 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc's Fiver Live video. In this one I'm going to be speaking about why you are being gang-stalked. Of course there's more than one reason for that. But this tends to be something that all targets of gang-stalking share in common. There are specific traits, specific things about you. And also of course there are specific traits about the gang-stalkers as well. Certain things that they all share in common. Of course it may be quite confusing for you because you may look around and see that other people don't get the same treatment as you do. It's almost like you're a celebrity. Everyone's eyes are on you. It's like you're the only thing that matters in the environment. So nothing else is important, only you. And as I said there are specific traits that you possess. For one thing it is your innocence and your naivety. You lack wisdom, experience and maybe certain knowledge as well. And that's how they were able to gang-stalk you to begin with. Because if you were wise and you had a lot of experience then they wouldn't have been able to do that to you. So gang-stalkers, narcissists, predators, they all tend to target innocent people if they can find them. Because of course that is quite a rare trait these days. Most people are corrupt, they're contaminated, they have a warped way of thinking. But for you it's like you think in such a natural way. You just see people as they are. But then when someone presents something to you and you don't approve of it. Although you may not openly say it, they can see it. They're constantly scanning the environment for threats. Because they're very insecure. They have a false character, an illusion that they are trying to sustain. And they see your disapproval even though you may not openly say it. And it's threatening their false reality. And they don't like it. You may not have noticed but most people think the same way. That's how you're able to be gang-stalked. Most people have the same way of thinking, feeling and behaving. You don't, you're different so you stand out. And another thing it's like you are a very special gifted person. You possess certain qualities and abilities that other people do not possess. You're empathic, you're compassionate, you're kind, you're caring, you're loving. Most people are not. That's why the world is the way that it is today. And they have to gang-stalk you because they know you wouldn't willingly want them in your life. They feel rejected by you and that's what causes them to become stalkers. And then they want to punish you so they harass you. They try to tear you down. Because what else are they going to do? They're not going to come in and change your life or make things better. So what other choice do they have other than to bring you down? As I've said in previous videos, when you're around certain people, places, whatever it may be, that can either raise your vibration or lower it. What are these people going to do for you? They can't lift you up, they can only bring you down. And that's another reason why they feel rejected even if you may not have even rejected them. They already feel rejected because they already know they can't do anything for you. What are they going to do to improve your life? And yet they look at you as the person that you are and you could do so much for them. So they already feel worthless and adequate. So they just choose to continue on that path and tear you down. Because it's whatever's going to make them feel better about themselves. But the joke's really on them. Because life is very different to how they think it may be. They look at it as though it's weakness and it's bad. It's unfavorable for you if you don't have something. And this could even just be your peace or a certain state of mind. They look at it as though that's weakness, that's bad. But actually no, that's not bad at all. A lot of times that's where your power comes from to make things happen. That's what gives you that feeling of passion and enthusiasm to where you want to keep going. And you may have lost certain things in your life. You may have lost certain people, your job, your home, whatever it is. And again that's where your power and passion comes from. It's often from not having things, from missing things. I'm sure you can all remember a certain point in your life where you had it all. And how did you feel? I bet it made you feel empty because it wasn't the answer. What is the answer is having a constant of progress. You're constantly progressing. And although things not be maybe getting better for you in every aspect of your life. You're gaining more experience, you're gaining more wisdom, more knowledge. And that is what produces happiness. That's what fulfills you. And that's why they're so miserable. It's because they have a weak sense of self or no sense of self, a false reality. And you're just an external regulator for them. They're using you to regulate their emotions. You act as this life support for them so that they can feel better about themselves. Because they can't do it on their own without you. They need you there. The problem is you don't want them. You don't want them in your life. And this is a psychological fact. When you've rejected someone or they feel rejected by you. Or they just feel like they're inadequate, they're no good for you. They're going to have to resort to stalking. And they're going to harass you because they're going to want to punish you. For making them feel that way. And it's kind