 how y'all doing it's time for another chit chat and yes honey we gonna make this this gonna be about 30 minutes girl so go ahead get you some snacks get it together now I am twisting my hair this is going to be a separate video I am using the design extentional smooths along with a curl custard and some other badness to do this twist out oh yeah so how y'all doing are we ready for Christmas are you ready for honey we're already in the middle of Hanukkah I mean how how are we feeling right now y'all I know so many so many people even before COVID this is a really sad time of the year they get depressed doing this time I am here to encourage you okay this is the day that the Lord has made I will rejoice and be glad in it okay if you are breathing if you have life you are blessed we are those of us who are in the US the number of people who are dying every day I just came out of the living room and I closed the door and locked it nobody can come in here anyway because you know my baby is not here but still 3600 people highest number of people who have passed away from the coronavirus and excuse me um I I had to leave y'all it's really it's a really difficult time for those of us who are empaths or empathetic and I I am breaking down crying every week over not just this but just stuff in general um there are I just left the living room like I said and hearing about the 3600 people who have passed away and there were I guess three sons talking about their parents who passed away and they passed away in the same bed together they were only in their early 60s and I'm hearing that a lot of families or children who will become an orphaned and not just old because these three boys were older but younger kids there's two young boys out in was at El Paso Texas who are orphanage who are orphaned now sorry y'all but we don't do any gatherings you know we just we stay put y'all and just trying to wait it out and hope that things get better we have found the family that we visit and because they all stay home too they haven't left the house feel kind of bad for the little girl there she literally has not left the house since March that's a lie I think they took her to a pumpkin patch in October but that's it like they don't go anywhere which I don't blame them so gotta bunker down do what you got to do you have to do what's best for your family I am not judging nobody you know it is what it is so um so y'all let's talk about some things I heard the unfortunate use of Debo the actor that played Debo what was his name they call him tiny his nickname was tiny he passed away from COVID well it hasn't been official but they said he had COVID like symptoms so I'm assuming he had COVID he lived out in California he was found unresponsive in his apartment we have the woman who played in baps she passed away from colon cancer she was 53 look y'all have better get right people or checking out left and right and we kind of talked about this in my last chit chat with all the celebrity deaths and the music ended when I was necessarily celebrity deaths but all of the celebrities that I had a family member passing away due to violence gun violence specifically and so people are checking out left and right it is absolutely sad the amount of people you know you have children killing their their family members we had a guy in our neighborhood to kill his mother domestic disputes are on the rides we have had three murders in our neighborhood and this is a nice neighborhood I mean houses start off in the 300 thousands in our neighborhood so but it doesn't matter crime can happen anywhere and especially right now and especially I'm not gonna go there but I am especially being it being we're in the end times it's going to increase this type of behavior is going to increase so you know with that being said it's another reason why my butt stand home I don't know these people I don't know you I don't know what's going on in your family I don't know what type of issues I have now we're staying home so yeah so yeah it's it's it's sad it's really sad so yeah that woman died from Babs and what else did I like her from she was in how to be a player with Bill Bellamy so yeah yeah so you know I am still remaining optimistic as a believer I just have to be that way and faithful and it was so funny I was talking to and I didn't mention this in my my blog I was chatting with Antoinette Busby Bubs you know who she is the pretty big Karen 500 kids girl we chat every now and then and so she said that this year had because she just you know checking in and see how we do that chicken and see how each other are doing right she said that this year has been the best year for her even though you know things are crazy I'm gonna give all the details things are crazy in the world it is the best year for her family and she and I'm I know Buzzfeed Antoinette is a it's a Christian and it's really is all about perspective you guys so I girl I read your text message like three times I'm like you have an entire football team over there and you and she's still giving glory to God amen it has been a great year and as I stated earlier in the blog we're living we're breathing yes we have family members who may have been sick we may have had losses but we serve and all knowing and faithful God y'all you know so at the end of the day I know that a lot of you guys are probably depressed and you're down but I'm here to tell you that it will be okay right now it may not seem that way but it will you guys and we're gonna look back on this as victorious we really are you know we're not gonna be victims okay so I'm gonna I'm gonna pass around the collection plate so yes yes yes I am good with that being said we're a good homeschooling is good we're gonna switch up things a little bit for 2021 I had on my goals goals if I can you know correct my language girl and I'm really going back into tapping into my spiritual goals because I used to be a yearly type of okay these are the things I want to accomplish but now I well a couple of years ago I switched to a vision chart and that was really really good for me and then so that's why I was leaning towards when we started out with 2020 and then the pandemic hit but one of my spiritual goals on there was to look into what my spiritual gift is and I think we all have a spiritual gift amen now part of me wishes it could be um to sing you know the vocalize and be able to bless people but that's not for me and then I don't have that girl so you know but I believe that my gift and I need to really pray on this and fast and get it together is the gift of encouragement or exhorting okay I I believe I I I know there's no belief at this point I know that that is my spiritual gift so I need to really focus on that for 2021 cuz I think that people I need to start