 Hi friends, welcome to my channel and welcome to yet another interesting video. So I have been receiving a few messages from you guys where you say that you have tried everything, you have referred to books, you have revised as many times as you could, you have given mock test, yet you are not able to succeed in that exam and I feel so disheartened when I hear those statements from you. So I thought of making a video in which I can share certain tips which I have learned and which I have applied in my life after going through biographies of the great and the most intelligent people of the world which includes Braintrassi, Elon Musk, Winston Churchill, Obama, Sachin Thendulkar and you name it and I have read it. So be it Albert Einstein or Thomas Elva Edison, all these people, the great visionaries, the great personalities have somewhere stated the same secrets of success and I have tried to use those in my life and see if that works and the most important ones I am going to list in this video and I am pretty sure that by using these tips you will be able to achieve your goal very easily. But before we move on to that, the first most important thing I would like all of you to understand is the fact that all these great masters, they say the same thing. We have to stop blaming the world and start taking the responsibility. If you are somebody who blames the system, education system or your parents or the teachers you had in past or lack of resources in your area because of which you are not able to clear net, let me tell you friends, this is not going to help you at all. This is a very, very beautiful story which I would like to tell you. There was a girl and she was sitting with her father. Now the father was reading the newspaper and the girl was continuously pestering him to play. Now the father said that I will play but before that I am giving you a world map and you have to assemble it into a proper format. So he saw that there was a newspaper in which world map was there. He tore that into pieces and he gave it to the child thinking that the girl doesn't have so much brain. It is going to keep the child occupied for like 2-3 hours. The girl within 10 minutes was able to put the entire world map and was able to put it in front of his father. The girl was just 7 years of age and she had no clue of the different continents or countries. The father was amazed. The father asked how did you do it? The girl said that I have no clue of countries or continents but I know where is eyes, where is nose, where is mouth. Just opposite to this world map was a picture of a man. And I put the picture of the man in place and the world automatically fall into its proper place. So this story, this beautiful story has given me a lesson for lifetime and the lesson is that if you set yourself right, if you set the man right, the world automatically becomes right. Before you start criticizing the canvas, the paintbrush, the tools that you have, try to ask yourself, are you a good painter? If you are not a good painter, we give you the best canvas in the world. If we give you the best paintbrush, we give you the best paints of the world, still you will not be able to draw a beautiful painting. Similarly, if you are continuously brimming the world for not making your life the way you wanted it to be, not giving you that dream life, I am so sorry to tell you but then we cannot help because you first have to set yourself right. When you stop blaming, when you take your responsibility only then the world is going to fall into its proper place. All these successful people were able to achieve what they wanted just because they had one simple thing in their life, a good mentor. You need to get right guidance if you want to achieve anything great in your life. If you want to clear an exam like UGC Net and you don't have right guidance, you will continue to do heat and trial methods and you will not be able to figure out what to read, how to read, how to read. So make sure that you have the right guidance. In my online courses, I say this to continuous students. Kindly don't refer to hundreds of books. You cannot cross the sea by riding on two or four ships. You have to sit on one ship only then you can cross the sea. On one foot, on one boat, on the other foot, on the other boat, I will sink. I will not be able to sail through the ocean. Similarly, you have to get right guidance. Any one mentor is going to change this entire UGC Net preparation journey for you. But just like Arjun had that drone acharya in his life and Arjun used to go by what drone acharya said. Even if drone acharya would have said that you have to fall from a cliff, he would have done that. The same faith you need to have in your mentor. So make sure you have the right mentor because it is the right mentor who is going to tell you what to study, how much to study and what to skip. Another common factor that you will find in any successful people, a person who clears a competitive exam is that they were away from the weapons of mass destruction. What are these weapons of mass destruction? Nothing much, but these are the social media platforms which you are addicted to. I am telling you friends, all these social media platforms, they use so much of your time that you end up saying yourself, I am very busy, I don't have time. It's not that you are busy, it's that your time is in wrong pockets. You have invested your time in wrong places. So make sure you stay away from these social media platforms for a time being when you want to achieve your dream. You stay away from all those friends who try to distract you. Friends have the capability to make you or to break you. It's better to walk alone and be right rather than to be with a crowd and be wrong. So make sure you keep yourself away from these social media platforms. Plus, understand the fact, it's a very simple strategy which we find in our everyday life. Sun rays are scattered, it's useless. But if we collect the same sun rays in one place, then that sun rays has the power to burn the paper. Now, if you place your energy in one place, then what is there in this life that you cannot achieve? I am asking you, think about it, whatever you want from your heart, if you didn't get that thing, if you worked hard for it, you got that thing sooner or later, but you have to sacrifice. You ask me, I don't have a lot of friends. I have such friends whom I don't talk to for 4-5 months. They are very understanding, they know that if you want to teach Arpita, she is not going to talk to us for like months. Similarly, Netflix, Amazon Prime's TV shows addiction. I am telling you guys, this is not the time to be addicted to any TV show. I also like a lot of TV shows, but I don't watch them on a daily basis. I stay away, if I want to watch a TV show, I only watch it when I am on vacation. Because I know that it is very difficult to leave that addiction if you are addicted to it. You have poison, you know that this is poison. Do you have to drink it? You know that this TV show is addictive. At the same time, is addiction necessary from that TV show on the exam time? Can't we throw that TV show out of our lives for once? Go on vacation, when you are in the mood to relax for 5-7 days after the exam, and watch TV shows on a daily basis. But it is very important at the time of now, you stay away from all these weapons of mass destruction. Try to de-addict yourself, only then you will be able to get what you want. Lastly, I would like to talk about the power of vibration. You pick any book of any great person who ever walked on this earth, and you will find that he was a great believer of law of attraction. Law of attraction is basically a theory which was written long back, but it became popular when the book The Secret came out. I read this book in the year 2011, and I have applied so many principles of this book in my life, and there is no looking back. I was a completely different person before 2011, and now I have achieved almost everything which I have ever dreamt of. And that was possible because of hard work as well as because of law of attraction. So make sure you use law of attraction to achieve your goals, to achieve the career of your dreams. And not only law of attraction, but you need to also understand the power of vibration. It is this power of vibration that takes you through any challenging time. I still remember that when I was about to sit for my net exam, just before one day I went to my favourite temple in Jaipur, and I just told the God that, you know, I have done all what I could have done in the past few months, and now I just bow down to you, and I want your blessings so that whenever I am stuck anywhere, you sail me through. And understand this fact that, trying things at that point in the exam may be very difficult if you are in pressure. And if you believe that there is a power which is running the universe, and that power is standing just beside you, nothing can shake you, no storm can shake you. So make sure you take the blessing of God, you take the blessing of your parents, of elders, of all the well-wishers that you have encountered in your life. These blessings are going to be that X factor, which is going to take you away from all the vies of life. When you think about why I was not able to achieve that, it was just because you don't have that X factor. And that X factor is basically the blessing of divinity, the blessing of your parents, of your elders that help you overcome all the difficulties, all the challenges. So I wish you all the very best for the upcoming exam. I hope that the points I have discussed in this video, you're going to apply them, and you will be astonished yourself after you see the results. So I wish you all the very best from the entire team of arpitakarwa.com. We'll meet very soon with you in the next video lecture. Till the time we meet next, happy learning, keep loving literature, and stay tuned to arpitakarwa.com.