 Welcome to the 21 report. I'm Frank Pesci and I'm here with speaker returning speaker actually anti-victicrat and pro-femininity advocate Jennifer Oleski Jennifer, how are you? Well, I'm sure good. How are you doing great? Are you enjoying the event so far? I always do. This is your second one third. Okay. Yeah, the first year We came all weekend when I say we my husband and I we came all weekend last year. We just flew in I did my speech. We got to see like two other speeches and then we went home Because we had just purchased we just moved to a homestead and I think we just wanted to be There and it didn't work out to be here for the weekend, but we really regretted it. So this year we made it a Thing again, huh? Excellent. So is there any notable differences about this event from prior events the 21 summit? No, no, but that's not a bad thing, you know When I was asked about this event I always explain it the same way if you're driving through the Rocky Mountains If you've ever driven through the Rocky Mountains you have to like pump the brakes and it just smells like brakes and there's there's places for the Runaway trucks to go and the majesty of the mountains is amazing and you take a picture of it and you show your friends back home and No one cares. Why because the pictures can't captivate anything any magnificence of The Rocky Mountains and I think it's the same thing for this event. Like is it is it fun? Yeah, did you meet tons of people? Yeah, do you make connections? Yes, but I can't explain it in a way until you come and you You experience it yourself. So it's important. Yeah, and every year it's the same Awesomeness. So you mean you people you build new relationships. You get to meet your fans. Mm-hmm. What's like me your fans? You know, it's an interesting thing in the sense of When I'm reading my comments No one had no one puts who they are online. There's no pictures. So I just I can't I can't imagine You know, it's like the people that have died before me. It's like they hardly existed I can only imagine them in black and white Except the people of contemporary like you I hear your voice and you're a real person But it's the my commenters They're almost like a phantom an avatar. Yeah So when I see them, it's it's really interesting to see like they're humans. They're Normal, they're wonderful. We have we share similar views Struggles solutions So that's nice to put names to faces to problems to solutions. Absolutely. Well, like I said before we started the interview Your channel came across my YouTube feed. I guess you started to come to prominence within the last couple years, right? Yeah, well, I started yes, I started about three years ago and You know, my channel is weird and I'm fine to say it I'll have a video that is a banger and I'll get like 20,000 subscribers Because people love the message, but then I'll lose 200. It's it's a weird thing because people I If I wanted to make a ton of money, I Would know how to do it by speaking about exactly certain Tailored problems and solutions, but I don't do that. I just don't care I can't do it. So I only speak when I'm inspired and some and some people just want a certain manufactured Blame or solution they want to hear that they want an echo chamber and then when I turn out not to be that It's they don't love it all the time. So I forgot the question Well, it was just that your YouTube channel has come to prominence in the last few years I found your channel in my YouTube feed, which was cool and I had an opportunity to watch it and I enjoyed the content It was a breath of fresh air like I said here In the interview for but what I heard from what you just said is that you don't produce content unless you're inspired Which means that you're on an active journey and while you're on the active journey. You're essentially cataloging it Putting into a place where other people can benefit from what you're experiencing. Yes So who there was a very famous poet Maya Who is it Maya Angelou Angelou someone in the comment section is gonna But she said I love this She said that she would be in the field working and she would feel in the wind a poem coming So she would stop what she was doing and she was she would run as fast as she could to her room To grab a pen and to write down the poem and she could feel the moment It would be coming it would be coming and if she had the pen she could catch the poem But sometimes she wouldn't make it in time and it would just she knew that the poem would be written by somebody But it wasn't always her and I feel the same way today I just did like a two and a half minute video and it was like it needed to be said it was in my body It was vibrating and it needed to come out into the world But that doesn't happen all the time and I can't force it right right so yes So in your journey Tell me a little bit about your journey You just stated before that you went from the Colorado Rockies you moved on to a homestead You talked about how on your your platform you bring about content that was commiserate with your journey In our talk here a little while ago before the interview You pointed out that being pro-feminine and displaying your femininity maybe a superpower What would you say to that? Well, which one geez the the the journey that femininity is the superpower You know, I only started really thinking about these things basically when I started Talking about them, but there wasn't really a niche in the market until then and I don't mean like for for money But it wasn't an active There was no Problem I didn't find much of a need to discuss it and then all of a sudden it was like boom and everybody's face like whoa There's a huge problem and I think there's been a problem with the with with masculine women and the laws being skewed There was a problem for a long time but there's there as With most problems even in marriages, it's like ruffy rough rough and then there's true evidence of the problem a Divorce or society collapses and I I only started speaking about it when the niche was really like needed to be discussed Was it like burning inside of you and you were waiting for a moment or do you feel like you were just