 وَأَقُولُ فِي القُرْآنِ مَا جَاءَتْ بِيهِ آياتُهُ فَهُوَ الْكَارِيمُ المُنزَالُهُ وَأَقُولُ قَالَ اللَّهُ جَلَّ جَلَالُهُ وَالمُصْطَافَ الْهَاديِ وَلَا أَتْ أَوَّالُهُ كيف نبقى بشكل جميع المساعدة من يرى أخرين بعمل ومساعدة؟ الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على عبد الله ورسوله نبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبيه أجمعين فأولاً ما نقول أنه ليست مجدداً لكي تخبر كل شخص يحدث لك بعض الناس لا تفهم ايه وأما بنعمة ربكة فحديث as meaning that every time something good happens to you you need to tell the entire world about it that's not the case and that's not the majority of the scholars of Tafsir they didn't see the ayah like that in fact you can generally see that the opinions of Tafsir around this ayah وأما بنعمة ربكة فحديث don't revolve around telling people all of the blessings that happen to you some of them said it means to convey Islam to people I need to tell people about the blessing of Islam but this idea that you need to tell everybody everything good that happens to you this is not actually really doesn't have an evidence for it in Islam we still need to keep ties with people even if those family members are people who dislike you doing well however we need to give an example of how you can keep ties with these family members while still not necessarily telling them all of the good that happens to you so for example they could you could have let's say for example you move to a new house and you're in the habit of keeping ties with this particular relative you move over the phone and on a phone call the relative says to you you know how is how are things within your house so you have two choices you can either you know sort of pour out all of the blessings of Allah الحمد لله it's amazing we got it so cheaply and without any debt and الحمد لله it's the most amazing place I've never seen anything like it and then you know that that person doesn't like seeing other people do well and is going to harbour some enmity and hatred for you or you can simply play it down without rejecting the blessing of Allah say الحمد لله it's okay الحمد لله everything's going alright there's a big difference and we're not saying oh it's terrible we're not saying to lie and say oh it's terrible it's the worst place ever it's nothing special but just keep it with generic words that praise Allah say الحمد لله على كل حال we praise Allah in every situation what an excellent answer that is just to say الحمد لله على كل حال we praise Allah in every situation the person might get the impression that things are not going well for you الحمد لله things are alright الحمد لله we're quite happy الحمد لله without necessarily overdoing it and one of the things we see is for example Facebook, social media things like that Instagram these are key examples of how people bring this problem upon themselves by posting everything good that happens to them and even exaggerating the good that happens to them and then their relatives who don't have a you know they have a little bit of jealousy or a little bit of enmity in their heart they don't they didn't come to harm and they cause harm to they cause harm to that person because the person is literally embellishing and showing off everything that happens to them what you have to do is to praise Allah for the good that happens to you to thank Allah to use what you've been given for good but as for needing to tell every single person about it we don't know of any evidence that indicates this in Islam and as we said the ayah وَأَمَّا بِنِعْمَةِ رَبِّكَ فَا حَدِّثِ it isn't acceptable as an evidence for this rather what we think is the person should use generic words praise Allah and simply move on now it can be more difficult because sometimes that relative wants to probe okay so how much did you buy it for then and it becomes hard for the person right the person sees you know if I tell them I bought it and I got it really cheap then they're going to feel jealous of me so again you just try to use generic words change the subject get out of the conversation or just you know just to say الحمد لله it was okay we were happy with it the end of the day and just generic words and obviously to seek refuge with Allah from the evil eye and so on but there's a difference between that and between embellishing it and saying yeah we got it so cheap we've never had it so cheap no one's ever it's the most amazing thing it was a a carama from Allah and so we got it like that there's a difference between those two ways so keep a generic and try to bring the conversation back to them and try to also set the limits that you don't want to overly talk about your personal situation and just you know try not to get into those details like that and Allah is our جل knows best السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته how can you do a two second action right now that will give you a share of the reward of everything we're doing on this YouTube channel simple like this video and click subscribe why it will allow YouTube to recommend 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