 Got the next speaker coming up. This man needs no introduction. This is his fifth time speaking at this event. He is featured in the 21 Convention Documentary. If you guys haven't checked that out, check it out. It's awesome, great interview. Voted multiple times the number one pick up artist in the world. And you can learn more about him at attractionexplained.com. Adam Lyons, give it up. Appreciate it. Wow, this is cool, man. You know the best thing? This time it's like at my house. Like not that I live in the Marriott, but I live like over the road. And it's so nice to not have to get on a fucking plane first thing in the morning and fly all the way out and then pretend that I'm like wide awake, you know? Like it's nice. It's nice to be on my home turf. So 21 Convention, to be honest with you guys, it's honestly my favorite place to come and speak. I really enjoy it. The crowd that comes here, the people that I get to work with. You guys, you're not just looking at one aspect. You're not just looking at pickup chicks. You're looking to improve your life and do a whole bunch of other stuff besides. I love that. I appreciate that. I'm gonna share with you just at the beginning before I start. Today was a very stressful day for me, not because of this speech, but because I had my final exam to become a yoga certified teacher this morning. I've been training for it for like three months. I woke up first thing in the morning, went out, did my yoga exam and then came here straight afterwards. And I think that's an aspect of my life that people don't get. They're like, Adam's a pickup artist. That's what he does, right? It's like, well, no, I just not what Adam does. Yeah, sure, Adam does that, but he also learns yoga, teaches yoga. He also does filmmaking. He has other aspects to his life. And I think a lot of guys, when they're learning how to pick up chicks or whatever, they forget how important it is to be normal. Does that make sense to you guys? Do you agree with that? Good, thank God you guys said yes. If some of you guys are like, wait, what? We're not just here to pick up chicks. I'm done, I'm going. Having said that, what I am good at is helping people learn how to pick up chicks. And so of course today, one of the key things that we're gonna be talking about is some of the, some of my latest research and some of my latest finds to help you guys be able to attract more women, get more women to life, higher quality, whatever it is that you want. But there is a flaw in most people's teachings of dating. I want to expose it with you guys today. Do me a favor, raise your hand if you have ever at some point in your life picked up a girl. Raise your hand. Oh, that's the entire room, there we go. So, so fun, isn't it? You get these guys come up on stage, they're like, I'm gonna show you how to do it because you don't know. And I'm like, wait a minute, let's be honest for a minute here. It's not that we don't know because we've all done it at least once, maybe twice, maybe a bunch of times. It's not that we don't know. So if it's not that you don't know, then why are you here? If it isn't that you don't know, why, why have you come here? I'm gonna guess, I'm gonna extrapolate a little bit. I'm guessing it's because, and give me some guesses if you agree with some of this. I'm guessing it's because you want to know how to do it again so you can duplicate the actions whenever you want. All right, I'll get some yeses now. Okay, good. What about, what about, I want more of them. More, more plentiful, abundant to my lifestyle. How about that? Yes. Okay, that's good. How about I don't ever want to be alone again? Is that a good one? Not as much. He's like, more women in my life, yes. Never want to be alone again. He's like, as long as I've got more women in my life, I'm never gonna be alone. Why do I care? What about higher quality women? What about like super hot chicks? How about that? Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. Okay, so these are the kind of things that people want. And so, I'm here today. I'm not gonna be telling you this is how you do it. Instead, I'm gonna try and approach that maybe makes it a bit easier with what you're currently doing. How about rather than, all right, here's that a guy out in the street and approach 200 girls a day, get a roll of decks full of phone numbers and then text all of them using like, I don't know, sex to sex or whatever so that these girls will maybe come back and have me. And instead, we're gonna help you identify the kind of women that naturally are gonna be drawn to you that you were attracted to. So you can go out there, you can find a girl and you're like, you know what? I quite like that girl. And I can tell that girl kind of likes me. And so that