Raised up in the moment for the moment. Uh-huh sure. I would rather put it like that, but I I wouldn't put it like that, but Yes, I just Was introduced to the notion. I had strong convictions about it. There wasn't enough people talking about it Somebody close asked me why are you gonna start a YouTube channel like you're you no one cares about you at all or your opinions You're great Jennifer, but no one cares And then it's absolutely true But the reason people care to listen at all is because it's it's a truth That's buzzing in the air and doesn't have any voice to it So I wanted to give voice to it and that's why I gained any popularity whatsoever is because I'm not telling women that they're amazing and powerful and anything they do and you can be anything But it was truth like you do have power. Let's find it because it's not It's not arm wrestling or or working nine to five For shitty retirements and no children and a dog that dies and no husband and and battered Relationships your whole life. That's not what it is to have a superpower. So what is it and what is a superpower really in reality? Bring it it would bring I Hate to say happiness because it's just so like happy but fulfillment A life that when you're on your deathbed You're content to close your eyes, I would say your superpower is your greatest opportunity to influence outcomes Right say it one more time your superpower is your greatest opportunity to influence and impact outcomes Some people are great orators great speakers and they can walk into an environment and fire people up Get people moving you have people who are great operational experts You have people who are great business people you have people who are great parents great teachers You know what whatever it is that their superpower is They can affect outcomes because that's their opportunities their greatest tool to do so Have you come to that realization about your superpower? Yes and no, I mean I'm always looking for I I The piece of the puzzle to me of Me and who I am and what I can do most for the world is still finding its exact piece. I Asked one of the the speakers. He was so moving in his he was a pastor and I asked him what he would recommend I'm a stepmom. We have our daughter full-time But I don't have children. So like what can I do in the world to be a mother? It with the energy that I have since I don't have children of my own and when our daughter is I mean She's gonna leave childhood sooner than later. So what can I do with this energy? So I I'm still trying to seek it out. But right now the the best the best thing I can do is to home school and Plant dahlia's I'm learning a lot about Dahlia's yeah and flowers and make the home a place where My husband is always the priority and I just want him to walk in the home every day and feel as special as As special as he is. I feel like you have a beautiful peaceful home I feel like your home is probably a sanctuary a place where your husband your family you can find rest from the daily Sounds like you're planting flowers. That sounds very therapeutic. It sounds very awesome. I could plant a few flowers right now myself Um, and I think that that's only a good thing I I think godliness cleanliness is close to godliness And a lot of times when I walk into an environment that's full clutter and disorganization I don't sense peace in that environment But when I find a home that there is somebody who can make it a home not a house, but a home It lends itself to an environment of creativity productivity peace love It's amazing that the I I actually tweeted about that today About how women they they kind of poo poo the idea of cleaning and organizing as if it's a it's a lowly art form But the truth is there's not anyone who doesn't walk into a clean Beautifully organized space and like feel it So if we can all appreciate it then why is there such a derogatory tone to the idea of creating it? right I serve in the military and uh, I I always keep my area clean It's just in my nature because I know in a clean environment. I'm more productive. I'm more at peace. I can rest better So I don't if something is out of order. I fix it. It's just that simple. I don't look at it as derogatory I look at it as an opportunity to be productive and to create an environment that is going to Inspire me to be more productive too. Something's out of whack. I pick it up and move all my work It's done. It's out of the way and that's the the household that I live in That's the household that I expect to be kept that way So anyway, I I would not see that as a lowly thing. I think it's a beautiful thing. We all have to do our part Yeah, it's funny because it's it's the Men don't men don't well. That's not true. There's always going to be men who are like who want Feminist men who do find it lowly, but I think the majority of normal minded human beings Don't find it to be a negative like to to keep order In the home and it's funny because yeah, Jordan Peterson talks about how women are chaos and men are order But women have the ability to remove the chaos from the house and yet they're they're complaining about having to do it So so it's like they're feeding into Jordan Peterson's theory about women about being chaos, you know, it's like messy Yeah, yeah, and don't get me wrong in my household. There's not attention. It's not like my wife is messy and I'm clean Like we are both Appreciate a clean environment in a nice house and we're both highly productive and get stuff done You know, we we are of the persuasion that we're of one flesh, you know what I mean? We're married. We're one we engage things together and essentially what we did was we multiplied our our ability to be productive To produce to bring forth fruit in our life because we stand unified in all that we do I'm not speaking as a newlywed. I'm married almost 20 years So we've been through the ups and downs And I will say that we're too we're two people are in agreement Almost nothing can break that. Yeah, you know what I mean? So I would just say that I think people totally undervalue What it is to be in agreement to be in a marriage to be in a relationship To honor the ideals of masculinity