of funny because the way they come out, they do the color coding. You see all the different colors. They're always trying to get your attention. This proves that point even more. They feel rejected. They feel inadequate. They feel like they're not good enough for you. So they're constantly trying to be in your awareness. They're constantly trying to get your attention. Because they want to feel like they do matter to you. They want to feel like there's something significant. And they look at it like, Well, if I can't get it by being nice, by being kind. I make it an effort. If I'm not good enough for that. Then I'll get it another way. By making you miserable. By tearing you down. Yes, believe it or not, there are actually people that think that way. This is why they do what they do. But in a way, although at times you may unintentionally observe them with your disapproving eyes, you also don't openly judge them. You just unconditionally love and accept people for who they are. And you don't hold them to anything. You rarely even expect them to come back and return. You just let them be as they are. And they love that. They love coming around you so that they can be this character. Because there's certain characters they like to play out. And it makes them feel good when they're around you. So that's part of it as well. They see it as a thrill. It brings them excitement from their normal regular lives. Which aren't half as fun as when they get to be that character around you. Which provides them with a sense of fulfillment, power and control. It's like in their regular lives, sparring the same stuff every day, then they come around you, they can get your attention, then they feel like they matter. They feel like there's something. Because look at it like this, everyone's watching you. They've all got their eyes on you. So if they can be that one person just in that moment, even if it's for five seconds, they're that one person who's got your attention. If you're with all of these other people who are watching you, then they feel like they're a superstar then. That's how it works. That's how it goes. I had to walk over here now. A fly over there was bugging me. I'm sure many of you can relate to that. Because gang stalkers are pretty much like pests. They just follow you wherever you go. They're all over you, don't leave you alone. And it's like a pest. You just want to get away from it. And again, that's where they're stalking you. That's where they're chasing you. They have to chase you because you're running away. You don't want anything to do with them. If you were to stand in there, there's nothing wrong. You're open, you're welcome in. They wouldn't have to chase you. Because you're right there. They're chasing you. They have the ability to chase you because you're running away. And that's another thing as well. You can tour around sometimes, but just give them the validation they're clearly looking for. Give them a compliment now and again. They may just stalk them in their tracks. They may be unexpected for them. But it may also neutralise the environment. Because that's what they want. They're seeking your validation. They want to feel like they matter to you. Yes, although they're trying to keep you down and everything, your validation clearly matters to them. I mean, just look at it. It clearly does. But they want to be able to control you. They don't want you thinking to go better than them. Because otherwise you're not going to validate them. So they've got to keep you down and control you. So then you hold them on a pedestal. You think they're better than you, or you think they're more powerful, they're more successful, or whatever it is. And then you're better able to validate them. And by validating them, you're like the glue that holds them together. They bond over your destruction. But then it's an illusion, and that's why they're always miserable. They have a void that can never be filled. These insatiable desires, and they're looking for you to provide this to them. This supply, this attention, validation, this admiration, this praise, to make them feel like they're the only person that matters in this world, even if it's just for a moment. So that they can exist in this delusion. Yes, that's really what they want. They want you. And it should be pretty obvious. But they can argue with self-esteem. Sometimes it's difficult to recognize that. They're really coming after you. They're coming after you because they want you. But they don't want you as you actually are. Yes, they like everything about you, but it's like they want you to be this object, this puppet, and they're the puppet master. So where they can control you, you're every movement, you're every force being in action, which just validates their delusion. They want you and your qualities, everything that you are, this amazing person, but they want to under their control. Because they're completely self-absorbed that they lack empathy. The view is an object, there's an extension of them. And that's where they want. They want to manipulate and control you, to brainwash you so that you stay around them, so that you continue giving them your attention, so that it validates their delusion of them being rebel or whatever they want to be. But you also can't be who you want to be, because then that threatens the illusion, it threatens their forced character. So they have to try to get you to see yourself in a different way. And believe it or not, but this is even effective if they can