 I don't think I've ever been in love so I don't know I can't say, I don't know about you Hi everyone, this is Dr. Wallace Today I'm gonna ask you what does being in love feel like? A lot of questions I mean it's definitely a deep happiness I would say it's callous or complicated it's not really a feeling you can quite describe in short sentences but that's how I would summarize it but it's a great feeling Being in love feel like being in love it's hard to describe that right? I think it's pretty indescribable like you said but no, just happiness I kind of put the two and two together happiness and love In my very limited experience I think I think you just feel like you have a partner in life and I think you just feel valued for you and I think that can be mistaken a lot of times and you can fall in love with the idea of somebody but when you're actually in love with the right person I imagine that's got to be a great feeling I think I've been in love with a lot of ideas of people and come to find out that's not necessarily the case I definitely think that it can be something really small the little moments can really add up to something that feels more like an explosion of feeling that can sometimes just be so overwhelming but yeah it's really it's really having that care for someone else and feeling like you would do anything to make them happy In love like you really want to see them you don't want to try from them you will have like an inspiration to do whatever it takes to stay with them for me it feels like safety and feeling like you can trust someone fully and you're always safe with them I feel like a lot of the times I feel safe with people but like when I met him it was like I automatically felt safe and I could tell him anything and trust him with anything The first time I say I love him is after we're dating like 3 years it's so hard for me because all my previous relationship is fucked up so I don't trust love anymore but once I find him he do a lot of comfort make you feel comfortable I wouldn't say comfortable but at least I get a little bit protection I don't know if that's called love or not but I want to express to him that oh I love you that's it For me it was feeling inner peace because I was feeling I'm in the right place with the right person so I didn't feel any conflict just safe and peace I guess for me I can't remember a time when I wasn't with her so it's more along the lines of I don't know what I would be if I wasn't in love so sort of like either nothing or I'm in love right now so I don't know how I was before that Well from my point of view it feels like you can do anything and you are willing to do anything you know to understand by the one you love I knew I love her when I started thinking about her before myself Ooh, dusty Did you guys meet in California? Yeah, actually it's like a date right now Okay, great, cool A little under a year only We've been married for 12 and a half years so we're together 13 years Are you guys together? Okay Okay, great, awesome