 Maybe it will be helpful for you to adjust your expectations around support from a friend of yours at the moment. I was sharing this with someone the other day and often it's difficult to support someone that you love and care about because you just can't relate to what they're going through. You have no sense of shared experience of it so you feel inadequate to know how to help and show up for them. So maybe adjust your expectations at the moment because I promise you despite what you feel and think, everyone isn't trained to let you down. Hope that helps. Cheers.