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Everybody wants to be successful. Come on out here, you want to make money, you want to network, you want to be a billionaire, you want to start a business. But then, come on out here, you want to avoid those people. Here is where we're going to get those exact hacks. Who are some of these people they should be avoiding, especially when you want to be successful in life? But also tell us on that hashtag, you want to come out here and avoid on your journey to success, avoid those people. But who are these people in the name of a cardinal? And Jerega Slavin's studio are two powerful gentlemen, like I said, on my minute right, I need to have Victor O'Chieng, and then we have Syla. So Syla's a bogie. Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you. All right, I'm going to start with you, Victor. What do you do in life? It's a funny question, but you know you get it. What do you do in life when you need to become a boy child? OK, I as Victor do a lot of stuff, but majorly I blog, I do write articles mostly on health, but specifically on fitness, because I'm so much enthusiastic about fitness. So I love writing on fitness, and I would like to inform people more about physical fitness exercises, fitness apps, and even link people to those gym instructors that they would want for fitness, because I believe that that is one thing that many people want to maintain their health. OK. Interesting area. It's like you said, you took the right profession, you're going to take away for it, but matters health. Thank you. Yes, Mr. Syla's. I'm Syla's. I'm a student at the University of Paris, Carolina County, Guelta, Guelta. I'm from Plastin, Fibrin, Odian, Fibrin. OK, I'm... You're a partner, you're a partner, so it's about me, sorry. Moving on swiftly. OK. I'm CEO of SL Media. CEO? Yes, I'm SL Media. You're not the title of Zito, are you? I'm not the title of Zito. Yeah, Villanova. OK, OK. In SL Media Palace, we do video editing, we do adverts, we do picture editing, and all sorts of media-related issues. Yes. In short, when I said you also could bring out audio, video professionally. Yeah, professionally. Sounds interesting. So let me start off with you. I feel like you're already successful, because when you're CEO, a chief executive officer, meaning before part of e-space, before in gecko e-space, you're like, you're so respectful, you're working so hard, yes, you have things you're running, but you have to do something to avoid it, because before when I was title CEO, I wish you a very, a very orderly life in your lead to our success. From your experience, the way you see it, even from your profession, you have to come back and say, like, obvious, bro, what do you want me to make? I want you to watch it. What I want to do is to tell my fake friends that is there. Fake friends. You have just to avoid them. Yes, I want you to be successful. When you want to be successful, maybe you want to be successful, but in real sense, they want to bring you down. You just have to avoid them, and know you are real friends. Yes, if you want to be successful, you should not be into much into them, so that you can be successful. Yes, sure. The point is, but then I'm looking at it, how do you determine, or how do you decipher, if you are real, now you seem real. Where do you draw the line? I think it's necessary. When I say, I want to be a fake friend, we seem to be real. When I say real, I want to be fake. Just a one-time thing. Friendship is temporary. But then I have emotions. Friendship is not going to have emotions. I was looking at it, I felt something was wrong. Okay, so I say, I say I'm a fake friend, that doesn't mean that maybe you want to be successful, if you want to be successful, you can say that I'm a fake friend. We should take that line. A fake friend, that line, I'll say a fake friend, if you want to be successful, maybe you want to be successful, but really I want to be a fake friend. I'm sorry. So only Chucky? Chucky. It's interesting to tarot him back for your point. For me, I think we do have a lot of people around us. It becomes, as you have said, sometimes hard to determine was the fake friend. So I think in such situations we should all most of the times we should think about the people who are there with us at the times when you are facing the most troubles and the times of our happiness because you find that you have a lot of people around you when you're enjoying life when you have a lot of things to celebrate but when you are going through the hardest moments you find that almost everyone is busy having dealing with their own problems like when you come to talk to someone, but then they're like you know I'm working on this thing so I can't really help you with this and that but as human beings I mean we have to move on we have to learn to stand on our own without these all the friends that you have and for the few people that will be there with you those are the people that I do call true friends and the people that you should avoid in life are people that are trying to drag you behind wherever you're making a step for example for us as youths we do have these situations where we have people around us most of them are talk to us on a daily basis but they don't really give us conversations that is not funny to move forward like for example Nekona Rafiki and at most of the times like we just go out have a drink to pick a share here, but when you try to pick a share in the bar but also pick a share in the college yeah okay there are people who pick a share in the college but a lot of it sometimes it's I feel it's dragging people back because when you sit down all you think about is share here I would want friends around me when you're an attacker we sit down we talk business we talk things that can build us in as much as we do share here but we also talk about things that might build us right yeah I want us to switch gears to to me a relationship sir sir but I used to hear Hakimi play our Paris Saint-Germain anyway some big fun as well I got to I'm a I'm a I'm a jazz I will think and you know you are my pater-wife wife and we are not a file for divorce and I took a half of what this guy and then later on they found out that everything that Hakimi Onsi is registered in his you know mom's name and then at some point we had a conversation with some of the with the friend I can use as an can the type of woman you marry be an obstacle to