get you to see yourself as greater than what you actually are in a certain area of life. Because by doing that, that still takes you out of your natural way of functioning and operating. It still takes you out of that. It strips you of your power. Of course, if you haven't got your power, your energy, it's going somewhere else. It's going to them. So yes, in many ways, they want a piece of you. But then they have a piece of you and then that's not enough. Not a slice, they want the whole pie. They're very greedy. It's just because it's you. They're very greedy and insatiable because it's you. They just can't get enough of you. Even if you give them a little bit, they will always want more. It's never going to be enough. It's just everything about you, the way you talk, your thought process, your experiences. You're just the whole package. But they just can't accept that. I mean, they don't want you to have power over them because they're already very weak and insecure. So they want you to be their little puppet. And they want to be the puppet master. They want to control you. You know, it's just great. It's desirable for them to have this ideal person where it's like they're a little toy. They're a little plate on. They're a little plate thing. It's like they're fantasy come to life. And you may not see yourself that way. I mean, you know, if you've been targeted for such a long time and maybe with your family as well and they've got you to do it yourself. But that's really what you are. You have this perfect little doll. And that doesn't always have to mean an appearance, but it's just the way that you move, the way that you behave, the way that it fascinates them. Now, they just can't get enough of it. That's why they just want to watch you 24-7. They've always got to be on you. I mean, it's kind of like a celebrity. They're particularly attractive, desirable people. They're a good singer. They do music or good actor, whatever it is. People just can't get enough of them. They want to know everything about them. And no matter what, they always want more. Now, that's how you know that, yes, in many ways, they like it because if you're at a restaurant and you're eating a certain food and you don't like that food, you're probably going to stop eating it. But they continue consuming it because they like it. And it makes them feel good in a way about the same time. It also makes them hate you because it depends on you. So they become resentful of you. They want to feel like they're a complete person on their own, but it's like at the same time they kind of need you. They can't live without you. But they set it up in a way where it looks like they are independent and so they don't need you. You've got to look at it like, yeah, but why do you have to go out of your way to do that? Clearly there's some insecurity there. You've got to go out of your way to do it. It's pretty much like whatever they're displaying to you, it's actually the opposite. Whatever they're constantly trying to prove to you, they actually think the opposite way. And they're trying to prove it to you so that it seems more believable to themselves. The reality is, yes, their eyes are constantly on you and they cannot get enough of you. They really can't. But as they say, there's a fine line between love and hate. And it's like they love you so much, everything that you are, this incredible person. But it turns the hate and it turns the hate because it's you and not them. It's just like, and this is the really dark side of it, but this is how they think. It's like, how could you, you get to be born into this world because everything that you are, and it could be your face, your body, maybe the job you've got, the business, you've got a nice house, a nice car. You could just have the full package. You've got everything, the intelligence, the charisma, the personality, just everything you've got it. And it's like, how have you got this and I've got that? And they just look at it like it's so unfair. And they have this belief like no matter what they do, they're never going to achieve what you have or be who you are. So they've kind of just given up and they see it as though their time is better invested into destroying you than working on themselves and their own lives. I really pity them in many ways because it's sad for someone to think that way. I mean, for me, when I see someone who is successful or very physically attractive, I don't even think of them being greater than me. It's more just that they're different. They're just in a different lane. There's no comparison. And in fact, to see someone who's worked hard and they look good, I mean, that just makes my day. That makes me feel better about myself. It's like, yes, shine, shine your light on me. But you shine your light on the gang stalkers and then they see themselves, they get a reflection of themselves and it triggers them and then they want to lash out at you. Then they want to tear you down because it's like an attack. They feel like you're attacking them just by you being you. Just by you trying to be the best version of yourself. In their minds, they just make a mockery out of it. It's like, why are you trying so hard? What are you aiming for? Because they're jealous. They know they're never going to be like you. They know they're never going to be as great as you. And this is how you have to understand it. This is the psychology behind it. A person can only give you what they have, what they've got inside for themselves. If someone