focusing on that now because I know that people are wanting to meet and I think I do that to a certain degree I try to encourage you guys here on my platform so yeah you guys so that's it for the personal life stuff y'all wanted to give y'all an update y'all already know things are gonna be a little bit crazy for 2021 on my channel I'm trying to get this last ratchet yo I have no idea where the camera the camera stopped and I don't know where it stopped so oh well girl I hope y'all heard me talking about me focusing on for 2021 but really starting now on what my spiritual gift is because I really think that whatever gift that you are blessed with is definitely going to be needed for 2021 and so I think it's really important right now and this day and age also to be obedient and to not be too distracted okay and there's a lot of distractions right now so alright you guys what I'm watching on YouTube y'all I really have not been watching a lot um I thought I don't know why I don't know if I had a dream I thought that African export had came back girl stop I thought that y'all I was so excited I don't know if I accidentally saw a video and I thought it had been released for like this week girl she ain't back she is not back she is now she was kind of active on Twitter but I haven't checked her Twitter feed so I have no idea what she's doing y'all it's I do wish some of the OG natural hair YouTubers would come back but I get it I mean when you've been gone for a while and to come back it's a lot you know and and YouTube has changed so much when it comes to how you upload and all of that I mean it changes for those of us who've been on here consistently uploading it changes for us like every other year we know it is something I'd be laughing my ass off an angel nezzie naps y'all she trips me out something something will change and she'll either text me or call me to verify if I if the changes is occurring on my channel too if it's reflected on my channel and sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't so y'all she she cracks me up with now I girl I called her on her live she had a live and so I accidentally called I was just calling the chat with her and she put me on the on speaker I'm like oh Lord girl why did you go and do this I why did you put me on speaker oh she's like what are you gonna start going live never ever did you see how I change y'all I filter so much madness and foolery out of my videos y'all y'all don't want me live no and then going live is a totally different it's a totally different ball game there are some people who are really good at it I think that what is his name y'all know who it is African hair god is really good at it he has perfected it but you got to get a webcam a streaming service and I'm done I don't want to do all that I just want to record my videos put them up there and that's it and but I understand you know a lot of y'all really do enjoy the live videos people who you know do that and I like people that go live too and I join in sometimes but yeah girl now we ain't doing that so um what else am I watching on YouTube I started to watch back again Sean's videos love coach no life coach Sean I know who she is she does the strawberry letters I just really don't understand y'all like I must have and I listen to a lot of the times I listen to YouTube videos while I'm in the car and sometimes I can't even get through the entire letter without almost running off the road like are you crazy and it's not I shouldn't say that it's not that the women or the young women who are writing into Sean are crazy you know love can make you think a lot of things and also a lot of these men or people in general or narcissistic and controlling and they will have you thinking a certain way or feeling a certain way and so I don't want to want to a hundred percent blame the writer of the strawberry letters but at some point you have to take accountability of making this decision to be with this dead beat man because you get and you know what's so funny is a lot of these letters I saw the red flag but then why are you writing in you already know what you need to do you just need someone to say yes this is okay to leave them you already know what you need to do and I get it it's hard it could be extremely hard to leave someone who you know truly or in love with so yeah I I was listening to the one where I guess this guy had this woman had gotten to a relationship with a guy and they had invested in some rental properties he apparently had 17 rental properties come to find out that he was staying with his baby mother for according to him he was still staying with the baby mother not for the mother but for the child they needed to cohabitate together is that a word they had to live together for the child and so the writing was like you know she asked her boyfriend what are y'all sleeping together what type of question is that like seriously like what type and he's like no absolutely not we're just you know we're I'm just here for the child I'm not sleeping with her even though I have 17 different houses I can go to and do whatever the hell I want with her and anybody else y'all whoo child sometimes you know like I said I just think that these women need this almost like permission slip to do what they know that they should have done years ago and it's hard so listen to that looking at that um I still feel like on this platform YouTube that a lot of I don't even want to say for see that a lot of four type chicks are still chasing length and a certain cure of pattern and my opinion there is no reason why someone like Buzzbee who has quality content shouldn't have over a hundred thousand subscribers that's just my opinion I think she puts out great content I'm not just saying it because I like her there are other four type chicks that I think put out just as great content and they have less than 10 thousand followers and I'm thinking what's going on and then you go to someone else who has 3c 4a I'm gonna be nice nice and put in 4a but most of the time they really are just 3c and they have over a hundred thousand followers they have long hair they have even like super thick hair and it's like you know most people they have great content come on the curls it's one although she's not as consistent as she used to be but she has fine hair she has long hair and she has fine hair and I think that she deserves a lot of you so anyway y'all I'm just saying that I just think that there are still a lot of people who are deserving of their views and subscriptions and they're not getting that and I know a lot of people view the natural hair community as toxic and I I don't feel that way necessarily I think that it could you know it could be that way depending on how you look at things but I don't let it get that