your success or be be a hindrance to progress in life and then there are different opinions and it was scared to is it an obstacle like it will especially could choose them on a set on a and comes with them on a fuck with them on a guy you know fuck when I write specific qualities I'm on it them too because you know they want to be some boy child anyways they said there's every woman for every month me come when I say ma when it comes to choosing partner it should look into that keenly because it really matters there are some girls who just bring obstacles yeah so sorry just just a little bit interact with us on our social media on that hashtag while in the morning and I'm speaking to Victor O'Ching just in case I had it mentioned seated next to me Victor O'Ching he's a blogger and then next to him is Silas or Silas a bogey he's a content creator in short he owns a media production company that's where you can get them you see your social media towards the tailings of the broadcast but in the laborer sorry I had to say that once again so you have to choose a keenly and on your partner because they could not one day money when I talk at all what pay you up a they can't bring a new idea to what you people can do together so that you can be successful I love I love to be able to say ma Khwamba let me let me bring you back to my culture in lieu we say that you may find a girl or a woman who pengine to say me I wasn't successful before but there's a top of a woman if you bring into your life automatically you'll be successful and that is the best girl you should know how to choose yeah right so it matters the type of woman you settled in terms of making progress all right you're going to pick up on the culture next time but since for my boys this out okay for me I think what he's saying is to a traffic like just as he has said you might and let me just say this marriage is where people mess would mess or make the best access out of it because the woman you marry or the man you marry for lady's sake in your life is the person who is going to determine the steps you're going to make in life like let me say 70% of the steps that you're going to make in life to ensure your success so most of people at that point do marry because maybe of things they see like for us guys to not ponder kwangalia physique and this the woman that I want to marry but I tend to think that guys should actually look at the girls or the people that they are marrying from what is she bringing to the table if you marry a woman who will push you forward you you are sure that you're going to be successful so on the akimi story I mean it's so unfortunate actually the social media people are saying oh don't marry mama's boys but I mean akimi probably had seen the red plugs and he knew the kind of person probably he knew maybe there's this and that about the lady so he chose to transfer the money or the wealth to the mother but anyway as guys I think you should actually vet and see the person you're marrying so that you make sure you don't make a mistake and marry someone I think from my point of view the girl that I've had in my life you're continuing to continue to have that girl so she's really impacted my life in my writing and she's made me really understand who I want to be and the fact that she's competent competent she's made me really want to do more and more and more without getting back because she's every day she gives me the reason to wake up and do my work I do back to you what do you think still on the same some point like marrying right is this something that you know most of us in the society living especially my boy child like we all come as Victor come and say my first sight first impression I'm like but then have you checked at the red flags in between like what happened to let's know each other let's court let's date and then later on we can see if we can sit off America's I'm sure there's people you can date even for most came to a late date for ten years now how cool they'll I'm a how cool that you know Julie's are ten one of the combination planet Ghani bro ten come on now don't know like I only meet a week of wedding the following week so marrying right how does it help okay okay what what will happen first is let's say you are still dating you date first then you know the type of girl you want to marry if you see that this kind of a woman I want to marry is not the one which who is going to give me success on my side then then it's really crucial for you to have a good woman as a man yeah so it's really crucial for you to just choose correctly on a woman you want to marry because it really matters all right I had a crazy thought in my mind and what happens those men who don't want to marry a mother but then we'll come back with that later let's talk about toxicity in terms of friendships I'm a toxicity in a sense that I don't say long star like probably probably my denny's in as a successful you know you try to make a maybe my partner got job oh maybe we'll on your 50k but he's job in a pair 20k each and every time when I get a book leave a high songy you know read you pala pala pala pala what do you think about toxicity in terms of debts and then to try shifting to pick relationships I think to visit in terms of debts to say maybe let me say my poetry maybe the works you are doing is not really paying for that I think you should find better ways or other activities that you can do multiple of them so that you can do a multiple of works and pay the debts and grow successfully it's easier for a lady to put a job first than boy child for example in the Mali audition or a good a mature mature mother child could and then my boys will be too in terms of now getting this job to sustain yourself as a man you are meant to build yourself up to us in terms of finances in terms of patience emotional intelligence mastery but then how does it just happen that you know as a man but then on this other side it seems like they can have it easy and as a change at the tomb say I ended at the tomb say rich why is it not easier for you to get a rich person very fast but it's easier for you know deemed easy I'm not saying it's easy deemed I'm using the word deemed yes you say money rice sea rice you know we men as the society have put it is like we are the head of everything so you just have to work hard and be the head and provide for your family so it is not easy for you just not to you go to any woman that you want to