 When the narcissist gets old When the narcissist gets old They become even more bitter and resentful They become even more hateful and envious But they also become more covert They also become more passive aggressive But they may withhold their true intentions and emotions They won't reveal that to you because they do know that whilst this behavior may be tolerated at the age of 20 or 30 years old When you're 60 or 70 and you're still doing the same thing It's not going to be so tolerable Most people aren't going to put up with a person of that age Throwing temper tantrums being angry all of the time Most people aren't going to put up with that And they know this Which is why they become more covert They become more passive aggressive and the older they get The more bitter and resentful they become because they've had so many past failures and mistakes Things that didn't work out in the way they would them to And that's what's constantly playing on in their minds. That's what really gets to them the past failures It may be that The narcissist, you know is very successful They may have a lot of money They may have a good job They may have a good wife or husband They may have a nice car a nice house But they're still miserable And it's like the older they get The more miserable they become because it's those past failures and They see everyone as their competition Especially the people who are closest to them even their own children They see their children as competition And they compare themselves to them they compare How things were for them when they were their child's age And it makes them very envious and jealous narcissist Deep down have a lot of regrets They regret a lot of their decisions They wish that things could have been better, but rather than it coming out a sorrow It comes out as rage Their shame comes out as rage And then that's when they get angry at you They become passive aggressive They give you sly remarks They minimize your success and success and accomplishments They make you feel like Whatever you do, it's never good enough Because that's exactly how they feel a person Who is happy and fulfilled with their lives Once you to feel the same but narcissists are not happy And the older they get The more they realize That they're never going to be happy. They're never going to look at their lives and think Yes This is it This is everything I could have ever wished for They're never going to look at their lives and think that and that's what makes them so mad Because a person who is happy with their lives Feels no need to bring you down if they're fulfilled with what they've got There's nothing for them to take out on you But that's it No matter what the narcissist has It's like they can't even see it So they can never be happy when the narcissist gets old You may feel bad for them You may feel like you need a step in and help But if you do that You will only become The target of their rage They will just take it all out on you They will blame you for everything and there's just no way that you can get them to see sense At that age is too late If a person doesn't work things out by the age of 40 50 years old They're never going to work things out because they've already had 40 50 60 years on this earth And what have they done with it? Have they used those years to better themselves? No Narcissists do not value internal qualities Things that people can't see Or really praise or compliment them for They don't care about that stuff They care about superficial things And that's why you see so many narcissists who have superficial things They have that good job they might seem to have this picture perfect family Who they all seem to be okay, but beneath the surface Something is missing something very Significant is missing and that Is something on the inside something that they never attended to Something that they never worked on Because they never thought it was important No one ever taught them that it was important and that's why When the narcissist gets old That's why they are they that's where they are the way they are Because for up their lives They've somehow managed to get by with what they have they've managed to get by By being the cold mean people that you see maybe they Use their charm Maybe they use their money They use something So that people don't just See who they actually are And run away at the earliest opportunity, but when they get older And these things start to slip away They're no longer so charming They no longer have the looks that they once had it gets to a point where People just start to see through them they see them for what they are and Then people just don't want to deal with them anymore and that's really The narcissist fate as they get old Is that they're destined to be alone? unless they have Enablers people who enable their behavior To continue for whatever reason because that's really what helps them to thrive When there's people there Who despite What the narcissist is and what the narcissist has done has done if there's people there to enable them? They will continue Until they're dying days and they won't even be so covert about it It will be out in the open Because people still tolerate it People still accept it So it is very different if there are enablers involved Then it's a completely different situation The narcissist could be the same until the very end It's only when the enablers aren't there. That's when the narcissist Really becomes dark Now then they're destined to be alone and without supply The only way they can get supply at that point is By playing the victim and acting as though all of these people have done something to them But at some point No one wants to hear it They get fed up of you in the same story again and again, but yeah As long as there are enablers around The narcissist has supply They have something that fuels them It keeps them going and you may find But the narcissist is actually doing okay until the very end you may find that they age very well They may not look as old as they actually are Meanwhile the people around them. It's really starting to take a toll on their health mentally emotionally and physically It's wearing them down and in those situations it may seem as though The narcissist lives a long life In some cases they may even outlive their own children because everything you have Is fueling the narcissist Rather than fueling yourself You become their life support It drains the life of you, but it fuels them. It's almost like anything that is harmful or detrimental for you Gives them a boost a boost it lifts them up Makes them feel better, but otherwise Without that supply Without the enablers the narcissist Is inevitably doomed They have no hope at that point They will either go insane Or they may even just take their own lives because a narcissist Without supply is essentially dead There's no life inside of them We give the life to them and then they use that same life To compete with you because they see you as their competition Especially when they get older and they can't do the things that they used to do then that's Deep sense of insecurity and inferiority That is what drives them those feelings of not being enough if you take all of that away the insecurities Those feelings of inadequacy the narcissist would just be sitting back Relaxing they wouldn't have a care in the world because those are the very things that motivate them That's what drives them Those feelings of not being enough Thank you all for watching this video. I just noticed there's Comment there from Andy What do you do when a narc treats you bad every day? How do we react the best way? To deal with a narcissist It's not to fight them just Agree with them it neutralizes them just say Okay, let them think whatever they want to think Don't try and show them truth Let them be who they are. Yes, there's pit brands Says in the comments there Don't feed the source Don't feed the beast you feed that beast it will get bigger and bigger And then it will come after you but of course At some point Doing that can turn you into an enabler if you're constantly agreeing with everything they do And you're never in opposition to them So recognize When is the right time for you to leave? And just go no contact What the very least Limited contact anyway, that's all I've got for this video. I thought it would be best to redo it since yesterday I Was Walking outside and it was quite windy And they didn't have my microphone as well, so I know the Audio is difficult to hear, but I hope I've made up for it in this one Again, thank you all For joining me here today Give the video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it Leave your thoughts in the comment section and click that subscribe button if you haven't subscribed yet It will allow you to receive all of the notifications for my future videos So yeah, thank you all for joining and you all have a good day