and femininity raise your children in view of those things It's god-given. It's a mirror of heaven And you know what all the attacks against the image of god that is contained both in man and woman In in adults and in children We are his creation You know and anything that comes against that It's wrong. It's perverted and that's why we have bad outcomes in this world But but you just inspired me to share those two cents with you. Oh lovely Um, anyway, tell us about your speech. Oh So I have been witnessing lately. It seems to me that The abundant solution that people are are Trying to get everyone to adapt to is the expression like very Vocal loud be whatever you want to be. Oh, you look like a dude Far younger than me. You look like a dude And but it seems like everyone is saying no, that's that's a boundary. That's oppressive We should be able to burst out and be whatever we want to be And I think that the solution is in the opposite of that but tightening up the ship like I explained it as men slay dragons. They have to We teach young men that there's a whole world of opportunity out there, but they have to choose which Dragon they're going to focus their their dagger on Because behind each dragon is a treasure We don't tell men like you can slay that one and that one's pretty easy And then you can slay that one and that one. No, you have to work really hard and decide boundary And in the same sense women should not be slaying dragons like they are they're trying they're thinking that they're dragon slayers But the same rules apply, but I look at it look at it as women have A Huge garden They have a huge garden and their responsibility is not to slay a dragon, but to decide which part of the Garden they're going to spend all of their energy on nurturing Because women right now are putting a little bit of fertilizer on school and later on they know that they want to get to the garden of Family and there is a man next to their career garden and they'll give both a little bit of energy And then at the end of a life they look and their whole garden looks like Shit because no woman is meant to tend that that big of of a property you have to decide as a woman and And that is that is what i'm calling for is for the restriction and decision And bounding up the energy and concentrating on it. How do you do that? The rest of my speech was about using whether you believe in God or not It really doesn't matter, but using the confines of the seven deadly sins to monitor Your property lines or what you're going to spend attention on Because if I go into the world just thinking gray like there is no sin boundless energy. It's about me I can express myself how I want then It it truly is chaos. It is it is Nothing orderly and clean. It's just like a ADHD world So Using the seven deadly sins to decide Every moment every decision what i'm going to do So again at the end of a life we can we can close our eyes in peace and know that we Live the best life that God gave us or whatever you don't have to believe in God fine, but Your life or whatever reason you were here you lived it well Well said, um, I heard it was a great speech Good from the perspective of a woman. Yes, that's me from a wife. Uh-huh. I'm both what makes a healthy man I have I'm going to stick with the the dragon slayer There are things in life that men have to So decide it comes from from latin. It's like di sedere and it means to cut off So a healthy man has decided what he's going to cut off and and climb to a position of health Of of being comfortable with who he is because He has successfully slayed the dragons of his choice And that can be a dragon of getting a degree and a career or it's kicking a drug habit Recovering from an unhealthy family environment Whatever it is Everyone everyone of you Has a dragon that you are born with like a monkey on your back and also dragons that you come across And it is being able to chop their head off And and and come out victorious Instead of always having you know, like the men that have the problem the women that have the problems are people that haven't handled their their problems and they are Addled with drugs drug addiction and alcoholism and depression and sadness and bitterness and contempt and blame That's no good. Whether you're a man or a woman. It's disgusting. Which was my next question What makes for a healthy woman? Yeah, the same thing it is it is deciding what you Oh It's cultivating. Sorry. I just I did like a 12. Um, a 12 threaded twitter exactly talking about this. So I'm just Excellent. Let's pull it up on the screen That we are But it What makes a healthy woman is deciding that it's okay to be a woman examining what that is And peacefully becoming it. So here's the deal Men it's like I was telling my husband if I was a dude and I Was going to start a youtube channel. I'd be really interested like if I had low testosterone You have to start with low testosterone for my youtube idea if I was a dude, okay You start with low testosterone and then I would do like an ice bath every morning and every day I would I would count my Testosterone level. So after a month of ice baths, how much has my tea gone up? Okay, and then I'm going to lift weights for six months and how much has my tea gone up And there's and I'm going to shoot my gun and I'm going to I'm going to get advanced in my career and that's going to improve my self-esteem my testosterone my masculinity Women is totally different Ice baths are not going to make me more feminine. They're not going to make me a better wife So it's it's so bold Men are just so bold even even like the problems of society with men. It's like Rape and violence. It's like so obvious things, but women are just as destructive But it's more under underhanded. So the same with finding the solution and finding how to get your femininity It's very underhanded. It's contemplative. It's it's So so in my in my thread i'm trying to remember I suggested taking a butler course because that is like the closest you can get to a finishing school Interesting, you know, how to run a household how to Lay out clothing like how to take guests and serve and do everything for managing a house and that's what a woman does um, I also suggested studying the art of the geisha like why was she the avatar Of femininity in that culture. She was an entertainer. She was soft, but she was present like everyone knew when geisha was in a room She was erotic, but so very subtly um Studying the bible contemplatively quietly It is not Speaking about it. It's not being a pastor. It is reading the word of god and And being quiet with it. It's like femininity is just so much more of a whisper than Oh Being a masculine man. Do you think the zeitgeist of the current times have tried to Desuade women from being feminine. Yeah Because it is a superpower Because it is a key that unlocks a thousand doors Perhaps Yeah, I mean I say perhaps only because I've always considered it the What they're trying to do is just destroy the family because that's where all the power is But within the family you have masculine you have the feminine And then you create a life together. What that's so crazy You know the the blank slate of family and then you get to create a whole army of humans who love Their neighbor and and want to do good in the world like that is some amazing You seem very happy and full of joy. Oh good Right. Am I right or wrong? I am I run. I'm pretty happy. What do you what would you want people to know about the type of life that you live You promote it. You have a youtube channel for it When you want them to I guess see or understand that there is joy in doing things the right way or the way that god created them to be Yeah So the question is how how or what how what what would you communicate to people if if it was me on the camera And they asked me about my life. I would say being a masculine man Creates inside of me purpose It puts forth mission It gives me boundaries and parameters and guard rails for life for me to encounter problems and to overcome those problems I cannot do life without challenges as a man Otherwise I become fat. I become lazy. I get nothing done I would love to hear from the perspective of a woman What does femininity provide for you in terms of the joy and the pursuit of great things? There is peace here But women you know what women don't really want peace. So I guess the advice that I would give is Go on a truly feminine journey Into what you really want because it's hard. Listen, you've been brainwashed me too We're all a bunch of psychos who have been infiltrated with media and sex and blood and gore and Corruption and evil and mistrust. Okay, so we have to like get off all that That would be what I would say there you Who you are the true feminine woman within you Is just waiting to be revealed But it takes Taking a breath going. Okay. Let's say let's humor moleski and say what if she's right? And and considering through like writing and making sure that your thoughts are really your thoughts because I would say that for most women when you get Your wants and desires have been totally hijacked Like you have been sold that you love something or that you want to be something That you don't and now this isn't for all of you. Okay, maybe maybe not, but I just know that since I have embraced being a woman and and not really like not working outside of the home and working for Another person like I love working for my husband and I feel just like so strong with him So if it works, you know, there's a saying misery loves company, but it's it's it's a lie Everybody loves company. Okay. Okay. So if you if you have that's why it's really dangerous to hang out with people Who have been divorced or recently divorced because they want like, uh, how are you guys doing? You're not doing that. Oh, you know, you should do I'm having a great time and you can come out with me They want to have you join them So wow, I think I lost what I was saying So Thinking about I have your best interest in mind And shoot, I lost it. No, you didn't lose it. You you're you're communicating the joy that you're experiencing and walking out A good life a family life Yes, that's it. I know what has worked for me It took a long time to find it and if it works for me, I would like company or people to join me Because I have found that this work if people want to consume your content You would go to youtube and you would look up jennifer moleski And then you would wait until it refreshed and then I would be at the top of the page And then you press subscribe and then you look at my content and decide if I'm for you What kind of content are they gonna find there? Oh, yeah, that's a good question. Uh, I talk I just I just talk a lot about As you pointed out my journey and what What What are the actions to be happy? within a marriage Really, I talk mostly about relationships Jennifer since I've seen you and your husband at this conference. I have not seen you guys without a smile You're very social. You guys are engaging with people Do you think it's important for people to come to the 21 summit? Uh, yes I do and just like I said at the at the beginning with the the describing the mountains It is a place to To connect with people who are not psychopaths Absolutely, I I couldn't agree more. This is a great place But that's it. I don't want that to be the pitch like hey come. We're not totally psychopaths Well, you know, there's this too. There is a divergence of ideas that exist here. Yes There's a common umbrella. Yes people are in pursuit of the best version themselves people are, you know, advocates for a better society But it doesn't mean that everything and every conversation you have has to be something you fully agree with No, it doesn't but Thank you. Okay, uh, I described it as the people here all have the same root system Same root system same trunk, but the branches are different. So you can still it's not just an echo chamber There is a whole tree of thought, but it's with the morals and values that we share Okay, that would be I I um brought out the illustration from you. I want to at least think I did that was beautiful So well said good so well said. Okay. They know where to find you. Yes with that I'm frank pesci with the 21 report and returning speaker jennifer moleski jennifer. Thank you. Thank you