date if you don't have nothing I like that I like that Victor okay on the first point that you're talking about about that I think first of all my principal as Victor is I wouldn't take a debt that I that I mean a debt alone that I can't pay so I always look for something that I can take and pay within a short time that won't give me issues as I move on and I think for the for the story about society I mean it's it's normal women have chances and it's something that you are not going to avoid or underlook it's there and we are there with it but as men with this condition here should always try to do much do more as a guy to make sure that you stand your place yeah and women at times they have the opportunity to do whatever they do and they'll shine but you as a guy what do you have work hard and work hard and work hard the chance that they have is there and you can't put them down from there so you have to give it your best in order to stand out right yeah let's switch the toxicity back for relationships also can how important is a core to a point always move ahead in life and you can reach your goals I believe at some point you need mentors you know you need people I'm sure you know what I'm going to look up to like in semi-achieve you know as an area I'm sure I'm still when you're not look up to not again I say but then what are you doing to become like this person you know that's the question I pocket cut so how do you answer yourself are pocket cut for you to be like the person you are looking to you have to work hard first and put your goals in order so that you can achieve them and in the relationship where you have that girl who is going to be a bit toxic in your whatever you are doing I think you have to get rid of you have to work on it yeah yeah I didn't something okay for me I mean in relationships first of all one of my thing is the first time I find a girl I vet her before I talk to her he vetting salsa yeah he vetting donny vetting her it's all about I mean getting to know things without asking her getting to know that's a superpower it's like studying someone yeah I'm starting to take note silent without asking her yeah so within this period I know a little about her then when I get to talk to her I ask her about things about her as well and she'll tell me things and within that period is where she starts lying and I know no he's not a girl but I'll tell when she's lying will you be able to tell basically because I think from my experience I've ever experienced I've ever known that this guy is saying the truth or saying the lies after knowing the information that I've gathered about her okay basically because the information I have before asking her is always the truth so I just ask to confirm if she'll tell me the truth or lie right then from that point I get to know her better and better and better so when you get into a relationship I know that actually she's she's going to be good or she's going to be bad and if she if she's going to be bad is the bad too bad that I can't handle if I can handle then basically I'll still date her right but if it's something I can't handle then I'll put her aside thing or something that I'm trying to bring out is there's no reason to have someone in life that is toxic and is dragging you back if you find that there's a girl that you like but she's dragging you back I mean Osteana Niuengi just stay back you find the right person I love Osteana Niuengi for being loud but thanks for that another one another one that I believe in as a drug say behind me let me let me say it as the last point but now biller savings and I will mention having multi sources of revenues and accolades income but can help you you know become successful just having this TV job getting another ready job and maybe running a business but then at what point do you do you just settle you know I say my minimum cut off kill I'm say I'm all about my business and then stuck in toxicity because toxicity are dead you're dead in here I'm sure I'm going to mention naivus naivus on a pop up now offer when I don't have any shopping I'm not happy at what point do you just cut off everyone and say it's me in my world the rest goodbye at that point where you decide that I want to cut off everybody is where you get that your friends or anybody who is around you is not adding value into your your life I think that is where you are going to cut off even yeah yeah even he adding value that I could explain so say to say me your friends are just about other things not not not not success they are about bash and everything about history about you know every Friday but I'm curious to say share a process of life but anyways yeah so you have to know who are your friends who are your true friends yeah all right I think there's one thing once at a time Abel Mutua their filmmaker said Kuro Genzi he once said that you'll see a lot of young people driving out here you'll see a lot of young people doing stuff and you start wanting to push yourself to own a vehicle when you're 20 and do a lot of stuff that you can't do at that moment but he say these people are doing things that you don't know that maybe you'll follow up and you'll not know about so I think I as Victor I do push myself within the limits that I have at that moment like if I don't have enough funds I do what is there according to the funds that I have instead of doing things that may make me go bankrupt and that includes friends I know but share is not bad but like then and you're the only person bearing the bills and probably in that group of friends you're the one who is earning more so your friends are there like clothes you are the one who is pushing them carrying the burden yeah so as Victor I think when you're having friends push them to work as you are working hard so that when you move to a step they move with you they also make their steps in life so that when they are burdened they also bear their burdens you don't feel like you are the one catering for your friends and through that you get to make your friends go with you and there's no toxicity around you you feel that the progress you're making your friends are making progress that will not hinder your moving forward right good now how can peer pressure influence somebody's life to a point where you feel you're stuck but then you're caught up in a situation where you have this fantastic amazing friends you know they have it all going for themselves we haven't mentioned