loves, and I mean really loves and appreciates themselves and they're securing themselves, they have high self-esteem and they see someone, someone who isn't out to get them like a gang stalker and trying to destroy them. They're just a regular person. They see someone like that who is very physically attractive, maybe wealthy, successful. They're going to feel blessed just to even see that person even if they're not directly involved with them. And why? Because it's a reflection of their feelings for themselves. If they love themselves, they love their lives, they love who they are, then they're going to have love for you. But with haters, trolls, it's different with them. It's a different mindset and it took me a long time to really understand this. But that's what it is. It's because they don't love themselves. They don't love their own lives. They're very insecure. They have low self-esteem. So they see a very physically attractive person or someone who's wealthy, intelligent, successful and it just reflects back to them about their own insecurities. It just reminds them of how they feel like they're nothing and they're never going to be anything. And most of all, because they're narcissistic, it's like, oh, I'm never going to get the attention that he or she is getting. No one's ever going to look at me like that. No one's going to be proud of me in that way and they just don't like to be outshined. And that's the thing, again, because I've had friends in the past, I remember one particular situation where we went into the mall, we went to a closed store and we walked in and he's very attractive, he looks great and straight away, as soon as we walked into the store and it was just me and him, the girl that looked straight at him and started flirting with him. And I was just so happy for him. I thought, you know, great. You know, girls like you, what's wrong with that? I wasn't even thinking anything about myself, like, I'm not good enough or anything like that because I just don't naturally make comparisons in that way. I look at everyone as though we're all different, we're all in our own lane and we can work together to build something together. I never see it as though we have to be in direct opposition with each other just because something is this or someone has more. I've never thought that way. Believe it or not, this is how most people in the world think. Even outside of the gangstalkers that you may be dealing with. Just look at any video on YouTube or TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, just scroll for the comments. Look at all of the hate. It's everywhere. This is just the world that we live in today. And before you were gangstalked, you were in the matrix. You didn't see people as they actually are. You didn't see the real world. Everything you saw was fake. What you're seeing now, that is real. You're seeing beneath people's masks. You're seeing what they're capable of. You're seeing who they actually are. And you should feel grateful for that. Because who knows if you didn't, if you weren't being gangstalked, then they would be hidden from you. They wouldn't be exposing themselves. So then you could get caught up in all kinds of situations. Some of these people who are harassing you, they could have been your friends. It could have been your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your husband, your wife. So be thankful for that. They're showing you who they are so then you can keep them out of your life. But yes, this is really the thing. And it was a very difficult thing for me to accept and understand. Is that not everyone thinks the way that I do. When they see someone, especially when it's not just someone on TV or in a movie, but it's someone in real life. And they see them and they feel like that person's better than them. As though they tried to succeed and they failed. And it's like, ah, you get more attention than me. No one's going to look at me like that. No one's going to desire me. No one's going to be envious or jealous of me because that's what they think. No one's going to be proud of me like that. I mean, that's all it really is. It's just envy and jealousy. This is why you're being gangstaught. I mean, that's what envy is. They're experiencing resentment aroused by your possessions, qualities and luck. And they're desiring to take it away from you if they haven't already. That's what envy is. And also they feel like you're taking something away from them. That's what jealousy is. So yes, they are envious and jealous of you in a lot of ways. They want to be you. And that's why you will see them mimicking and imitating you. Then they will project their negative qualities onto you because you look at it as though it's much better from that way. It's more favorable for them. If you can be them and they can be you. It's really sad, but this is how it is when you have a light. When you're something great in this life. In this day and age, people just want to tear you down. And I think a lot of times it's because they lack effective empathy. Only one to two percent of the world's population are empaths. And so they can't experience your happiness through you. So when you're benefiting from your God-given gifts, your success, your achievements, your qualities, whatever it is, they can't experience the effect that you're getting and your happiness through you. They can't. But if you're an empath, you can. I'm sure many of you may follow me on Instagram. You see my travels. You see me having a great time. And that probably brings you pleasure and enjoyment as well. Just as it does for me. When I hear positive feedback on my channel, or I read emails about how people are moving on and things are getting better for them, or maybe they've gotten married, they start a family. Yes, I can experience your happiness and joy vicariously through you because I'm connected. I have an identity, a sense of self. I know who I am. So I'm connected to myself and my emotions, which means that I can connect to you. Gangstalkers have a weak sense of self or no sense of self. They're disconnected from themselves and their emotions. So how on earth are they going to connect to you or your emotions? And live vicariously through that and appreciate it, respect it and want to protect it? They can't. This is why you're being gangstalked. They hate all of these qualities about you and they may try to destroy it because they don't have it and they may be envious of that too. But even then, it's not because they wish to be authentic. Even if they could have those qualities, they would just use them as a part of their manipulation. All you're ever going to get from gangstalkers is manipulation, abuse, lies and gaslighting. That's all it's ever going to be. And it's never going to change. You are a real target of gangstalking. It will be lifelong. If you're dealing with the real thing, because these are people who are mentally ill, they most likely have NPD, borderline, histrionic disorder, even sociopathy. It's unlikely that many of them are psychopathic. That's very rare. But they are likely to have some form of custody disorder. And they're only ever going to blame you. They're never going to get help. So they're going to depend on you to regulate their emotions, feed their weak fragile ego, boost their self-esteem, make them feel like they're real, make them feel like they're something, like they matter, like they exist. Yes, they're going to need you for that. They need to have someone there, a scapegoat to validate the illusion and make the matrix feel like it's real life. Even though at some level, yes, they do know that that real life lies with you. That's the end path with that effect of empathy, where you are connected to yourself, your emotions, your house self-love, your house self-esteem. You can appreciate positive qualities and things in someone else. That's the end to them and their emotions. That's as real as it gets, and they can't do that. Again, that's why you're being gang-stalked. That's where they hate you. That's where they despise you. That's where they want to destroy you. That's where they want to cut out your lights because you're just this constant reminder to them that they are not real and that they're never going to be real. And this again is probably why they feel so worthless, so inadequate to where they're constantly coming after you because deep down they know that something is missing, they have a void. So how could they ever be real? But for you, you've just got to keep that realness alive. Don't let it die out. Remember, you are a beautiful person inside and out. You have these wonderful qualities and abilities with a lot of people in the world they don't want to see you have that. Very envious and jealous of you. But myself, I love it. I love it when I see successful, intelligent, attractive people, people who aren't highly narcissistic and looking to rob you of something even if it's just your peace. People who aren't like that but they are attractive, intelligent and successful. I most definitely do support that so I have done a video, a live video on that before. I think about one year ago where I said that that's not what a narcissist is. Just because someone looks good, they take care of themselves, they work hard. Maybe they're doing that so they can give the best of themselves to someone that they love and care about. So it's not all about them. Just because they want to be the best person that they can be, that doesn't mean that they're a narcissist. I mean, the key thing with narcissism is that it harms someone. Someone gets hurt, whether it's deliberate or the person just doesn't even care or they don't even notice, someone gets hurt. So it's not always just about someone who takes care of themselves and likes to look in the mirror. I encourage that. I mean, that's great. Especially for those of us who have been targeted in our physical appearance. We need to do that more often. Remind ourselves of how beautiful we are. Yes, this is why you're being gangstalked. They may try to create a false narrative. They may even come out and tell you you've done this, you've done that. I'm sure you're not the only one who's done that. I'm sure there's other people who have done far worse. Why aren't they being targeted? Where are they? Exactly. Like I said, it's because of your positive qualities and abilities. It's because of things that you do rather than things that you don't have or things that you have done or haven't done. And that's the truth. That's what separates you from everyone else because as I said, it's qualities that are very rare in the world today. I know there's quite a lot of people around the world going through this gangstalking but just now, as I said, living your best life is not all about being the best version of yourself. It's not all about having everything and everything's just perfect. The fullest experience of life actually comes from your struggles, your pain, your suffering, your misfortune. Not having things, missing things, missing people that you love and care about. I mean, just think about it when you were around maybe a certain boy, a certain girl, someone that you really liked, you were around them especially over a long period of time and it's like we just take them for granted so they're not even there. We don't really appreciate them. What about when they're gone, when they're not there? And you've got so much feeling, so much passion, so much love in your heart and this is why you get that fullest experience of life, that most passion when you don't have anything, when you're missing the things or the people that you love and that's the truth. That's where your power comes from. That's where my power came from to create this community in the beginning. When I had no one, no one was by my side, I didn't have anything, I had no money, nothing. That's where all of that passion, that power, that sense of purpose and motivation came from. So that's what I'm saying. This can allow you to have the fullest experience of life and I've been on the other side as well, I've had everything and it's like you're just not even living. When everything's so calm and comfortable, it's like you're not even alive. You've got to have that pain, that suffering, that discomfort. That is essential to your growth and I'm not encouraging abuse or justifying it. I'm just saying, if it's there and you can't change it then just use it. Use it to your advantage. Transmute it into something positive. That's what I did and lucky me now I've got over 170,000 subscribers over 40 million views. I've got hundreds of videos and you can feel that passion, that sense of purpose. And I can tell you that I never had this before. This comes from being involved with so many narcissists, being gang-stalked and I can say that I wouldn't trade this feeling for anything in the world. This passion, this fire in my heart. When you've got what you want, it's not everything's complete then. When you've got what you want, it's not that you're going to have this amazing feeling of happiness, excitement and euphoria. Actually it's quite the opposite. Then everything gets boring, it gets dull. You get tired, you get lazy. You don't even appreciate it, you take it for granted. Your power comes from wanting, desiring, longing and yearning for something. That's where your power comes from. From feeling like you're missing something. From having that passion. That purpose where you're determined to strive for a sense of resolve. And yet many of you, it's like you're trying to do everything in your power to make sure that things are resolved. But that's the thing, if everything, this gang-stalking was resolved and everything went back to normal, then you would see the real issue. Because then it's like, what do I do now? As long as things are not resolved and that door is still open, your passion, your drive, your determination will continue on. It will live on. So in a way this is something to feel grateful for. So this is a more positive take on the gang-stalking. I mean you can't change it, so change the way you think of it. And in fact it's true, it really is. If the gang-stalking ever ended for you, you'd get very bored. Things would be dull. You wouldn't know what to do, you'd have no sense of purpose, no motivation to really do anything. You'd just be living life like everyone else, just look at everyone else and how miserable they are. How they just put on a show this facade, the use of false character. Why? Because life is boring. It really is. And even the people who become successful and they have everything, just look at celebrities. They're all drinking, doing drugs. They're depressed, taking their own lives. Why do that when you have everything? What are the most successful, famous people in the world? So many of them do it, because it gets boring. Once you've got everything, you've achieved that thing you were so passionate about that brought you that purpose, that meaning in your life, and it's all over. It's finished then. Once you have it, and you're no longer wanting, you've got to have something that you're going to keep wanting for the rest of your life. Because when you get it, that power, that passion, that sense of determination and resolve, that's all going to go. That's going to fade away. And you should never want that to happen. You need it. That's what fuels you. That's what drives you. That's what gives you your power. All right, so I hope this message helped some of you out there. I know it's a tough thing to go through, but this is meant to be motivational and to inspire you to keep fighting, because you have a reason to keep fighting. But it's not about the end goal. Don't even worry about that. It doesn't matter if you never achieve it. What matters is that you have that passion and desire for it. That's what is important. And actually achieving it, as I said, could be very unfavorable for you. And you may not see it now, but if you ever do achieve it, you may just remember this video and then it will all make sense. But thank you all for watching. And if this video was helpful to you, you can give it a thumbs up down below to show your support. It will take you two seconds, and it will help to get this message out there to other survivors and targets of gang stalking. And if you would like to donate, you can leave a super chat through the live chat or a super thanks in the comment section. You can also go to my PayPal. 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