 Another live video why the narcissist will come back. Yes many times they will Hoover you they will come back to you but many of you wonder why. You wonder what is the intention behind that and that's why I decided to create this video to go deeper into it so that it's clear for you and so that you don't fall into the trap. Yeah as you can see I'm out here at the beach got a monkey there so yeah you may think that they come back because they love you and they miss you because that's what they tell you. That's what they want you to believe because that's how they're able to control you but I can tell you that that couldn't be far from the truth. Monkeys everywhere here it's nice to be out in nature just seeing the monkeys and the beach everywhere. Trying not to get too close monkeys are definitely not clean animals. I don't know if for many of you should know but a couple of years ago I was bitten by a very large monkey just under my arm and I was in hospital for four weeks and I had about 20 injections for hepatitis, HIV, rabies, all of these different things so yeah definitely be careful around monkeys. Sometimes they will bite, sometimes they can be dangerous but yeah back on to this topic yeah they when you believe that they love you they miss you and that's why they're coming back but you've got to look at it like where were they before how come they only just showed up now and they left you alone for how many months or weeks and yeah they just disappeared and yeah that should make you question why you know why do they suddenly show up out of the blue and it's often when you least expect it it's often when you just put yourself back together and you may wonder why so yeah it's definitely good to question it you know to dive deeper into it to see you know what is actually going on there instead of just seeing things on the surface monkeys everywhere as long as they don't touch me I'm okay but yeah you may wonder why and trust me it has nothing to do with you it's not about you it has nothing to do with you as a person I mean but of course you know that that's what we'd like to believe isn't it we like to think that that's the reason why they're coming back because they realize how special we are as a person they recognize our qualities and yeah to some extent that may be a part of it but it's not so much you as a person what it always comes down to is they come back for the benefits of conveniences that you provided to them whether it's money or place to stay it's that predictability and also you provide them with a sense of stability and security you regulate their emotional state you make them feel better when they're feeling down and yeah that's really it that's what it really comes down to so that's all you really need to know about it when they do come back I mean you have to remember you know they're self-absorbed they like empathy they like feeling they can't feel for you and it was never about that anyway from the very beginning it's just they tricked you they lured you into it and you were thinking it's about love but it was never really about that it was for you that's where you wanted but for them it was more the benefits and conveniences and yeah when you finally realize that you free yourself from it I just gotta come down on the beach I love just walking in the sand you know it's a nice beach sands really white quite big waves today but I think we're just coming towards the end of the monsoon season so that could be why happy to share this beach with you I drove over three hours just to get here living my best life out at the beach as many of you know I love the beach and where I'm currently staying it's not really close to any beaches I'm living in the city at the moment so it was nice just to come down here for a break and I got a few more places to see after this as well so just go ahead back to the car now and see what else is around you too yeah it's been really good just to share this with you I know many of you like it when I do these videos when I'm traveling I'm trying to figure out where I partner I think oh that's it McDonald's parts by McDonald's I could really go for some fries right now it's hard to eat healthy when you see McDonald's everywhere but there's nothing wrong with having a treat now and again okay I think I'm back down here park just around the front McDonald's I think but yeah don't don't think it's anything more than that I mean that's what they want you to think when they do come back but trust me you just got to think like where were they before where were they when you needed them and then they just took off and then before you knew it they were with someone else so you just got to think you know when you were vulnerable when you needed them to be by your side where were they where were they then and then they like to come back when you picked yourself back up when you start doing better without them yeah they like to come back then because like I said you know they when they come around you they break you down break your spirit the positivity your happiness and then they disappear and find someone else who has new energy new supply and then when you build yourself back up they want to come back because they like that predictability of knowing what to expect from you that's what they like they're like that sense of security and stability that you provided to them so yeah that's what they're coming back for benefits and conveniences self-absorbed and they're like empathy they only care about themselves two things they care about is what you can provide to them and how you can make them feel and trust me it doesn't go any deeper than that that's it so remember that when they come back and then you will be better able to protect yourself finally found the car m4 is back so yeah I got a hop in here now and carry on with my next destination don't know where I'm going yet just gonna check again on the phone and yeah if you enjoyed this video please give it a thumbs up down below helps the YouTube algorithm helps our channel to grow and yeah okay I will talk 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