like my 3,000 cc is below 30 which I'm not saying is bad to drive a 3,000 cc below 30 but you're just blessed to come from that point of privilege and I'm sure now to compass life there's too much pressure to fly to try and look on point to try and get it right to try and associate with celebrities to debt you know to pay attention leadership also gives you some sort of authority but then at what point do you feel like peer pressure to destroy life how does it make progress I think what I'm saying is this thing called peer pressure don't believe in it I don't believe in peer pressure because I say that you have to look you have to know you are first you know you have to work with your friends you have to work with your friends it's not like that so I don't believe in peer pressure and people I don't know I don't know I don't know it's easy but if you come to me maybe you are judging me according to my friends so I don't believe in peer pressure with me what are some of the examples of peer pressure examples of like peer pressure I don't know I don't know but if we can tell her how much she can do to help her she can be a part of the presentation but so some of those things I try to know where I should love this I'm a beggar. I'm a gift to you. I'm blessed. I'm blessed. Why not? I'm blessed. I'm blessed. I'm blessed. I'm blessed. You have to look and know who you are. I think Sehla is right apart from the point that he doesn't believe in pure pressure, because it's something that is there. And people go through pure pressure. I saw in campers, there are people you started with in the first year. And you're trying to look back and... Let me use this name, but just in context. Sharon, is this the Sharon that I saw in first year? Yeah, it's the Sharon I knew in first year. She's so changed. She's the one you said came to Kulu. He's moving with guys around like this guy today, the next day. He's a rich guy, remember? He's a Porsche Chrysler. I'm a blessing, bro. I'm a God. I'm a God. And you also saw guys, when a guy is driving, you're walking to school. You're not even ubering. You're walking to school. You're driving to LC 300. Then you're there and you're like, man, will I really make it to this point? Like, it's like in school. Now it already feels like I should make it. But after all in life, I think from those... from the exposure, we learn that pure pressure is there. But we just learn to be ourselves and move on our track. I know my path is going to be long, but I really have to go through my path path and figure out how to maneuver to make sure that I also make it there one day in as much as it will be long yeah and I think things to do with drugs and that's what have really dragged people back in encampuses like you find someone doing drugs I'm purely my blood is clean is it true be a 30 in a coblancata okay okay yeah but I'm a human I don't want to go into my smoke kendooks yeah yeah so for that I think that that together with alcohol and a lot of stuff I think that drag people back because I believe that as a student yeah because you're a young adult yeah because I do feel that if you're not stable mentally you can't really for some things right and you can't make things work around like for you so as a student I mean you will have time for an enjoyment but first of all focus on your studies focus on the things that will make you proceed forth then after that have enjoyment in 50s and by there I don't have issues with what they want to do yeah yeah they've made it in life so you can enjoy life at 50 yeah you believe in enjoying life at 50 not right now you can enjoy life now in the in the in the day at 30 31 5 yeah I know enjoy it 20 lady Priscilla Shira so she says the preacher yeah the preacher she says that you are your age is determined by the day you'll die so if God knows you'll die at 30 and now you're 29 like you're super old okay yeah and 29 yeah 29 years old because you'll die at 30 so I do say you enjoy life on the positive side if you want to enjoy life in a way that will destroy you or will block you from moving forward it should actually cut that you should make sure that the only enjoyment you're having at your younger age is the one that at least can help you or give your space to build your life can moving forward okay yeah all right do you have something Celas to open that in terms of enjoyment enjoyment I think this is the right time that I don't have some enjoyment in a must enjoyment in a must so I think this is the right time we should enjoy if you go to 50 or 60 you're gonna be able to debate about because what is the difference in enjoyment like if you to gain him saying of a funny though I'm enjoying and this one I'm not enjoying you know your design I mean Adani enjoyment is about doing what you like to know what you like okay yes so if you are on the other side where you smoke everything if you're enjoying you enjoy if you are doing other things apart from smoking and maybe drinking and you feel that you are enjoying and then enjoy yeah all right I'm stuck there I'm trying to get the picture but in this hour now what if I say another point now that can help you move ahead or don't move ahead miss a man you're not mentors I never come over head and successful I wanna mentors Kavisa I'm to a corner mentors I don't know maybe if there's a share come are you guys have mentors does having mentors help you get ahead in life successfully or being without you can also still get ahead in life successfully or either having or not even having it doesn't matter is you can still be successful or not be Victor okay I first of all I have a mentor and Lena sky guy from Citizen TV he's someone who I've really followed from from like the moment I started my studies up to now he's someone I really look up to yeah what do you like about Linus as a mentor he's a guy who's has stages in life like in the broadcast industry he's really made it out there actually he's from my college he's he's started there he did his diploma there and he's proceeded to do other stuff but but he's been a good guy and he's the one that who's who's been encouraging me in how you talk yeah yeah nice they say meet another person to meet another person so don't get don't get to but it's a show so but we have to check out your feedback to go to Makuliza Suali on our social committee and I was a kid jammy jamani I'm trying to speak fluency healing 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