way when you approach, it's not so much a cold approach. Rather, it's two people that both wanna meet each other and we're bringing it together. So, give you guys an example of why some people have issues and why we're even here in the first place. I had this student a little while ago and in fact, it was about three weeks ago in Toronto. And he's out in the boot camp and he has probably some of the worst fear of approaching I have ever seen in my life. This guy's petrified of talking to anybody. I'm like, oh man, it can't be that bad. And I'm gonna just to let you guys know, he's a good looking guy, he makes a lot of money. So anyone out there who's like, oh, if you've got good looks of money, you don't need game, bullshit. This guy's got a ton of money and he's good looking. Can't approach, can't talk to girls and when he does, he runs away. I got him at one point. He said, you know what? He goes, it would be easier if you open the girl for me and then introduce me. And you know what? I was interested at the point. I was like, fine, dude, you want that? Done, no problem. So I go up to this super hot blonde chick and I'm like, hey, I just wanna come over and talk to you. I thought you had a really cool look and I wanted to take the time to let you know. I'm Adam, nice to meet you. Oh, by the way, this is my friend and so I introduced the guy and he's like this. And he's like gone over the other side of the mall. I'm like, dude, come back and meet my friend. She's really cool. I'm like, he's really shy. Come back and meet my friend. And she's like, it's okay, I'm nice. No, no, I don't wanna do that. They're like, she just wants to talk to you. Look, do you wanna speak to him? Yes, see, yes, she wants to, no, it's okay. So I go back to him, I'm like, dude, and I'm stealing a phrase here from one of my very good friends. I'm like, why don't you like your dick? What's your problem? Like what have you got against it, man? And he goes, no, no, I like my dick. I'm like, maybe you like it too much. You gotta share it. Like, this is bad, man, this is an issue. And he's like, dude, I just, the idea of approaching just scares me. I'm like, here's what we're gonna do. I was like, we're gonna keep it very simple. I was like, girls love receiving compliments. So the next girl that we see, just give her a compliment. You're not trying to talk to her. You're just trying to make her feel good about herself. Give her a compliment. Make her feel good about her day. Let her be happy. And then go about your day and we'll discuss stuff like, okay, that I can do. So he goes up to this girl, she's super cute. She's like tatted up and you get a lot of those girls kind of like in Austin, not so much in Toronto, but she was cute, you know. And he goes up to her and he goes, hey, I'm gonna tell you, I really like your hair. It's really nice, the colors in it, really nice. I'm gonna let you know. And this, I'm gonna do the best impression I can of the girl, okay, this is the girl. She's like, oh my God, thank you so much. That was amazing. I needed to hear that today, thank you. Guy comes up to me and I'm like, I'm the man. I'm like, come on, I'm like good. He couldn't approach. Now he's approaching, I'm fucking awesome. He comes up to me, he's like, see? And I'm like, see, see what dude? And he goes, see? She laughed at me. And I'm like, she did what? And he goes, she smiled. You see that? She was laughing at me, making fun of me for talking to her. That's what happens when I talk to girls. And I'm like, fuck dude, you just made a day. And he goes, no, no, no, she was laughing at me, I know. And I'm like, all right man, we need to, and my brain is wrecking. I'm like, how can I convince this guy that this girl was genuinely happy when he's convinced she wasn't? So we discussed, I'm like, all right. First of all, when someone's making fun of someone, do you think they bring their hands to their chest? Is that an action? Do they do that? They go, oh my God, thank you so much. Do they do that? And he goes, well, I suppose not. I was like, right. I was like, because her body language there, she's talking about herself. She's bringing it in, talking about herself. How about, did she point at you? And he goes, no. I was like, in my experience, whenever a girl points at you, or like, and then laughs, that's when they make fun of you. Ha! You gave me a compliment, dumbass. That's how they're gonna do it. I was like, I know one ever says that. I was like, but even if they did, they'd be pointing at you. He goes, oh, that makes so much sense. He goes, how'd you know that? I was like, because I'm a qualified body language expert. I was like, I did a whole freaking exam learning it. And he goes, that's so cool. Maybe if I did that, that would help me.