 Does the narcissist recognize your worth once you've separated? Does the narcissist recognize your worth? Will they ever recognize your worth? Before the narcissist met you They carefully looked at you and everything you had to offer They examined you in order to make a judgment and form an opinion They recognized that you had something of value to offer them They recognized that you had something to provide They came around you because they thought that it was a convenient situation for them They thought it was going to be beneficial to them No one is going to put themselves in a situation or environment Where they believe they're going to be at a disadvantage But they believe they're going to experience difficulties or hardship Unless they think there is something they can gain from it So they knew that you had something of value to offer them They believed that they were going to get something out of it If you look back and think about it They initiated contact They aggressively pursued you They love bombed you They gave you excessive compliments and praise They put in all of this work Because they were expecting something in return They knew they had struck gold They knew that you had something valuable They knew that you were full of goodness and righteousness So they recognized that you had something of value But they didn't really recognize your worth as a person A narcissist cannot see you as a real person They just see you as an object They just see you as something that exists to meet their needs All they care about is what you can give to them or how you can make them feel They are self-absorbed and they lack empathy So they could never connect to you as a human being Which is why they're so superficial That's why they're so heavily focused on their image That's why they're only concerned with materialistic things Because there's nothing beneath the surface They lack depth And a person must have that Before they can fully recognize and understand it in someone else Which is why they could never understand you They could never share your experience or put themselves in your shoes They never had any interest in doing that Because they're very superficial people Who are only concerned with their own feelings and needs Which is why you could never have a deep, meaningful conversation with them Everything was very shallow Because they can't really recognize your worth as a person That means nothing to them They see that you have something of value in the beginning It's like they're hungry And they pick out a burger or some other food that they like They consume whatever benefits them Whatever satisfies their hunger But then they throw the packaging away Because they don't need that It doesn't do anything for them They are like packaging that looks good on the outside But then there's nothing of any real meaning or purpose inside But that's also how they see you Because they cannot experience that side of you They cannot experience your true depth and intensity So once they've come around you And got your attention and admiration Your money and affection There's no reason for them to stick around Because as far as they're concerned Everything else is just garbage It doesn't do anything for them Because they cannot connect to you any human level They're very superficial So they just see you as an object They just see you as something that exists to meet their needs They don't see any purpose in taking an interest In your thoughts or feelings about something They don't see any point in having Deep meaningful conversations with you Unless they can use it to get your attention So that they can get something out of you in the future But even then They're not going to be interested in anything you have to say They're just going to pretend like they're listening Because none of that means anything to the narcissist All they care about is superficial things Anything to make them feel better Whether it's money, sex, cars or clothes Anything else is just irrelevant to a narcissist It doesn't mean anything It doesn't do anything for them So, no They do not recognize your worth as a person They cannot see you as a real human being Because they're not real Only real can recognize real You have to have depth to fully recognize it In another person Which is why it was so easy for them to discard you Because in their minds what they left behind Was just garbage anyway They got all of your time and energy They had all of your attention They had sex and money In their minds that's all there is Anything else just goes in the trash But although they may not have recognized your worth as a person They recognize the worth of what you had to give to them That's where they pursued you That's where they seeked your affection and love That's where they seeked your support They did whatever it took to get you Because they knew that you had something valuable And their goal was to get all of the good things That come along with being with you To reap the benefits of rewards To milk as much out of you as they can So they're just sitting back And consuming everything that you are But really they're just thieves They're like people who steal your property Because they use stealth Their behavior is marked by secrecy And sneakiness Because when they first make you They acted like they wanted something deep and meaningful They acted like they wanted to connect with you But really They only come around you to steal from you To deprive you of everything you possess They will take whatever they think is beneficial to them They manipulate and lie to you Because that is the only way That they can get anything from you They're not worthy or deserving of anything you have But because of their arrogance And entitlement They feel like they should have whatever they want They can't see any reason why they shouldn't get it from you If they can use deception To deprive you of your money and possessions If they can engage In an imaginative game or fantasy If they can give the appearance Of feeling or possessing an emotional quality And behave as to make it appear That something is the case when in fact it is not Then they will do it They will rob whatever you have They will rob your love and affection They will rob your goodness and righteousness Your money and possessions All of these things that they don't even deserve And they already know that they don't deserve it Which is why when it's all over If they ever recognise your worth And why they may not have valued you in a human level They look at it like they snagged someone Who was more attractive or successful than they are It's all about what they managed to take from you It doesn't have anything to do with love They never valued or appreciated you as a person They just looked at it like they had a good time They got to reap the benefits and rewards Of something good Even if it was only for a short time There's no sentimental value They're not reminiscing over anything to do with you It's all about what you provided to them They robbed you So they're not thinking about if you meant anything to them They just see it as a come up They just see it as though they've gained something That's exactly how they're thinking Whether they were in a relationship with you Going through a divorce They're just thinking about how they're going to take your stuff They're not reminiscing over what you meant to them None of that means anything to a narcissist When you've separated from the narcissist The last thing on their minds is love or affection Or anything to do with any sentimental value They don't care about that It does nothing for them To them that feels empty and meaningless All a narcissist really values is superficial things So they're missing the benefits that you had to offer them When they move on with something else And they're living in poor conditions Or they have less money They start missing the benefits that they had with you They're not missing you as a person They cannot experience love Because they lack emotional depth Or their experience is misery and shame And they just spend their entire lives Doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on those emotions Which then causes them to miss the material benefits that you had to offer But from the moment they met you They never took the time to even recognize your characteristics Or the inherent parts of you They lack emotional depth So they could not experience that depth within you Which means that they lack the awareness And the ability to even recognize Or understand the value that you had to them Or they can recognize or be aware of Is superficial things Things that exist on the surface Which means that by default When they come around you All they can do is take from you Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at www.thecurryuk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon