 Sexuality, the capacity for sexual feelings, is a complex aspect of our experience, but it becomes even more complex when you realize that you don't feel it at all. Sometimes feeling asexual can be just the surface level of some deeper emotions that prevent you from feeling comfortable with sex. These two can often be tough to tell apart. To help you navigate this, here are some signs it's a sexual disorder, not asexuality, feeling bothered. The anxiety and the lack of interest in sex could make a person feel a bit down about themselves. Study findings showed that those with the disorder had significantly greater psychological distress and even higher levels of depression than asexuals did. This might mean that those who suffer from some kind of sexual dysfunction feel bad about it and wish they could change. They might feel like their lack of sexual desire makes their lives emptier or their relationships harder to navigate. And while asexuals still may have some difficulties with romantic partners and societal expectations, generally they don't mind their orientation and are able to accept themselves the way they are.