lot I won't spend much Like you see When someone like keep Blutik Kiyasi Then you see Let me try On other side So like that thing When you don't have a car Next time you will say Let me get a car from a friend So that I can show her How I am good Okay That's it Even you Take ease In life You will try like another one Plan B if you fail Plan A if you fail So like to stop this thing Like just cut your interest You see on your interest You are like a post-sizo If you have a job If you have a job If you don't have a job If you don't have a job If you don't have a job If you don't have a job When you do that Call the police Call the police You may say you don't have a job We are not interested in your cause We won't believe in your cause If we don't have a job I am a tenant I am a fixeribfla yuk ! but how would you say to someone like you that is the end of a family of kids ? I have several questions In kivu y PACs,uku na hia tumakthana but okili pa rent, kwa landlord do you expect him or her to be your friend? kuna ka unjya mw kwa njembacki kwa njembacki but ou expect ki tunna landlord unchi wa tu na fa muli pa rent siguiente so asium tu ma denpiaitkwevo na mmya kuja nika smile, smile nika ...shangili ya shangili yaa loko kwa wei kwa Facebook Wei kwa Facebook Wei kwa ina, Wei kwa Facebook channel on Twitter Wei hlm a kwa Facebook komus aweti that we would like to show you Urocha ku funguwa rohoa matu na 2 state Can we look at the comments? Yes, please Kumbuka at Y35 on Facebook, at Y35 on channel, on Twitter And here we go, good morning guys Tukona Steve Kehio Tukot moleza Is it okay for a guy to keep persisting? To what end will you persist? Oh, Steve amesama until she agrees Sesa kama ni next day aki Toshina toa po Nakuna stand by uyu aki Decide kama trakwingi a box Kuna mwingine ama ni uyu tu We will talk about that Judge Flex, I think if she says no Definitely is a strong no Kanyaga kubuwa putaftepwingi Aha, Danny Danny is tuned in only 2 weeks Only 2 weeks Mba kama napewa deadline maastana Kevin nyangwa sova Let's read Zoma dooma Zoma ame funguwa rohoa Zoma Baby we love you too We do, we do, we do Kevin nyangwa sowa and see you And then Makaveli Brand says N, ki plagat a Jaffa says Kuto ka iseru village kabi Saga wad Nandi County Watching live kama kaweida Umpaka na nika Tuna mba It's okay Atwai Trifon Facebook Atwai 2.5.4 channel on Twitter Let's start with Judge Flex Nesema if she The answer is a definition Kanyaga kubuwa no When they bring in a query That's what I was saying earlier That if she If she is very clear with her rejection And she is very similar About the way she delivers this snow Then of course Of course if you are a responsible man I think the biggest point Upper is in delivery It's the way they say this snow Kus if you Ukinu nisha matarao If it then turns into A whole game of shenanigans But if you feel very subtle about it You just deliver it nicely Then I think I agree with him That Kizema na isemi vizuri You have no reason to Kudu mle kubali Last case scenario To say ma You had I don't want to call it a date Okay a date In younger dates Maybe even had an interaction Over a couple of months Lofus kumoja tu Asa nesutaki tela Ya Umeshi ba Umeshuka matatu Ah ah ah ah Siya tu menda gada itina driver Siya tu utashuketu mali Mazi maybe stage ya ke mefika Earlier than you put it would Ya So after that Tum sumbu wa maneni iteni Kufu bi dote Nesutaki ya Meme bili uteni Meme kwa ni kuleyata Ina shida maneni Nijuweze ma tu sukiwa Kwanza tu Historia kustaki Ya Meme fika two place Hata ki tera ni yatka kufu mufu No ma na kwa na Green a Pastors No If it's possible I mean if a guy can get add over girl It's okay to assume that a girl Can also get add over girl Okay To me I acknowledge The fact that You can move with someone Like not that far Mumia and Zatu But she sees something Which she doesn't like So Food can turn into everything here from that side. To me, I take it positive. Okay. Maybe that's the way it is. There's no reason for the first things. How can I know? Don't once insist on this because I'm sure that I'll show up but maybe if that happens, maybe it'll turn out to be an ox. Kwa makuna kituwa japenda, kwa miya rizun bono mismamiya katikati? Ya, they should tell. Kwa mii ma say, mangi o rizun? Okay, it's sad to some extent, but ya. Shumia, I'll take it positive, but I don't know what I'm guessing. Kwa na kwa tili ya, if you say, so the problem in hakujiya. Juki na kwa kuna shikiya katikati, bara-bara kisongi. Okay, that's why. That's why yesterday this guy called, who is this governor from Osingisho, and he told me, Manda go. Manda go said like, how ma bibi waitu, ineza kwa ni girl friend at number 20, you should keep going like back at the later meter. Ya, ya, ya. Wow. I am well, many girl friends. The chief like, say you maim katia, they facilitate. So maim maim katia, but what if she tells you like, it's better remain as friends. Ta kubali. Okay. So maim bibi, kama uko tuta kwa brother ma sister. Kofi. Wait, so saying that. Ya, tadyu nu brother, maim kwa kandaan. You should put the phone down. Ya, taki kwa na kana so rude. And maim kona like, we can't go further than being friends. Okay, see your friends in a relationship? So maim bibi, that's what I'm talking about, maim kwa friends sponsor, so that we see if we can be have a relationship. So maim kwa kandaan. Taki kwa na friend na crash on the side. We gotta finish. Ya, ya, ya. Maim nanda kwa damus, let me knock my laser. Okay, oh my gosh. Let me just make it first. Okay, so I believe the key takeaway point here in persistence in rejection is communication. That's all I'd like to finish by saying that even as you persist, your communication should be on point. Even as you reject a guy, your communication should be on point. So that we do not see cases of persistence and rejection culminating in violence and homicide. We really, really do not want that. Seto nim, relax nunze. Stroke ii presha. Bila, bila, bila. It's not that serious. Ii bangi kuwana. Bila, Ii bada. Nisawa. Nisawa. But tuko, see what's there. Yutakpe kiyako. Desi nii desi pasito, zi desi parisha, ita kushika. Ii jiputes yuna panya pizuna baya. Umona. Okay, I tried to find for Facebook at Y254 channel on Twitter. Hashtag is a why in the morning and the others that branch off past that. Please, please, please. Please, if you still have something to say about this particular topic, you can still go back to our pages and comment and we will get to you. So please remember at Y254 channel on YouTube. That's where you can get this in case you missed it. Napiasu repeat from Tuesday from 2 to 4 pm. Please have a good day. An amazing week, 12. Oh, bye-bye.