way for me girl um there's this X at the top of your screen that you could click out of and never log back in again for the rest of the day so y'all yeah no so yeah so yeah I'm not really looking at much like I said on YouTube JB has taken over our our TV shall I'm over it so yeah alright y'all so what I'm watching on TV girl I'm watching a lot of different stuff but we're gonna talk about some of the things I've been watching on Netflix I really need to trim my ends look at this I need to trim my ends cuz that's not pretty um let's start off with the movie run starring Sarah Paulson from Nurse Ratchet and America horror horror series um basically crazy-ass mama who is suffering from what is that disease munchausen by proxy where you make your child sick spoiler you make your child sick for attention or control issues it was good it had a twist ending which I enjoyed but yeah it was good and this was on Netflix and the name of it again is run um also was watching girl many series called a teacher um can't remember the name of the people but redhead actress we already know what's gonna be about a teacher who is basically grooming one of her students that's what the overall series is about and y'all before I even got past the first episode I needed to verify that these kids are legal cuz I'm like you never know like seriously so I'm like yeah so that the boy or the guy that plays the young high schooler is actually was like 25 but still like the um the actress that plays the teacher is 37 I'm like oh I mean yeah he's legal but these 25 was very young but hey he's of age and so they could do whatever they need to do in the movie was good and again it's called a teacher and um but I started to think about that y'all like we all know that there as I honestly think it's been way more than we have heard about we all know of the teachers that have or heard about the teachers that have slept with their with their students and there was one here in Phoenix actually she got pregnant by the boy that she was sleeping with I don't care what these people look like and oftentimes when you see in the news though the teacher is a fairly attractive woman but let's just be honest there is something wrong with a grown-ass woman who had first of all she's a pedic she's a predator she's a pedophile there's something wrong with a grown-ass woman who feels the need to groom and sleep with a 13 year old child I think the one out here was the child was 12 because we all know if it was the other way around let's just say if the woman was unattractive we will be like you know but oftentimes when I look at these cases especially on YouTube you see all these comments from men oh I would have loved to have slept with my teacher but since it's a good looking woman it's okay absolutely not absolutely not who is the one that passed away from cancer Mary Kay Mary Kay Laterno she ended up having two children by this child well I think the second one she was of age as she ended up passing of cancer what was it last year or earlier this year but you know what I was thinking he's the only from what I understand the only case he's the only one where we got to see what the child look like and I honestly think it's because he's a child of color what is he Asian I don't know what his ethnicity is but everyone else you never got to see what the child look like I think a lot of these women in especially in the the series the mini series a teacher the women or are you know the attention that they get from these young men is everything because come on a 14 year old 13 year old boy probably haven't even had sex and now you have your teacher showing you some attention of course you gonna be texting her all day of the hour and she sends you a little picture that's it it's a wrap it's disgusting it's sick so anyway y'all enough of that we watched the Goonies I know y'all from the 80s my baby we're watching a bunch of 80s movies with JB and I ordered watching a bunch of 80s movies together so we watched the Goonies a couple of a couple of days ago and he was like this is the best movie ever he's so cute he's like this is now my favorite movie besides Coraline yeah Coraline is so damn creepy to me that's his favorite movie though Coraline so anyway we watched the Goonies and I was pointing out some of the things in the movies and he he was right it was right up his alley because JB's an old soul and he really did enjoy watching that girl saving the best for last so y'all know that I've had the Game of Thrones in my list for literally for like a year and I was like I got stuff to do I ain't going to know ain't got time to be watching all this stuff I am here for it baby um winter is here baby winter been here it's cold as hell so y'all I'm looking at and of course I'm late I'm years behind but hey I'm finally doing it so I finished season one y'all the first few first few episodes you gotta pay attention like you're gonna be lost if your ass is paying attention right so they're talking about the white walkers I'm like the white though white walkers it's some more white people what the hell it's girl no it's a different it's not even people's I'm assuming it's a species a different species of a being that they're scared of um so yes I finished season one I can't stand Jeffrey's ass I need for someone to do something to him um I have a feeling that they're gonna kick him off the throne cuz he's the king he's a child king and he's very immature he's sadistic as hell he needs to go he needs to go so yeah y'all I'm liking it there there is a lot of sex and Budsby didn't warn me that it's gonna she's she said she stopped watching it because it was too much sex I'm like wait a minute there's gonna be more sex than this yeah yeah it's a lot it's a lot going on so um not a lot of cursing cuz I'm like how they gonna curse cuz this is like old English doubts on to beat thousand ass you know something like that but they do some cursing but it's just not it's not a lot but it is a lot of sex so I am enjoying it I will probably binge watch season 2 and 3 next week yes get it out the way but girl I gotta watch this when JB's not around so y'all there's something else I'm seeing on Netflix that has Merrill Street and I Merrill Street yeah I need to watch cuz I really like her I really she's one of my favorite actresses so I really want to watch that besides it y'all there is no other series I'm watching um I think I may go back and start watching season 2 of forego it's just it right now since I'm doing game of thrones I need to be focused girl gotta be focused so y'all that is it for this chit chat I wanted this to be a longer chit chat I need to go ahead and finish my hair so alright y'all that is it thank you so much for watching and thank you as always to all my subscribers take care